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I raised the 1% in a short period of time, and I did not walk around in high frequency. I didn't even have the belief consistently that I could do it. I definitely did not feel unwavering certainty that it was going to happen.
Giselle Bomé reveals how to become a millionaire without unwavering belief by using behavioral evidence and nervous system adaptation.
Key Takeaways
- Belief is not required to manifest wealth; behavioral evidence and action create confidence and belief.
- Moving through uncertainty is essential for success, not waiting for perfect certainty or alignment.
- Nervous system regulation and somatic practices help manage fear, doubt, and discomfort during growth.
- Recognizing hesitation patterns prevents self-sabotage and supports sustained progress.
- Confidence naturally develops through consistent action, similar to learning new skills like walking.
Summary
- Giselle Bomé shares her journey to raising the 1% income level without consistent belief or certainty.
- She challenges the common notion that belief is necessary to manifest wealth, emphasizing nervous system adaptation instead.
- Success comes from moving through uncertainty and taking action even without confidence.
- Behavioral evidence, not just affirmations, is key to upgrading your reality and manifesting money.
- It's important to recognize and work with nervous system regulation to handle discomfort and fear.
- Identifying hesitation and automatic patterns helps prevent pulling back from success.
- Doubt is normal and not a sign to stop; integrating play, rest, and somatic work supports sustainable growth.
- Confidence builds through repeated action, similar to how toddlers learn to walk by trying despite falling.
- The video promotes a 14-day money activation challenge to provide daily behavioral evidence and nervous system tools.
- Giselle emphasizes that nervous system adaptation creates a new normal, enabling lasting wealth without burnout.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction and Myth of Belief
- 00:56Using Behavioral Evidence to Manifest Money
- 01:57The Lie About Success and Belief
- 02:46Nervous System Adaptation and Uncomfortable Feelings
- 03:23Step 1: Stop Forcing Certainty
- 04:12Step 2: Beyond Affirmations - Behavioral Proof
- 05:09Taking Action While Managing Stress
- 06:55Recognizing Hesitation and Automatic Patterns
- 08:23Doubt Is Not a Sign to Stop
- 09:09Nervous System Regulation and Confidence Building
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What actually changed my money overflow was a lot less glamorous than that. My nervous system started to gradually increase what I could hold at bigger levels. I did not need belief. You do not need to believe. Despite the fact
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that in so many manifestation videos you will hear you have to believe that it's possible and then it will happen for you. Belief is nice. If you have it, amazing. But your brain doesn't need it as a way to
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upgrade your reality. We're going to use behavioral evidence, and I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that so that you can manifest as much money as you desire. And if you're new here, my name is Giselle Bomé. I'm a behavioral
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scientist trained in neuroscience and a doctoral researcher in applied psychological science. I study the identity, the behavior, and the income patterns of women entrepreneurs and, in particular, neurodivergent women entrepreneurs so that you can increase your money feeling how you'd like to
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feel without burnout or overwhelm. Now, to keep wealth growing past this video, you definitely want to do the 14-day money activation challenge that's completely free to you. I carefully designed it to give you experiences that create evidence every single day so
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that you can get closer and closer to living the reality that you desire. One of the biggest lies that you will see is that very successful people believed that it was possible and that's how they were successful. When in reality, they
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didn't always believe. Instead, they learned how to move through uncertainty. In other words, here's the biggest difference. They moved even when they didn't feel confidence.
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That evidence created the confidence. That confidence created the belief. And honestly, once I understood that, it made success a lot easier for me because I stopped trying to manipulate success through belief. Instead, I built it. I stopped treating doubt as if somehow I
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was failing. I stopped treating every uncomfortable feeling as a sign that I must be out of alignment. And instead, I understood deeply that the nervous system needs to adapt.
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That it needs that time to adapt to what is normal. So, let's talk about how you're going to do this for yourself.
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How can you become a millionaire without first believing it? And if you believe it, beautiful. But if there comes a day where you start to doubt it, how do you still become a millionaire and feel really good about that process? Number
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one, immediately, I want you to stop forcing certainty. And here's what I mean. A lot of times, you're waiting for permission to begin because you don't feel ready. You're waiting to feel in alignment. You're waiting for it to feel
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like a heart connection, and then I will begin. You're waiting to feel like this is the right time for me to do it. You're seeking and forcing that certainty. And oftentimes, your success is on the other side of uncertainty. That fear
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that you're feeling, that doubt that you're feeling, is normal. It's normal. Your nervous system is saying, "We're leaving familiarity. We're leaving what we always knew to be true. We're trying to create a new normal for ourselves.
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That feels uncomfortable. Fear, doubt, anxiety, all of those things are not failure. It's you seeking that certainty when you need to allow yourself to move through uncertainty. As you are moving through uncertainty, and there's a certain way that you will do that. I'll talk about
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that soon. But as you're moving through uncertainty, your nervous system is gathering that evidence and is adapting.
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And it's saying, "Okay, now this is our new normal. This is our new familiarity.
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You just leveled up. You got closer to your success." Step two, while I love affirmations, we need to use more than affirmations.
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So, what are we going to use? We're going to use behavioral proof. Now, this is where that applied psychological science really comes in. Your brain is constantly collecting evidence. So, you can say affirmations all day, have it written all over the place, and not
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actually be anywhere near your reality. Affirmations are lovely, but we need to pair them with behavior.
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And so, what does that look like? Your brain is going to notice constantly what you do, what you repeatedly are surviving, what you repeatedly tolerate, what repeatedly starts to become familiar. Now, I am in no way saying that you need to push
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through, or that you need to do it and be a stressed mess while you're moving through and that somehow your brain saw you surviving that and it's going to say, "Beautiful. Let's level up." While you will and can create money while
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you're highly stressed, that path is just going to amplify the stress. Money is an amplifier.
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What we want to do is, yeah, it's not always going to be comfortable, but we want to take home action while we're doing it. We want to show I did that, and I was still okay. Okay, so it's the way that you're going to be
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bringing together that behavioral evidence that really matters, not just the behavioral evidence. You want to do it in a way that you're okay if that's what gets amplified about you. Here's what can happen. You'll do step one. You
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do step two. You start to see that momentum. You start to see those results. You start to increase your expansion of your nervous system. We need to be able to hold that because what can absolutely happen is that you create success and then you
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collapse or you create success and then you want to pull back. So, for the next step, I want you to notice where you're hesitating. I want you to notice what are your automatic patterns.
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So, your automatic patterns are where do you stop? What do you avoid doing? What do you get distracted? You go do anything else but the thing that you're supposed to do.
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Where do you decide I'm going to pull back, actually. I'm going to wait. I'm going to do that again later, but I don't want to do it right now. I'm going to do it months later.
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Where are you hesitating? You need to pick up on the nuances of where you pause because a lot of times what happens to us when you're getting exactly what you desire and you've been reinforcing that with behavior and you get closer and
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closer to that reality that you desire. In other words, the identity that you're stepping into, your old identity is going to get so loud, so loud. It's going to want to pull you back because you are about to step into a
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zone in your life that it doesn't know. And it's not because it's trying to harm you, it's because it's trying to protect you. And it doesn't know that this new reality, this new identity is also safe.
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So, here's what really matters. Doubt is not a sign to stop. What I want you to do instead is this.
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I want you to integrate nervous system regulation, somatic work, play, and creativity. We want to allow your body to see that I can build and I can still play. I can build and I can still rest. I can build and I
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can still be in stillness. It takes practice, but you want to have a daily routine and ritual where you're pouring into yourself as you are building. With that, go to the link and get into the money activation challenge because you are
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going to be given several tools and techniques that you can use for nervous system regulation as you're moving through actions.
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Now, we also want to normalize action before confidence. I don't always feel confident about the action that I'm taking. I have learned I don't need to.
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So, I don't even seek trying to feel confident before doing it. I know that as I do, that confidence builds. For example, think of a toddler.
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A toddler learning how to walk. They don't always feel confident that they are going to walk and not fall. In fact, they fall often, but their nervous system adapts because they stand up again and they try it again with or
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without the...
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the same way with money. It's the same way with your business. Now, imagine if that toddler's like, "Nah. Nah. I'm not going to walk. I'm not going to walk unless I'm 100% ready. Unless I'm 100% sure that I am going to walk." That
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toddler may never [clears throat] walk. So, you have to be willing to practice. You have to be willing to do. You have to be willing to let your nervous system expand over time and then that confidence is natural. It's yours. You
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just have it inside. Your brain is going to update through lived experience. It is not going to update through you waiting to be emotionally ready. The bravest thing that you can do for yourself to manifest money overflow is to be willing to move before you feel
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ready. To stop seeking certainty. To understand you don't need belief and you do not need confidence. That it takes repeated action, repeated exposure, the repeated evidence and everything will upgrade. Catching yourself when you pause, when you stop, when you hesitate, when you
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procrastinate, when you pull back, and looking at that and saying, "That's just my nervous system not feeling safe in this new familiarity." And saying to yourself, "Okay, that's not me out of alignment. That's not me needing to change dramatically. That's
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just my nervous system recognizing that this isn't familiar yet. So, let me regulate. Let me do somatic work. Let me play. Let me be creative, but let me still move before I feel ready, before I believe, before the confidence.
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I've created my own success, and you can burn it all down, and I would recreate it tomorrow because it's an identity that no one can take from you because you are majestic.
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You are so much more powerful than you realize, and I cannot wait for you to realize it.
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