Speaker A
I think a lot of you guys are in a loop with your SP because you keep switching identities. This happened to me. I was in a long loop with an SP and finally got out of the loop because I stopped switching identities.
Learn how to break the loop in manifesting your SP by maintaining your identity as their partner and avoiding reactive behaviors.
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Key Takeaways
- Stay consistent in your identity as being with your SP to manifest successfully.
- Avoid reacting to 3D behaviors like being left on read or short replies.
- Communication is a result of identity, not the cause of manifestation.
- Switching identities causes loss of progress and can revert you to no contact.
- Manifestation requires faith and detachment from ego-driven reactions.
What the video covers
- Many get stuck in a loop with their SP by switching identities between being their partner and reacting to 3D circumstances.
- Breaking no contact and communication often happens when identifying as their partner, not just talking to them.
- Reacting to 3D triggers like being left on read causes a shift in identity, leading to loss of progress.
- The identity of being together is what manifests the relationship, not the external communication itself.
- Switching to a reactive mindset causes you to lose what you had and revert to no contact or crumbs.
- The speaker shares personal experience of being stuck in this loop and how stopping reactive behavior helped.
- Manifestation requires steadfast identity in being with the SP regardless of 3D ego doubts or signals.
- Spiritual principle referenced: 'To those that have, more will be given; to those that don't, what they have will be taken away.'
- Maintaining the identity of being together is key to sustaining and growing the relationship.
- Calculating or strategizing to get a response is a sign of identifying with lack, which breaks the manifestation.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction to the Loop and Identity Switching
- 00:20Breaking No Contact and Initial Communication
- 00:48Reacting to 3D Triggers and Losing Identity
- 01:50The Dopamine Hit and Identity Shift
- 02:12Re-engaging and Falling Back into 3D Concerns
- 03:30Spiritual Principle: To Those That Have, More Will Be Given
- 03:57Identity as Partner vs. Identity as Just Talking
- 04:03Consequences of Switching Identities
- 04:26Personal Experience and How to Break the Loop
- 04:47Final Advice: Stay in the Identity of Being Together
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Speaker A
So, what will happen for a lot of you guys is you'll be in no contact with an SP and then you'll be like, SP and I are together.
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SP and I are dating, etc. You'll break no contact or like they'll break no contact. Let's say you're not reaching out. I don't [ __ ] reach out. You can.
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I don't. They reach out. You start talking, okay? Things are going well and then something, you're still identifying as their girlfriend, something boyfriend, partner, something happens where maybe they're being a little bit short with you. Your pattern recognition flares. You, they
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leave you on read and they have their read receipts on, etc. And that makes you identify with the 3D. Oh, now what more do I need to do in order to keep talking to them? What do I need? Do I need to
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send them a question as a text and seem like a desperate [ __ ] because oh, they left me on read and now I sent you a question as a text so that you have to answer and then they don't answer. Maybe
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they do answer, then you get a dopamine hit. They don't answer and then you're like, oh my god. So now you're [ __ ] with the 3D because you're not the person who has it. You've switched identities. You went from the person who
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was dating them to the person who was so [ __ ] concerned about the 3D. Let's say they message you back a little bit, okay?
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And like maybe they're like, oh I'm, I'm busy. You get back into the state like, okay I'm, I'm with them. I'm with them.
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I'm with them. They like, they're like, oh like, sorry I was watching a TV show and I forgot to um answer and then they answer you and you're still [ __ ] worried about the 3D then you're like,
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okay okay. Well, this is, this is great. Um let me make sure that I'm really engaging with my messages. Okay, there's, I have to do something in order to get.
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I have to do something in order to keep it this way. Yeah, you wouldn't be [ __ ] thinking like that if you were already with them. So, now you're identified with the 3D again. So, what happens then? Most likely, the movement
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that you saw, the talking to them after no contact, will most likely be taken away from you.
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There's a lot of creators on here that use like scripture, like spiritually, not like religion-wise to talk about manifestation. I think it's like Matthew 13:12, um paraphrased, to those that have, more will be given. To those that don't have,
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what they do have will be taken away. Essentially, you were sitting here identifying as their partner. So, to those that have, to those that are the partner, more of the partner will be given. More will be given. So, you will start seeing
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that unfold. I don't even like to [ __ ] talk about seeing it unfold, but like painting a picture, like I don't really acknowledge the unfolding until after it's done. But, you will start seeing that happening.
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The identity of being their girlfriend, being their partner, being their boyfriend, whatever, is what got you the contact in the first place. Not contact.
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Not you talking to them. And then, you said, "Oh, I'm going to worry about the 3D." So, now you're identified as the person that's just talking to them. Cuz it's not like, "Oh, I'm identifying as a person who's just talking to them." It's
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No, you, you showed that that was your identity because you said that was real by reacting to it, even if you didn't explicitly think those words in your head. So, now you are the person who doesn't have, because you're the person
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who doesn't have the relationship. I don't give a [ __ ] if you do have the communication.
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That's not what, that's not the identity that got you the communication in the first place. The identity that got you the communication in the first place was being their partner. And you would have seen that unfold if you would have just
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[ __ ] stuck to it. But, because you decided to identify with the 3D and worry about it, even though you know this information, you were the person that does not have, so what you do have will be taken away. You will most likely
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see yourself go back to no contact or settle for even more crumbs. If you would have just stayed in the identity, and this has happened to me before that I was in that loop, and that's the only reason I feel comfortable criticizing it
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like this. I was in that loop for so long, and the thing that changed the loop is I stopped [ __ ] being so reactive to the 3D in my head. I wasn't reactionary like, like I wanted to fight,
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but it was like, "Oh, well, he obviously didn't message me because I wasn't like engaging enough, so now I need to like think of something. Oh, wait, like what does he do in his free time? Maybe I'll like ask like I
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actually care about what he has to say about doing in his free time." That sort of [ __ ] That's all identifying with the 3D. You should not be calculating in order like what you should do in order
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to get a response. That's not the identity of being together. It's no matter what is going on in the 3D, no matter what my ego tells me, I already made the decision that we are together. I am in that
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identity. That's the identity that gave me this in the first place, and this is literally old news. I already have him.
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I already have her. I already have them. Whatever. If you go back, you'll be the person who doesn't have, and what you do have will be taken away.
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