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We all know that women like men who can make them laugh. Don't rush straight for the fruit basket. There has to be conversation first.
Learn 4 joke types that make you more attractive to women by creating fun, flirty conversations with humor and confidence.
Key Takeaways
- Humor is a powerful tool for attraction but must be used thoughtfully and contextually.
- Four joke types—icebreakers, fake worlds, portable jokes, and innuendos—can enhance flirtation.
- Innuendos should be calibrated to the level of rapport to avoid awkwardness or discomfort.
- Persistence and self-awareness in joke delivery prevent conversational dead-ends.
- Developing charisma and humor skills benefits all social interactions, not just romantic ones.
Summary
- Women appreciate men who can make them laugh, but humor should follow conversation, not precede it.
- Four specific joke types increase attraction: icebreaker jokes, fake world jokes, portable jokes, and innuendos.
- Icebreaker jokes answer common questions non-literally to make conversations more engaging and fun.
- Fake world jokes involve riffing on absurd premises and adding layers of humor, requiring persistence to avoid awkwardness.
- Portable jokes are versatile, easy-to-use jokes that can be applied in many situations to get laughs.
- Innuendos require careful social awareness and should be used progressively based on rapport and interest level.
- The push-pull dynamic in innuendos balances flirtation with playfulness to avoid discomfort.
- Using humor should maximize fun and create a playful vibe with everyone, not just romantic interests.
- Charisma University offers tools and courses to help craft personalized jokes and improve social skills.
- Confidence and social skills improve with practice, leading to better connections and dating success.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction to Humor and Attraction
- 00:36Icebreaker Jokes Explained
- 01:32Building a Fake World Joke
- 02:55Risks and Recovery in Fake World Jokes
- 03:49Portable Jokes and How to Use Them
- 05:00Using Innuendos Safely and Effectively
- 05:58Levels of Innuendo Based on Rapport
- 07:19Flirting with Playfulness and Confidence
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Um, listen. I forgot how much I loved you. But you may not realize that there are four specific types of jokes that women absolutely love. So, in this video, you'll learn how to use these four jokes to create a fun, flirty conversation
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with anyone you're interested in. The first joke is the icebreaker joke. All you have to do for this one is answer the common questions like, "What do you do?" or "Where are you from?"
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Non-literally. Watch how Craig does it. I'm not originally from here. Yes, I, I gather that.
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I'm from Scotland, Jersey. But I'm a licensed therapist in my own mind. These icebreaker jokes work so well because most guys are boring at this phase of conversation. They answer literally and conversation fizzes out as a result. But by simply responding with
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something obviously untrue, you can make the conversation instantly more fun. Now, you may be thinking, "Okay, I would like to use great icebreaker jokes, but what exactly should I say for my job in my hometown?" Well, we actually have a
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brand new tool in Charisma University to help you craft these personalized joke answers as well as super engaging real answers that will get her to ask you follow-up questions. You can join the course and give those a try with the
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link below. But for now, we move to the second joke type. Now, this one is strange because men use it all the time with other men, but I almost never see men use it with women. It's building a
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fake world. Watch Theo do it. Oh, that's my family's Caribbean, so like the warmth feels great. So, when I'm boiling hot, like the team, like my team of guys, they're always like they always want the air on, so it's like
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freezing cold in here. It would be great if your AC or whatever had like a Caribbean setting or whatever and you could just set that and suddenly like some great music came out and then some guy's trying to get you to
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gamble offshore or something. You're like, what temperature is this? The whole idea of the fake world is that you're riffing on a crazy premise like wouldn't it be crazy if AC had settings for different geographies and then you just add more crazy additions
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to the fake world making it funnier and funnier as you continue. Is there ever going to be a point where you're not touring though?
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It's a good question. And then you bring your family on tour and then they got to help out.
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Yeah. And your wife's selling merch or whatever and calling you an asshole at night, you know, outside of an asshole Wall House or something somewhere and you're like, "Yeah, I'm an asshole." That's what you think.
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Now, the risk of this joke type is that it isn't always funny at first. And if you bail on the joke before adding a few absurd follow-ups, it can go over very awkwardly. You can see this unfold when
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Theo is discussing presidential debates with Tommy Lahren. I just hope that everybody keeps getting older and it keeps getting weirder. I want to see a swimsuit section of the debates.
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That's what I want to see. I want to see it get really, really weird, you know?
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No. No. I'm, I think that's a no. If a joke ever goes over this badly in your life, rather than just sit quietly praying that no one notices you, you'll want to double down. And that means adding more absurd follow-ups.
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My mom dated a mechanic, I think, for a little while. Really? Yeah. I don't know if I think she just needed new tires to be honest with you, but you know, you got to do what you got to
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do. So, happens. Yeah. Things were in line. She gets the new tires though. Yeah, we got them.
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That's what I'm talking about. It's all about that PSI, Mommy. That's what we need. Fill them bad boys up, dude.
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And if it still bombs even after that, call yourself out and laugh at yourself.
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This almost always saves the moment from becoming awkward. This takes us to the third kind of jokes, which are portable jokes. These are jokes that you can place pretty much anywhere and they will always get a laugh. For example, Craig
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can use this joke anytime someone doesn't like the same things he does. Can you drink coffee when you're pregnant?
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You can. I think you can have a cup. I don't drink coffee 'cause it makes me crazy.
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How long have you been in al-Qaeda? Have you ever watched Doctor Who? No. I know. I really, that's interesting. How long have you been in al-Qaeda? I, you can also see Theo use a joke twice in the same conversation where he gets a
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laugh both times. I got a game on tour right now. This kid could also be 40 years old.
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Dude, the school bus would come and my brother's friend, it would pick them up first. So, they'd already be on the bus and she would pick me up and give me a kiss goodbye at the school.
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Wow. She might have been 40 years old, but she would [expletive]. So, how do you make your own portable jokes? The key is to recall jokes that you loved the first time you heard them.
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For me, that meant pretty much any line from the movie Step Brothers. So, I'd quote from this scene when there was a lot of empty space in a venue.
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Look at all this space. So much room in here. So many activities, dude. Step class. It's making my head spin how many activities we can do.
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And this takes us to the fourth joke type that women love, the innuendo. Now, these can be risky and a lot of guys use them in ways that do make women uncomfortable. And I find that explaining an innuendo to an audience
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this big with a wide range of social perceptiveness is tricky because using innuendo well requires you to accurately gauge a woman's interest in you. So, I'm going to try to offer you some guidelines to use these flirty innuendos
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without tilting into the creepy zone. The first level is when you have little to no rapport. And in these cases, you really don't need to use any innuendo.
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The other jokes we covered will work just fine. But if you want to, any innuendo should be light and have nothing to do with either you or her.
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Like this. They're a natural cross between a Honeycrisp and an Empire. And are you guys crossbreeding those or something? And where do they do that? Do they hopefully behind a curtain? Right.
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These ones can't. Now, if the interaction is going well and you're getting feedback like prolonged eye contact, lingering touches, or she's laughing as if your jokes are way funnier than they really are, she probably has some interest. And
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at this stage, the innuendo can be more direct and flirtatious. So you may playfully misinterpret what she's saying as if she's making a sexual comment.
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This is the bread and butter of the Craig Ferguson show. Here's an example. Here we go.
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All right. Take your time. Take your time. Don't just rush in there blowing and sucking and chewing.
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Take your time. At this stage though, it's important that you use the push-pull dynamic that I discussed many years ago in an earlier Craig video, and I'll link that below.
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What this means briefly is that you're not straight up harping on innuendo the whole time. You also just revert to plain old silliness. So, you're pulling the tension up with innuendo and releasing it with playfulness.
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You mind not mimicking the act of masturbation? I can't do this either. What about, what about if you masturbate like this?
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Yeah, that's okay. Then the third level is she's just into you. Eye contact is off the charts.
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She's repeatedly coming into your space, clearly enjoying any innuendo and even making your own. At this stage, it's totally fun and fine to have the innuendo be directly about the two of you.
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I wore no underwear for you. Look where it got me. The night is young.
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And if I can dig myself out of this hole, we'll get back to that.
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Do you cream? Yeah, right there when you did that to my hand. Now, in the case of Craig, obviously he's a married man doing a television show, and all of this is just for fun, but the enthusiasm that he gets from his
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female guests is genuine. They clearly lo...
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I wore it for you. Really? Yes, I do. What? In order to sell it to me?
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Uh, my plan is to seduce you. Seduce me? Yes. I heard you're a big flirt and I like flirting.
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I really do. I love it. Really? This all points to the mindset that ties all of this together. Because if Craig is married and the women are still enjoying this flirtation, that means that the primary purpose of flirting
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shouldn't just be to get a woman to like you. It should be to maximize fun. This means that you bring that same playful vibe not just to the women that you're interested in, but to everyone. You flirt with the world. Obviously
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excluding sexual innuendo, but also maybe including it if it's fun. You have harmonas. Yeah. Do you blow the mouth organ? I I do. You blow the mouth.
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How'd you think I got this job? Now, if you ignore that advice and you only try to be funny and charismatic with the women that you're attracted to, that desperation will come through and it will push them away. It'll also cause
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you to lose your relaxed, natural confidence as you try to impress someone one moment out of the day, and that can blow up any potential spark that was there. Theiovan actually described something similar happening to him and he wound up giving a steartist that he'd
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felt a connection with no way to reach out to him all because he was feeling awkward.
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And then I was just sitting there like, "Dear God, what a [ __ ] loser." And there's a long flight left, too.
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Who gives somebody their email? Well, yeah. I mean, you know, maybe maybe she found it creative and cute.
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Maybe it was cute. So, if you too have felt that sense of nervousness and awkwardness and you've had it disrupt your ability to connect with people, you probably want to feel more charisma and more confidence in those moments. If
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forward to seeing you in the next one.
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