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you gotta get to the point in your life where you realize that a lot of these things, a lot of these people, a lot of these environments, they're not worth our time.
Nick Peace urges viewers to stop explaining themselves and focus on personal growth without seeking others' approval.
Key Takeaways
- Stop explaining yourself to those who don't support or understand you.
- Not everyone will want or be able to grow with you, and that's okay.
- Focus on your own progress and let results demonstrate your growth.
- Protect your energy by avoiding negative or unproductive conversations.
- Personal transformation often requires changing your environment and social circle.
Summary
- Stop wasting time and energy explaining yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding or not supporting you.
- Not everyone will want to join you on your personal growth journey, and that's okay.
- Trying to convince others of your worth or mindset can be frustrating and unproductive.
- Some people resist change because they are stuck in their own mindset and fear losing you.
- You cannot save every relationship or bring everyone along with you on your path.
- Focus on your own dreams, goals, and mindset without seeking constant validation.
- Let your results and transformation speak for themselves rather than explaining your actions.
- Many people avoid competition or growth because they lack the internal drive or are scared.
- Surround yourself with people who support your new version and positive changes.
- Personal growth requires different environments, experiences, and sometimes new people.
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They're not worth your time, they're not worth your energy, they're not worth your respect.
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They're not worth you talking, sometimes we just gotta stop talking, stop stop conversating about things that we know we don't have time for, that are negative, that ain't productive.
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We're wasting time having meaningless conversations or trying to get people to understand our point of view, to make them understand why we feel a certain way or why we operate a certain way.
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We we spend too much time wasting our time trying to convince somebody that we're worthy, we we are good.
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We are going in the direction that we feel is best for us or what, we gotta stop wasting our time, you gotta stop wasting your time, stop talking to people.
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Stop conversating, stop having an explanation.
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Stop trying to explain yourself so deeply that you start for frustrating yourself because they don't understand.
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Some people are committed to misunderstanding you, they're committed to not liking you, they're committed to having a problem with you.
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Everything you do, they got something to say, they got they feel some type of way about it.
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Every time you try to change or become something else.
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They got an issue with it.
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They're stuck in their mindset.
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Some people are committed to being stuck in the mindset that they they've known all their life.
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And you gotta let them, you gotta let them stay in that mindset.
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You can't bring everybody with you.
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This journey that you about to go on, you can't bring everybody with you.
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These new places, these new environments, these new things you about to experience.
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You can't bring everybody.
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They don't want it.
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You can't make people want what they don't want.
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Just even if you want it for them.
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Even if you know that'll be better for them.
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Even if you know that it will help them, it will help them thrive, it will it will break that curse that they have in their head.
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Even if you know, you have to stop wasting your time with everybody because all it's gonna do is drag you down.
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You can't save everybody, I know it's tough.
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It's tough, you can't save every relationship.
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I know it's tough.
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Because you thought that was gonna be your friend forever.
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You thought that was gonna be somebody that you was gonna have in your life forever.
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But they feel some type of way because your mindset has changed.
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They're talking behind your back.
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They're not coming to you direct.
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They they throwing dirt on your name because they're jealous of you and they're envious.
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And you can't allow that to be in your circle.
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I know it sucks and sometimes we think we can handle.
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We can handle having those type of people.
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Sometimes we feel like if we talk to them just enough, they'll get it.
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I'm here to tell you they won't.
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It's too many times that people are not living out their dreams, they're not living their life to the standard that they wanna live just because of people.
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They're trying to explain and cater and and bring aboard on what they what they trying to do.
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You're stopping yourself from taking that trip because they are scared.
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You're stopping yourself from going to the gym because they are scared.
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You're stopping yourself from starting a business because their business failed.
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Stop explaining yourself.
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Stop talking to people.
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Keep it within.
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Keep it within until you get the right people.
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Until you get the right person with the right mindset.
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Keep it within.
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Be hold your dreams and what you wanna do and these changes that you're making, they gonna see it regardless anyway.
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Let them see the end product.
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That's what we need to start doing.
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We need to just start going on these journeys and and let people see the end product.
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See see what we make out of it.
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See how we become a a a better person and and more successful through the ups and downs.
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See most people are scared.
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If you look around and you look around in your circle and you look around at your job and you look around when you just going to lunch and you're going to the mall.
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Competition is low.
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It's not a lot of competition out there.
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Because they don't want it.
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They don't want it, they don't have what it takes within to get up every day and go after it.
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But you do and you're trying to bring along all your friends and your cousins and your loved ones and everybody around you on this new found information that you got about life.
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And how they can be successful, how they can be more healthy, how they can get on these new these new experiences.
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And you're trying to bring them along and I'm telling you right now, you're gonna frustrate yourself because they're not coming.
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They're not coming, they don't have it.
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They don't want it.
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They choose not to see it.
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They choose not to see you.
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They choose not to support you, they choose not to.
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Allow you to become that new version of yourself because it scares them.
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Because they're scared that they're gonna lose you, but they're they're gonna lose you on on the strength of not having your back.
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Not supporting you, not pushing you to become a better person.
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A new version of yourself.
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That's how they gonna lose you.
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Because you gotta do what you gotta do.
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And you gotta stop explaining yourself.
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No matter who get hurt.
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No matter who feels some type of way.
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Because you the main character of your life.
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And it's time to live that way.
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It's time to operate that way.
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It's time to understand that.
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My dreams, my goals and my mindset.
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It's going to require a different version of me if I wanna reach it.
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And that different version of me is gonna have different versions of people around.
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Different environments.
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Your experiences are gonna be different.
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You gonna wanna you gonna wanna move differently.
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The things that you used to listen to, you're not gonna wanna listen to no more.
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Because you know better.
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And when you know better, the things in the past start to annoy you.
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Not the people.
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The conversations.
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Because you've all grown them.
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And you understand that there's more to life than sitting around talking about people.
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There's more to life.
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So today is the day to take that step and tell yourself.
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I'm not explaining myself no more.
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I'm not explaining why I'm doing what I'm doing and I'm becoming who I'm becoming.
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I'm just gonna do it.
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And I'm gonna let the results speak for themselves.
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Simple.
Topics:personal growthself improvementstop explaining yourselfmindsetenergy managementtoxic relationshipsself worthmotivationNick Peacelife advice
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