Speaker A
A random kid. I was see there's a pervert here. So do not be alarmed. There is a pervert in this room. It's right behind you.
Sara Saffari and a friend chat about flirting, dating experiences, and perceptions in a casual, humorous YouTube video.
Key Takeaways
- Flirting can be playful and intentional without implying romantic or sexual action.
- Personal charisma strongly influences how others perceive sexuality and approachability.
- Dating experiences vary widely and can include humorous or awkward moments.
- Ambiguity in appearance can lead to diverse assumptions about identity.
- Independence and self-confidence are important in social and dating contexts.
Summary
- Sara Saffari and a friend engage in a playful conversation about flirting and dating.
- They discuss Sara’s innocent but intentional flirting style and how it’s perceived by others.
- Sara shares anecdotes about past dates, including a pottery date and a funny sneaker raffle story.
- The conversation touches on how Sara’s charisma affects how people view her sexuality.
- They talk about men’s reactions to women who identify as gay and the ambiguity of Sara’s appearance.
- Sara emphasizes her independence, such as buying her own plane ticket on a date.
- The dialogue includes lighthearted banter about weight, compliments, and social interactions.
- There are mentions of social media comments and fan reactions to Sara’s persona.
- The video captures a relaxed, candid vibe with humor and personal stories.
- The interaction highlights themes of identity, attraction, and social perception.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction and playful banter
- 00:36Filming and sandwich offer
- 01:06Feeling blessed and social interaction
- 01:21Recent trouble and flirting style
- 02:10Dating experiences and stories
- 03:48Best date and independence
- 04:51Ignoring calls and social dynamics
- 05:44Flirting skills and compliments
- 06:37Appearance, identity, and social perception
- 09:22Closing thoughts and charm
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Speaker A
Come to mommy. The [ __ ] did you say to me? I said come to mommy.
Speaker A
I'm more mad that I came over here. It actually pissed me off. Wait, why? Good girl.
Speaker A
I'm so sorry. If you do decide to order, I'm filming YouTube. I'm not a good streamer. You want to bite my sandwich?
Speaker A
Come on. I ate. Of course I made it. I'm a woman. What's wrong? Nothing. Just what the [ __ ] just eating alone.
Speaker A
Mhm. But thank you for coming to, you know, I've seen you save a lot of people that have been sitting alone. So, thank you.
Speaker A
I now I feel blessed. Thanks. I am a hero. What can I say? I feel like a charity case, actually, the way you came over here.
Speaker A
Well, no. To be fair, I wasn't going to come over here till you called me over.
Speaker A
I was going to let you sit alone. Anyways, I'm going to let that slide.
Speaker A
What have you been up to? Well, yesterday I got in trouble and I ran from the cops.
Speaker A
Yeah. Bad girl. Yeah. You were bad girl, too, apparently. What? Mr. He's right where he wants to be.
Speaker A
Phantom. No, I willingly did that. I didn't do anything. I told him my excuse was I didn't pay for Zach's fees.
Speaker A
Yeah, but when you did that, I lowkey was like, "Damn, you're good at like farting." That's what I was just saying. Not that I'm good at it, but that like I do it without any meaning. Like I just
Speaker A
Yeah, but also like I think that No, you know what's funny about you, Sarah, is I don't think anybody thinks like, "Oh, she's like a hoe or whatever." Because the way you flirt is like it's so innocently cute, but it's also so
Speaker A
intentional that it's like, "Oh, yeah, she's just in her bag right now." Right. Well, I'm not a hoe. The thing is I was telling them I was literally just talking about this like I'm all talk.
Speaker A
Like I'm not and I'm not about the action of it. I just love flirting like male female.
Speaker A
Did you ever go on that date that you were telling me about? Wait, when was this?
Speaker A
Remember we did the pottery? Did you ever go pick up a pottery? No, I never picked up a pottery.
Speaker A
Yes, I went on that date. He didn't go anywhere. You didn't like him? Nope.
Speaker A
Nope. That was a long time ago. Yeah. Was he just boring? He was weird. He was really weird.
Speaker A
Oh, it's okay. I went on a weird date with a guy one time. He asked me to sign up for the sneakers app, um, because he wanted an extra raffle ticket and I said yes 'cause I have no backbone.
Speaker A
And did you want him a pair of shoes? No, but I did go on a second date with him.
Speaker A
You did? What do you think the best date you've ever been on is? The best date ever?
Speaker A
There's only one [ __ ] right answer right now. And if you don't say it, one answer.
Speaker A
I don't know. One time I went, uh, to this, uh, it was like this beautiful day outside. It was gorgeous.
Speaker A
Yeah. Yeah. Um, and I got taken to this really nice restaurant with this really good food.
Speaker A
And then me and the guy just hung out all day and went to the, you know, park and we walked around nice city that I hadn't been to before. It was nice.
Speaker A
Oh, he flew you out. He tricked you out. Uh, no, I bought my own ticket, [ __ ] Thank you very much.
Speaker A
Oh. Oh [ __ ] I've never had a man buy my tickets and I never will. I buy my own tickets.
Speaker A
Period. But it was nice. It was What was the answer you said was the right answer?
Speaker A
I mean, I thought your best date would have been that one time we went and did pottery together.
Speaker A
That was a good date. You didn't even pick up our pottery. It was so memorable to you. You didn't even pick it up.
Speaker A
Well, no, I did. I just kept yours. It's in your house right now. I can't lie to you now.
Speaker A
They called me a bunch. Wait, so they were calling you? You just ignored it?
Speaker A
Yeah. Yeah, I did. I did. I did. Well, bro, you be dodging my text.
Speaker A
I didn't want to send a memorabilia around my house. It's okay. I dodged this. Maybe because the next day I saw you flirting with, uh, what's one of those twins?
Speaker A
Which twin is that? The Trent brothers or something. What? What's their name? The Trenton brothers. Chris and Mike.
Speaker A
Is it? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They look very nice. Yeah. But you were really nice that day. I guess you out nice them somehow.
Speaker A
Wait. Let's go back to this. You You think I'm really good at flirting? Yeah.
Speaker A
Really? Like how good? I don't know. You're like okay at it, I guess. I can't look at you.
Speaker A
Why? It's like you just do too much eye contact. Like you're just so like, you know, yesterday I saw an edit and it was, uh, when I picked what? What? What?
Speaker A
This is how every bad conversation for me starts. No, it was a good one actually.
Speaker A
Crystal, it was when you picked me up really easy and Well, that [ __ ] was really cute.
Speaker A
Yes. And there was a comment and it said it was it was like somebody who was, uh, it was like an anime one where he was like playing like 5D chess and it's like he's thinking and [clears throat] it was
Speaker A
like oh no SA I'm too heavy [laughter] or no oh no Sarah I'm too heavy you can't pick me up you you that it was totally giving that I don't know Sarah like I'm just so heavy I just don't know if you could
Speaker A
ever piggyback me come here baby girl like I just don't know you know I just don't like I really I don't know I mean we should do Okay, I was not at all. I was charging my [ __ ] [ __ ]
Speaker A
Wow. I guess I'm just I was just not that heavy. I guess you weigh nothing. You actually weigh nothing bro.
Speaker A
Really? Yeah. I'm 133, dude. So, thank you. You weigh as much as a feather.
Speaker A
Thanks, Sarah. You're so small and petite. That's what they call me. No, honestly, I've seen some really good ads of us.
Speaker A
I have seen a lot. You have what? No, I've seen a lot. And all the time it's all the girls and they're like, "Oh my god, I'm so gay." No, I Dude, I've seen so many. It's like, bro, she's in she's she must be so
Speaker A
alone in the closet or the closet [laughter] must be so lonely 'cause Sarah low key, you know what's funny is people be fighting for you in the comments and they go Sarah's straight.
Speaker A
Yeah. But the thing is is it's not even that you you know what it is for the girls.
Speaker A
One, you're hot. So if you were like for the girls, the girls would go crazy.
Speaker A
You think I'm hot? Yeah. Come on. Come over here. I mean, objectively, but two Mhm. Don't worry, Chad. Come on. Look over here.
Speaker A
No, [laughter] this is like a lot of stuff. Chad's just typing so much. Chad was typing so much. You know what I mean? I had to like look over for a second.
Speaker A
Um, but two, Sarah, uh, you were also just so charismatic that I think that the girlies are like, you know what, if she switched teams, we would be happy.
Speaker A
Yeah. Do you think though, like it's to my detriment that like sometimes I think like, oh, maybe a guy wouldn't approach me 'cause he thinks I'm gay. Like, oh, why would I go hit on her? Like she might
Speaker A
she's probably gay. Yeah. But I'm going to be honest. There's probably a lot of men that would see you and they'd be like I'mma try anyway 'cause she's so hot.
Speaker A
You think so? Yes. I actually I J Sarah, you there's guys that like especially guys that are into like fitness women, you're like their type and I feel like if they saw you I tell men that I'm gay and they
Speaker A
go, "Are you sure?" So if I was like you there's there's like there's like muscle dudes who are going to come up to you and be like, "Oh my god, she's so hot." And even if you said you were gay,
Speaker A
they'd be like, "Are you sure? It's a test for them. I've noticed that honestly that if a girl says she's gay, guys like are more interested because they want to like see if they can like Yeah.
Speaker A
You know, you know what the You know what the, um, the, uh, Wait, Chad, is the fashion show started or No.
Speaker A
Um Oh, not yet. I I was waiting 'cause we came upstairs 'cause it was bad. Uh the basketball game is in 20 minutes.
Speaker A
I know. They moved it apparently later. Oh, it has. Okay, we can go downstairs. Um, no, I was going to say you're so ambiguous with the way you look. I mean that in a nice way. Like you're very feminine, but
Speaker A
if you dress like a dude, people would be like, "Oh my gosh, she also looks hot." Li
Speaker A
Like if you were Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. Like you you could go the stud route, you'd be fine as [ __ ] You could go the girly route, you'd be fine as [ __ ] Which one would you prefer? It's still
Speaker A
just the way you are. All right, perfect. Oh my god, I get stuck in her charm every time.
Speaker A
Where you going? I love you. Hi, Sa. Hi. Are you in a rush? Yeah, we're running down the fashion show.
Speaker A
Oh, it's downstairs. I was wondering where it is. I don't even know if it started.
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