HOW TO NEGOTIATE ALLOWANCES & NOT GET SCAMMED ON SUGAR … — Transcript

Learn how to negotiate allowances and avoid scams on sugar daddy sites with expert tips from Codenamechanel.

Key Takeaways

Sugar daddy sites are often exploitative and less beneficial for women today.
Presentation and confidence are key to negotiating higher allowances.
Avoid desperate behavior and low offers that undervalue your worth.
Be aware of manipulation tactics and differentiate between sugar dating and escorting.
Seek mentorship and guidance to succeed on sugar daddy platforms.

Summary

Sugar daddy sites are no longer as lucrative for women as they used to be.
Many men on these sites use manipulation tactics to persuade young women into low-grade prostitution.
Women often receive low allowances despite high expectations from men claiming high sex drives.
The video emphasizes the importance of self-presentation, such as having a polished appearance and lifestyle.
Desperation and poor self-branding on profiles lead to lower offers and exploitation.
Codenamechanel warns against accepting low offers and encourages women to value themselves higher.
The video distinguishes between sugar dating and escorting, highlighting the difference in earnings and treatment.
Men on sugar daddy sites often pretend to be wealthy but offer minimal allowances.
The importance of recognizing red flags and avoiding men who do not meet allowance expectations is stressed.
Codenamechanel positions herself as a mentor helping women navigate sugar dating successfully.

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Hi, you guys. Welcome back to my channel. It's your girlfriend Chanel, and I'm back, but clearly I'm back with some finesse tips. Now, if you're new here, welcome. If you're trying to subscribe, then you know, like we all know, it's all love.

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video i hope the girlies i hope the girl is watching i hope the girl is sharing worldwide so we can stop this epidemic of men who get on sugar sites looking for real relationships [ __ ] please bye we

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Now, this video, I hope the girlies, I hope the girls are watching. I hope the girls are sharing worldwide so we can stop this epidemic of men who get on sugar sites looking for real relationships. Please, bye. We

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going to help you get allowance this video is going to it's going to help you succeed and have success on sugar daddy's site oh i'm not a huge fan of sugar daddy sites i'm going to tell you why i'll tell you why

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can stop this epidemic of men claiming to be sugar daddies but not providing allowance. So, let's get into this. [Music] Right now, I need you, I need you to listen and retain this information. This video right here is

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hit you where it hurts okay so sugar daddy sites are not what they used to be the bread and butter of what they used to be back in the day okay i'm gonna make that very clear sugar daddy

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going to help you get allowance. This video is going to, it's going to help you succeed and have success on sugar daddy sites. Oh, I'm not a huge fan of sugar daddy sites. I'm going to tell you why. I'll tell you why.

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they are able to and this is where i come in they are able to persuade women into prostitution they use manipulation tactics right get women who are new to the sugar game young young babies 1920. i've seen it

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Let's see what. Okay, this is why Chanel Coding Chanel is not a huge fan of sugar daddy sites. First off, a lot of men, and I say this all the time, but I'm gonna do a refresher and then I'm gonna

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tell you this they'll tell you they have this high drive and they need to have it a few times a week right stop and then i know there's women that are going to be in the comments or women that watch this video but who's

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hit you where it hurts. Okay, so sugar daddy sites are not what they used to be, the bread and butter of what they used to be back in the day. Okay, I'm gonna make that very clear. Sugar daddy

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the reason why you yes you that's watching this video cannot get a high allowance okay it's the reason why you why why you women cannot find actual sugar daddies on sure they say i know shocker i'm just as

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sites are not as lucrative for women, for sugar babies, as they used to be. You know who they're lucrative for? You know who gets the most out of these sugar daddy sites? Men, right? They get the most out of it because

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how can i do this i can't i can't go on the regular dating sites because on the regular dating sites women are not messaging me they look at my height they look at my bio they look at my clothes

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they are able to, and this is where I come in, they are able to persuade women into prostitution. They use manipulation tactics, right? Get women who are new to the sugar game, young, young babies, 19, 20. I've seen it.

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low grade prostitution because it's not escorting it's not escorting the escorts that i know are on private jets the escorts that i know are trying to get girls fifteen thousand dollars to go to dubai okay they're doing what they're talking you

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Or women that are just naive to go on these sugar daddy dates, and it ends up being like, okay, well, I can give you 300, 400 weekly, but I, I have a high sex drive. They'll tell you this. They'll

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these sites and you're messaging them and they're like and you tell you know i was expecting three thousand dollars bi-weekly for allowance um meet up a few times a week nights dinners and they're like hey hey hey hey it's fan albert

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tell you this. They'll tell you they have this high drive and they need to have it a few times a week, right? Stop. And then I know there's women that are going to be in the comments or women that watch this video, but who's

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and we have to look at the definition because i don't care where you go the definition has allowance it has lavish gifts it has indulging young women in lavish gifts indulging let's think obsessive a lot of 300 300

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gonna fall for that? Who's gonna fall for that? Like, it's their fault if they fall for that. That's true. Where I come into play is because I'm gonna let you know that the women that are falling for that is

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you want you're going to have a nice car already you're going to have a nice apartment already you're going to have roommates tons of roommates they can't come over you're going to have your nails done you're going to have your hair already

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the reason why you, yes you, that's watching this video, cannot get a high allowance. Okay, it's the reason why you, why, why you women cannot find actual sugar daddies on sugar sites. I know, shocker. I'm just as

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you're going on there as a bougie beggar right no but you're not going on there as a beggar because we know that if we go on these sites desperate i see women do it all the time and i'm answering your

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shocked as you are, right? This is just such a joke. So, we have these men who don't even know what a sugar daddy is, and he's like, where can I find gorgeous, beautiful, youthful women? Where can I go?

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you are pumped in in out of your mouth into the world and manifesting that you yourself is poor you have nothing i have nothing you're not whitney houston we're not doing this we're not doing this i want you and i always say this and i

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How can I do this? I can't, I can't go on the regular dating sites because on the regular dating sites women are not messaging me. They look at my height, they look at my bio, they look at my clothes.

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these sites right look on how your bio sounds and everything and if you sound desperate how raise your hand raise your hand if you have been a victim of regina george no i'm trying to be serious but no

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They look, so what can I do? I'm gonna go on a sugar daddy site and pretend to be a sugar daddy and offer low, low, low, low amount, teeny tiny amount to just a woman that's naive, beautiful, minis, and persuade her into

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naive naive i am a sugar baby mentor right so i also have women who are who have great careers who have great jobs right um and let's just say decent jobs and what they do is they'll go on these

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low-grade prostitution because it's not escorting. It's not escorting. The escorts that I know are on private jets. The escorts that I know are trying to get girls fifteen thousand dollars to go to Dubai. Okay, they're doing what they're talking you

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sites with these little blurry pictures and they come to me and they're like chanel oh i don't want this i don't want that i don't want th these guys are offering me this i could buy that myself right i could do that for myself they

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into is selling your, selling your cat for a very low price. And what I'm here to tell you is you don't have to sell it at all. Okay, so now let's get into the high allowances, right? And again, we have the guys that are on

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girls who i'm fun and i like to go shopping they're going to offer you the same thing as them because you look like them you look like them the girls who you think are better than that you think you're different than you

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these sites and you're messaging them and they're like, and you tell, you know, I was expecting three thousand dollars bi-weekly for allowance, um, meet up a few times a week, nights, dinners, and they're like, hey, hey, hey, hey, it's fan Albert.

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putting the effort into i i travel i'm well traveled um i'm well cultured but it doesn't look like it and it has to look like it because when you look like that you're you're not going to attract the dusty's

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But no, they're right, hey, hey, hey, I didn't come to this site for that. Hell, go to hell. Go there, go immediately straight. You're literally on Seeking Arrangement. You're literally on Secret Benefits. You're literally on, um, SugarDaddy.com. You're literally on a sugar daddy site.

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know you guys are like okay did i watch this whole video to get to the end of the video and realize that she's about to tell me confidence and i already knew that but did you did you already know that if you stand ten toes

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And we have to look at the definition because I don't care where you go. The definition has allowance. It has lavish gifts. It has indulging young women in lavish gifts, indulging. Let's think obsessive. A lot of 300, 300.

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this is how we're clearing them out we're saying firm on i cannot go on a date without a monetary gift and i mean it should be nothing to you you said your net worth is a million dollars bringing me perfume and roses just to

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You're being scammed, ladies. But let me, let me, let me show you how to get this high allowance, right? First off, you're not gonna go on there thirsty. You're not going to go on there naive. You're going to have everything

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well they became millionaires by blah blah blah blah blah they spend money they spend money yes they do yes they do they might scam on their taxes and [ __ ] like that but they spend money so if you

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you want. You're going to have a nice car already. You're going to have a nice apartment already. You're going to have roommates, tons of roommates. They can't come over. You're going to have your nails done. You're going to have your hair already

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do we even need to be going today say burn burn stand your ground because if you and some of you fold some of you will be like oh [ __ ] no they keep saying no okay well all the no's gonna end up to a yes

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done, right? So when you come on these sites, they're not building you up. They're contributing to what you already have, and they are adding to that, correct? So you are not going on there as a beggar. All right?

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up an arrangement it should be nothing for someone who claims to make 75 million dollars a year to spend 300 on you on your day it should be nothing nothing at all nothing at [ __ ] all for him to take

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You're going on there as a bougie beggar. Right? No, but you're not going on there as a beggar because we know that if we go on these sites desperate. I see women do it all the time, and I'm answering your

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have to go to fancy restaurant millionaires like the humble things in life they like the small things in life okay so you're telling me that someone who makes millions of dollars wants to get out the car with you

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questions right here. You tell me, oh Chanel, I don't have any money. I don't have this. I don't have that. What, what do I do? What, what, how can you help me? I cannot help you if you are putting that

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so there's no exception to my [ __ ] rules and that's just it and that's all so i know men who are making less than a hundred thousand dollars a year and would love to take me to a five-star restaurant to prove to me

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you are pumped in, in, out of your mouth into the world and manifesting that you yourself is poor. You have nothing. I have nothing. You're not Whitney Houston. We're not doing this. We're not doing this. I want you, and I always say this, and I

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first date at popeyes insufficient funds you ain't got no money y'all keep going on popeye day and getting them low ass allowances and then holla at a player when you meet the millionaire because it's it's so many you you guys keep trying to make the

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don't care if I keep repeating it, I want you to go on those sites and be a woman who has her ish together because you know what these bottom feeder men do, these, these pole-ass men? You know what they do? They go on

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not my business really my business is not the dig up in here but so y'all trying to keep telling me that and i'm not understanding why i'm not understanding why you are trying to trick me i don't want to be tripped i i want to

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these sites, right? Look at how your bio sounds and everything, and if you sound desperate, how raise your hand. Raise your hand if you have been a victim of Regina George. No, I'm trying to be serious, but no,

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let me multiply that by 1.5 right so if my bills are i don't calculate my real books i'm just gonna make up something say your bills are 2800 a month you're gonna times that by 1.5 and that's 4 200

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literally, I want you to raise your hand. Whoever went on a sugar daddy site and you put on your bio, I like shopping. I like allowances. I'm a college student. Well, they're reading in between those lines, and they're hearing naive,

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you want it to be five thousand dollars because again we are working we have the money to pay our bills right we so in addition to making the 2 800 a month like or making about three thousand dollars a month you're getting an

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naive, naive. I am a sugar baby mentor, right? So I also have women who are who have great careers, who have great jobs, right? Um, and let's just say decent jobs, and what they do is they'll go on these

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start this is the trick to get a high allowance to get a high allowance let's just say that that's what you want you want five thousand dollars a month forty two hundred dollars is really what you want right

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sites with these little blurry pictures, blurry, blurry-ass pictures, right? Here in these sites, and they are, they have, um, history of being pick-me's, right? They're just now realizing being a pick-me is a scam, right? So they get on these

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trickle down because we want three thousand dollars bi-weekly or six thousand dollars at the beginning of the month right so you're gonna start up high tell them that you want that number that is going to scare away the dusty but how

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sites with these little blurry pictures, and they come to me, and they're like, Chanel, oh, I don't want this. I don't want that. I don't want these guys are offering me this. I could buy that myself, right? I could do that for myself. They

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i know you're listening and i know you want to hear the t the t is if you want somebody who is going to give you 6 000 a month right this is what we want this is what we need correct you have to look

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say things like this, right? And I'm like, okay, let me see your pictures. It doesn't look like it because you're not investing in what you look like. So they're going to offer you what they're offering these little college students and these

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a high allowances even if it's over eight thousand dollars right you want to look like it and you want to send so when you ask they don't have to look and be like and then go to to your page and see like

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girls who I'm fun and I like to go shopping. They're going to offer you the same thing as them because you look like them. You look like them. The girls who you think are better than that, you think you're different than you

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really know that you want 4 200 right you're okay with that that's the minimum that you will take right and you you need to go to it right but throwing out high allowances and looking like high allowances will save you from

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have that pick-me mentality. So you coming in the game thinking it is you against us, but we all in this together. Okay, High School Musical bars. So what happens with this, what happens with this, what happens with this is I see that you women aren't

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right not giving up the goods before because this is what happens right it's so funny can i tell y'all a really really short story time and i know this video is getting kind of long but can i please tell you all the story time right

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putting the effort into, I, I travel, I'm well traveled, um, I'm well cultured, but it doesn't look like it, and it has to look like it because when you look like that, you're, you're not going to attract the dusties.

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it makes me so uncomfortable i told him like the cash handling someone giving me money whether it's in an envelope or whatever like it it really takes away from what i want from this and that's conversation affection gratitude sensuality it's so

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Right? So here's another thing, and this is proof, and this is the one where I was like, okay, there's no secret code in this game. There's no secret, but wait a minute, it is. There is confidence, right? And I

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allowance at the beginning of the month blah blah blah right so we're on a date this is our first date together and he's like did you pay um before you ate your food tonight because we're having dinner y'all

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know you guys are.

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pay them and i said that's not how this works if we're at a restaurant since we're at a restaurant and we're eating rest the food is good or not we're gonna have to pay but there's no way that we are leaving here with this

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300 bill and not paying a dime i told him like i would never come to a five-star restaurant or any restaurant and even think that i wasn't going to pay because the food wasn't good or i didn't have a good experience that to me

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sounds like a scammer that to me sounds like somebody is poor right so i'm telling him to do this and he's like well the only place that you pay first is a mcdonald's and a jack in a box and

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i said yes and you paid you paid very little for very little quality and you know you want somebody that you only hung out with for you want to hang out with me first get to know me first for a

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few weeks before you provide me an allowance then i'm just not the one for you and i was like you know what let me and i apple was digging in my wallet like i was like about to pay for something i promised

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y'all was about to have paper any [ __ ] thing i was like let me just get this bill so he's like no no no no no that's not what i'm saying i don't want you to leave i'm just saying that you

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came off a little strong i said i'm not strong at all i don't have any strong in me i literally told you about my experiences and my experiences offended you that much that you compared me to a mcdonald's

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and it's so funny you guys of the way i split this [ __ ] on him because i'm stern firm and i'm not about to take no [ __ ] from these sugar daddy sites and honestly like i told you i'd rather

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be on a vanilla site i'd rather be on a regular dating site the bubbles the hinges okay cupid's um lucky leaves those ones i think then to even sit here and negotiate with somebody who should already know what's

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up like really i hate teaching old dogs no tricks i really do but anyway if you watching this video and you enjoyed it give it a thumbs up i love you guys so much um thank you guys so much for being

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a part of my patreon don't forget to join my patreon if you're not if you're not already a part of my patreon follow me on instagram code name chanel i also have a snapchat chanel kid herb i have a

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tick tock i think coding chanel but i won't be posting on there can y'all teach me somebody teach me how to work together i'll pay you to teach me how to work anyway i gotta go i'm pretty much out

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love you guys i'm out

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why are sugar daddy sites less lucrative for women now?

Sugar daddy sites have become less beneficial for women because many men use manipulation tactics and offer low allowances, making it harder to find genuine, high-paying sugar daddies.

How can women avoid getting scammed on sugar daddy sites?

Women should focus on strong self-presentation, avoid desperation, recognize manipulation tactics, and not accept low offers that undervalue their worth.

What is the difference between sugar dating and escorting according to the video?

Sugar dating involves negotiated allowances and relationships, while escorting is a higher-paid, more transactional service often involving travel and luxury, which is distinct from the low-grade prostitution seen on some sugar daddy sites.

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