MANIFESTING MISTAKE: USING REALITY TO VALIDATE WHO YOU ARE NOW

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to your favorite show, The Orion Hotline, with me, of course, Dante Orion, here to answer any and all your manifesting questions and needs. Today's Orion Hotline is going to cover stop using the 3D to determine who you are and if you're doing something right. Because as we know, you don't get what you want, you get who you are. So, when you hold who you are internally and you don't try to find a reason to justify that externally, that's when you allow for the flow and the materialization of who you are being. But if you're trying to be something or someone in order to fool what is you, you're doing this wrong. It's not a method of doing to get, it's a method of being. And when you are it, you don't care anymore what's outside of you. And then that's when it materializes. It's a different awareness. On one hand, you're doing it to try and force something to happen, and on the other, you're chill because you are relaxed and you know who you are and you know how this game works, that it's not forcing, it's just being it before it. And when that happens, the magic unfolds perfectly to you because you know that you are all that is. Okay? So, that's what this email is going to cover. So, we're going to jump right into it. She's very detailed in her email. I normally don't let it run over 500 to 700 words, but we'll make an exception for today. Hi Dante. I just wanted to start by saying I genuinely appreciate your work. Your videos and music have helped me build a mindset that feels natural, stable, and grounded rather than forced. Because as we know, guys, you aren't trying to force something. You are it or you aren't. I've been consistently applying the I am concept for over a year now. I know, I know, since July, bro. And I feel like I understand it on a deep level. I identify as the operant power. I deny choose be regularly and I don't stay reactive to the 3D. If anything comes up, I correct it quickly and return to my chosen identity. That's good. But here comes the problems. Mentally and emotionally, I feel like I already have everything. I feel confident, secure, attractive, valued, and certain. I don't [snorts] feel lack in the way I used to. If anything, I feel more confused rather than triggered when things don't reflect externally. So you're aware of it. Thankfully, my old story doesn't feel like an issue. It's like two opposite magnets. I couldn't be that person again even if I tried, which feels great. It's mainly down to you and Eric's teachings and your music. I completely changed how I look at manifesting. So she gave a breakdown on all these areas of her life, which I appreciate. So here we go. Where I'm at internally. I feel aligned with the version of myself who already has everything. I naturally assume I'm chosen, prioritized, and admired. I don't dwell in negative emotions. They pass quickly. I understand that everything is happening now, not in the future. That's a big one. A lot of people that I work with or get emails from, they assume that they are being now in order to get in the future. You have to break that. It's only now. Even in that perceived future, that's still happening now because it's going to happen in a moment of now, which you're going to experience. And it's going to feel like it's right in front of your face, right? You're not When you put something into the future, you're consistently putting it into the future. And it's always never here yet. So you're creating a moment of space and waiting. And you're that now that identity that is waiting. And that's what you get more of because identity mirrors who you are being. When you are relaxed and you're in the knowing and it's already done. It's already mine. It is this way because I am X. You give the what, you give the why. That's what a good affirmation is. It's a moment of congruency to a version of you who already has that thing or is that way, right? [snorts] So when you're putting into a moment of future, I can't wait for when this happens. It's always going to [snorts] be in the future. It's always going to be a moment of when and as opposed to a moment of now okay? Um So she gives more breakdowns. University and travel examples. I fully assumed I was studying abroad and living that life. I was accepted into a university I genuinely wanted. I even visited the campus and met the founder. I applied for a scholarship and assumed it was mine. A month before starting, they told me I didn't receive it. After a miscommunication, that's when you deny that. That's the moment of deny choose be. I crashed out for like 15 minutes briefly then returned to it's already mine. I'm there regardless. Now, months later, I still hold that identity. Well, who told you it's months? What is the version of you who is there? Would they be aware of the time that like is the perceived time that passed, right? They wouldn't. It already is that way. You don't You don't focus on I said this and I did this and now it's still not here yet. Cuz you wouldn't be that You wouldn't be thinking that way. When you deny choose be something, you say it in that moment and then anytime the thought comes to mind, you give the now moment. You give how it is now. You don't put it off into a future. You don't put it off into a perceived past of I did this, now I'm waiting for this to happen. That's a common slip-up for some people. But there's no visible movement or Well, there it is. I just answered the I just answered my own question. So, when you are looking for movement, what does that imply? It implies you are not because the version of you who is that way or has that thing or is that identity, they wouldn't be aware of movement. They would already have it, right? I talked about this I think it was like [ __ ] 3 months ago. The version of you who already has a pair of shoes, you wouldn't be looking at a pair of socks and go, "Aha, this must mean my shoes are coming." No, you already have the shoes, right? It's a different awareness. You already have the thing. If you see you're the car that you decided that you want everywhere you want or everywhere you go. Oh cool, that car is exactly like mine at home. You're not going, "Oh, I see I see the Lamborghini. I see the Urus and now that means to me not that I'm getting my Urus now." No. Or as you see the BMW or the Porsche or whatever. It's a moment of awareness. If you're putting it as "This means I'm going to get X. You're going to get," meaning you don't have and you aren't. Right? Different awarenesses guys. So, be aware of that. That's a blind spot a lot of people have of putting something into a future or as a means to get or you're going to get. It's not how this works. You either are or you aren't. Right? So, when you are you're either the identity of lack or you are the identity that has the thing. And if you're putting as something to get that means you don't have it. So, jump back on the horse, decide you are it now. It's always now. Independence and lifestyle. I feel like someone who has full freedom and independence. Good, keep that there. But physically, I'm quite restricted. Well, who told you that? You're basing who you are based off of the outside and that's why nothing changes because you're not allowing yourself to shift internally because you're basing who you are internally off of what you're seeing in front of you. And if you do that, you're going to get stuck in a loop. And I've been there. I'm sure a lot of people have been there that are watching this video where you're going, "Huh, nothing's changing." And then you're aware of that. You're aware of nothing changing and then you put the separation in between it. That's when you have to hop on the back of the horse and go, "Ah, [ __ ] I see what I did now." And then you got to put it in the moment of now that it's already done. Right? Uh yep, that that creates a moment of being stuck. Duh. Just covered that. Pat

you're doing something right. Because as we know, you don't get what you want, you get who you are. So, when you hold who you are internally and you don't try to find a like a reason to justify that

externally, that's when you allow for the flow and the materialization of who you are being. But if you're trying to be some something or someone in order to fool what is you, you're doing this wrong.

It's not a method of doing to get, it's a method of being. And when you are it, you don't care anymore what's outside of you. And then that's when it materializes. It's a different awareness.

On one hand, you're doing it to try and force something to happen, and on the other, you're chill because you are relaxed and you know who you are and you know how this game works, that it's not forcing, it's just being it before it.

And when that happens, the magic, it unfolds perfectly to you because you know that you are all that is.

Okay? So, that's what this email is going to cover. So, we're going to jump right into it. She's a very detailed in her email.

I normally don't let it run over 500 to 700 words, but we'll make an exception for today.

Hi Dante. I just wanted to start by saying I genuinely appreciate your work. Your videos and music have helped me build a mindset that feels natural, stable, and grounded rather than forced. Because as we know, guys, you aren't trying to

force something. You are it or you aren't. I've been consistently applying the I am concept for over a year now. I know, I know, since July, bro. And I feel like I understand it on a deep level. I

identify as the operant power. I deny choose be regularly and I don't stay reactive to the 3D. If anything comes up, I correct it quickly and return to my chosen identity. That's good.

But here comes the problems. Mentally and emotionally, I feel like I already have everything. I feel confident, secure, attractive, valued, and certain.

I don't [snorts] feel lack in the way I used to. If anything, I feel more confused rather than triggered when things don't reflect externally. So you're aware of it.

Thankfully, my old story doesn't feel like an issue. It's like two opposite magnets. I couldn't be that person again even if I tried, which feels great. It's mainly down to you and Eric's teachings and your music. I completely changed how

I look at manifesting. So she gave a breakdown on all these areas of her life, which I appreciate.

So here we go. Where I'm at internally. I feel aligned with the version of myself who already has everything. I naturally assume I'm chosen, prioritized, and admired. I don't dwell in negative emotions. They pass quickly.

I understand that everything is happening now, not in the future. That's a big one. A lot of people that I work with or get emails from, they assume that they are being now in order to get in the future. You have to break that.

It's only now. Even in that perceived future, that's still happening now because it's going to happen in a moment of now, which you're going to experience. And it's going to be feel feel like it like it's right in front of your face, right?

You're You're not When you put something into the future, you're consistently putting it into the future. And it's always never here yet. So you're creating a moment of space and waiting.

And you're that now that identity that is waiting. And that's what you get more of because identity mirrors who you are being. When you are relaxed and you're in the knowing and it's already done.

It's already mine. It is this way because I am X. You give the what, you give the why. That's what a good affirmation is. It's a moment of congruency to a version of you who already has that thing or is that way,

right? [snorts] So when you're putting into a moment of future, I can't wait for when this happens.

It's always going to [snorts] be in the future. It's always going to be a moment of when and as opposed to a moment of now okay?

Um So she gives more breakdowns. University and travel examples. I fully assumed I was studying abroad and living that life. I was accepted into a university I genuinely wanted. I even visited the campus and met the founder.

I applied for a scholarship and assumed it was mine. A month before starting, they told me I didn't receive it. After a miscommunication, that's when you deny that. That's the moment of denied choose B.

I crashed out for like 15 minutes briefly then returned to it's already mine. I'm there regardless. Now, months later, I still hold that identity. Well, who told you it's months?

What is the version of you who is there? Would they be aware of the time that like is the perceived time that passed, right? They wouldn't. It already is that way. You don't You don't focus on I said

this and I did this and now it's still not here yet. Cuz you wouldn't be that You wouldn't be thinking that way.

When you deny choose B something, you say it in that moment and then anytime the thought comes to mind, you give the now moment. You give how it is now. You don't put it off into a future. You

don't put it off into a perceived past of I did this, now I'm waiting for this to happen. That's a common slip-up for some people.

But there's no visible movement or Well, there it is. I just answered the I just answered my own question.

So, when you are looking for movement, what does that imply? It implies you are not because the version of you who is that way or has that thing or is that identity, they wouldn't be aware of movement. They

would already have it, right? I talked about this I think it was like [ __ ] 3 months ago.

The version of you who already has a pair of shoes, you wouldn't be looking at a pair of socks and go, "Aha, this must mean my shoes are coming." No, you already have the shoes, right? It's a different awareness. You already have

the thing. If you see you're the car that you decided that you want everywhere you want or everywhere you go.

Oh cool, that car is exactly like mine at home. You're not going, "Oh, I see I see the Lamborghini. I see the Urus and now that means to me not that I'm getting my Urus now." No.

Or as you see the BMW or the Porsche or whatever. It's a moment of awareness. If you're putting it as "This means I'm going to get X.

You're going to get, meaning you don't have and you aren't. Right? Different awarenesses guys.

So, be aware of that. That's a blind spot a lot of people have of putting something into a future or as a means to get or you're going to get. It's not how this works. You either are or you

aren't. Right? So, when you are you're either the identity of lack or you are the identity that has the thing.

And if you're putting as something to get that means you don't have it. So, jump back on the horse, decide you are it now. It's always now.

Independence and lifestyle. I feel like someone who has full freedom and independence. Good, keep that there. But physically, I'm quite restricted. Well, who told you that?

You're basing who you are based off of the outside and that's why nothing changes because you're not allowing yourself to shift internally because you're basing who you are internally off of what you're seeing in front of you. And if you do that, you're

going to get stuck in a loop. And I've been there. I'm sure a lot of people have been there that are watching this video where you're going, "Huh, nothing's changing." And then you're aware of that. You're aware of nothing

changing and then you put the separation in between it. That's when you have to hop on the back of the horse and go, "Ah, [ __ ] I see what I did now." And then you got to put it in the moment

of now that it's already done. Right? Uh yep, that that creates a moment of being stuck. Duh.

Just covered that. Pattern I'm noticing. Internally, I feel aligned, confident, and certain. Good. Now, you have to become indifferent to what you're seeing outside of you. And then you don't agree with it. Like when I broke my foot and

when I walk and I feel the toes going like as I'm walking in my shoe, I'm like, "Oh, man. I feel so great. My toe My toes feel amazing. Wow, I I'm so glad I'm back kickboxing. I'm so glad that

I'm going to my Muay Thai classes. I'm so glad that I can kick someone in the head again. This is so great." Even when I felt my toes going underneath the [ __ ] the ball of my foot. Even when

everything hurt. I didn't agree with it. I didn't [ __ ] say it because if you say it guess what's going to get to in because it's implication.

It's the implication of who you are. So, when you are feeling the pain or you're seeing the opposite or something doesn't go your way, you stay the same regardless because it's a old effect of you. And when you

look at it and you agree with it and you identify it, that's when you bring it back to life and you resurrect it and you keep it going in the same loop over and over and over and over and over

again. That's why years can pass or months can pass or weeks can pass and nothing changes because you don't allow it to shift to who you are being. You You are an identity. You select, I am this.

This is why. And then that's great. And now you have to stay in that identity and respond to what you're seeing outside of you as an identity.

Whether that's, nope, that's not the case. That doesn't apply to me anymore. I'm this. Or you just go, no, I don't have this ends. I know that I am this and I have this and it's this way. And

you don't emotionally react to it and you don't identify with it. That's when it allows for the flow and the materialization of who you are being.

But when you look at that and you go, uh-oh, something isn't right. I'm doing something wrong. Am I doing something wrong?

That's when you allow it to continue to persist in your reality. That's when you get more of it because you agree with it and you hop back on the horse. And then you see the same thing and you go, ah.

Right? It creates a loop. And that's what we're trying to break. We're trying to break the I know why this is happening.

It's your older awareness, your ego, presenting back who you once were and now it's your job to no longer agree with it. And that's when it allows for the flow of something new. We do a new thing now.

And as she says, externally things feel delayed, stalled, or non-responsive. Gee, I wonder why. We just covered that.

It's not strong resistance, more like a lack of movement. For some things, I'll be complimented on my looks. People will give me gifts and I'm basically treated like a queen. Good. That's normal. Now, perceive it as normal. That's a normal

thing for who you are. It's not something special. It doesn't mean it's working because if it's working, what does that imply? It implies you're not.

But in other areas, it reflects oppositely. I wonder why. Which confuses me because it's like I don't agree with this. The situation better improve because I'm not settling for this low treatment. Good, don't. That's when you speak up to reality. You go, this isn't

me anymore. I don't accept this. This is not who I am. Yeah? But when you go, why is this happening?

Why am I still getting X? Why is this still happening? What do you think it's going to persist?

Because you're identifying it, but you're seeing it, and now you're agreeing that that is a constant in your life. You're going this isn't working.

This is. So, you're going to get more of the things working for this and more things not working for this. So, you hop on the horse and you decide, no, everything's working. Everything's [ __ ] perfect. My life is perfect now.

Shout out to the song that I just made. So, when you're seeing that, that's what you do. You don't go, ah, it's not working or it is working. It just is.

It's normal and the [ __ ] that you don't like, you don't agree with. You go, nope. That's not me.

Actually, it went this way. And then you give your perfection. You give the what, you give the why.

Everything's so amazing. Of course they're treating me like a queen because I'm a [ __ ] goddess. Duh.

I make Aphrodite look mid, right? Um. So, she goes on to say what it feels like. It feels like It feels like I've loaded into the wrong version of reality, like Wreck-It Ralph.

I keep myself busy. I know who I am, I know what my life looks like, and I know what I have. Do you?

But, but [gasps] my environment doesn't reflect it yet. Duh. It's like It's like being the same person, but placed It's like not being the same person, but placed in a setting that hasn't caught up yet.

Rage baiting me. I know all all I know all is now and it to not look for the 3D. I guess I'm just excited to be experiencing it in the physical. So, when you get the urge to experience it,

when you feel like I I really want to experience it, that's when you give yourself the imaginal acts or the inner conversation. You can do a visualization, you can do a meditation.

You can listen to a song, you can say how things are, you have fun with it.

You use your internal state, meaning you use your mind, the big voice in your head, or you can visualize or do something with it to imply that you have it. You can give yourself that experience internally because you have to have it internally

before you have it externally, before it's presented to you. And when it is presented to you, it's usually when when you're not looking, when you're not aware of it, when you're not trying to make something happen. It happens when

you're busy in the present moment, when you're doing something else, and all of a sudden get a text message, like when you're making a video.

Or when you're out walking around with friends, all of a sudden that random person approaches you. All of a sudden your friend will mention something, and then you go with them to that thing, and then all of a sudden the bridge of

incidents happens, or suddenly a friend texts you and goes, "This is a cool video idea. You should make something like this." Or "This is something that you'd be into." And then all of a sudden you start making a channel like I have.

And then that's when it unfolds to who you are being. But it's always you first. You have to give it to yourself first. And when you're not dependent on it, when you're not trying to make something happen, that's when it can flow to you.

Okay? So, my question if you were in this position where your identity feels solid, your emotional state emotional state your emotional state is stable, you're not reacting or chasing. Well, you're obviously reacting, otherwise you wouldn't write me this email.

But your external reality feels out of sync for an extended period. Again, you can't use your external reality to validate and justify who you're being now. If you're doing that, you're going to be stuck forever.

Stuck. Stuck forever. Because you're using the external world to validate who you are being now, and then you're looking at and going, "Am I doing something wrong?" No, you're looking at yesterday's weather report to justify what today's weather is. Okay?

Um what What would you say with How would you spend your time without falling into waiting or over correcting? Do something that you like. I don't know. Go out with friends. Watch a movie.

Go exercise. Go [ __ ] kick someone's head in and break your foot. [snorts] Don't actually do that. That's a bad time. It's not fun.

Um but yeah, be in the present moment. Find something that you're passionate about. Surround yourself with people that you love. Do something that you love, right? Again, SPs, [ __ ] everything is a cherry on top of your

amazing life already. If your life isn't that amazing right now, you have to assume that it already is. And you do things that you're passionate about. You have to focus on who you are being and enjoy your life. Because if you're hyper

fixating on one thing or one outcome, it means you aren't focusing enough on yourself and who you are. I am. You have to give the I am, the identity behind all things.

So, if it was money or business success, I'm the best business person ever. I am the best artist ever. And then you go off on that. You you you differentiate, you segment out on onto what you want to

experience, and then you tie it back to self. An example, my socks are so addictive because I'm the most talented and creative musician of all [ __ ] time. I'm a worldwide known artist, right? You give yourself those

exacerbated like exacerbated self-concept because that reflects back to you because people and the world around you can only reflect to you who you are internally, right?

Again. So, I don't As she was saying, I don't feel like I need to fix anything internally, but I do feel like I'm in a phase where I'm unsure of how to operate while things catch up. They're not catching

up, they already are. You have to view the world as it already is. As the rulebook states, if you guys haven't read the rulebook, it's free to read in the description box below as well as the pinned comment.

Just going to remind people I haven't been doing that. So, as we say, the four pillars. One is knowing yourself as all that is, as a selector, as the creator creator of your reality, right? So, you have the free

choice to experience anything that comes to your mind as long as you're aligned to it, right? Second is these macro and micro areas of your life, right?

Self-concept concepts of self. So, how your default is in loving relationships, in money, in business, in job success.

Again, you have to give yourself the default as the I am as an identity. The third is choosing a direct end. So, if you want to experience a specific person, you have to first be the identity that would experience it. Then

you can give the direct story of how a thing is. Or if you want to get a specific job, or a specific salary, or a specific monthly income. The fourth is now viewing the world as it already is

that way now. Meaning you made the decision, now it is that way. You put the order on Amazon. You order the food.

You order the cheeseburger. Now, your cheeseburger is coming to you. You already have the cheeseburger.

And it'll arrive in that moment of now when you aren't looking for it. It'll just be presented to you. Boom, there's your food. There's your Amazon order.

It's on the front step. There's your specific person that just randomly texted you. But you have to view yourself as that way now. It already is that way. It is that way now. It's not in a perceived future. It's not going to happen. It's

not There's no birds for land, there's no movement, right? It has to be that way now because if it isn't, if it's in a perceived future, if it's waiting to happen, or if it's in the materialization of happening, it will

forever be that way because you're putting your focus, attention, and awareness on it. So, you're going to get more of it.

So, there's nothing to fix externally. You just have to decide it internally. So, as she was saying, "Thank you again for your work and music. It generally made a difference in how I think and show up." So, this is

just the blind spot. A lot of people experience this. A lot of people have problems with this in that they put something into a future or into trying to make something work or make something happen, and you're not making anything

happen. You are already it. You are shifting to a reality where it already is that way. And when you unlock that new understanding, that's when things materialize to you because you aren't getting in your own way. You're not

trying to force something to happen. You're not waiting for something to happen. It already is that way because you are it, right? Identity first, guys.

You get what you You get who you are, not what you want. If you want to get what you want, you have to be the identity first that would have it, and decide it is that way now, okay? So, I

know that helps. That will wrap up today's Orion Hotline. If you want to send in your own Orion Hotline questions, send it to [email protected].

Members get first priority as long as they include their member handle. And I will see you guys in the next Orion Hotline. Bye-bye.