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So you're sitting with her in a cafe. She's picking at her salad with a disgruntled expression, looking at you like you're some unpaid entertainer who's doing a poor job for free and is making it seem like she's all business.
Exploring the hidden costs and realities of dating women from apps and the modern intimate services market in Russian provinces.
Key Takeaways
- Provincial dating markets are limited and often lead men to encounter women involved in paid intimate services.
- Many women working as prostitutes maintain other jobs and hide their side work to pursue traditional relationships.
- The financial incentives for women in the intimate services market are significant compared to average regional salaries.
- Men often enter relationships unaware of the hidden realities, which complicates emotional and social dynamics.
- The video emphasizes the importance of hearing men's perspectives on these issues in contemporary society.
What the video covers
- The video discusses the paradox of dating versus paid intimate services, focusing on the cost men pay in relationships.
- It highlights the poor quality of provincial dating sites, filled mostly with older divorced women with children.
- Young women (zoomers) are often not on dating sites but are found in the intimate services market, especially in provinces like Novokuznetsk.
- Modern prostitutes are often young women who may have other jobs and lead double lives, working evenings as escorts.
- The video explains the economic pressures that drive women to this lifestyle, including the ability to earn multiple regional salaries.
- It describes how men often fall in love with these women without knowing their side jobs, leading to complicated relationships.
- The concept of a 'beard' is explained as a distraction tactic used by women to hide their work in intimate services.
- The video touches on social stigma and the hidden nature of prostitution in modern Russia, including the desire of women to eventually marry.
- The narrator calls for support of men's perspectives online and promotes his channel and related content.
- The video ends with reflections on the social and emotional consequences of these hidden lives and relationships.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction: The paradox of dating vs paid services
- 00:46Provincial dating market and demographics
- 01:52Challenges with dating sites and women's profiles
- 03:21Discovery of young prostitutes in provinces
- 04:17Profile and lifestyle of modern prostitutes
- 05:52Relationships and hidden realities
- 06:26Call to support the channel and men's truth
- 07:08Economic aspects and consequences of prostitution
- 08:02Beards and hiding true identities
- 08:49Social stigma and concluding reflections
Full Transcript — Download SRT & Markdown
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And then you go to some adult massage parlor, and the same fairy does everything for you for less money, so you leave satisfied. It's a paradox.
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Today we're talking about the cost of relationships and the price a man essentially pays for them. There's an open price, and there's a hidden price.
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And today we'll discuss it. I already made a video about how prostitutes are much cheaper in the provinces than in St. Petersburg and Moscow. But what's happening to the provincial dating market? Let's continue this topic and, naturally, bring in our beloved
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demographics and democracy, which, by the way, is no longer in danger, because, thank God, the radical feminists fortunately didn't get elected to the State Duma in these elections. I've already mentioned that in the provinces, there's basically no one to meet. Dating sites are absolute
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crap, a complete bummer. They're full of fat, old, ugly divorced women with children who constantly try to saddle you with responsibilities you have nothing to do with. I already gave an example of someone I spoke to. She, first of all, said she only had
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children after two days of chatting on Telegram, and immediately launched into their favorite punchline about how, well, if you're a man, you shouldn't be afraid of responsibility. All these casual relationships and no-strings-attached encounters don't interest me. I say, "Listen, no problem.
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Essentially, you can only take responsibility where you have some ability to regulate, to take action, and to make adjustments." So, taking responsibility where you have no power is, at the very least, stupid. To which she replied that she saw no point in
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continuing our conversation, and that all men these days were childish. Yeah, well, screw her, as they say. There's really nothing to choose from on a dating site, nothing to take, and basically, there's nothing there. But the girls are cute, they're walking the
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streets, some kind of zoomers, 20, 25 years old. Where are all these girls? Why aren't they on the dating site?
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Well, statistically and by probability theory, they can't all be taken. So they're meeting people somewhere else, but not actually meeting them. They're just one, two, maybe three. Basically, I don't see any guys around them. So I make the logical decision to find these
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women somewhere online. But they're not on VKontakte, they're not on Instagram. I condemn the terrible social networks that are banned in Russia. I don't approve. Ugh. Instagram is crap, TikTok is too, and everything else. Everything, except our beloved YouTube. So, I
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start searching and discover that there are a lot of prostitutes in Novokuznetsk, zoomers, well, 20-25 years old. Naturally, these prostitutes don't show their faces, only their figures and cheap prices. And today I wanted to talk about this price. The
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price a man pays for interaction with such women. If we take any statistical study for Moscow or St. Petersburg, the intimate services market consists of 70% of these women, and a small number of male "zhigals" who are part-time or not
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involved constantly. So, she lives somewhere, earns some extra money somewhere, maybe even works somewhere else. I already told you about a friend of mine in St. Petersburg who works in an auto parts store, and in the evenings she receives clients as a side
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job. So, where am I going with this? The fact is that some of them are constantly on the market, while others are only present intermittently. And that vulgar image, you know, of that Indian woman, all made up and
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painted up in some strange leopard-print clothes, it all looks so provocative and repulsive—it's all gone. And those prostitutes, you know, the drug-crocodiles who freeze somewhere on the bypass road near some garage, waiting for someone to come and buy them, have long since disappeared.
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There are, of course, some marginal prostitutes, but they probably make up less than 5%. The average profile of a modern prostitute is a young woman who might even be working somewhere, maybe even married. Incidentally, that also happens, and it's only intermittent. So,
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look, that's the catch. She works somewhere, maybe selling oils and spare parts, maybe she's sitting in a Borysai cafe somewhere, but it doesn't matter.
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And in the evenings, she sees clients. Well, because life these days isn't exactly rosy and, unfortunately, not exactly cheap. In the evenings, she sees clients and looks for relationships. Then she finds a man who has no idea what she does in the
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evenings. It's like she's the only one, so cool, and just, well, such a love that it should make this naive man's jaw ache. Olinyak, maybe, yes, I was once an Olinyak too, and this happened to me too. And she tells him a story
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that, of course, he's not her first, but not even her second. Not her second, her third. And it's a standard story.
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With the first, it was just to have it. With the second, she didn't even feel anything. And with you, something happens to her that she'll literally tell her children, her grandchildren, and write memoirs about. Well, this standard Babi run-through. Literally a
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minute of your time. Please like, comment, and subscribe to the channel. This is truly important for YouTube, and not just for YouTube, but for all of us. If you want the voice of men's truth to be heard more often and more
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powerfully online, please like, comment, and subscribe. And if you'd like to actively support the channel, there's a boost link under the video. You can go there and subscribe; there are completely different levels and different access to absolutely
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fascinating content. There are lots of podcasts, and my book is free, narrated by me. So, come on in, watch, and support. And once again, dear friends, please like, comment, and subscribe to the channel. This is truly necessary, it's truly important, because men's
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truth must be heard. Ultimately, a man meets such a woman. He falls in love with her because she knows how to give and take, as they say, from the top down, from the bottom up, and so that she's like Margunchik, grandma's
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glasses, a pilot, Shrek—in short, Bloody Roger, Evil Jack, and so on. And so he starts a sort of relationship with her. Naturally, she starts to lose money, because I already mentioned that if she handles even two clients a day,
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even 5,000 rubles each, in 20 days she'll cover, on average, three regional salaries. Three salaries of some cashier, or some conductor, or some office manager. And so she talks to this man. Whether the relationship works out for her or not, of course it
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doesn't, because there's no sign of mental health after such a supposed job. And she decides to end the relationship. After two or three, six months, maybe six, seven, or eight months, she returns to the same market for prostitute services, reactivates
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her profile, and goes back to work. And, young men, I'll tell you what a beard is. It's not like I have this massive, classy, brutal growth on my face. A beard is something they do to distract people. Well, a distraction. When you
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go to a dating site, you see a woman, you see her face, her figure, and so on. When you go to a prostitute site, you only see breasts and ass. If there are any identifying marks, like tattoos or
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moles in certain places, it's all hidden, it's all covered up, the face is hidden, and, basically, you'll only see her if you go to her. Remember that joke about the father who came to visit his daughter at university in Moscow.
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While he was waiting for her, he decided to have a little fun with the Moscow fairies, those priestesses of love. He called, ordered, and his daughter came to him. That's how it all happens, unfortunately, in the modern world. And they hide it very well. And
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they hide it simply so they can one day get married. And it doe
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unfortunately, the norm for them in today's reality. And so a man meets such a woman and has no idea that he could live for years with this woman, who every now and then goes off somewhere and does some odd jobs, as
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they say. And this isn't some accountant who will be somewhere at night closing someone's books and writing reports. This is a rather vulgar story. Well, she'll explain to her husband that she got the new phone as a bonus, or that her mom gave it to
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her, or that she saved up for it, or that a friend gave it to her because she got a newer one. It doesn't matter.
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She'll explain it all, prove it, justify it, and the man will think he's doing just fine. And here's a logical question. We need to ask everyone watching this. Why do they go on dates and why do they meet people if all
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their needs are met? One need they have left unmet is the need for social fulfillment. So, in front of other women, she has to tell them that she's the same, that she's also in demand, that she found a loser who also went to
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the Legislative Assembly, took her in, and will then pay her alimony, that she was chosen, too, and she needs it, she wants it. That's why she goes on dates.
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And she makes sure you pay for her dates. The question is: if she earns twice as much as you, why does she need your money? And this is an act of ritual offering. This action has a deep , even religious, meaning in that she
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can buy herself anything: lobster, pizza, coffee at some food court, if she likes you. But you have to do it.
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What's there? A bear, or something? There's no bear. But you have to do it simply to prove to her that she's not a disgraceful, that she's not a complete prostitute who, as they say, takes it in her mouth for money, but a
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real woman, in demand, loved, and desired, just like everyone else. That's the bottom line of modern relationships. Why did I decide to talk about this? Yes, simply because I saw this diva on a dating site in Novokuznetsk, and then, literally an
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hour and a half later, I saw her on webcam. Don't ask me what I was doing there. I just happened to come across some weird advertising link. But the point is, this woman is looking for real love, a serious relationship with
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a mature, self-sufficient man. She's not single, by the way. She was only 24. Tonight, when the sun is still high , she's looking for a serious relationship. The sun sets, the city goes to sleep, the webcam wakes up, and
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on the webcam, she's busting out these balalaika-esque moves. Put up tokens, guys, throw them in, I mean, in private . Come on, I'll show you some absolutely terrifying things there. And someone will meet her, and they won't have any idea how deeply she's fallen,
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her soul, with these absolutely terrifying, perverse things, oh well, ruined, and then he'll have to live with her, have children, and those children will have to live with her too . Why am I saying all this? This isn't
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meant to stir up hate towards my beloved, wonderful, awesome, and unrivaled women, but rather to simply encourage men to be smarter in the future. So, men, if you want to continue, like, comment, and subscribe to the channel. It's only going to get
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worse—or, well, more interesting.
Topics:dating appsprostitutionintimate servicesRussian provincesrelationships costmen's perspectivemodern datingsocial stigmahidden liveseconomic pressure
