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So, this video is intended for everyone on YouTube. It's not a motivational video. It's a video reminding you of your power.
Discover how to take control of your life by choosing a new identity and becoming the captain of your own reality in 2025.
Key Takeaways
- Identity is not fixed; it is created and can be changed by conscious choice.
- You are the observer of your thoughts, not defined by them.
- Taking responsibility for your life empowers you to create your desired reality.
- Manifestation and mindset principles are supported by both science and spirituality.
- Changing your internal narrative leads to real changes in your external life.
Summary
- The video emphasizes that identity is fluid and can be consciously chosen or changed.
- Our current identity is largely shaped by upbringing and external influences, not our true self.
- You are the observer of your thoughts and feelings, not the thoughts themselves.
- Taking control of your life is like becoming the captain of a ship and steering it in your desired direction.
- Scientific ideas about reality and manifestation support the power of focused intention.
- Spiritual and religious texts from various traditions affirm the concept of self-awareness and identity beyond labels.
- Changing your story and mindset can transform your experience and reality.
- The video encourages self-reflection through guided exercises like closing your eyes and observing thoughts.
- You can choose to either steer your life or surrender control, both are valid choices.
- The speaker offers coaching but stresses that external help is optional for personal transformation.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction: Your Power and Identity
- 01:24The Origin of Your Identity
- 02:52Questioning Upbringing and Identity
- 04:46Becoming the Captain of Your Life
- 06:38Realizing You Are Not Your Past
- 08:11Who Are You? Exploring Self and Belief
- 10:05The Social Construction of Identity
- 11:39Spiritual and Biblical References on Identity
- 14:47Changing Your Story and Manifesting Reality
- 18:22Final Thoughts and Invitation to Transform
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And it's going to be about how to choose a new identity. And what if everything up until this point in your life was created by you?
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And what if you then realize that that box, you can stay in it if you would like that, or you can leave it if you would like that.
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That's what we're going to talk about in this video. I work as a transformational coach with business owners. I work with manifestation, spirituality, psychological principles, mindset. But I want to make this video more broad. Have you realized that your
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identity is fluid? You can pick a new thing, focus on that thing for long enough, and then become it.
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So the thing you are right now feeling doubtful, not satisfied, anxious, whatever it is, that's not you.
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Those are thoughts arising in you. You're so used to them that you think they are you. They are not, in fact, you.
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And they were not made by you. They were given to you at a very young age.
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So you came here being zero. One day, two days, a week old, two weeks old. And your parents, they started giving you something, an identity.
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The only reason you have a name is because your parents gave it to you.
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So, it's really your parents' name. It's not your name. I know it was given to you, but you did not choose it.
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The same goes for a lot of the characteristics that you believe so much in, the characteristics that you are so loyal to.
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Right? They were made in that little home of yours. Sometimes intentional. We would like our kid to be pleasant. We would like our kid to be nice, whatever.
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But sometimes it was unintentional. I would like my kid to be whatever I can deal with at this moment.
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I would like my kid not to be noisy because I cannot deal with the stress.
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Whatever happens in a home, right? And that is who you are now. It's a very beautiful thing to have something to cling on to. It feels frightening that what if I'm not this?
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What if this is just my upbringing? But I'm telling you it can be like that.
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So if you are dissatisfied, let's talk about it. Because for a long period in my life, I was sitting on a big tank on a big cruise ship. Let's say it like that. Not realizing that I was the
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captain. So I made a company. We turned over 5 million a month, then 10 million a month. We were doing way better than most, but I was sick of it. And I spent every day complaining about my partner in that
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business, about how I did not like things. And you're doing the same thing with your life. You're sitting in this big ship and you are not changing the direction of the ship because you do not realize you're the captain. You are sitting on
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the deck and then just when you are about to put on your sunglasses, you see your own reflection in those sunglasses and you notice you're wearing the captain's hat and you're like, "Wait, do I get to decide the direction of this
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ship?" That is you right now at this moment in your life. You need to make a decision now.
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You can't just, you can't just keep still, sit on the deck. Just let this boat take you in the same direction as it has been doing up until now. If you're satisfied with that, no problem.
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Some people will also take the captain's hat for a few years and then realize, "I will give this captain's hat to God. Maybe I don't, I don't want to steer my life." That's also totally okay.
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But for most people, they would like to put on this hat just for long enough to change the direction of that ship into their desired reality.
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And that's totally possible. And it becomes more and more evident also in the scientific community now that if you focus on a reality long enough, that reality will materialize into your reality. And that started off with scientists
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realizing that an electron is in what you call a superposition. That the place in which you observe it is the place in which the electron is. And that we— we're not going to talk about this in this video. I, I, in most videos, do
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not mention this. I do not talk about the quantum physics of how to create your reality. And the reason why I don't is because I don't think you need it.
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I don't think it's practical to pin yourself to new knowledge because most of the time knowledge will become your prison. Knowledge can also in some cases become the removal of those prison bars. But for some people,
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it's just another thing to put on a to-do list, just another mask, just another belief system.
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Yeah. So, you, you, you have to realize that right now you can take charge of this ship. And I did. And I found a light, a light I want to carry. I want to carry this light and show it to all people if possible.
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That's what I'm trying to do here on my YouTube channel. Luckily, there's a lot of people carrying a light that they would like to share with the world.
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So, you are not your past identity. And we can start off by realizing this in this video if we just close our eyes.
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Do it with me. I know you will, you will want to just watch me close my eyes.
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Close your eyes with me and go through memories in your head. I always say go through birthdays, but not for all people they are good days, but for some people they are good days. Go through memories, good or bad,
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and realize that every image you see, there's the image and then there's you seeing it.
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And in that also in that sentence, realize how I told you that it's you seeing it. You are not the image.
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And you can make the same distinction with your thoughts and with your feelings. You are not that thought arising.
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And if we just sit still, we don't have to do it now, and just tell yourself, I will observe my next thought.
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It will come to you sooner or later. And now you can say, I'm not that thought. I am the thing observing it. Right? That's very basic. But for some of you it's a realization of great matter because then you realize, so what
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am I? Is what are you? And that's dependent on your religion and the way of life you're living, that what you choose to believe about yourself.
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Are you just a human? Are you a reincarnation? Are you children of God? Are you an extension of source?
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Are you consciousness? Are you awareness? Doesn't matter to me what you believe. As long as you realize that you are the observer inside you.
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You are actually a level deeper than that. But just for now, what is practical for you to know is that you are this observer more than you are the thing observing or the thing you are observing.
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That is mentioned in a lot of scriptures, the Bible, the Quran, Bhagavad Gita, all kinds of texts that mention the "I am." Maybe you've heard it before, like you are just the consciousness and that consciousness is focusing on
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something. Your awareness inside your head has been focusing on something your entire life. The reason why you're calling yourself Peter or whatever is because you have just been watching yourself as Peter for such a long time that that is who you believe yourself to
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be. If your parents did not give you a name and you started in kindergarten or whatever and the friends asked you, "So what's your name?" and you're like, "What? What is a name? Just something you call yourself." You would be like,
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"Okay then, I'm Blue Dragon McMuffin," or something, right? You just figure something out as a kid, right? You could just pick a name and you would do that because your friends told you to pick a name. And if you
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didn't, I think your friends would give you a name. And that's the funny thing about identity is that it's most of the time given.
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Obviously, you have characteristics, you have temperament, you have these specific nuances of your observer.
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But most of it is just add-ons. It's just add-ons. It's this armor that is really actually holding most people back.
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And I would like to give you some quotes on that. So let's start off with the Bible quotes. Do not c...
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As a man thinkketh in his heart, so is he. Proverbs 23:7 and the last one from the Bible. You are gods. You are all sons of the most high.
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And that's Psalms 82:6. And then I have some Quran quotes. Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.
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That's surah arat. And he gave you hearing and sight and heart that you might give thanks.
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And last one, we created man in the best of stature. This last one is actually very good because it explains that you're not broken. You are actually very powerful.
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You just forgot. So God created man in the best of stature. So did you forget? Did you forget that you are perfect? That you are limitless?
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that you can focus on whatever you would like to be and most likely you did. But you did not believe that you were not perfect when you were born. You had no limitations.
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And if your parents have given you any name, you would have accepted it. There's not a name you would not have accepted.
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Even though some people do not accept their name and change it later on in life, but most people they accept it.
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And that's also the same with trades. And for some of you, you are very lucky because your parents told you that you are unstoppable.
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That if you if you want to dance on the tables, do that. If you want to rule the world, do that.
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Right? But for most of us, that's not the case. Yeah. So now you have you are begin to realize, okay, I can control this ship.
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I can control. I can be the captain of my own ship. And now I can pick a reality.
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And that feels off to you. And that is part two of what I usually do with people I work with. So the part one that we just we did not finish it, but let's leave it for now. It's called
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a self-perception reset. We need to reset what you believe yourself to be because you believe yourself to be very limited. And now I just told you you are the thing behind the thing you think you are.
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You are a point of view observing and you think you are the thing you are observing but you are not. And you can recognize this by doing the exercise we talked about by closing your eyes realizing that the thought arising in
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you it might induce some emotions into you. It might feel very home but most of the time it's because you have thought that thought a lot of times. All right.
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So habits they are actions that you continually do. Beliefs are thoughts you continually think.
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It's simple but it's it's it's a good thing to keep in mind like okay so what do we do in part two? We we we need to choose a new reality.
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And I call it belief in coding. So if you were a computer, what beliefs would you put on a disk, insert it in what would you like to be a and and really act like a child in this process. So really isn't like don't
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have any limits. I'm I'm talking about the beliefs. They are internal. So I'm not talking about limiting yourself because when you do you will go back into this old reality and you will recognize this and that is also a
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biblical reference. You cannot serve man cannot serve two masters. Like if you want to move your awareness to a new place you cannot be both places. It it's simply not possible.
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And that is what most of you will start off by doing. So if you have a a lowpaying job for example right now and you would like a new one and you would like to shift your awareness your
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identity to the one of having a high income you will make that income based on your old income. Oh yeah I cannot go so high but now you're going back and thinking that that that old identity that you
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believe yourself to have is what should determine what you can have. That's not the case. As I told you, if the your parents have told you otherwise, then you would believe otherwise. If you if you grew up in a home where your car,
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your dad had a term called summer car, where every summer he had a new sports car, then you would find that very effing normal, right? You would just be like, and maybe you would be like have also some wrong priorities in life,
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right? Because then you would meet a you would meet a a boyfriend girlfriend and you would ask them so what should our summer car be and your partner would be like what do you mean summer car and you
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would be like doesn't people have summer cars you get the I know that's a funny idea but you could have way different beliefs than you have right now if you had different parents and that is opening you up to so
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beliefs they are just instilled in you and don't limit now you should not limit image yourself based on those beliefs, you should totally move to another place. And I used this analogy in a video yesterday where I told you it's
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like when you move and you see this new home and you can see that it's nice, it feels good. It does not feel like home, right? Not in the beginning.
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and and your friends, your family, your kids, if you just showed them this new home and you kept both homes and you went to this new house without any furniture, they would be like, "Shouldn't we just go back to the old
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home?" And that's also the same thing they're going to to do to your personality when you start telling them that you're perfect and very rich and very good-looking.
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But they will try to keep you stuck because it feels not normal. And I'm telling you, move.
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Be all in on your move. I hopefully this analogy makes sense that you wouldn't keep your old home.
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Yeah. What if we don't like the new home? No, just move. Take your furniture, take your kids, take your partner move.
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Spend time in the new house, right? Make it yours. Make some finish that you like. Buy some nice furniture, have some good experiences, pizza nights, movie nights.
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Enjoy it. That's what you should do with your new identity. Spend some time in it.
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Right? I'm going to read some quotes again for you. This is from a hadith. Actions are but by intention and every man shall have only that which he intended.
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And this is hadith kudzy. I am as my servant thinks I am. So your consciousness will never act in a way out of alignment with with with what you believe.
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If we take this God image, God Allah source consciousness awareness. If we just say it's different words for the same thing.
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It's the awareness that you have inside you. That's the met metaphysical way of looking at it. Then I am as my servant thinks I am. Makes very good sense that your consciousness will just look where you tell it to look. And if you stick
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around in your old home, consciousness will not go to the new home. Which means that new home will not be good until you live there. Which means that you will not be rich until you live there. Which means that you will not be
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happy until you live there. which means that you will not have love until you live there.
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And I could go on. We simply need to move our identity. We need to move our perception. We need to move our awareness, our consciousness to this new place that we would like to live. So we can spend some time there.
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So our brain can slowly get some new memories there. So our brain can slowly start to identify with that which in which we want to have in this world.
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Some more from the Bhagavagita which is for those of you who don't know one of the basic texts of Hinduism. Man is made by his belief as he believes so he is 173 and this is from 619. When
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meditation is mastered the mind is unwavering like the flame of a lamp in a windless place. And that's also very beautiful. So meditation als let's say meditation points to the place of your return to the observer.
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Right? Then the mind is unwavering because you no are no longer clinging to that old identity. You have now stepped back into power.
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You're just in this present moment. You can notice the sensations. You can notice that you are just observing. Now you are not this identity. You can matter as as a matter of fact not point to any characteristics of your observer. You do not know how
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old it is. You do not not know how it looks. You just know it's inside you observing.
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And that means being unwavering because you would not attend to let's say bad stuff being told to you if it it was not true in your mind.
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If someone came to me told you, I really hate your blue hair. It's so ugly. Would I attend to that bad saying? I would be like, what the hell are you talking about? Right? I don't have blue hair.
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But then if he told me, you look bad in those jeans and I had a problem with whatever the way I looked in jeans, right?
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He would be talking to a place in my awareness which my awareness has been previously focused and I my awareness would then be able to recognize that and judge it and put it on me, accept it as true and then feel bad.
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But if my awareness was in a different place, if my awareness was so centered on what I look amazing in jeans, I would not take that in.
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So realize that when some when someone throws you off, you are accepting that bad saying. I think it's a Buddhist quote where if a man hands you uh a likes let's let's reframe it a Christmas present with a big dog in it. If
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you do not accept it who does that gift belong to that the giver and that's the same with bad stuff. If you accept it it's because you believe in it just slightly. If it hurts you, it means that
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you just believe in it just slightly. And that's because your awareness has been centered there.
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Uh yeah. So anyways, that's off on a tangent, but that is what it means by having an unwavering mind that what do I accept to be true? Where would I like to focus my attention and my awareness?
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Yeah. So now we're beginning to see that the old Newtonian way of living like I will act on my external circumstances. I will I will receive a bill in the mail and I will feel very bad and poor because that
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is what I'm used to is not the right way to view life because then you will always be stuck.
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said in another way, you will always be in this boat sitting on the deck not realizing you are in control of this boat.
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So you give your power away to parents, friends, the people sending you bills, whatever.
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And now you have this choice of so I can pick to to focus my awareness in some place not dependent on the outside world. Yes, you can. And that seems for some of you very strange that you could get a bill and still feel
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rich. How am I not supposed to listen to the outside world? No, you're not. You have been doing that all your life. And how has that turned out?
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That that is not the way to live. You are used to doing it because your parents told you to listen very carefully, right? But you that is not the way you should live.
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It's it you can simply get to a point if you just work on it where you will get a you will get a bill in the mail and you will handle it with great delicacy in your mind telling yourself I will pay
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this but this has nothing to do with me my awareness I will keep it on I am very rich I feel rich and feel very good and then Have your life be the output instead because as within so without if you just
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keep focusing on a reality that is the reality that collapses the same as I told you when an electron is in a superp position where you observe it it is that's the same with your reality the reality inside that you
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observe based on your assumptions what do you assume to be true about the world and that is Now we could go on into Neville Godard if you don't know him very great books recommended highly he also comments on scripture
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if we just what we assume to be true about the world that will in turn over time with a delay not a big delay but with a delay be true then we can get to the realization so if
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I can have an internal world that will be my external world but if I keep looking for evidence in the external world that will settle in the internal world and then my external world will keep on being the
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same. Yes. Exactly. That is why the lube you're recognizing the the habits that you have with a partner or the habits you have with business or the habits you have with co-workers, they they are a reason for them. And it's because you
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keep on believing that it is the external world that should change your internal world.
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I will believe myself to be rich when I have money. All right, then. Then you will never have it.
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If you look at Kanye West, Kobe Bryant, Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg, I'm just mentioning people who were very clearly very sure about their success at at an early age. If you if you if you look at this, you you can you can recognize the
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ability to create almost an exact rep like reproduction of your internal mind over years. Like the things Kanye West could tell about his future almost to the exact point of how much money he was going to make be making, what he was
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going to be doing, the awards he was going to be ma having. Like it's insane.
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And when you start and go into the manifestations area, you know, yeah, that makes sense because it's the only reality he observed. So it could not happen in any other way. Those electrons, those molecules, those atoms in his world, they were collapsing into
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the only reality he focused on. So he took his awareness, focused on something. And in the next video I'm going to be making, we're not going to focus on in this one. I'm going to be telling you about. So what when you
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lose faith along the way, you stick to a an awareness level. I am rich and then the bill keep they keep coming in the mail.
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What then? And in that video we're going to be talking about well then you're mixing two stuff. You're going back to the old reality. You have kept the old house, right? Because you realize that the external world, the reason why it has
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not changed is because you have not stayed in the new home for long enough for it to feel like home, which tells me that you have kept your old home, but that's for another video.
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So, and then at the end, we will need to do two things. Part three of what I normally do, I call it frequency embodiment. How do we live that new identity? It feels not like home. How do we make it like home? And if I were to
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tell you, if I were an interior designer, which I in some very relevant sense I am for my clients, but not in the normal way, but an interior designer of the mind. Then how would you decorate that home?
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How do you what experience it would would you like to have? And that is what you should take up with yourself right now and actually write it down. What you what would you like to accomplish in life? No barriers. There are no limits
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to the internal mind. Where would you like to travel? What would make you feel really really good?
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And then stick to that. What would that person do, feel, be wearing? And be very mindful of that old home. that old home will visit you especially in the beginning very much so you'll recognize it. I would like to go
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to Greece. And then a thought will arise from old you. The old home will call you back and say, hey, you cannot afford go to g afford going to Greece.
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And you can attach yourself to that thought and another thought and another thought that will increase your feeling of not feeling worthy or whatever. Or you can just simply say no to that thought. No, because I have decided my
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awareness should be in another place. So I recognize that you are old. You props for for fighting. I will not fight you. I'll I'll simply let you be and keep focusing my awareness on a new life.
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That is what you do when you have taken on this captain hat and realizing that you are in control of that ship and that ship is your internal world.
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your awareness, your life experience. So slowly we're backing away from external experience and saying so how can I live an awesome life and you will see this there are very rich people feeling awful and there are very poor
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people feeling very good and and I know which of these I would choose. Your life experience is about feeling very good. It's about feeling satisfied, feeling grateful, enjoying what you have, spending time with what you would like, having this experiences that you
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would like. And I I'm not here for comments about, "Yeah, but you need money to experience stuff." Then you're missing the point.
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You need to design a life that you would like. Any life, it's bound up to nothing.
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you can really lose that old You will need to design a life, write it down, feel it, and then visit it very often in the your internal mind. And if we asked Jod Spencer, he would tell you to do it mornings and evenings. Visit
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that new home. If we asked any Muslim, they would tell you to visit that new home five times a day. Five times in prayer. Believe you have it. Ask for that new life as if you have it. That is
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actually the secret to prayer. We're going to talk more about that. But prayer is going to that state where you have it.
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It's not asking for it as though you think you are powerless or as though you think God is powerless. He cannot give it to you. That will be blasphemy either to the God you believe in or to yourself. You will ask knowing that you
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can have this. And more importantly, you will ask knowing that you have it. If you ask Neville Godard, the the founder of several books, all the books of a modern master, I can recommend this, the Neville collection.
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If you ask him, he would tell you to go to sleep at night in the wish fulfilled.
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Which means when you fall asleep, visit that internal state of having everything you desire.
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That is spending time in your new home. Before you go to sleep, five times a day, two times a day, whatever you decide, spend time in that new home.
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And then anytime someone tells you or your own mind, your old awareness level tells you that you don't live there, remind it that you do.
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Realize your power. Tell it off without wavering, without doubt. Tell it off. Yeah, tell it off.
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And this will be hard in the beginning for some people. And but please don't listen to me when I tell it. It's going to be hard because then you will believe it to be hard. You will create your own
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circumstances. Whatever you focus on will be true to you. And I know what is true to you and my clients and what you tell me in the comments because you always are very good at telling your old story. It's
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very hard for me. I know that story. I lived that story for 10 years, 20 years maybe.
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And and and I realized that I stopped one day telling that story and then I shifted my story and then that story was just true because I shifted that story.
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And then obviously the first few weeks, first few months, I got back in that old story a few times.
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And then luckily you can just tell yourself, nope, I'm not that. I know what I am. I recognize my divine power.
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I recognize that I'm an extension of consciousness, an extension of God. I recognize that I was created in a perfect state. I recognize that there's nobody doing me better than me.
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I recognize that I can shift my eternal awareness to everything that I would like and thereby over time I also recognize that I can create any external reality that I would like.
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So after watching this video please tell me in the comments what is the new reality that you are inhabiting.
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You are helping yourself by commenting underneath give me a story of new you. I would not like to hear that old story that you are clinging on to. Be disloyal to that old story. Tell me that new story. Who are you?
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What do you have? Where are you going? How do you feel? And I would like you to do it even though it does not feel true in the beginning. It does not matter to me what you have.
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It could be that you are used to feeling very anxious. Tell me a new story.
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Nope, I'm not anxious. I was taught to be an anxious, but I do not choose that anymore. I never feel anxious. I feel very good actually. People cannot hurt me because I recognize my divine power.
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I am actually perfect and people like my company and so on. Tell me a story about yourself. I would really like you to do this. I encourage you to do it and I I will I will see that story and I will believe it in my
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heart. Claim that story, that new story of yours. Take that captain hat on your head or just look in the mirror and realize you have it on already and go on create a life you are proud of where you help yourself and by doing
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that you can get to help other people. You get to be that kind, loving man, woman that you are.
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And then you can help other people also pick up their captain's hat and create a good life for themselves.
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So, so it's being very selfish about yourself is not being selfish. Realize that being selfish is the most humane thing you can do. Realize how many people will be inspired by you. your wife or husband, your parents, your
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kids, they will all see this and think, "Wow, I'm doing that as well." And I'm telling you this because some of you will think that's selfish. I cannot think that highly of me. Yes, you can.
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Why would you tell yourself lies? Not anymore. One final thing. If you would like to work with me, link is in the description, but you do not need me.
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Bye.
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