Affirmations HURT you, if it’s “OLD YOU” doing them. — Transcript

So, everything you've been told about affirmations is a lie. And I'm here to tell you why. My name is Chris, and I coach professionals in becoming even more professional. Board members, CEOs, athletes, actors, traders. I help them level up. And we use affirmations sometimes, but not in the way that you use them. And we have used them to do all sorts of crazy stuff. If you would like to work with me, the link is in the description. But let's just go on with this video. Number one, I will teach you why you are affirming from your old identity, the main problem. Number two, I will have you realize who you truly are so you can start believing in your affirmations before you say them. And number three, I will tell you specific affirmation strategies because I know you are looking for those that you can implement instead of just saying, "I'm beautiful," in the mirror. So, let's get going. Okay. So the thing that is happening to you right now, you can be a professional, you can be at the bottom of your life. It doesn't really matter for this video. What matters is that saying, "I am rich," in the mirror makes no sense if you do not believe in it. Yeah, but I'm saying it so I can start believing it. No, you're not. You are reminding yourself of something that you believe about yourself. So if you're not really there yet, why are you not there yet? And that is what is really going on inside your brain. Neville is calling this the uncontrolled imagination. You affirm all the time. I don't really like to say that that is affirmation. I like to divide the two. So the words you say are affirmation because people know it to be affirmations. But for this video, let's just call it all affirmation. So if you say in the morning, "I'm rich," and please extrapolate this to whatever you want in your world. And then the next thought you get five minutes later is, "Should I say it one more time? Did I say it clearly enough? I have no money in my bank account. I have a bill to pay. And yeah, but I also owe this guy money. What should I do?" Like, you can see how your energy is divided. And that 1% you spend on an affirmation or half a percent is nothing compared to the huge amount of energy you're spending in that reality where you have no money. Right? And that is really what is going on. So your perception should change about your world, not the sentence. It doesn't really matter that you say you are rich if you do not believe it for the rest of the day. So we should stop being part-time manifestors and being full-time manifestors instead. Okay? And what we need to do is build a solid house of faith. I call this the house of faith where we build, we take four walls, eight walls, doesn't really matter, build a home, a mental home for you where you have a strong foundation where you know exactly who you are and you can choose whatever you would like, but you have to believe it. And then we go on to step number two because I don't really think there's any point in talking more about step number one. Just realize that if you have a perception in a certain direction, a problem that you would like to solve, that perception is affirming that reality. So when you tell me, "I'm struggling with this," realize that that affirmation you just told me is going to be true. So, it all starts with realizing my perception needs to change. I simply need to change what I'm looking at, and I need to change what I think about what I'm looking at. Before doing tricks, affirmations, visualizations, realize that if you were the person you would like to be, you wouldn't have that perception to change that perception because it's yours to change. Like the number in your bank account, you can change, but that is not where what we're focused on. We're focused on changing your perception about that number. How do you react to that number? Do you know yourself to be rich, or do you know yourself to just have that number? Like, it's the same if you want to manifest a health issue. Do you recognize the pain is yours, or do you recognize yourself to be healthy beforehand? So if you are a professional trader and you would like to become a billionaire like one of my clients, realize that your perception needs to stay over here, that you are it already, and then everything else will be fixed automatically. And if you can realize that every step along the way, every struggle is also old perception, that is also old you. This is your true perception, and you can just pick it. And what I help my clients with is stay in that. And it is the same with professional athletes. We are not attending to the thoughts that do not align with us having a spot on that team that we want to be on. Right? That is our perception. We are what people not in this industry would call totally delusional about who we are. But we are delusional until we're not. And I don't really like that word because it is saying that it's not true. And what I know to be true is the absolute truth. And the absolute truth is the thing that does not change. And the thing that does not change is who you are inside. And that was what we, that is what we're going to talk about here in point number two. So how do we realize who we truly are so we can start believing in our affirmations? Well, with your mind, we have an absolute truth. Like, if I, I don't know if you know Mariana Trench, but the deepest point of the earth, like in the sea, I think it's near Japan, 8 kilometers deep or whatever, that is the deepest point on earth. Maybe not anymore, but for this video, let's just say this. Before scientists realized that specific area was the deepest point in the world, before that, what was then the deepest point in the world? Well, still the same, that we did not know it does not mean that it was not the deepest point. So everyone telling you, "Well, this is the deepest point on earth," they were actually lying. You just didn't know. So maybe that was subjectively the truth but not absolute truth. The absolute truth is what is really the truth always, even though you don't know it. And that's the same with your mind that even though you think yourself to be something, it does not mean it's true. And I know your absolute truth, and your absolute truth is a point of flexibility. It is a point of fluidity, and if you just close your eyes, you can do it in this video or in the next video and get back to your awareness. So, what I usually do with you and my clients is that we go through pictures in our head, birthdays or whatever, and then realize that you are observing all these images. So, you are both the person in these images, but you're also like the eyes behind it, right? You can also just say a word in your head and realize you're both saying it and listening to it. So you have like these two identities, and the one seeing it, the observer, is more correctly you than the one that you're looking at. And then when life goes on, you are given anxiety, doubt, whatever, stress from your parents. And because you are a child, you look at them and see, "Okay, so that's how I should react when I interact with other people. That is how I should react when I interact with money," or whatever. And then you tell yourself, "Well, I should do like my parents do, obviously." So you are programmed in a good way. But if your parents are doing a thing that is not beneficial for you, then you are learning something unproductive, right? Let's say you have a parent that always is stressed about money. You will learn that feeling. So you will download a feeling from your parent that is not yours. All right? That is you put that on as an identity later on in life. Yeah. But I always stress about my money like my mom did or like my dad did. I'm also like introvert. I've always been like that. Even though that is not true. You might be associated with an identity because your eyes, your brain, your feelings have looked a...

sometimes, but not in the way that you use them. And we have used them to do all sorts of crazy stuff. If you would like to work with me, link is in description. But let's just go on with

this video. Number one, I will teach you why you are affirming from your old identity, the main problem. Number two, I will have you realize who you truly are so you can start believing in your affirmations before you say them. And

number three, I will tell you specific affirmation strategies because I know you are looking for those that you can implement in instead of just saying I'm beautiful in the mirror. So, let's get going. Okay. So the thing that is

happening to you right now, you can be a professional, you can be at the bottom of your life. It doesn't really matter for this video. What matters is that saying I am rich in the mirror makes no sense if you do not believe in it.

Yeah, but I'm saying it so I can start believing it. No, you're not. You are reminding yourself of something that you believe about yourself. So if you're not really there yet, why are you not there yet? And that is what is really going on

inside your brain. Neville is calling this the uncontrolled imagination. You affirm all the time. I don't really like to say that that is affirmation. I I like to divide the two. So the words you say is affirmation because people know

it to be affirmations. But for this video, let's just call it all affirmation. So if you say in the morning, I'm rich.

And please extrapolate this to whatever you want in your world. And then the next thought you get 5 minutes later is should I say it one more time? Did I say it clearly enough? I have no money in my

bank account. I have a bill to pay. And yeah, but I also owe this guy money.

What should I do? Like you can see how your energy is divided. And that that 1% you spend on an an affirmation or half a percent is nothing compared to the huge amount of energy you're spending in that

reality where you have no money. Right? And that is really what is going on. So your perception should change about your world, not the sentence. It doesn't really matter that you say you are rich if you do not believe it for

the rest of the day. So we should stop being part-time manifesttor and and part-time manifestors and being full-time manifesttors instead. Okay?

And what we need to do is is build a solid house of faith. I call this the house of faith where we build we take four walls, eight walls, doesn't really matter. build a home, a mental home for

you where you have a strong foundation where you know exactly who you you are and you can choose whatever you would like but you have to believe it and that is then we go on to step number two because I don't really I don't think

there's any point in talking more about step number one just realize that if you have a perception in a certain direction a problem that you would like to solve that perception is affirming that reality so when you tell me I'm

struggling with this realize ize that that affirmation you just told me is going to be true. So, it all starts with realizing my perception needs to change.

I simply need to change what I'm looking at and I need to change what do I think about what I'm looking at.

Before doing tricks, affirmations, visualizations, realize that if you were the person you would like to be, you wouldn't have that perception to change that perception because it's yours to change. like the number in your bank account is you can

change but that is not where what we're focused on. We're focused on changing your perception about that number. How do you react to that number? Do you know yourself to be rich or do you know yourself to just have that number? Like

it's the same if you want to manifest a health issue. Do you recognize the pain is yours or do you recognize yourself to be healthy beforehand?

So if you are a professional trader and you would like to become a billionaire like one of my clients, realize that your perception needs to stay over here that you are it already and then everything else will be fixed

automatically. And if you can realize that every step along the way, every struggle is also old perception that is also old you. This is your true perception and you can just pick it. And what I help my clients with is stay in

that. And it it is the same with professional athletes. We are not attending to the thoughts that does not align with us having a spot on that team that we want to be on.

Right? That is our perception. We are what people not in this industry would call totally delusional about who we are. But we are delusional until we're not. And I don't really like that word because it it it is saying that

it's not true. And what I know to be true is the absolute truth. And the absolute truth is the thing that does not change. And the thing that does not change is who you are inside. And that was what we that is what we're going to

talk about here in point number two. So how do we realize who we truly are? So we can start believing in in our affirmations. Well, with your mind, we have an absolute truth.

Like if I I don't know if you know Mariana Trench, but the deepest point of the earth like in the sea, I think it's near Japan, 8 kilometers deep or whatever, that is the deepest point on earth. Maybe not anymore, but for this

video, let's just say this. Before scientists realized that specific area was the deepest point in the world, before that what was then the deepest point in the world. Well, still the same that we did not know it does not mean

that it it was not the deepest point. So everything everyone telling you, well this is the deepest point on earth, they were actually lying. You did you just didn't know. So maybe that was subjectively the truth but not absolute

truth. The absolute truth is what is really the truth always even though you don't know it. And that's the same with your mind that even though you think yourself to be something it does not mean it's true and I know your absolute truth and your

absolute truth is a point of flexibility. It is a point of fluidity and if you just close your eyes, you can do it in this video or in the next video and get back to your awareness. So, so what

I usually do with you and my clients is that we go through pictures in our head, birthdays or whatever and then realize that you are observing all these images.

So, you are both the person in these images, but you're also like the eyes behind it, right?

You can also just say a word in your head and realize you're both saying it and listening to it. So you have like these two identities and the one seeing it, the observer is more correctly you than the one that

you're looking at. And then when life goes on, you are given anxiety, doubt, whatever, stress from your parents. And because you are a child, you look at them and see, okay, so that's how I should react when I

interact with other people. That is how I should react when I interact with money or whatever. And then you tell yourself, well, I should do like my parents do obviously. So you are programmed in a good way. But if your

parents are doing a thing that is not beneficial for you, then you are learning something unproductive, right? Let's say you have a parent that always is stressed about money. You will learn that feeling. So you will download a feeling from your parent that is not

yours. All right? That is you put that on as an identity later on in life. Yeah. But I I always stress about my money like my mom did or like my dad did. I always I'm also like introvert. I've always been

like that. Even though that is not true. You might be associated with an identity because your eyes, your brain, your feelings have looked at that has rested that awareness for such a long time in that perspective that you believe it to

be true. Does not mean that that it's you. You could change that. And if you could change that, then that was never you. Something that can change was never truly you. It was simply just you for a moment. And that is not what I I think

we should call identity, right? So we we keep on rewinding. Then who are you? Well, who you are is just that awareness that awareness is resting on something and then you slowly start to identify with this. So your parents, they call

you Jake and then you slowly identify with the name Jake and then yes, I'm Jake. But in reality, if they called you Joe, you would be Joe, right? It is it is simply that. So it's not you the

name, it's your parents' name. more correctly actually they picked it right they chose it now it's time to choose for yourself find that awareness inside you close your eyes and look at something in your head that you would

like that is the first time maybe in your life that you are actively picking your identity not what you have been told not what you believe yourself to be just what would you like no boundaries what would I like

and then realize that is as true as anything you believe about yourself Well, I can't see it. Well, who told you that? Who what is true is what you can see, right? You can see like I think it's

below 1% of visible light. You can hear uh below 1% of like all the wavelengths of audio. So, you don't you don't really know reality that well, right? So, what you can see is not true. It's just your

eyes focused on something and you tell yourself it's truth. It's not. What is mostly true about you is what you believe about yourself. We won't in this video go into how does that actually affect your reality. But trust me, what

you focus on with your awareness is what your awareness in turns is going to be.

So if you rest your awareness on being rich, everything else in the universe will collapse in your favor until you get rich.

That is manifestation. Good. So now we know that you can be whatever you would like to be if you rest your awareness on it for just a moment and then keep on resting your awareness on that point. And then

anytime something tells you you are not, realize that that is old awareness. That is a other place a different place of awareness that is trying to get you back to that place of awareness because these places of awareness they take up space

like entities on their own in your mind. Okay? So you can have a voice saying yeah but I'm struggling to believe that or I don't see it or I don't know.

Right? All these are other identities. They are entities trying to trick you. You can still close your eyes and look at something very specific, a thought, an emotion, something like that.

And this is where it really becomes important. So affirmations, they are here to streamline that consciousness process. So let's say you would like to manifest something, a race or a new partner or whatever, right? Then you would affirm in that

direction. Okay. So, we would also need to change our consciousness and awareness in that direction.

So, let's say it's a specific partner. You would affirm that and you would affirm that they love you and that you are worthy of love and actually everybody loves you. All right?

Then your awareness will tell you but I don't have that person. Well, that is perception. That is awareness. remove that awareness level, take it back, say, "Yeah, but I don't recognize that awareness level. That is not what I would like to view." Right?

And you can do that even though it does not feel like you can do it. It is simply if you are walking around in the zoo and you looking at elephants, this is me saying, "Close your eyes and see a polar

bear in your mind." Instead, you would not say, "Yeah, but I can see a polar bear inside because I just saw an elephant." Yes, you can. You can just close your eyes and see a polar bear.

And actually, a lot of you can also see a polar bear. Not instead of the elephant, but just with your eyes open to tell yourself, "Yeah, but I can see a polar bear right now in my head." Know that to be true.

That is your absolute truth. What you know about yourself is what you know about yourself inside. All right? So then this person does not contact you.

Well, that is not aligned with your awareness level. So say something else in your awareness.

This person reaches out. Well, obviously they did because what you know to be true about yourself is that they love you. So you would affirm that. Again, realize that now you are aligned perfectly with your affirmation. There's no wavering from it. You are not being

moved. You're not like reacting to it. You are simply staying on track with that affirmation and and living in that timeline only allowing stuff that aligns with that affirmation inside your home, your new house of faith, your mental

home. And that is really what affirmation should be. Affirmation should be who is it that I am like in the morning what should I what color t-shirt should I wear today so it's actually a place of power I get to

choose and it does not matter if you say every the same thing every day but it should be with the backbone knowledge of I have the power to choose who I am not I'm saying it because I want to be

something different so it's a it's a subtle nuance, but it's a very important nuance. Hopefully, you get it. So, we we then say it four, six, 10 things in the morning. You don't have to say it.

You just have to feel it. But let's say you say it every morning. Most people like to have a routine. You say these things and then you realize this is my track for the day. Like if you are going

somewhere, you know, you are setting the GPS to a specific route. You're doing the same thing in the morning. You are setting the coordinates for the day.

This is me throughout the day. And every time you do not align with that perception, realize I I drove a a wrong direction. And that wrong direction might tell you you're on the right track.

So that is that wrong direction will trick you because you have you have you have been on that road for so many years that you will see it as normal. Yeah, but I know this road. I I will take this

road. No, you won't and it won't be true and it won't get you where you want to go. You will stay on track.

Good. Then number three, which affirmations to use? So, I have written some down and I don't really know that you should use specific affirmations. But these are just for fun because just saying you're beautiful, it really does not impact

your subconscious. It really does not do anything good. So, even though I don't use affirmations, let me give you some examples of what my clients do.

Number one, I love that I have always known that. And what that does is it rewrites the entire history of what you have been affirming in one affirmation.

So it it is not yeah I I used to believe that I'm ugly but now I believe myself to be beautiful. No.

Rewrite that old scheme. That was a lie. I have always known myself to be beautiful.

Period. So it it it creates that closeness, that really close proximity to that true you, the thing you would have observed all your life with awareness had your parents told you the same that you would like to tell yourself right now.

So subconscious will accept this faster because it does not really sounds like something new. It just sounds like an old definition actually. All right, good.

So, like number two, isn't it crazy how and and that should be said with this kind of wonder like I find it funny that this is how my life just like it's it's supposed to make your affirmation feel more easy on the

system. Like it when you ask questions to your subconscious, it's really you can feel it if you try it today. Like if you say, "Isn't it crazy how I always make more money without effort for example?" Then it really lands in a different way than

I'm rich for most people. And so and it's also like triggering your system to like be aware of stuff happening in your life that would affirm that as well. So it's actually triggering that center in your brain that is on the lookout.

Right? So that's number two. Third, I used to say that a lot. Of course, I all I still use this when when being confirmed by the outside world that my inner world is reflecting something specific. So if I were to believe myself

to be rich, right? And I would see a proof. I would not be yay, I got some money, right? I would be of course that would land that amount of money perfectly in your identity. So it you're not surprised. You are you are the same

as that money. You are totally align. Of course, of course I got a winning lottery ticket. Of course I got a raise.

Oh, okay. So of course I'm the kind of person that attracts love or of course of course I make money every day. Right?

It's simply a non-negotiable to your system. Let's take number four. So number four is funny because it does not have to be true, but it is more powerful in the beginning if you know it to be true. But number four, they always

told me that, right? So if you can find someone in your life that told you a specific thing, you can use that in the beginning. They always told me that I'm beautiful.

I guess they were right. Right. it. But it it does not matter if they told you.

It it it does not matter. But I think in the beginning, find something where where they may they maybe have told you that just a specific person, a friend or a parent or a teacher or whatever it is.

All right? Like if you had like a specific activity football whatever and the coach told you you are very good at this then use that they always told he always told me I'm talented guess he was right right you

can use that example but you can also just pick something that was never told you but you can just start selling yourself good so and then you can use this fifth one and it is going from old identity to new identity.

So that that is a more of a transitioning affirmation if it does not land true in your system and it is I used to think that but now I okay so I used to think that I had to

chase success but now I know it has always been chasing me right and that triggers like that contrast that you need for some of you where it lands true because old identity Yes, that was me. New identity. Yes, that is

me. And I've also used that with some people where they have like a traumatic background that if you can take that trauma that you used to believe hindered you and take that and see it as your superpower, then you can use this

affirmation. So let's say you had a parent that was narcissistic or something like that and you realize later on in life that parent really made me know people. It made me more loving towards other people. It made me realize how I should

treat other people, how they should treat their kids, whatever. Right? Then use that. I used to think I was being held back by trauma. Now I know it is what has given me every dream in my life.

Okay. And then finally, combine them. And I have just written, "Isn't it crazy how I used to think I had to struggle for money, but now I know I've always been magnetic to it." Right? You can like combine different ways of saying stuff

that will just shock trigger system. So, just to clarify, this video is almost at its end, but it's not over yet because what you need to do, and most people won't do this, is you need to stay at the level number one, which I

told you for longer than you think. My clients, they go through a process. Self-perception reset, realizing who you are, belief encoding, what do we now would what would we like to be true about ourselves right now? And then

thirdly, frequency embodiment. How do we stay in that forever? But everyone wants to go to number two and number three. Most people won't like to stay in number one, but that is actually the basic of it all. Realizing

who you are, how powerful you are, like you are an extension of God. You have consciousness inside you. Every religious text, every mindset book published these days will talk about this. How you can change your reality by focusing your awareness

or your consciousness on something specific. So practice this with daily meditations where you don't do anything. It it it don't it you should not find like a specific meditation on YouTube. Just close your eyes, sit in stillness, notice your breath,

just keep on observing that blackness. So you realize my awareness does not need to be anything. My awareness does not have a name, does not have an age, does not have a hair color. I I I know that I believe myself to be a lot of

stuff, but deep down I'm not I'm not this. Even the thing I look in the mirror and see I'm not that. Awareness is resting on that. Consciousness is seeing that. But I am consciousness. I am awareness. And if you can go back to

that point, you can also realize what I will I get to decide. I have the great luxury of just deciding a new reality to focus on and just keep focusing on that.

And I you hear me say this in almost every video. Just do like Kanye West did with his life. Keep on saying I'm the greatest rapper alive and just stick to that lane.

I'm not telling you all of you to become the greatest rapper. I'm telling you guys to find something you would like to be true about yourself, something you really hold dear that you would really like to accomplish.

Stick in that lane. And every thought that is an affirmation of a different reality, remove it. Stick to that.

Stick within your lane. Drive slowly. Be focused. Meditate daily. And then don't shame yourself.

Don't blame yourself. Don't tell yourself you're struggling because that is also an affirmation in a different direction.

So if you realize you have forgot to meditate yesterday, well, you don't need meditation. Just tell yourself, I am that person without meditating.

Right? So old Jew will try to trick you in all kinds of ways. Don't let it.

Okay, perfect. Get out of here.