국제커플 🇬🇧 Q&A, 롱디만 3년째! 애교주의 꽁냥주의 ( 직업? 더치? 영어? 첫인상? ) — Transcript

A British-Korean couple shares their 3-year long-distance relationship journey, cultural differences, jobs, and future plans in a candid Q&A.

Key Takeaways

Long-distance relationships can work with consistent communication and mutual understanding.
Cultural differences require adaptation but can strengthen the relationship through learning.
Balancing work, study, and relationship demands careful planning and flexibility.
Shared experiences like travel and humor help deepen the bond between international couples.
Open communication and quick conflict resolution are key to maintaining a healthy relationship.

Summary

The couple discusses their long-distance relationship lasting over three years and how they maintain communication daily.
They share personal details such as their ages, jobs (British Army and marketing), and educational backgrounds.
They talk about their experiences living and traveling in Southeast Asia, including favorite and least favorite places.
The couple explains cultural differences, especially around communication habits like calling versus messaging.
They reflect on how they met, their first impressions, and how their personalities drew them together.
They discuss future plans including marriage and living together, but without a fixed location yet.
They talk about managing work schedules, leave, and balancing busy lives while maintaining their relationship.
The couple shares favorite foods from both cultures and jokes about each other's personalities and quirks.
They emphasize the importance of daily communication, apologies, and resolving conflicts quickly.
They mention financial arrangements during visits and how they support each other despite the distance.

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Speaker A

Imitating me. [Music] And you're, I fail. These are the questions we got from our previous video. First question, it's mostly because you're like, thank you, this is beautiful. No, don't, don't light out. You just pretty. Thank you. Love her sense of humor

Speaker A

because it matches my weird wara. Hi, it is now very squishy. Oh, when we think about getting married some point later and huh, our age. I'm 23 now. Tell them your Korean age, an anomaly. So he's 1996 and I'm 1994. It's a little

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bit older. [Music] English has always been pretty good. It's gotten better, them getting better negatively in Sturgeon learning the real English like hard to talk from and I was dating in Canada. Okay, what's our job response? Your job? I'm in the British

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Army at the moment. I'm between jobs, literally between them. I think I'd like to know what you usually do. I studied marketing and I'm still working money usually. Who apologize first when we what is this? They did a second bit but I'm like how

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many times we meet in three or four? Yeah, about three or four depends when I get leave about like even in three months, four months here was pretty many times because I was working in Ireland. Oh yeah. So our pet named mom again so

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we've got a lot I guess but um usually this is by no time. Oh, they think tongue is your name? Well, what's your name? Sebastian. Sebastian but people call me Sebastian so I called in time so am I

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thinking about YouTuber is my job? Why are you just staring? I think maybe a little but I think it's not up to me. Hmm, our contact site actually with 30 days for fun and so I'm not thinking about this

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seriously at the moment. And why are we meeting in Southeast Asia? I think you need to tell your okay so I lived in Southeast Asia for about eight years. Most of my family's in Southeast Asia still, still yeah in Malaysia

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sometimes in Singapore, in the Philippines. I just really like Southeast Asia. I think it's lovely, it's cheap, it's easy to get around, people are lovely, food's amazing, lots of things to see, lots things to do and beaches. One has not

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been Southeast Asia much but basically at all. I wanted me to show them around some places really. It's just good solid a really and even though it's far for me it's close for her it's far from me but

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still pretty cheap. How come we've been in long-distance relationship it's such a long time? Because we're awesome. We know we're gonna meet at some point like always like when it's over three months I get little crazy but up to up to 90 days I'm pretty fine

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these days right. Okay, I mean we talk every day and we call every day like sometimes many times in a day sometimes very long time and that keeps us going. Um so are we planning to live together? Yes at some point when we can make it

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work. And where it be? We're not really deciding where we got onstage. It depends on a lot of things really self no it's not about it about the time a time now because his soldier. Yeah so basically kind of get like a lot more leave then

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you would at a normal job mostly trouble is I don't have a lot of control over when how like this one for instance was pretty much bad like three days to find this pretty much very last minute so I

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can usually get you know three weeks or so. I was still an undergraduate student like the last semester so I want to see him during the semester but like that was only one semester so I after I graduated I just it was kind of like

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when he had to work I was working as well as an intern it was like this going on I was working hard as well. Very important where we've been together so far places we've been so obviously England in Korea. Yeah thank

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you. Yeah obviously um Thailand Vietnam Malaysia Singapore frog we're what the best and where was the worst? So we can say the worst first obviously Vietnam it's not been great. Well I mean I've had a wonderful time thank you

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[Music] my favorite was so it is what because of cheeky. Yeah so my best place was table against. Yeah I I wanted to well we went to Thailand to sort of you know my family's Christmas because they were

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going there for Christmas they were going to Bangkok but we had like a week over a week a week and a half before they got there so I took her to Chiang Mai because I I had really enjoyed Gemma

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I had been there before for a training camp fighting and I thought it was a lovely place so I really wanted to show her there are and next ah who's that I love you first and what I think compared

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it no I think you know I think it's you we don't really remember now because it's been like years ago I'm pretty sure you know I'm pretty good yes you go away okay I think we 32 say I love you to

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each other pretty quickly than other companies right? Yeah to make me make you feel real I think do believe in each other to get that community no it's usually like one thing each time my house like a little fight

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over it and then it's usually done that day we've never find like so long it's never never like an hour like Catholic culture difference but we worked out in the end and now we're just used to each other

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now like nothing more than an hour. I mean usually we because when we have a problem we do we talk you know it's maybe a small cooling-off period of ten minutes or whatever and then we just talk can we just apologize and we just

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work it out. What how many times a week peas in a day how many does it? We've not even keep like yeah cuz I was looking at boy I guess technically not I mean essentially they were local to me

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but basically not let's see this my first time in a long distance relationship. Okay it's my first time dating me the British but not a serious relationship so okay this is my first time. Yeah our favorite food okay

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homemade my mom's homemade carbonara best being in the world especially real salad if I'm out ends my mood. Mmm katsu curry udon oh my favorite food is Korean. Many people have told us he looks a lot like Channing Tatum

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small small about my exchange student I it was in Korean age I was 23 and in international age I was 21 and about my Europe trip it was so fun it was later tragedy because I studied with meeting

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this guy I thought it's like my first time of traveling Europe and it should be mine I thought it would be my last time to go to the Europe but actually even after that I've been to Europe like

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many times. My weaker dad will be very sad and we're very sad calls while we can't meet each other we came ourselves were busy working studying I need to do everything I need to do because I should be gone

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for a while we just say and I spend all of it but we don't really worry about the money too much like you'll get a hotel I'll get a hotel you'll pay for your flight I'll pay for my flight. Okay yeah I try to pay for

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things she doesn't mind me sometimes dude Viviani reason for each other's appearance right obviously yeah but the thing is because of the way we met we ended up talking a lot more more we got to know each other very well. Yeah yeah

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so you know we really fell for each other's personalities but I thought she was just a beautiful we had a culture difference maybe we can tell them the biggest cultural difference we felt it's calling like that she likes to call but now it's okay

Speaker A

right well you need to call me but for me like not even calling he messaged me. Oh after he when his work history sorted out even when he had had a dinner and after he washed up. Oh yeah yeah I like to get

Speaker A

everything done I don't because if I start talking you all get distracted and but the thing is if I message you you'll call me you'll call me straightaway I'll be like hey buying you a new black so I have to do everything first sonic

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finish my work. Oh get change the wash I'll make dinner and then I'll message they will relate to me because it's Korea and Korean people for Korean people is a really big thing. I wrap up with this Kirsten what's our pros and

Speaker A

cons you're gonna con me bro sad on me bro okay con 1-9 on dude she bullies me pon-3 she's violent what's my prom you're really sweet Pro - you're really kind pro3 you're like so pro mm-hmm Pro for

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you I

Topics:international couplelong-distance relationshipBritish ArmyKorean cultureSoutheast Asia travelcultural differencesrelationship Q&AEnglish Korean couplecommunication in relationshipscross-cultural dating

Frequently Asked Questions

How do they maintain their long-distance relationship?

They maintain their relationship by talking and calling every day, sometimes multiple times a day, which helps keep their connection strong despite the distance.

What are some cultural differences they experienced?

One major cultural difference is their communication style; the Korean partner prefers calling while the British partner often prefers messaging, but they have adapted to each other's habits.

What are their future plans as a couple?

They plan to live together and possibly get married in the future, but they have not decided on a specific location yet due to work and other factors.

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