The ADHD Doctor: How to Focus, Stop Procrastinating, Manage Your Emotions, & Feel in Control

Dr. Sasha Hamdani discusses adult ADHD signs, emotional regulation, focus, and practical tools to manage symptoms and improve life control.

Key Takeaways

ADHD involves regulation issues with attention, motivation, energy, and emotions, not just hyperactivity.
Emotional dysregulation and overwhelm are key symptoms often missed in adult ADHD diagnosis.
Misdiagnosis with anxiety or depression is common due to symptom overlap and lack of awareness.
Effective management requires understanding ADHD as a unique brain wiring, not a defect.
There are multiple treatment options and tools beyond medication to help manage ADHD symptoms.

What the video covers

Dr. Sasha Hamdani explains ADHD as a neurodevelopmental regulation disorder affecting attention, motivation, energy, and emotions.
The episode highlights common overlooked signs of adult ADHD beyond hyperactivity, including emotional dysregulation and overwhelm.
Mel Robbins shares personal impacts of ADHD on her family and the importance of understanding the condition deeply.
ADHD is often misdiagnosed as anxiety or depression due to overlapping symptoms and societal misconceptions.
Emotional regulation difficulties are a core but under-recognized aspect of ADHD.
The podcast discusses the stigma and misunderstandings around ADHD diagnosis and treatment.
Dr. Hamdani emphasizes that ADHD is not a broken brain but a different wiring requiring tailored approaches.
Practical advice is given on symptom tracking, diagnosis pathways, and treatment options beyond medication.
The episode advocates for a broader societal understanding and redefinition of ADHD.
It concludes with encouragement that it is never too late to understand and manage ADHD effectively.

Chapters

What are some signs of adult ADHD that people often miss?

Adult ADHD signs often missed include emotional dysregulation, difficulty regulating motivation and energy, chronic overwhelm, and internal turmoil rather than just hyperactivity.

How is ADHD different from anxiety or depression?

While ADHD can co-occur with anxiety or depression, it is primarily a regulation disorder affecting attention, motivation, energy, and emotions, not just mood or anxiety symptoms.

Is ADHD a sign of a broken brain?

No, ADHD is not a broken brain but rather a different wiring of the brain that affects regulation of various functions, requiring tailored understanding and management.

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Today on the Mel Robbins podcast, world-renowned ADHD doctor and psychiatrist Dr. Sasha Hamdani is here with the six signs you may have missed your whole life. How to focus, stop procrastinating, and finally feel in control. This is the ultimate guide to adult ADHD. Please help me welcome Dr. Hamdani to the Mel Robbins podcast. Thank you for having me.

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guide to adult ADHD. [music] Please help me welcome Dr. Hamdani to the Mel Robbins podcast. Thank you for having me.

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I am beyond excited that you're here. I have been wanting to do a comprehensive, eye-opening, and helpful episode about the topic of ADHD with a medical doctor for over two years. This is a topic that impacts me at a deeply personal level.

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It impacts my children. It impacts my husband because he has to live with me.

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It impacts my children. It impacts my husband because he has to live with me.

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Mhm. And more importantly, what to do if this is something that sounds like you or someone that you love, what's going to change about my life? If you're dealing with this chronic overwhelm and it's been hard for you to place a name to

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Where I want to start is if we take everything to heart that you're about to teach us about what ADHD is, what it isn't.

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going to give you the language and the tools and the steps of where to go next so that you can actually start navigating this condition.

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Mhm. And more importantly, what to do if this is something that sounds like you or someone that you love, what's going to change about my life? If you're dealing with this chronic overwhelm and it's been hard for you to place a name to

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you immediately think about attention. Yeah. And you think about focus and maybe you think about like, you know, the little kid who can't sit still.

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what you've been experiencing and you've been beating yourself up for years, I think this is going to give you the clarity to see that number one, your brain isn't broken. This is just a different wiring. And number two, it's

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how much time you got, cuz I feel like that is the a huge overlooked part of ADHD. I think ADHD at its base, first of all, I hate the name ADHD. I think it's stupid.

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going to give you the language and the tools and the steps of where to go next so that you can actually start navigating this condition.

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Yes, attention is part of it. Difficulty regulating attention, but also difficulty regulating motivation, difficulty regulating energy, difficulty regulating emotion, that's a huge one.

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You said something that just struck me because I think when you talk about the topic of ADHD,

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It's okay. I am so overwhelmed and I have beaten myself up about this and now I feel paralyzed with this guilt and shame and this overlay of this emotional component. And I think unless we really really get on top of this and start

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Mhm.

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two days of taping last week because I found myself in this state where the word I was using is I am so overwhelmed right now and I feel so flooded with emotion. I don't even feel like myself.

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you immediately think about attention.

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Well actually the wild swing of emotion, Mel, is a core part of how ADHD can present because it's not just an issue of your ability to direct your attention.

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Yeah.

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And because if you truly are somebody that has this condition, you have always lived with wild swings.

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And you think about focus and maybe you think about like, you know, the little kid who can't sit still.

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we're having a completely different experience of life than somebody who goes through life without an ADHD brain and body.

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Yeah.

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so happy and elevated, right? People generally they they have a normal eb and flow that can happen situationally with ADHD. It can feel like ups and downs and ups and downs and it's usually coupled with anxiety and productivity issues and all of this

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But you said overwhelm.

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Like I can start cleaning the closet, but then all of a sudden I crash and I've got clothes off hangers everywhere and now I'm like, what did I do again?

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Yeah.

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emotional swings and I can feel extremely overwhelmed and I might get to a spot where I'm getting all of the stuff done like all of the stuff I've delegated or I've gotten rid of and it's off of my to-do list and I still feel

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And beating yourself up.

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you don't have anything to worry about. You're fine. This things are going well. You're okay. But still, you're having these big ups and downs that you're dealing with at the same time. And I think that's so vital to talk about

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Yeah.

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to better understand yourself. And my second bigger mission, okay, is that this sparks a change in the way that ADHD is defined because you can see that if society thinks ADHD is jitteriness and, you know, kind of the

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Could you speak a little bit to the emotional side of what we're going to talk about and what might change based on what you're about to teach us?

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So, of course, they're going to continue to go, "Well, only if you're jittery does it look like this." But anything in the realm of dealing with emotions must be something related to anxiety or depression. We're going to keep seeing

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How much time you got? 'Cause I feel like that is a huge overlooked part of ADHD. I think ADHD at its base, first of all, I hate the name ADHD. I think it's stupid.

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biggest flaw in this, right, is that when you just moving on from like the hyper young boys, part of the issue is they're looking at these highly observable behaviors like these are the kids that are disrupting classes and

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So, Dr. Hamdani, what is ADHD?

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later Mel those are the people that are getting diagnosed with anxiety and depression because by the way you're too old to have it now. That was me.

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Yeah. So ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition which stands for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. I think ADHD at its base is a regulation issue.

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Yes. With your thoughts, with your inability to stay on task, with your emotions. That's exactly how I felt all the time.

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Yes, attention is part of it. Difficulty regulating attention, but also difficulty regulating motivation, difficulty regulating energy, difficulty regulating emotion, that's a huge one.

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There was something missing and they have never put together those pieces and then their child gets evaluated and that's when the pieces kind of come together.

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Difficulty regulating sleep, difficulty regulating appetite. And anybody with ADHD has felt this. And if I'm speaking to you, these are things that you've probably experienced, too. Because it's not as simple as, well, I don't, you know, it's hard to stay on task today.

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Yeah. Kind of feels like an eye roll. Because people have thrown the word around so much and live in a world where everybody has fragmented their attention by being online.

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It's okay. I am so overwhelmed and I have beaten myself up about this and now I feel paralyzed with this guilt and shame and this overlay of this emotional component. And I think unless we really, really get on top of this and start

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Yes. We have all of this research around it. And so the term is kind of in popular culture and thrown around.

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looking at the emotional regulation part of ADHD, we're never going to fully encapsulate the full picture. I'm looking at our executive producer, Tracy, who I've worked with for 10 years, and I'm smiling at you, Tracy, because I cancelled

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It's not even that. They get those eye rolls from their doctors. M I have heard from another physician when I was talking about, you know, I I've been doing some advocacy work online talking about ADHD and he made he it was obviously a he

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two days of taping last week because I found myself in this state where the word I was using is I am so overwhelmed right now and I feel so flooded with emotion. I don't even feel like myself.

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what this feels like. It feels like that's just kind of the like medication is the easy way out and like everybody has it and it's easy to qualify. You talk to anybody who is trying to get a good ADHD diagnosis, there are so many

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I can't function right now. But I didn't think that was related to ADHD. It feels very affirming to hear that.

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extra time on a test so you can get him into a good school. Yeah.

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Well, actually the wild swing of emotion, Mel, is a core part of how ADHD can present because it's not just an issue of your ability to direct your attention.

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Yeah. Like, he's not a behavioral problem, you idiots. Like, this is a kid who's struggling.

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It's also your inability to process emotion in a way that is somewhat modulated. It goes in wild swings.

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really have ADHD or you know, did your parents just push for this so that you could get the extra time and accommodations that way? And it's really hurt people and hurt our ability, I think, to get heard and to be diagnosed.

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Mhm.

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And my answer to that is it's both, right? It's overdiagnosed in some populations and it's wildly underdiagnosed in some. Like there's some racial and socioeconomic populations where ADHD is so far down the list of what it could be. And it's

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And because if you truly are somebody that has this condition, you have always lived with wild swings.

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where like I know this one doctor and he's really loose with aderall. There's a wide range. And I think that truly I think that if we had better criteria that properly nail down what we're looking at more comprehensively

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I don't even know what it's like to regulate your emotions. Like what does that even mean in your world, Dr. Hamdani? What does regulate mean? Because if you do have ADHD or you love somebody who does,

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I agree with you. What exactly is happening in the ADHD brain? So, this is going to be extremely oversimplified, but I think it's important. The way that I describe it is there's a couple of things that you a couple of areas of the

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yeah, we're having a completely different experience of life than somebody who goes through life without an ADHD brain and body.

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Think of that as like the very smartest part of your brain. Decision making, judgment processing that's your frontal lobe.

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For sure. For sure. And I think when you drill down and actually look at what regulation is, right? Like for mood, right? If this is kind of normal baseline and this is down in the depths of depression and this is like

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dealing with a prefrontal cortex, smartest part of the brain. It's a little bit thinner and a little bit less responsive.

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so happy and elevated, right? People generally, they have a normal ebb and flow that can happen situationally. With ADHD, it can feel like ups and downs and ups and downs and it's usually coupled with anxiety and productivity issues and all of this

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And then you're dealing with the connection between the two which isn't as strong. So what you're going to get is you feel things strongly because that amigdala is like alarm chemicals like something is happening and that prefrontal cortex is sometimes slow to

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mashed together overwhelming.

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very oversimplified, but dopamine is that neurochemical that's in charge of alertness and attention and emotional regulation and mood. So, it's it's present and doing many different things at once. And a lot of people think that it's a lack of dopamine. you

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Yes. It's like you feel like a hurricane. You feel like a hurricane.

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And so that can change with hormones, that can change with age, that can change with stress, that can change, that can just be an underlying deficit or dysregulation.

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Like I can start cleaning the closet, but then all of a sudden I crash and I've got clothes off hangers everywhere and now I'm like, what did I do again?

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When you talked about the prefrontal cortex and being kind of the thinking and like the secretary of the brain, the processor, and then you talked about the amygdala, the little almond, it made a lot of sense to me where you're like,

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Yeah. I think a lot of people can argue, you know, well, sometimes people have emotional dysregulation or emotional swings because they're not getting enough done. I'll tell you if, like in my own case, I can feel these kind of

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here. Correct. So that makes perfect sense why it would be hard if the connection's weak for us to take all the input into the thinking part of the brain and process it.

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emotional swings and I can feel extremely overwhelmed and I might get to a spot where I'm getting all of the stuff done like all of the stuff I've delegated or I've gotten rid of and it's off of my to-do list and I still feel

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the person that's listening has never really heard that term or doesn't quite um know what you mean.

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that overwhelm and that pit in my stomach and that just like I want to hide. I can't do anything right now. I just want to hide. That is emotional dysregulation where it's like I, I, I have the logical part of my brain that's like

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on studying Dr. Hamdani. Okay. I go to sit down. Now all I can do is hear my stomach. Now all I can do is hear the people in the corner over there. Now I'm looking at the person and

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you don't have anything to worry about. You're fine. These things are going well. You're okay. But still, you're having these big ups and downs that you're dealing with at the same time. And I think that's so vital to talk about

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what is wrong with me? Mhm. And I have example after example and the emotional side of this and the wreckage that it caused internally for me and the self-hatred that it causes.

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because that's what gets misdiagnosed. Well, my greatest wish for this episode, other than the person listening really feeling empowered and seen and having your expertise to really help you take the next step to get the support that you deserve and

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Sure. because you start to understand how much unnecessary suffering you inflicted upon yourself because you didn't know what you were dealing with.

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to better understand yourself. And my second bigger mission, okay, is that this sparks a change in the way that ADHD is defined because you can see that if society thinks ADHD is jitteriness and, you know, kind of the

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"This is anxiety. you're anxious about something or you're, you know, depressed about how things are. They're started on medication. Medication doesn't work.

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typical little boy like our son was bouncing around in a classroom that can't sit still and can't focus. And if that's all that we think it is, then doctors and pediatricians don't have the right definition for it.

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actually evaluate them for ADHD and you get to the bottom of like oh okay you're having this emotional dysregulation that's happening all right let's treat the ADHD and all of this gets significantly better than any other medication the way that I describe it is

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So, of course, they're going to continue to go, "Well, only if you're jittery does it look like this." But anything in the realm of dealing with emotions must be something related to anxiety or depression. We're going to keep seeing

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Let's get you some glasses." No, the correct answer is let's work on the diabetes. Let's let's fix this underlying problem. And that underlying problem is that ADHD that's causing all of these things.

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this problem. Originally, the ADHD criteria was developed looking at hyper young boys. It's not even our criteria is not even built to look at everyone else. It's not built to look at girls. It's not built to look at adults. I think part of the

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Yeah. And the anxiety started growing from middle school through high school. Got worse and worse and worse. And I got put on Zoloft at the age of 22.

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biggest flaw in this, right, is that when you just move on from like the hyper young boys, part of the issue is they're looking at these highly observable behaviors like these are the kids that are disrupting classes and

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it never really solved solved anything. Mhm. And it wasn't until our son Oakley was diagnosed with ADHD that I'm like, "Wait a minute." I went, I got a neurosych evaluation. I got a clinical diagnosis. I stopped taking anxiety

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these are the kids that can't stay in their seat, right? But what about all those other presentations where the only people they're disrupting are themselves and they are just getting passed from class to class to class to class and then

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later, Mel, those are the people that are getting diagnosed with anxiety and depression because, by the way, you're too old to have it now. That was me.

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They make it clear. And they make it feel like you're talking to someone who genuinely cares because they really do.

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Yeah. I've also never heard anyone say that the way that you can present there's the external disruption, but I hadn't ever heard anybody say or you could be somebody that's internally disrupting yourself.

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Yes. With your thoughts, with your inability to stay on task, with your emotions. That's exactly how I felt all the time.

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Okay, let me show you. Okay, first one, inattentive ADHD. And we touched on this briefly. Inattentive ADHD typically are the daydreamers. They tend to be forgetful, difficulty with organizing things, difficulty with remembering where you place something, difficulty with initiating tasks,

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And that's what I hear day in and day out when I'm hearing from women over and over and

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Okay. Inattentive ADHD. Inattentive check. [laughter] hyperactive or impulsive ADHD. This is the second form of ADHD and this is well one of the ways that males can present and this is both physically and verbally impulsive. These are the kids that are

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having difficulty kids and adults difficulty staying in their seat. They're fidgeters. They are impulsive in speech in that they're interrupting.

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They are blurting out answers in conversation. They have difficulty participating in conversation. So this is this is that hyperactive type.

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And then the third type is the combined type picture. Oh, and combined type picture is just a combination of both of those um features. So you can have inattentive features and you can also have the hyperactivity component. Um, fun fact,

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this is what I am. How do you know? You know what I'm saying? Because it feels like it's a little general, like all of it. So, you can kind of find situations for yourself. But how do you know what you

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are? And why is it important to understand which of the three you might be?

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So, I mean, you really are going to know once you get a good solid evaluation, right? Because I think that part of getting a great evaluation, a very sound evaluation, is equal parts, yes, ruling in ADHD, but also ruling out everything

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else. I want to make sure that this isn't anxiety, that this isn't depression, that this isn't bipolar, that this isn't some thyroid issue or some medical issue underlying it. So there's within the evaluation where you're talking about ADHD, you go from

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childhood and you kind of look at longitudinal patterns because again with women specifically, it's hard because every month we look different hormonally. So catching you at at one spot in your cycle versus another spot, you might look different and you

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might present a little bit differently. So you're looking for longitudinal patterns. Can you break apart how does the emotional side impact girls?

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When you're looking at females um they typically fall into this pattern of more the inattentive presentation. So these are the daydreamers. They're forgetful.

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They have difficulty organizing things. They have difficulty with routines and and motivation to get tasks done. And so these are the people that in general can be a pleasure to have in class. They're getting passed along and they're doing

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well, but internally they're working so hard. So hard. And you know what? That doesn't get better. You get through um your elementary school years, you get to puberty, then all of a sudden you get smoked by hormones. Now hormones

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immediately change things. Now instead of physicians and again not the fault of physicians right this is a fault of criteria but now instead of physicians looking at this child and saying whoa like we missed something you're having like all these mood swings and school is

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hard for you and friendships are hard for you and all of that. They're saying you're a teenager. These are hormones.

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Get used to it. like this is what you hear as like a 13-year-old girl and then they have to get through it. So, you just kind of just bear it and then you get into college and your demands get

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harder. You start getting into more serious relationships and then maybe you get into a situation where you're trying to start your own family. Okay, now you're getting hit with another wave of hormones and actually during pregnancy estrogen levels are a little bit higher,

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dopamine levels are a little bit higher. So you might do okay, but then postpartum comes and rocks your world.

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And so you get this drop in estrogen, drop in dopamine, so you can't regulate the way you used to. And so now you go to a doctor again, you're like, "Things are bad." And they're like, "It's hormones." Like, "Let's put you on an

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anti-depressant cuz you're depressed. This is postpartum depression." And so it gets missed again. Then you get through all of that and you get through your reproductive years and now you're in pmenopause and things are chaotic cuz your estrogen drops again and you're

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like something is wrong. [laughter] Something is wrong and now it's well your you're hormonal like give it 10 years we'll see you later.

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Brain fog. Yeah, there you go. This happens during p per menopause. So we in fact that's you've described my whole life. I know I had postpartum depression, crashed.

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I started having severe brain fog and other symptoms from pmenopause. So, you get hormones which help but didn't help the brain fog.

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Yeah. And again, like it was just diagnosed with anxiety, living with anxiety, struggling struggling struggling pushing through postpartum depression. Oh my god, the sobbing as you're breastfeeding. Like just I don't feel like myself. Oh my just and then pmenopause, then the

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creams, then the and then all of a sudden ADHD diagnosis, and it's like, wait, what? And it felt as soon as I was not only diagnosed but found the medication that worked for me, it's like all of a sudden after 47 years, I felt

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like I was in my body. Yeah. And that gets missed. It get missed over and over and over again because our criteria doesn't catch that.

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Is it common in women that if you have undiagnosed ADHD that it can cause anxiety and depression?

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Yes. Why? A lot of times like when you look at ADHD there can be anxiety and depression that come that is a separate thing that travels along with it. That that can happen.

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But for a lot of people because again circling back to that emotional regulation part of ADHD that everyone seems to miss and that is so critically important to getting a comprehensive picture of ADHD.

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Number one, if you've gone through your whole life and you've thought that there's something wrong with you and you're less than and you're broken, that's going to make you anxious. If you can't do the things that you know

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perfectly well that you are capable of, that's going to make you anxious. And you know what? It's probably going to make you pretty depressed, too. If you're going through these huge moments of this energy dysregulation where you are getting tons done and then it's like

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you've hit your max and then you crash, you have this huge crash and then you feel like, okay, I have literally nothing left in my tank. That looks like depression. But these are all emotional dysregulation issues that are happening

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and so that that's why you see that with ADHD. Um is there a connection between undiagnosed ADHD and eating disorders?

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Yes, there is. But I think that again that stems from dysregulation and it stems from a lot of ADHD.

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you're not able to be mindful about certain things. So sometimes it's not actually, you know, when people think about eating disorders, they think about, you know, on one extreme that you're not eating enough and on the other extreme you're eating too much.

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Like for the extreme where you're not eating enough, a lot of times with ADHD, sometimes it can be like you don't really have hunger cues. And and this is outside of the medication.

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It's just your body isn't communicating, telling you you're hungry. And I know personally if I get invested in a task that I'm truly interested in, I can go 8 hours and I'm not eating, I'm not drinking, I'm not getting up.

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Y on the flip side with like binge eating disorder and things like that, there can be a time where you're trying to stimulate your own dopamine. You're trying to like get things going without even knowing that's what you're doing.

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And you're grabbing for things and you're eating and you don't even know and you can look down. you're like, "Okay, that was a whole sleeve of Girl Scout cookies." Like that. So there's like you can be on either end. So yes,

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there are linkages with disordered eating on both ends. And what's interesting is again this kind of distinction that you're seeing, Dr. Hamdani, of the external presentation versus the internal turmoil.

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How I describe it is it's like the outside of your house is on fire versus the inside of your house is on fire.

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Like it just feels like both are on fire. [laughter] Both are literally in flames. The way we look at it now is we only care if we can see the flames.

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Flames are going on inside the house. What What would you say to somebody who has received this episode from someone that cares about them?

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Yeah. because the person who cares about them sees these patterns and has sent this episode, you know, in a text saying, "Hey, you know, I'd love for you to listen to this because this sounds a little bit like what you might be

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dealing with. What do you want the person who's hit play and is starting to really process what you're saying for the first time?" I think if you are listening to this episode, I don't want this episode to push you one way or the

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other. This is not meant to convince you that you have ADHD. This is not meant to push you in one direction. It's meant to ask you questions about your own internal environment so that you can start digging deeper and figuring out is

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there something here or is there something that needs to be addressed? And what I want to reiterate about all of this is that I think good compassionate care and diagnosis stems from a very non-judgmental and shamefree place. And so just being able to look at

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this episode and and whatever other research you do in a very compassionate and self-compassionate way, I think you'll be able to receive information and actually start to put together patterns about your own behavior a little bit better. And that might be

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ADHD, it might not be. What do you think the biggest misconception is about ADHD that keeps people, especially women, from getting help?

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That you have to treat it with medication. I don't think you have to. I there there are some people that are on medication and it is life-changing for them. And so I'm never going to and even when I was

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talking about anti-depressants before, same thing. That can be life-changing for some people. So, I'm never going to go back on that because a medication is a tool and can be wonderful. But also being able to actually commit time and

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figure out therapeutic tools that might work. It is also so critically important. And some people don't need medication. They they get through with doing cognitive restructuring and work through therapy that can be extremely beneficial.

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I so appreciate your answer. What I find reassuring about what you're saying is there are other ways you can support yourself and we're going to get into that very specifically about what to do and how to get a diagnosis and what are

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the things that you can do and what are the medications. Um you know I remember when I got my diagnosis it was both an extraordinary relief Yeah. and I had a lot of grief and anger.

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Yeah. Is that common to feel a sense of grief? Like when you finally understand what's been there the whole time?

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Yes. When I evaluate people, I actually tell them about that. Like I don't know what this evaluation is going to show or if it's ADHD, if it's not ADHD, but depending on what we go through, this is just a deeper exploration of what's

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going on in your body. And it might you might feel like this is an answer. This is what I've been looking for. And it might feel like I wasted so much time and I'm grieving that loss of time and

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potential and all of that stuff. And to them I say that is normal. Like you are allowed to feel those things. That's that's perfectly normal and there should be space for that because that is a very valid expression of what's happening.

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But I also tell them that in that time it wasn't wasted because what you were doing the hard work you were building routines you were building structures you were building workarounds that eventually as you have the right tools

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and scaffolding those are going to come in handy for you. those are going to make this process a little bit easier because I've also seen on the flip side of things when people are started on medication and they don't have that

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scaffolding in place and then when they're off medication it's like they're floundering again. So I think this multiffactorial approach of doing lifestyle and behavioral modification with medication if that's appropriate can be extremely helpful.

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It was life-changing for me. I'd love to talk about the connection between being high achieving Yeah.

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and how that especially in women can hide ADHD. Mhm. Especially from ourselves. Yes. So, I'm going to introduce you to the concept of masking. Have you heard of that?

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Uh not in the context of ADHD. So, masking is when you have it can be conscious or unconscious camouflaging of your symptoms. And this is something that women do exceptionally well because I think from a young age we're

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sensitized to do this because we don't want to be in trouble. We don't want to stick out of a crowd. We don't want to bring a lot of attention to us. I'll give you an example with me. Like I was

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a combined type presentation. So I was very hyperactive. Like I couldn't stay in my seat, a big fidgeter. But I learned I can't get up all the time in class. I'm getting in trouble constantly. So, I would like squish my thighs down on the seat

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or I'd grab the bottom of my chair and like try to suction cup myself to the chair because I'm like, I I need to physically restrain myself from getting out. Now, from a productivity and a masking perspective, you also see things

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like perfectionism. I don't want to get in trouble. you see things like um overcompensating, like I'm gonna stay at work extra long and I'm going to overprepare and I'm going to get things ready because I don't want to get in

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trouble. I know I'm going to miss something, so I'm going to prevent that from happening. Um, you see things like within relationships and knowing that there's like that emotional regulation.

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You see a lot of women just kind of accepting stuff that they might not think is appropriate for any of their peers, but they're like, I was probably in the wrong. I was a little bit too emotional. I chased them away. And so,

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in order to protect that emotional sensitivity, they don't want to get into conflict. They don't want to fight. They don't want to do things like that. So, I mean, there's lots of different ways that are directly impacting and and

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harmful to someone who is continuing this mask for a long time. Eventually, that mask gets too heavy to hold. Is ADHD a superpower? No. Everyone asked me that. I am so jealous of the people who say that it is. I'm jealous of the

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people who say that it is. And the reason for that is I feel like there are some things that ADHD has brought me that I wouldn't have otherwise. Like being on social media, going to the White House, getting book deals, like

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that is because of my ADHD. That's because of that hyperfocus. That's because I was interested in something and it it bled into this area. But there's also things on a day-to-day scale that I feel so limited by. And I

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feel like the analogy that I give is it's like a superpower that I have very little agency over because it's like you can fly now and that's your superpower, but you can't choose when or where. So, you're just going to blast off into

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space at any given time. [laughter] So, it's I feel like I love I love the concept of a positive reframe and I think there is some beautiful beautiful things about ADG. I really do.

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But I think there's also some things that are really difficult to deal with. And I think when people continuously focus on that superpower trope, it kind of for me it it it diminishes a struggle. And so I feel like the best

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way to approach ADHD is just realistically. They're good. Just like anything else, there's good stuff, there's bad stuff, and it's how you deal with it.

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I appreciate you saying that because I always thought that it sounded like toxic positivity. Yeah.

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By somebody who doesn't have ADHD. And when you also consider Dr. Hamdani, what you're teaching us, which is for decades, yeah, medical professionals, society, the DSM has not included the full scope of ADHD, especially the emotional dysregulation.

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There is no superpower to feeling constantly overwhelmed in your life. And yes, there are some small benefits. And I love the analogy that you said. It's like having a superpower you can't be in control of. Like I would love to be able

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to throw fire from my palms, but I don't want it going off at the wrong time.

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Yeah. And there's a lot of anxiety that comes with going through life thinking you can't trust yourself.

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Yeah. You can't trust yourself to follow through. You can't trust yourself to be on time. You can't trust yourself to remember. You can't trust yourself to not screw this up yet again.

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And so I really appreciate you saying that. Is there something surprising that you've discovered in your practice that most people with ADHD struggle with and may not even realize it?

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Yes. So, we've we've talked a lot about the emotional regulation side of things. Yes. There is a neurological phenomenon that you see in almost 100% of people with ADHD. They experience some component of rejection sensitive dysphoria.

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Rejection sensitive dysphoria. What does that even mean? That's a big thing. It's a big thing. It's a mouthful. Rejection sensitive dysphoria is this incredibly robust emotional response. Sometimes physical but mostly emotional response to real or perceived rejection or

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criticism or this fear of disappointing someone. It is this internal emotional response flooding of neurochemicals that happens.

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How do you define this? What this is? It is a neurological phenomenon when you look at emotional sensitivity.

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Okay. Right. And you have which you have if you are somebody struggling with ADHD.

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I'm saying just part of the human condition. Right. Emotional sensitivity in general. You have if you're saying this is kind of normal emotional sensitivity. You have emotions down, emotions up, situationally appropriate. You're right in the middle. You have lack of

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emotional sensitivity where people really aren't responding in the way that they should be. They don't feel big highs. They don't feel big lows. Maybe not situationally appropriate. Then you have people that are highly emotionally sensitive.

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And they are the people who feel things quickly and deeply and for a long time.

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Mhm. And I would put rejection sensitive dysphoria as like the the ending point of that as most emotionally sensitive because when they feel something even if it's not actually happening if they perceive that there is a risk that I'm

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disappointing you or that there's some rejection or the person doesn't like me their world caves in they start turning inwards and it becomes this flooding of neurochemicals and alarm chemicals that are happening that literally paralyze other areas of the brain.

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Wow. Mhm. Holy cow. Mhm. You have a brand new bestselling book, Too Sensitive. I love the title.

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Thank you. Why is this rejection sensitive dysphoria important to dedicate an entire book to this?

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Because no one talks about it. So, we don't have the tools and the language to treat it appropriately. Can you show us what this may look like in day-to-day life?

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Yes, I can. I can show you with text messages from you. Oh god. [laughter] Okay.

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Oh, these are So, the team has screenshot my phone. Okay. Go ahead. Or actually screenshot their phone and something that I've said.

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Okay. So, if we're looking at just this screenshot with you responding to something that I'm saying and all it says is no worries. Okay, for me what is happening in my brain is is she mad at me? Is she unhappy with me? Does she

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want me on the podcast still? I am spinning because in my brain I've attached a level of uncertainty because I'm afraid that there is rejection and criticism underlying this. And that to me is a direct reflection of my own

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selfworth. So I am going to spin on this. I'm going to ask other people about it. I'm going to show my phone to other people and be like, "What do you think about this message?" And I am going to waste a tremendous amount of

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emotional energy on this. Now, the things that I could do with this is that I could chew on it for hours and hours, which is what I love doing and that's what I usually do. Alternatively, I could do things like I could

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overcompensate. I could send you a text message back and be like, "Okay, I'm just making sure that we're cool." Or, "Okay, I I want to reiterate our plans." And you're like, "I am busy." I like the, you know, so there's there's a lot

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of emotional handholding I would need in that moment. I might do things like I get that text message, I've already decided that you're mad at me. I'm done now. And that that had been my trajectory in my 20s with relationships.

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I would read into neutral interactions. I would read them as threatening in some capacity and I would be like, I don't need this. I'm studying. I don't need this. And I would end the relationship because you're not going to push me

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away. I'm going to leave first. You see different patterns. And it is truly when you take a neurologically, emotionally sensitive person, which is something you see a lot of in ADHD, and you put them in these everyday kind

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of situations because of that emotional dysregulation, they have a hard time filtering that information because that emotional part of their brain is popping off before that logical part. So, they are just running with this flooding of emotional chemicals. And if you think

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about that, like this is the stuff that keeps me up. This is the stuff I worry about. This is the stuff I I reality test with people and they get so annoyed because I'm like constantly going and asking them like, "Is this normal? Is

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this not there?" There there's so much I I don't want to say life loss, but that's what it feels like. I'm just spending so much time doing that.

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I have spent a lifetime doing this. So if and yet at the same time I'm just doing the best I can to manage all the inbound. Anyway, if you relate and you read messages like this, what do you do? Yeah. And for the

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record, it's not just messages. Like it can be things like for me I'm so sensitive to tone, to shifts in tone.

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I'm sensitive to body language. Like I'm sensitive to like I can pick up an energy in a room before I go in. Same.

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You know, it's like so this is this is one of those things about being emotionally sensitive and then simultaneously being emotionally disregulated is that those things hit hard.

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Yes. So recognizing it is huge. That's a big big big thing that I I think is really important. The other thing that we see is important are things that work in the moment to reduce activation. Some easy ones are things like movement. And it

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doesn't have to be like do heavy cardio or or lift weights. Do some sort of movement that's going to increase that oxygenated glucose to get to that frontal lobe. So, okay. So, I see the text message now.

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I'm like, yes, I do squats. You can you can because think about what you're doing. Like once you understand neurologically what's happening, you're dealing with this overactive amydala and this underperforming frontal lobe. Oh, I see. Oh my god, I just got it. So in

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that moment, the input from just a simple text message is like Yes. And that floods your brain.

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Yes. And your thinker, your prefrontal cortex, Uhhuh. is like, I don't know what to do. I can't come online. Something's going on.

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Like, ah. And so neurologically even though a text message seems stupid and in inconsequential.

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Yes. Neurologically your brain is screwed. You you are responding to a threat like you have seen a murder. When you are actually assessing threat like whether it's a social threat, whether it's a physical threat, your brain doesn't know

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the difference in that moment. Your body is responding in the same way. So you're having this flooding of neurochemicals.

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And so what you need to do now is understanding, okay, my emotional center is overwhelmed. My frontal lobe is not working as well as it should. And then you look at that situation and whether it's like, okay, I can utilize movement

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and that's going to get some oxygenated glucose to my frontal lobe where it's supposed to be. And hopefully we can get that thinking back on board. The other thing you could do, delay the reaction.

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And this is something that it took me so long. I understand neurologically I am flooded right now. I know that in 10 to 15 minutes I'm going to feel different.

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And so in 10 to 15 minutes I will reassess this and I will even do things like I'll set an alarm.

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I'll set an alarm 10 to 15 minutes I'll come back and gosh darn it I do feel different. But I think what's important is that like with this book too sensitive. I don't want to make you less sensitive. I want

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to help you be more in control. I love that. I don't want to make you less sensitive. I want to help you be more in control.

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That is the perfect statement for us to then talk about how you feel more in control.

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Um because I'm sure as you've been listening or watching and you're really taking in everything that Dr. Hamdani is teaching you and me today. You are thinking of like 13 people in your life.

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Yeah. Or you are thinking, "Wow, this sounds like me." So, what are the steps you should take if you think you or someone that you love may be dealing with ADHD that's not diagnosed?

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Yeah. Let's go through this cuz I think a visual will help. So, I'm going to pull up a visual.

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Great. So, if you think you have ADHD, let's start with the first step. So, first step, track your symptoms. It is so important to number one, know your baseline. Number two, it's also needed to understand how your treatment is

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progressing. If that's kind of what it and whether that's therapy or whether that's medication, are those holes being fixed?

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Yes. So, what symptoms am I tracking? Okay. So, if you do these things, you get a gold star from me. I want you to track initiation of task, distractability during the task, like are you getting pulled out of the task,

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completion of task? So, I would lump that all into one, but I think it's important to make those distinctions like where is the problem? Is it starting? Is it staying in the task? Is it actually getting it done? That's

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important. Number two, I think that is vitally important, is sleep. Sleep. Track what you're doing with sleep. I want to know how long you slept. I want to know I if your sleep was fragmented.

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Are you waking up in the middle of night? Is it hard to fall asleep? So, give me as much data as you can. This can be notes on your phone. Like, this doesn't need to be something super formal. Okay? And the third thing that I

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want you to track that I think is really important is mood. I actually don't give a lot of guidance on this because it's almost an interesting diagnostic fact to see how you track mood. However you want to track your mood, just give me some

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sort of mood data point. Okay? Because I want to see number one how how that pattern progresses over time. And then especially for women, if you crossorrelate that with your hormonal cycle, I want to see that too cuz if there's a strong hormonal

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component, we need to look at that as well. Got it. So if I were to do this for a couple weeks, you'd get some good data because then you could go and has it been like this in the past?

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Ideally, ideally I don't want a couple weeks. I want like enough for two hormonal cycles. So Oh, so you want two months?

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I want two months. Okay, great. You can have two months. It's gonna take me that long to get an appointment with you anyway. So, okay.

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Track your symptoms for two months. And we're doing kind of productivity, initiation distractability completion sleep patterns, and mood.

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Yes. Boom. Boom. Okay. Step two. Talk with a qualified professional about an ADHD. What is a qualified professional? Who do I go to?

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I know. So, here's the deal. There are, especially now, there are lots of different roads to get to where you need to get to, right?

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Um, let's start from my favorite. I'm biased cuz I'm a psychiatrist. I feel like going to a psychiatrist sometimes gives you the best evaluation. And the only reason I'm saying that is because you have the benefit of going to a

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medical physician. So, they understand medical background. you have the benefit of going to a psychiatrist. So, they've done the psychiatry residency where they've done the therapy side of things and they've done the medication side of things. So, it can be, you know, if if

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that person is appropriate for an ADHD um medication after this evaluation and has ADHD, this could be a one-stop shop kind of thing.

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But there is a desert and deficit Yeah. of access in many communities, many countries for many people. And you know, sometimes we're like, do I go to my primary care?

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Do I go to a pediatrician? Do I go to a nurse practitioner? Like absolutely, we're only as good as what our system allows because access to care is a huge issue. And that there's so many barriers to care. Whether that's

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there's literally not enough psychiatrists, whether that's a cost issue, whether that's a, you know, they aren't taking your insurance or, you know, there's so many different things or or that they're saturated. They're they can't see patients. You could go to

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your primary care doctor or your pediatrician or and that's a beautiful place to start. That's a beautiful place to start. Generally, there's a lower barrier to access with that. A lot of times they'll do an assessment that involves getting information from

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collateral resources. So talking to, you know, like for kids, they'll talk to parents, they'll talk to teachers, they'll get at scales to look at ADHD behaviors. So that depending on what is available to you. That's another road.

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Then you can do the therapist road. There's many different layers. You could do a neurosychologist who could do neurosych testing where you do a comprehensive evaluation of everything that's going on. Is this ADHD? Is this depression? Is this anxiety? Is this

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bipolar? So, they will do a full It's super long and expensive. And expensive. That's what I did. That's what we did with two of our kids. Like, and it was expensive. Like, I would not have been able to do it

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had all of this started happening and I was aware of what was happening like even just a couple years before that. So here's the deal. There are other resources. So besides the therapist route, besides the neurosychologist route, there are other layers of

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therapists that could potentially do the evaluation. Some of them like with nurse practitioners, not a therapist, a nurse practitioner is something different.

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Some of them can prescribe, some of them cannot. Um with therapists generally, they cannot prescribe.

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Right? But again, we're not talking about well, we just got to get the actual assessment done first so you know what you're dealing with. And I do find that this is a big roadblock.

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Here's what I will tell you about any provider that you see to save you time, to save you heartache, one of the most important things that I tell anybody who's starting this process is look up the provider ahead of time.

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Look at their reviews. Look at what they treat. look at all these things because it it's unbelievable how strongly some people feel about ADHD.

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Some people are completely unwilling to even address it. And so it it gets to be really difficult when you're going into an evaluation and it's hard to even get that evaluation from them. And so I think that the people who really enjoy

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treating ADHD, looking at ADHD, evaluating ADHD, they put it pretty prominently on their information. So I think that's important. You can look at reviews. You can get word of mouth and you honestly you deserve that. You deserve a good assessment that is

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personalized for you, right? And you're worth that. Yeah. Step three. Step three, discuss options.

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And there's lots of options on that board. Medication, therapy, coaching, tools, systems. Let's talk about the options.

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Yeah. A lot of people, they immediately think if I have ADHD, I'm going to be put on aderall and that's going to be that's what's going to happen. No. So, let's go through some of the different options.

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Number one, if you're looking at ADHD management, there is medication and there's non-medication. So, let's start with the medication side of things.

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Medication broken up into two big classes. There are stimulants and there are non-stimulants. Stimulants, the stuff you've heard about, Aderal, RI, Vivian, those are all in that stimulant class of medications. They work in two different ways. One is to help with

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alertness and to fight off those sleepiness. And two is to point towards reward. There was a beautiful Washington University study that was done on this just like Christmas of 2025, so it's relatively recent. But stimulants, the the issue with them, number one,

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they're controlled substances. So that gets a little weird. But number two, it's you can't stimulate a person 24 hours a day. Like you got to eat, you got to sleep, you got to do normal human functioning things. So even the long

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acting stimulants really you're getting about 6 to 8 hours of coverage if that usually it's 4 to 6 hours short acting 2 to four hours. So you're getting these like tall peaks of coverage where it's okay I feel like I am completely

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regulated at this point but it crashes down pretty quickly that you move next into the non-stimulant class of medications. So stimulants are one side. Non-stimulants, non-stimulants, you those are generally agents that work on a couple of different things. There's some that are

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anti-depressants, so they help with anxiety and depression at the same time. There's some that are blood pressure medications. There all these different types of medications that have multiple usages.

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And the thing that I generally like about non-stimulants is that a lot of times it's 24-hour acting, which people don't know about because a lot of times they're like, "Oh, if I have ADHD, I'm going to have to be started on this medication, which

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I'm going to hate." Non-stimulants, you're not going to have this 2 hours of coverage. You're going to get a 24-hour uh What are the names of non-stimulants?

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So, guanosine is one. Stratera is one. One you might have heard of is Wellbutrin. that's a non-stimulant for ADHD. So, there's there's lots of different agents that you could potentially think about adding that give you full coverage that

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possibly cover more than just the attention component that you know don't crash you down in two hours and instead just kind of raise that baseline. So, they're they're beautiful agents. It really depends on what you need. If the

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person who's listening is thinking, I am really resistant to the medication because I'm concerned about the side effects. Y if they were a patient in your practice, like what do you say to a patient in your practice when somebody raises that

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concern? Then don't do medication. So, if you if I explain exactly how those medications work and what they're what the intended effect and what the side effects are and and how to get on them, also how to get

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off of them. If I'm giving you all that information, you're like, "No, thank you." Like, I don't want that. That is a perfectly reasonable choice. We go based on what you feel ready for. It's not my job to push medication on you. It's not

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my job to get you there sooner. Like, do the tools. the tools are going to help you anyway.

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So, what are the top tools if you're dealing with ADHD? Yeah. And that diagnosis that are the most effective place to start.

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It can sometimes be really nebulous and hard to figure out exactly where to start, what lever to pull. That's when I think a therapist can come in very very very handy because they are able to take that data from your patterns, synthesize

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it, figure out where the holes are, and then figure out how to optimize and approach that. And I'll tell you from my own experience, I really started to drill down and work on the therapy side of things and what are the skills, what

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are the tools, how can I explore my own behavior so I can figure out what to fix. And that I think was lifechanging.

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What is the fourth step if you think you have ADHD? Okay, step four. Use trusted resources while you wait. I think this is important because I think a lot of getting assessed, it can take a while.

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It can take a long time and I if it happens, right? I mean, there's some people that don't have access to it. And so I feel like in that interim learning and exploring your own internal environment and also relying on

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resources that you know are reputable that are going to help you that aren't just some random person on the internet that's talking like you want to get information from things like journal articles or news like and again some

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news so newspapers that site journal articles. Well, I actually this is one of the things I appreciate about you that you put a lot of content online.

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Yeah. And so if you're having trouble uh gaining access and you are in the waiting game Mhm.

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following somebody like you Mhm. a medical doctor who's talking about this, who lives with this, that's a way for you to learn more and to understand that this is not a deficiency in you.

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this is something you are just going to learn more about and there are tools that you can use while you're waiting and you can learn more and become smarter about this while you're figuring it out and that's the whole point and

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that's why I actually wanted you here because you do put out a lot of content for somebody that's listening and um is thinking well this is definitely me but I'm now 40 50 60 it's it's just too late what

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What would you say? If I had 10 minutes left in my life, I would want to know if I had ADHD.

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Why? Because I want to understand my brain. I want I don't think it's ever too late to understand your brain. I just want to know. For me, going through that ADHD experience, I know firsthand how it feels to have

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that guilt and that shame compounded at every single thing. And for me to analyze every turn I've made and to think about it and where did I go wrong and what was happening and how could I have done it better to know that you I

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did do my best. This was a neurological phenomenon that was underlying all of this that was making it difficult. Like you still did a great job. You got through this. You built on this. I I want other people to feel that.

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I do too. Yeah. Dr. Hamdani, what are your parting words? It's never too late to understand your brain.

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I am so grateful that you're here. Thank you for having me. I cannot believe how much I learned today that I did not know. I feel more confident. I feel like I understand myself so much better. This episode is

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an extraordinary gift that you just gave us because we got to sit down in a private session one- on-one with a psychiatrist as renowned and as passionate and committed as you are. And I appreciate the accessible and realistic way that you

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talked about what to do next and what to do while you wait and while you figure this out. And so just from the bottom of my heart and from people all around the world that you will never meet whose

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lives will be forever changed because of what you shared with us today. Thank you.

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Thank you for having me. And thank you. Thank you for making the time to learn about ADHD. I hope you share this with people that you care about. This is a conversation that is for all of us. And these tools that we

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discussed today are things you can start to implement in your life or the lives of people that you love immediately. And in case no one else tells you, I wanted to be sure to tell you as your friend

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that I love you and I believe in you and I believe in your ability to create a better life. I cannot wait to see your comments. I can't wait to see this shared around the world. So, [music] thank you, thank you, thank you. I'm

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going to welcome you in to the very next episode the moment you hit play. I'll see you there. Thank you for watching all the way to the end here on YouTube.

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And if you're asking yourself, "Okay, what should I watch next?" You're going to love this video and I'll welcome you in [music] the moment you hit play.

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