shourtney revealing relationship lore on podcasts (smosh mouth, chuckle sandwich, HWHL)

Courtney and Shane discuss their relationship dynamics, communication, and personal stories on various podcasts.

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Key Takeaways

Strong communication and mutual understanding are key to Courtney and Shane's relationship.
Setting boundaries and respecting personal space helps maintain harmony.
Having important conversations before marriage builds a solid foundation.
Shared interests and humor strengthen their bond.
Balancing different personality traits supports emotional wellbeing.

What the video covers

Courtney and Shane describe their relationship as a strong team with shared goals and mutual understanding.
They reflect on early memories and childhood experiences, including Halloween costumes and family traditions.
The couple talks about their communication styles, including how they handle social media and decompress after long days.
They share insights on boundaries within their relationship, such as privacy with pets and bathroom door etiquette.
Courtney and Shane emphasize the importance of having deep conversations before marriage to align expectations.
They discuss their engagement and wedding announcement timing, highlighting the humor in choosing April 1st.
The conversation touches on personal interests like gaming and favorite memories with family members.
They reveal how they support each other emotionally, balancing extroverted and introverted needs.
The couple shares lighthearted moments about their cats and everyday life quirks.
They mention collaborations and podcast appearances, reflecting on their public and private lives.

Chapters

How do Courtney and Shane describe their relationship?

They describe their relationship as a team with strong communication, mutual respect, and shared goals, emphasizing that they are best friends who love each other.

What boundaries do they set in their relationship?

They set boundaries such as respecting privacy in the bathroom and managing interactions with their cats, showing the importance of personal space even in close relationships.

Why did they choose to announce their marriage on April 1st?

They chose April 1st as a humorous timing for their announcement, a couple of days after their wedding, embracing their playful and lighthearted approach to sharing personal news.

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Speaker A

To me, I'm like, we're a team. Like, before we were married, like, yeah, we're a team. And sometimes, like, when we're doing those team combos, it's kind of hot. I'm like, we're like, yeah, so what's the strategy going into the next quarter for finances? Like, you paying for groceries, am I? And I'm just like, go team SC, and just like, it's kind of hot.

Speaker A

Yeah, look up little girl lapping up sugar. Okay, Google, little girl. No, uh, you can't. No, no, no.

Speaker A

Well, the first six months pretty good, similar to dating or anything. Big standout difference? I think it felt the same for us because it's like we're all, we just, we're best friends and we love each other, and that hasn't changed.

Speaker A

Do you ever meet him? Yeah. Yeah, I know him. He's cool. Is he still around? He's still around. He's like 88, 89 now. Dude, he's a very chill dude. Awesome. He's very cool.

Speaker A

Yeah, did you ever have that? I had grandparents who were intense about the elbows on tables, but my family overall wasn't.

Speaker A

Yeah, I feel like these days I'm... Um, you two are married? Yes. There you go. Congratulations.

Speaker A

Yeah, congrats. What do you think? Should we do it soon?

Speaker A

What's your earliest memory? My earliest memory? I don't know. Um, it's hard to like place them. Like, there's some where I'm like, did that take place beforehand or after?

Speaker A

I think I have one from Halloween where I'm dressed as a pumpkin. Maybe I was like four or three.

Speaker A

[ __ ] you pumpkin. Yeah, you were dressed as a pumpkin? I think I was a pumpkin because that's like a mem—this is the 90s, and I was a little kid, so

Speaker A

that's awesome. And then what did you, what did you say to that? What did you reply?

Speaker A

Oh, I didn't respond the next—wow. Then she says, then she says hello. Oh my God. So you're not much of a first responder, are you?

Speaker A

I get edits of Shane on TikTok, and like, I don't want proof that I liked or saved it, so I'll send it to him on TikTok. So, because we don't, we show—I've

Speaker A

never gotten one of myself. Do you? Well, oh, on your For You page? Yeah, I think I've seen one of everyone by this point. Like, okay, wow. And you're looking at them, they're not like—I don't get the

Speaker A

I don't get these like hot ones. I get the ones that are kind of silly. I love the silly ones. Most are silly. I feel like buff Shane, who's married to Courtney now, I'm from kind of all over.

Speaker A

I was born in Florida, Virginia, Arizona. Hello. He's a military brat. Military brat? Yeah. Always being conscious, and it's all about making an effort. So, like, me anticipating, not necessarily his needs, but like, oh, this was a long week, like

Speaker A

I'm going to give him some time to decompress and not be in a space because I can sometimes be the extrovert in the house while he just needs to like have some moments of quiet, and I'm just like, what a day, huh? And I'm feeling this

Speaker A

and I'm feeling this. Yeah, hope that was a cool story for you guys. No, no, that was—stop getting, stop getting your blood over the dining.

Speaker A

Do you like olives? I love olives. He got me into them. You got me into—

Speaker A

Yeah, especially if I'm sitting down, my cats will come into the bathroom, and they'll be like, can I sit on your lap? And I'm like, absolutely. That's like, I don't—you don't want your cats to see—

Speaker A

I don't, I just don't want them to—no, I don't want them to be around in there.

Speaker A

Wow, I don't, I don't know. We learned so much about just leave me alone, but they hate it because if I shut the door, I will be

Speaker A

sitting there, and then all of a sudden a paw will just come from underneath and be like, let me in. It's truly signs. It's truly like signs. I feel like we're just, we're very good at just kind of talking about it and understanding each other. I

Speaker A

mean, I also, I feel very lucky. Like, from the get-go, you and I, I feel like we're just happen to be very much on the same wavelength about like everything, where it was like almost mind-boggling sometimes, like where I would be thinking

Speaker A

a thing, and he would say exactly, and I'd be like, okay, so like I don't even have to worry about this at all. Feel very lucky in that regard. We're very lucky in that. I think we're both people who we—

Speaker A

are, we both want to go out of our way for the other person, which is nice. I totally thought I was like, come on, like look at these pictures. How can you think this is a prank? And damn, they must

Speaker A

think SMOS is hella talented that this is like a stunt that they're pulling. My brother would be playing like my—some of my favorite memories is like my brother playing Final Fantasy 7 and just watching, and whatever game he was

Speaker A

playing, I'm like, this is now the coolest game of all time. And he'd be like, this is the best game ever made. I'd be like, I know. Treated you like his Padawan though. He definitely did, like, more what I would

Speaker A

be into. Dude, that's that Ison look. He's what he's saying. He's making sense. I feel like, yeah, people like, you got to have a lot of conversations before you get married. Some people like forget to do those or like just don't.

Speaker A

You don't know what you don't know, I guess sometimes. But we really, we knew everything and talked about everything, everything. We had it all locked in.

Speaker A

Yeah, pretty, pretty solid. Brat green would be really fun one because it's a very specific type of green because a SMOS meme was Courtney telling me like if you don't, if you don't correctly make brat green, uh, we're, we're done, like or something, something like that. I forget what she said to me, so you have

Speaker A

to do. Okay, I think that would be my boundary. I think, I think you can set that one. I think the bathroom door is maybe a physical boundary. We don't, we don't bathroom.

Speaker A

Wow, okay. And I've talked about this on the podcast a lot of

Speaker A

like, I am someone, even when I lived alone and I am home alone, no pets, no nothing, I am shutting that bathroom door because it's just the feeling of like I want to feel like I'm Schrödinger's box, like there's nothing, nothing outside

Speaker A

exists, and maybe I don't exist. Like, I, I am so it's a good locked in. I close the doors because I don't—the cats try to get on my lap when I'm peeing, and sometimes I just don't need that right now. Our cats

Speaker A

disrespect it because I'll shut the door, and all of a sudden there'll be like a paw that like under. Yeah, our place has this little kitty door on the bottom that like has literally like a little door that opens, and they can come in. Their

Speaker A

litter boxes in there, and so sometimes I like privacy from the cat, so like I'll, I'll shut it, but I won't like latch it, and Bones will like shove the door open and poke his head. I'm like, ah, yeah.

Speaker A

Jackon, yeah. I'm trying to remember when you, when we told you. I remember, I remember it was just like we were like in the middle of a conversation, you guys, and you're like, by the way, we're engaged. Oh yeah, when was like, and I was

Speaker A

like, what? What? Huh? Remember like Jarvis's things? It was probably, I think it was at Jarvis's. Oh, probably. Yeah, you were just like, AG. I was like, cool. But how did, when did you guys, just was this just a timing thing

Speaker A

or did you guys decide like we're going to talk about, we're going to April 1? It's, uh, it was kind of just, it just kind of lined up really well, and then it was your idea to announce it on April 1st

Speaker A

just because it was a couple days after we got married. Mhm. Yeah. Yeah, because the date was 3/29, and then we, I was just like, well, like what if we just because we're fools, you know?

Speaker A

Yeah, no, I mean, it was legendary.

Speaker A

I, yeah, Paramount had sent me this Pink Ladies jacket that is actually like such high quality, embroidered, and like a deep hot pink silk lining inside, just so sexy. I wore it for like a presentation recently, um, because I

Speaker A

actually recently I've been telling people I think Gree 2 is the greatest movie ever made. I don't agree. I final meme here. Uh, this was all thanks to Courtney. Haunted. Oh yeah. Uh, Courtney, Drew, Shane, and I, we don't, I don't have

Speaker A

things to really like talk about him negatively. You had to choose what part of the chuckle sandwich you are. You can add an ingredient to it. What would it be? Oh, I get to add an ingredient? Yeah, add an

Speaker A

ingredient like we've got a long toothpick that's going through. You eat the sandwich with everything in it. At the end of the season, uh, we tried to make one at like EP, like around th—

Speaker A

walking by and it's on they're just like going in on people you know he's just sitting there not I'm sitting there locked in on the TV spending a ton of money on a wedding is feels like it's more perceived as a necessity than like

Speaker A

securing stable housing well that was kind of I mean that was kind of what happened with us leading up to it I mean if if you feel like talk about this is like we were planning on doing a wedding

Speaker A

and then it finally we were kind of like talking about it's like yeah so I guess we're going to do this we literally signed a contract with a planner we were going to spend more money than we wanted

Speaker A

to we like went to sit down and kind of celebrate have dinner and like kind of talk more about what we want and then at the end of that dinner we were both just like do we not even give a [ __ ] about

Speaker A

this like do we want to do this and then we're like oh we just want toope this is awesome you want to doope I want to do that's all I want to do and it was the thing of like I definitely realized I

Speaker A

was like oh I had been instilled like this is what you do yes and this is what you obviously will want and like and and so I was like and this is what everybody wants and this is what we have to do and

Speaker A

it was like oh we don't have to do it no when I walk out of the bathro and Courtney goes what'd you do in there I go nothing yeah I didn't take a [ __ ] I didn't take a [ __ ] in there and then his

Speaker A

dad my grandpa flew uh Jets as well he was like among the first wave of the Air Force right for me like nowadays in this era like I like posting fun parts of our life and like our experiences and stuff

Speaker A

but it's such a Juggle where I still want my social like my friend or whatever I want to be about me I always am like I'm not going to do this corne and be like well I'm going to watch the

Speaker A

first episode and then I end up watching it me trying to play batro on my phone is that your game of choice oh yeah what is that I've never heard batro yeah I've never heard of it o I'm doing

Speaker A

Heyday okay this is a very small Indie card game that came out this year it got nominated for Game of the Year wow it's it's it's very this this is a this game we love this I've I started playing this game

Speaker A

and I got everybody hooked on it that I work with it's poker but it's on cocaine it it's awesome I cannot describe the game cuz it's just going to sound silly I can describe it it's like it's like

Speaker A

okay so the aesthetic is very like retro and like very cute and kind of mystical but it's poker the money's not real and like you're playing hands and you're getting chips and then when you use the chips to buy little Jokers that make the

Speaker A

poker scores even bigger and it's just the the switch especially if you play it on Nintendo switch it's like the vibrates are so good it's like playing poker but you're kind of like trying to do like different builds

Speaker A

where it's like all right I'm going to go for only flushes and I'm upgrading my flushes so that when I play a flush it's worth like triple and that's how he plays he go he goes hard he Lo to

Speaker A

challenge himself it's very satisfying they immediately download a math app on their phone it just doesn't make can't believe you just organically told us you're brushing up on math I'm not ashamed to say that I'm brushing up on

Speaker A

math you know Shane I think it's awesome Teddy well that's a really good one thank you I do the the the uh the I always knew we always said little teddy Gonna Go Far you got the face really you

Speaker A

got the settle okay you got that settle he comes up here when he's like he's like all right what do I say next he's like but other people are trying to say you guys are out of control I'm married to Courtney

Speaker A

have you seen the Tik Tok about stop it buff Shane this is Shane top and Courtney Miller see you guys later peace bye peace bye [Music]

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