I Had A Threesome In Vietnam - Story Time

Tristan Social shares his unforgettable experience of having a threesome in Vietnam, detailing his travels, mindset, and social strategies.

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Key Takeaways

Overcoming social anxiety is crucial and can be aided by simple vocal warm-ups and grounding techniques.
Understanding and adapting to local nightlife culture can enhance social and romantic opportunities.
Using playful social routines like the 'husband and wife' routine can create connection without pressure.
Consistency and taking action are key to success in social and pickup scenarios.
Travel challenges are common but can be managed with a flexible mindset.

What the video covers

Tristan Social recounts his travels through Vietnam, including visits to Ho Chi Minh City, Cu Chi tunnels, Mekong Delta, and Hanoi.
He describes the unique nightlife and bar scenes in Hanoi compared to Ho Chi Minh City.
Tristan shares his approach to overcoming social anxiety using vocal warm-ups and staying present.
He meets various people including a sweet girl from Italy and uses social routines like the 'husband and wife' routine to build connection.
The video highlights Tristan’s mindset and strategies for social interactions and pickup in a foreign country.
He emphasizes the importance of consistency and action-taking in social success.
Tristan discusses logistical travel challenges such as booking issues and hostel experiences.
He reflects on the energy and vibe of Hanoi as a city with older architecture and a lively street bar culture.
The story culminates in Tristan successfully having a threesome, one of his favorite sexual memories.
Throughout, Tristan provides tips on mindset, social dynamics, and navigating nightlife abroad.

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What is the main story Tristan Social shares in this video?

Tristan Social shares the story of how he had a threesome in Vietnam, describing his travel experiences, social mindset, and interactions that led to this memorable event.

How does Tristan Social overcome social anxiety during his night out?

He uses vocal warm-ups by repeatedly saying the ABCs to get his voice started and to ground himself in the present moment, which helps reduce anxiety and improve social confidence.

What is the 'husband and wife' routine mentioned in the video?

The 'husband and wife' routine is a playful social technique where Tristan pretends to have a fantasy connection with a girl by calling her his wife, creating a lighthearted and pressure-free way to build rapport.

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You heard it here correctly, ladies and gentlemen. Tristan Social, the one, the only, the internet phenomenon for his lovely escapades in the art of pickup and delight, did in fact have a threesome in Vietnam, and it was absolutely phenomenal.

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I'm going to go through my timeline. I have it here on the screen, as you could see. We're going to be going through my timeline of the day that I got to Vietnam, my mindset going into Vietnam,

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my mindset going to the bars, and how I pulled off one of my favorite sexual memories to this day. Ladies, gentlemen, boys and girls, strap in, but don't strap on, because it's going to be one heck of a ride. Your boy Tristan Social had a

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threesome in Vietnam. Let's go ahead and break into it. I got the notes right here, so we can go ahead and go back and forth and just enjoy each other's company. But this is reminding me of when

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I came in from Ho Chi Minh. So you got Saigon, Ho Chi Minh, that's towards the bottom of Vietnam, and you got Hanoi, the capital, which is at the top of Vietnam. The reason I was flying to Hanoi at

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this time is because when I was going through Malaysia with my homie Mike and Princess Poop Water Ry—she's going to hang me if she ever sees this video—but I was traveling with two Netherlands people,

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two Dutch people, and they told me, well, my man Mike told me, you have to go to Vietnam and you have to do the Ha Long loop. So to get to Ha Long, you got to fly up to Hanoi. I was in Hoi An. I did the

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Cu Chi tunnels. You know I like them Cu Chi tunnels. And then I also did the Mekong Delta, got a what as the Delta, but it was like something missing. I wasn't in love with Saigon. I wasn't in love with

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Ho Chi Minh. So I flew my happy buns up to Hanoi, and I was immediately enamored with the type of energy that this city held. It was much more kind of like old style. It wasn't new big buildings crazy

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all over the place like Ho Chi Minh. It was much more old style. It was like a little bit older architecture, and it was really cool. I truly enjoyed the kind of vibration that was there. I

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think one of the big things that was different—we're going to be talking about this later in the video—is that the bar scene was way different, way crazier, different than in Ho Chi Minh. So I fly into Hanoi, and the first room that

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I have doesn't have my spot, doesn't have my room available. When you go traveling, you're going to have to get used to this. Sometimes booking will say that you have a booking, and it really doesn't. It's just something that you

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have to deal with. Don't worry about it when it happens. Remember this video. But the second spot that I stayed in was a little bit nicer, but I had to skate through the streets to get there. So I

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got my suitcase, I got me, and I got my skateboard. I'm holding on to the back of this delivery truck just cruising through the streets, and it was thankfully going in the same direction that I was going. It was amazing. So I put my

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stuff down, and it's towards the night now, and I'm immediately thinking, like, I need to get out tonight. Saigon had some cool nightlife, but I'm really feeling what the vibe is in Hanoi. It's the capital of Vietnam. I want to see what's going on

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here. So in Hanoi, all of the bars that they have on the bar street, the main strip, if you ever been, you're watching this video now, you'll know what I'm talking about. But they have all of the

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vendors and all the bars putting their seats in the street, and the cops would come, and everybody would scatter and pick up their seats. But there's people eating, drinking, like, you know, eight deep in the street, like 30 rows of

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them. It was an amazing vibe. Like, everybody's in the street just chilling. It's exactly what you see on, like, one of those travel vlogs, like, "Oh, this is kind of crazy," but it's really cool in the same regard. So I'm

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walking through, I'm doing tricks, and the people in Vietnam have never seen a skateboard before. It felt like all the people there, all the vendors, and all the locals constantly telling me to do tricks, come on, constantly telling me

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to do tricks. So I had my social game, like my demonstration of high value, my DHV on point, but I still had anxiety. I don't know if it was because I wasn't interacting a bunch with a ton of people

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in Ho Chi Minh, or just, you know, sometimes you go out and your vibe isn't 100% there. So having anxiety in the night, I'm like, dude, there's no way I'm going to go ahead and work through this. I'm not

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going to submit to this nonsense. I'm going to push through, and I'm going to win here. So I said the ABCs to me in my mind to get my mind started and also to get my voice started.

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I actually have a sales call after this for somebody who wants to join our monthly coaching program. But saying the ABCs to yourself—A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, P—saying that repeatedly over and

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over and over again is going to do three things. One, it's going to allow you to get used to your own voice, so you're not just going from completely dry to trying to go ahead and charm up a girl, because it

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doesn't work like that. You have to do warm-ups. Second, it gets you out, gets that, like, I call it the engine started. It gets your tongue moving, so it's like, like I said, you're not going from dry to trying to get to wet. And

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third, it's going to get you outside of your head into the surrounding area. So if you ever find yourself dealing with anxiety and you're sitting there or standing there or walking there, and you're like inside of your thoughts, try saying

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ABCs to get you out, and then try just naming things that you see. So it brings you into the present moment: orange chair, black guy, XYZ, green tree, like you. And I'm feeling it right now, the fact

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that I can go ahead and bring myself back into the moment is everything. It's absolutely everything. So it allows you to be present and not fighting yourself in the battlefield, so you can actually go ahead and swing your blade. So I'm

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saying my ABCs, and I'm doing tricks in the street. I'm meeting people. It's a good time. And I meet the first girl from Italy, and she was a really sweet girl. She was really sweet, and she was in

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a group of people, and I could already tell at the beginning of the night she wouldn't leave. You know, there's that vibe of like, "Oh, you're really sweet. I like you, but I'm just not the type of

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girl to hook up on the first night." And I mean, I tried to push through, but I could tell just from the vibe it wasn't going to happen. She said that she was flying out the next day, so I pulled out

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the husband and wife routine. So if you guys don't know what the husband and wife routine is, it's something that I kind of like to go to sometimes, where I go over the top instead of going, "Oh, you're

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my new girlfriend." It's like I'll ask them where they're from, and then I'll ask them, like, "Oh my goodness, that's so crazy. I was actually planning on marrying a girl from that same place. Like, I was planning on, you know, having

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an Italian wife and half Italian, half black kids." Like, "That's so crazy that you're here right now." And what it does inside of the mind allows the girl to go ahead and connect with you in kind of a

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fantasy realm, not like a realistic realm where you say, "Oh, you're my new girlfriend." That implies a little bit of pressure. But if I say that you're my brand new wife, like, "Oh, you're my wife now," it gives this kind of energy of he's

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playing, but he's really sweet, and there's all these things that go and are implied of being a wife: X, Y, and Z. You know what the deal is. So we did the husband and wife routine, and the energy

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is really cute. It's really sweet. If we had more time together, I might have stayed there with her in that moment. But listen, when I'm out in the field and I have what my objective is for the night, I'm not taking second place. I'm not doing that. I'm going to go ahead and get what I want, and I had to drop a lot of shame to get there. I had to say, "Hey,

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you know, it's not wrong to hook up. It's not wrong to look for one-night stands. It's n—"

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you know it's not wrong to hook up it's not wrong to look for one night Sands it's not wrong to have casual sex there's going to be a lot of different influences from society that are going to tell you that but if you come in with

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the expectations of yourself and what you want from the night cuz you're paying money to be there don't get it wrong you either you either go to The Venue you're paying for alcohol you're you're paying for the food in your

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stomach any way that you look at it you're not being there for free so you have to be there with intention for what it is that you want and if that other person's intentions for going out tonight don't match your intentions

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that's not a problem you don't have to go ahead and and be like oh my God it's so sad say hey kindly I think you're really sweet and maybe if we had more time together I would really like to

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explore this but tonight I'm really looking for somebody to enjoy the night with in an intimate way if that's not you hey no problems it was really nice to meet you if that is you I'd love to explore this a little bit more oh it's

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not you hey no worries no harm no foul I hope you have a wonderful night so I wish her well and we keep moving and then I'm skating through the streets and I find my next spot and at the time I

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I'm if you if you guys listen to my stories about 90% of them is going to be completely sober there's sometimes where I'm going to have like some champ or back when I used to smoke weed I'll tell stories but really 90% of the time

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91% of the time I'd even say all the stories that you're going to hear are sober I don't use alcohol really much at all to give me social lubricant just because I've trained my brain to go ahead and react in situations that make

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me more of the program of I'm going to be outgoing instead of introverted so I do some tricks for the for the locals and then I come across a girl standing on a corner and she's a little thick

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yawn oh my goodness she was was like the thick white European girls got sleeper Builds on them buddy like what the heck is she is thick as can be but like doesn't it's not like like black girl thick where it's like damn shorty thick

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or like even Latina thick where it's like damn shorty thick it's like you got to like triple take and you like look at her thighs and you look at like she's kind of wearing some loose clothing like damn that's some ass up underneath that

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she got some buns up oh what what she had like a a tongue piercing tattoos little dainty tattoos over she was from Poland shorty was thick little like pale light-skinned white girl oh she was delicious and so her and I start talking

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and I'm wearing my black only fan only fan shirt at the time this back when I was still doing only fans and like we get to chopping it up I'm like I'm flirting heavy at this point I've already got my first kid it's kissing

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the night I'm already feeling good and she said like we're going shooting the [ __ ] back and forth she said she was down to do a video with me but it wasn't not that night because uh she was going

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to leave with her friend that night she wasn't going to leave her friend she was going to leave with her friend but she said she was down to like reconvene reconnect another day cuz they had an Excursion plan in the morning it's one

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thing that you're going to have to go ahead and work around a lot of the times when you're traveling is like other people's itar it's not super super common that you're going to run across somebody that doesn't have anything

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planned you got to kind of play the logistics game and and a huge thing in in hookup is playing the logistics game like making sure that your setup your your home where wherever it is that you're going to do the lay at is really

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easy easy to get to and you don't have to have that person think about how to get there because as soon as the other person starts thinking that removes the hypnosis it removes the illusion of like oh my God this is like a movie this is

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all happening so fast oh whoa whoa whoa and then it allows them to have their logical brain come in and be like ah I don't really know this person or I don't want to do that but if it's all fluid in

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one motion and this isn't manipulation this is just going it's like a movie if the movie flows you're going to keep on watching the movie but if you're watching a movie and it feels chunky and Scattered and the doesn't know what he's

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doing it's natural to be like ah I don't trust you to go into that situation with you so you want to make it as logically sound as possible so I'm like all right let me grab your number we're going to

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go ahead and reconnect and right after I got her number I made out with her and she said she was down I'm doing only fans video with me I'm like bro link that let's run that shorty thick Polish

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Girl like with a with the shit's off the rib I'm going to circle back on that so I got her number and I'm like thinking at this point okay I man out with two girls what more can we really want out of the

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night but I'm like you know what let's keep pushing this is the first night in Hanoi I think that there's something really magical here and I really wanted to keep it moving so I'm doing tricks for the locals again this is a recurring

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theme like I'm I'm active I'm sweaty I'm like keeping my energy and my my social level is high here and I'm sitting on a curb taking a little bit break and I stand up and three girls walk right in

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past right in front of me right when I stand up and uh they're they're standing arm and arm I remember them walking specifically it was one short girl one mediumsized girl a little bit taller girl and the taller girl was on the end

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of to the left uh middle girl shortest girl and the taller one looks back at me and I'm like oh it's game time buddy come on stop playing I'm taking that to the yam Factory she was like a little

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slim thick model type she was from uh England not she's a cute cute face it wasn't she wasn't ugly by any means but she had like that little like little bit thicker than a model but not thick not

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slim thick just like a little bit extra on her but not fat you know what I'm talking about that that kind of like athletic kind of maybe like a swimmer build you know what I'm talking about but she had like a dress that was like a

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Flor dress but a little bit too short for her so she kept pulling it down and the yeeks was just hanging out buddy like left cheek was just you know the fold oh my goodness you know the fold

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buddy you know the booty fold that [ __ ] was just hanging out so she looks back and like I'm like yo come here and she's like no come here so I throw my skateboard down we go ahead and

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run back towards it I started chopping up with her bada boom bada bing babe like the the energy is on on fire like you already know when something is is about to go down um she is with these

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other girls one is from Australia one is from the Netherlands and they all met in a hostel and we're chopping up we're just talking about Adventures what we have planned where was everybody from I'm from California but I live in Mexico

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blah blah blah I was going to move to Thailand and didn't work out so um Aussie girl so Netherlands girl gets up Netherlands girl gets up and and says okay I'm going to go back to the hostel I just want to you know shower and in my

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night so it's cool so it's me aie girl and we're going like me English girl and then the middle girl was from Aussie uh Australia and we're going around from a couple different bars I'm not drinking at this time but I'm buying them drinks

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I'm just lubricating the night and one of the we're sitting down and the other girl walks up to a bar and there's a sign that says sex clothes and the the it said sex club just like in a neon

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sign she oh sex club and I see her kind of like wander off a little bit but she says sex club kind of loud and then I see some Vietnamese dude start following her and start hitting on her like oh

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let's go to the sex club let's go to the sex club and I could immediately tell this dude had one no game two he was a little bit on the weird side and three she was just not interested in it at all

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I could tell it just wasn't her type whatsoever um so obviously not into him she comes back and sits down next to me and the England girl and he comes back over and I'm I take the lead I'm like I

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could already see the writing on the wall like okay this is not what she wants we're going to go ahead and handle this situation as a man should like I put so I'm sitting down next to England girl I have my arm around her and then I

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tell Aussie girl to come in and I have a long arm so I reach her around and put my arm on both of them and I tell the guy hey you know these are my girlfriends sorry about that like she

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just said sex club cuz she's drunk right now she wasn't nobody's really drunk we they were barely leaving Tipsy um but it was just like like dude come on so I take the lead at put my arm around both

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of them and then after the guy leaves I notice that the Aussie girl doesn't immediately get up under my arm after the dude leaves and I'm like wait a second sir I'm going to go ahead and uh grab this momentary brief

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interaction right here cuz when it comes to hookup and it comes to fluidity as well you have such a small window to seize opportunity sometimes that the best thing that you can do is grab that when it comes and I want you guys to get

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into the to the minds said if this opportunity has presented itself to me because it's my opportunity to win if I don't take this opportunity somebody else is going to have this opportunity presented to them and they're going to

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go ahead and take care of it and that person is not going to be as good as me in my job so I need to go ahead and make sure for all parties engaged here that I make this happen on this attempt right

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here this is made for me the biggest thing about action takers in a university in my private group is just taking action consistently consistently consistently because what you find is you're going to find patterns and the more patterns that you find the more

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that you're able to go ahead and exploit those patterns and then figure out the game behind those patterns and if you can figure out the game behind the patterns then you're going to be winning more often than not nobody's 100% you're

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going to hear me say this inside of the private group that this is Art not Science 2 plus 2 does not always equal four it could be a really romantic six so it doesn't have to make sense all the

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time so I noticed that she doesn't get up right away from underneath my arm and I'm like let me make a proposition here cuz I like what I like and maybe these girls like what they like as well and

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I'm not going to make an assumption I'm going to make a proposition cuz that's what we do baby so I say hey it's getting late let's go back to my place and have fun and I'll never forget the

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look that this this England girl gave to the Australian girl then the Australian girl gave to the English girl and then the the English girl says let's go have fun and the Australian girl says okay bada boom baby I yammed

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on I take it back I'm like let's get the taxi we're going back to my place they're staying in a hostel so they're happy to come back and get a like warm shower and have a private room I don't I

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don't bag on hostals whatsoever I enjoy the hostile environment but logistically like I was saying earlier in the video buddy yeah when I'm yamming I need to have my yam space I'm not sharing the yam Factory with no other workers okay

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when it's time to yamy yam I'm jamming jamming I'm not looking for no dealing with security at the front door I'm not looking for oh come back to my hostile cubby and do all this no when it's yam

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time it's yam time I'm driving the lane baby don't even try and stop me I'm lebronto the whole son stop playing with me I don't play around when it comes to Logistics and if you want to get good at pickup

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stop playing around with the logistics make sure your Logistics are set so that you know where it is that you're leading the night it's like you go and try and like hook up with a girl and you even

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get to that point subconsciously you're going to be thinking like dude I have nowhere to take her so I'm not even going to be making the right movements to get there but if you have everything lined up then you can go ahead and make

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the transition smoothly and effortlessly and that's where the real magic happens is you want to get to the point where it just feels like a movie like it's your director and you're orchestrating the orchestra you feel like Mickey Mouse

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with the with the wand he's just throwing the water around so we go back to the room I handle the situation tough baby bada boom bada bing I put them in a sleeper hole I was throwing them around

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and when you're the only man in the threesome as you know I hope that you are not judging you for your preferences but I know a lot of my men out there watching these videos you want to be the

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only man in the room you got to be able to do be like a straight shot caller you go here you do this touch each other there you want to be able to just move and groove and be the be the

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orchestrator on the on the court you want to be the coach and the star player so I'm putting the work in on them I'm like they ain't going i s that Jimmy on Bo I'm I'm doing an All-Star performance

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my first night in Vietnam just got the plane from like lower part of vietn come on baby this is this is this is the opportunity that the Universe gave to me to go ahead and take and I'm taking that

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thing to the to the rim to the gym to the to the Sim baby so about an hour hour and a half goes by and Aussie girl leaves to go back to her hustle England girls she knocked out she she got the

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brunt of it she she we kept going rounds but she couldn't even get up really to to go ahead and and walk up out of the room she passed out oh man trist you did the work to me yeah buddy yeah buddy so

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England girl stays and then she leaves in the morning and then I'm like dang that was an amazing night I feel amazing let me go and enjoy Hanoi some more stay out do a couple of things check out a

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couple places go to a couple museums um but 3 days later I go on the bus to go up North and to go to hang where the where the loop is to do the motorcycle tour and I take the

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sleeper bus and there's some clips from the sleeper bus I'm not going to put them in this video I'm honestly lazy when it comes to to video creation that's why I just like talking to you guys for 20 minutes but um I go up to

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hang and we do the check-in in the morning um to go ahead and go on the motorcycle tour and guess who's on the motorcycle tour with me you wouldn't believe it the three girls that I met that night two of them which came back

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home to American boppy and put the people's elbow in them like the rock did talking no Boulder baby no Colorado baby but nothing happened later after that with them but I felt like the man because the two three two of the three

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cutest girls on the tour I smacked down in one night together reputation got out that I was the king of pound town and life was good I think some of the big lessons that you guys can take away from

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this is take action when action presents itself have your Logistics set and build yourself up to the man that feels like he's confident and able to be the person that two other people look at and be like dang we can share this guy he's the

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man to do the job a lot of guys try and cheat the work they look at my body and think oh you know I used to be skinny bro I didn't cheat the gym you can't cheat the gym you can't you can't cheat

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225 like you you really have to put yourself into the ringer to get to this point and women feel that they feel a man that has not cheated the grind so if you ever feel like you're cheating the

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grind stop cheating the grind and understand that there's going to be a time when the grind pays off and you get to the top of the mountain you're glad you did the workouts necessary to make it as easy as possible cuz even if you

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get to the top of the mountain by cheating you have to climb down so if you got value out of this video if you feel like you could have a 3ome Vietnam just based off the story that I told you

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go up to Hanoi run the streets do some tricks for some locals and grab two shorties from two different continents go ahead and give me a subscribe if I give you a little bit of value go ahead and hit me with a

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subscribe leave a comment I love seeing what you guys comment I love being like a a person that you guys can come to for stories advice hookups anything like that I love being that man for you and I

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hope that I inspire you to live a life with less shame than you're living right now and more joy in your daytoday process so do your push-ups do your journaling do your meditations and do your reading become a better person and

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have as much fun as you can in this lifetime and enjoy every single process because you're going to go as far as you can see and then when you get there you're going to see how you can go

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further and then there's one day that you can't go any further and you're going to have to pass the torch to another person so I love you with all of my heart hope you enjoyed this video If You did leave a subscribe leave a like

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leave a comment and I'll see you guys on the next one tring out

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