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I wanted to get married. I still want to get married. I became, uh, just as much of a jerk as my man.
A critical analysis of female double standards in relationships and marriage expectations from a male perspective.
Key Takeaways
- Women often set strict deadlines for marriage proposals, creating pressure on men.
- Double standards exist where women can date multiple men but expect exclusivity from men.
- Men’s traditional roles of provider and protector are undervalued and minimized today.
- Marriage is stereotypically seen as a source of happiness, but reality shows high divorce rates.
- Understanding and addressing these relationship double standards is crucial for healthy dynamics.
What the video covers
- The speaker discusses the pressure women place on men to propose marriage within set deadlines.
- He highlights the double standards where women date multiple men but expect exclusivity from men.
- Men’s traditional roles are minimized in modern society, while women’s roles are often exaggerated.
- The speaker critiques women’s expectations of men to be providers and caretakers silently.
- He points out the hypocrisy in women complaining about daily chores despite modern conveniences.
- The video explores the concept of male authority and respect in relationships.
- It discusses the societal stereotype that marriage guarantees happiness, despite high divorce rates.
- The speaker reflects on personal experiences and observations about dating and marriage.
- The video emphasizes the imbalance in relationship expectations and the pragmatic nature of women.
- It concludes with a call to recognize and address these double standards in modern relationships.
Chapters
- 00:00Introduction and Marriage Deadlines
- 00:59Women’s Expectations and Double Standards
- 04:27Men’s Role and Societal Expectations
- 06:35Daily Life Challenges and Gender Roles
- 08:10Insights from King Kong and Relationship Dynamics
- 09:07Marriage Stereotypes and Personal Reflections
- 10:53Conclusion on Relationship Double Standards
Full Transcript — Download SRT & Markdown
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Men’s tasks in life are completely minimized. Minimized. For men who have never been married, well, let's just say something is wrong with them.
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I don’t want to sit in a relationship for several years with... Go ahead, start acting like a complete jerk.
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Whoa, whoa, take it easy. Well, you get the point. Today, as always, it’s going to be interesting. Hello, dear friends. I am a former TV host who has written and covered hundreds of stories, including ones about relationships.
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Today is another parade of female thought. One sets deadlines for getting married. The second proves that life is much easier for a man. The third found an insight in King. The fourth likes to cry in her old age. The reason: no one
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is marrying her. And the fifth, most interestingly, teaches how to be a jerk. Watch until the end, it will be very interesting.
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As I said before, I wanted to get married, I still want to get married, and I don't want to sit in a relationship for several years with... So, in past relationships, my deadline for a proposal was 2 years, now it's one.
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So sorry, we can walk around holding hands for a year, and if nothing comes of it. Arrivederci, goodbye. I already know what happens next. You don't have to show me.
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Look how simple it is: if you didn't propose, you're automatically out, decided the little princess. She sets deadlines. It used to be 2 years, now it's just one. Well, very soon it will be counted in months, or maybe even
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weeks. Walked around holding hands for a week, didn't propose. Goodbye, Arrivederci. And now a question for you, men. To you. What deadlines do you set? Well, if you're sane, only one deadline: when she stops nagging you about getting married. You must
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understand that this isn't a test of love; it’s a test of your manageability. If you agree to marriage under the current legal framework on disadvantageous terms, then you're a good boy. It means you truly... I have the opportunity at the moment to talk to
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several men simultaneously, to accept courtship from several men simultaneously. And, first, I am free, and, second, I believe that I can afford this. I know what I am worth.
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And, well, one can do very well indeed. Translating from "womanese," as always, into something understandable. She is free, which means she can date several people, including sleeping with them.
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But you, but you cannot. You are expected to pick her specifically, with high mileage, a baggage of STDs, or surprises in the form of kids, and then, of course, call it happiness. But in all seriousness, you are getting a
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product from the second-hand market—redundant to say "product"—where three, five, or perhaps even everyone at once has already used it before you.
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And now girls like ours suddenly tell you: "Appreciate it, I want a white dress. The deadline is one year." I can hang out with someone else, go on dates with someone else, receive flowers from someone else. But if I
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find out that some young man is courting me while also sleeping with or courting someone else, hanging out with someone else, he’s gone. Such double standards, right? Because, I repeat, I am the one choosing. A man courts a
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woman, I observe these courtships, and I choose. Good for her, at least she admitted it.
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Double standards are when she can do it, but you are out. You must understand that you are being judged not as a person, not as a man, but as a servant, a champion of courtship, a master of
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bending over backwards, a pro at groveling. In her worldview, whoever brought more, whoever bowed lower, is the lucky one who will lead her to the registry office.
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I realize that I 100% won't marry him. Do I tell him that he doesn't meet the criteria, so he’s just a friend? No.
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Why? I don't warn him about this right away. I waste his time, I waste his money, yes, he takes me on dates, ugh, and I don't understand why I need to do that.
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That's the whole "meek" female nature for you. She knows she won't marry him. She knows it 100%, but stays silent.
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Why say anything, buddy? For going to restaurants, it's just so wonderful. Let him take her out, let him spend, let him pay. The conclusion here is absolutely simple: a pursuit of profit everywhere, where you can take, use, and keep in reserve. Men in our modern
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world have it very easy. Why, you ask? You might ask me. I will say: "Because men's tasks in life are actually minimized. Minimized, mini-mini-mini-mini. Meaning, his task is to go to work in the morning and earn money. Since time immemorial, how
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was it? In ancient times, he caught a mammoth, brought it to his family, fed everyone, everyone is full, everyone is satisfied, everyone is happy." Another princess decided to take on economics.
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Devaluing a man is an absolute norm for them. You have to get used to it. But try to devalue her. Say, for example, that giving birth is their function.
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The screaming will be horrendous. Although it is so. It really is so. Childbearing is their function, just as providing is for men. Only he, unlike girls, performs his function in absolute silence. They are constantly whining into this camera. She calls a
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man’s life easy, well, honey. Then go to his job, sit there, listen to his boss. Not the one who coddles you, but the one who demands, because you are a man. No. Well, it's only easy to talk about.
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A woman needs to cook, take care of the kids, clean, do laundry, please her husband, satisfy the children, take them to the clinic, and on top of that, go to work and earn money. So if I were asked, man or woman, I would say: "I
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was a man." She read out a list of sufferings: cooking, cleaning, laundry, taking kids out, pleasing her husband. What a victim. A victim of circumstances. And who are you even cooking for, honey?
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For your family, for your children? Does an evil boss force you? Are you given some kind of quota? Will you be punished for non-compliance? Millions of men go to grueling jobs, endure, get stressed, and stay silent. They have no
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one to whine to, because they’ll be called unmanly. She lists daily chores. And calls that true suffering. In the 21st century, she has a washing machine, delivery gadgets, services.
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Everything, absolutely everything has been made easier, yet they still find it hard. For a family you love, girls, it's always hard.
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In my childhood, I watched the movie King Kong. Back then, it was just a movie about monkeys. I rewatched it the other day and had a very important insight. What kind of man does a woman need? A woman needs a man who takes
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care of her. Insight of the century. Rewatched King Kong and figured it all out. My dear girl, do you remember the ending? That huge ape she was talking about was destroyed because the little ape wanted to take care so much, loved so much,
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that it went where it shouldn't have. That’s their whole female request: that he takes care, but doesn't stifle; that he loves, but doesn't cling; that he’s around, but doesn't interfere.
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In short, that he be King Kong and die. In 2007, I had a relationship that was heading toward marriage, but we ended up breaking up in 2008, I suppose he's divorced, has two children. He says that, ah, well, I wouldn't marry again.
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You immediately realize that, like there's nothing to catch here, no one is marrying you. It wasn't for nothing that I showed you the young girl in the beginning who sets all sorts of deadlines. Now, this more mature, experienced, older one. Both women.
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Well, that's obvious, let's not deny it. The difference is just a couple of decades, but nothing has changed in their heads. That one wanted to get married back then and still wants to now. This one wants to as well. That
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young lady is being picky, while this one has already picked until there's nothing left. It's the same broken record for them constantly. The marriage stereotype is hardwired into their heads. As if marriage will make them happy. Really? Then why are you
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all getting divorced without exc...
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When men, specifically those who have never been married, they’re, well, let’s say there's something wrong with them. And if they have already been married, they don't want to enter into it a second time. And it turns out I'll never get married. I wanted a
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family so much. And this confirms what I was talking about at the very beginning. Men who have never been married have turned on their critical thinking. Fortunately, they’ve learned to think for themselves and realized that they won’t find
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happiness in marriage under modern laws . So what about our grown-up princess? She decided that there is something wrong with them. With the men; that they are inadequate. Seriously, inadequacy is remaining a princess in your forties and waiting for a prince
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in a white G-Wagon, or a Mercedes, an Audi, I don't know. I talk more about the markers of adequacy in a modern woman on Boosty. A sign of adequacy, by which you can tell if a woman is doing
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okay, is, of course, her attitude toward her father. It is the litmus test I talked about. Her attitude toward her father is an entirely separate story. Pay attention not just to how she talks about him, the father, but with what intonation. A woman who
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speaks with warmth and respect about her father shows that she has a healthy model of a father figure inside her.
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This is very important. She understands who a man is, his male role, his male authority. And, importantly, she knows how to value it. The link is in the video description. Surely you have men like this whom you already want to dump
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, like a suitcase, you know, with no handle. Take it, start acting like a complete. There. Well, everything that entails. Cheat, lie, manipulate, extort money from him, ask him directly to do things you haven't done before, things you haven't allowed yourself,
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and you will see how your reality will change. Another psychologist is filling women's heads with garbage. Only a fool would advise something like this, because a sensible person understands that such behavior will not lead to anything good . You won't become strong, you'll
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become a, a lonely. She teaches women to be trash and then wonders why they get dumped.
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I only really understood this when I became just as big a jerk as my man and started doing everything he did. Lying, cheating, and deceiving. When you start doing this, you don't actually become a jerk, a cheater, or a liar. You will
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only do it with people who only understand that language. Dear friends, the last heroine is extremely pathetic and messed up. Such ladies completely kill any desire for normal women to be natural, to be women , to self-actualize as women. Yes, a
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woman is undoubtedly pragmatic. At times very cunning, but next to a strong man she can be safe, she can be worthy of attention. That is a very important word. It is precisely for this that he values and respects her,
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and that is what she needs. A strong man never dates trash, gold diggers, or lustful hookers. He values himself too much to waste his time on that crap.
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And the lady in the video teaches exactly one thing: that women will just remain unhappy. It's impossible to respect a jerk because they are just meant to be used and discarded. Thanks for being with me today. Be sure to
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