Speaker A
10 more lies women tell men every single day. Number one, "He's just a friend." Translation, [music] "He's my backup plan." There is no platonic male best friend who isn't secretly hoping for something more. Men don't pour hours of attention into a woman for no reason. [music] Never ignore the friend. Number two, "I didn't see his text." Translation, "I saw it. I just didn't want to answer." She lives on that phone. If she wanted to respond, she would. Number three, "I'm not ready for a relationship." Translation, "I'm not ready for a relationship with you." [music] When the right guy comes along, suddenly there's time, energy, and motivation. If she's constantly confused about you, you probably aren't her choice. Number four, [music] "I just want a nice guy." Translation, "Nice isn't enough. Attraction still matters." Number five, "Money doesn't matter to me." Translation, [music] "Money might not be everything, but stability matters." Number six, "My past doesn't matter." Translation, "Watch the patterns." Number seven, "I've changed." Translation, "Don't listen to the promise. Watch the behavior." Number eight, [music] "I don't know what I want." Translation, "Sometimes the answer is simply not you." Number nine, "I care about you." Translation, [music] "If the behavior constantly says otherwise, the words mean very little." And number 10, [music] "Just trust me." Translation, "Trust isn't built by what someone says, it's built [music] by what they repeatedly do." Stop listening only to words. Watch the actions [music] because sometimes the hardest truth isn't discovering that someone lied, it's accepting what their behavior has been telling you all along.
