HOW WOMEN GET ATTACHED – Elements of Female NATURE desi… — Transcript

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we're going to be getting into a little bit of a different concept today, but today I'm going to be teaching you how women actually fall in love and the elements of female desire.

Because what men are convinced of certain things in today's world like it has to have chemistry, there I have to be high value, I have to demonstrate value to her, I have to show her my worth, I have to learn a bunch of game, I have to learn a bunch of tactics, these are the things that's literally crushing your desire with her.

Now, I'm going to also say this, do not use this for evil, and I really mean that, the things I'm going to be teaching you on today's presentation is probably a bit higher level, um, it really it actually really is higher level thinking and higher level aspects of just being a human.

And in the wrong hands, this could be used for negativity, which means I do not want you to do to use this to get, you know, women who you have no interest in in the future, um, attached to you or obsessed with you, I do not want you to use this to just sleep with as many as as many women as possible, I also do not want you to use this to try to boost your own ego, um, but this is seriously some deep stuff, so stay with me for the whole presentation because it is actually going to be worth your time and I'm not just saying that.

After this video is over as well, I want you to go down below and I want you to check out the MBT webinar, MBT stands for masculine behavioral techniques, this is my own proprietary system that I've used with thousands of men across the globe, be sure to hop into that presentation after because it will change your life and it's going to actually help you get results in your dating life at a far quicker pace, so let's dive in, I am super excited for today's video as well.

Now, today we're showing exactly how women deeply fall into love and get attached.

And I'm going to tell you this, this video will piss some of you off because you're going to realize that probably the world has lied to you in quite a few ways and you're going to be sitting there going, damn, I've been chasing all these things that are never going to actually lead me to the final destination that I think it will and you have probably been chasing something that you'll never be able to catch because it doesn't exist.

So, here's what the world wants you to think, this is what the world wants men to think, the world wants men to think that you need all these boxes checked to like qualify to a woman or to prove your worth or to prove yourself, okay, and you're going to hear things like, well, you need skills and you need to be high value, okay, then she's going to have all this love and this chemistry and this attraction and just adore you.

Okay, then you're going to hear stuff like, you know, one day when you wake up and you've made it and you're a millionaire and all of a sudden you, uh, have these six-pack abs, you're going to have this unlimited confidence and you're going to just feel amazing, and here's the truth, okay, the truth is that there is no end point to success or a final destination that will ever make you feel free, okay, free to walk up and talk to that girl, free to live life how you want, free to dress how you want, free to talk how you want, nothing's going to ever do that for you, nothing, there's no materialistic thing that will ever give you that false internal confidence or conviction in yourself, another thing that the world wants you to think is that women only look at like materialistic stats, oh, he has money, so, oh, now that means he's a man to her, it's not how this shit works, okay, or that you're not good enough.

This is all bullshit, the way that a woman falls in love has nothing to do with chemistry, it has nothing to do with, uh, compatibility, it has nothing to do with her liking you, sometimes it doesn't even have anything to do with her respecting you.

Women only fall in love when there is a discrepancy between you and her in sexual market value.

Meaning, whatever she views herself as, you can use a rating on one to ten, she views you above her.

Now, what this is, is this is a frame of value.

She has categorized you, okay?

Let me give you an example of what this would look like, if you are at a bar, okay, this is just completely hypothetical, stick with me, because frames of value, women, women can't control their attraction, like just like you can't control what you're attracted to.

What if you see a beautiful woman, whether you're a good guy, whether you're a bad guy, whether you're a mean guy, whether you're a happy guy.

Doesn't matter how you were raised or what your personal beliefs are, when you are attracted to something and you find it arousing or you find a woman beautiful, you can't help it.

It's the same with with women.

Women have things they find attractive in men, so, women only fall in love when there is a discrepancy between you and her in sexual market value, she thinks yours is above hers, this is called a frame of value, here's an example, you're at a bar, okay, you're a multi-millionaire with a private jet, you're sitting around a table and there's ten people total, there's three other men and there's, so that's four total, and there's six women, there's ten people total, okay, the one guy sitting there who's the brokest, let's say, or he's the one who, let's say, just doesn't give a fuck or lives however he wants, and let's say someone says something and he says just a good witty one-liner, like it's a joke, all the women think it's hilarious, and he wasn't even trying to be funny, like maybe he sits there stone cold when he delivers it and it's just the way he delivered it was hilarious.

In that exact moment, they are going to have more attraction and arousal towards that guy because he has inflated the emotional state and the value of the entire collective of people sitting there.

So, in that exact moment, he may have more market value sexually than you, even if you have all the boxes checked.

So, there are some hidden skills that men have not actually learned about attracting women or even just how to be themselves for that matter.

So, that's it, a discrepancy in SMV, sexual market value.

She looks at you and she's like, man, this guy's cooler than me, this guy is more popular than me, this guy is more outgoing than me, this guy takes risks and says things that I would never say.

Or she might look at that guy and go, man, this guy is more interesting than me, okay, this guy is more well-known than me.

This is why women like popular guys, this is why women like guys with status, but the thing is, is men don't necessarily understand how women perceive status.

Women perceive status based off how you're being judged from the collective whole of the people that you're around.

And there's ways that you can demonstrate status, but what you have to understand is there will never be anything on paper, like I, okay, yeah, I'm going to get to that point in a second, just stick with me, this will make sense.

Okay, not only that, the discrepancy in sexual market value also happens to come when she sees that you are desired by other women.

This has nothing to do with chemistry, okay?

In fact, when you check all these boxes, then she feels chemistry, okay?

Majority of men think if they build rapport with her, if they have things in common, if they spend enough time with her, she's going to get attached, no, that is not how this works.

When a woman stops looking up to you, okay, she starts to look down on you.

When she looks down on you, she thinks she's better than you, when she thinks she's better than you, she exits.

Because there's something about your personality that demonstrated some sort of weakness, some sort of insecurity, some sort of turn off, or some sort of attachment that she viewed as unattractive, okay?

So, the only difference with what I'm saying versus majority of the content creators is majority of the content creators are going to tell you that a woman only looks up to you.

When you have all of these boxes checked on paper, okay, like, oh, you're only, uh, let you're only making 80k a year, so like, that's going to like that has nothing to do.

When you when you walk down the street and or you talk to a woman at at an event, a party, women don't often times know how much money you make.

Women don't know where your status is, you start to demonstrate these things by conviction, confidence, personality.

So, what's the key to this?

The key to this is you got to like, when I, you got to really ask yourself why you live the way you do, okay?

Because if you're if if you take a look, you have 24 hours in a day, if you chop up and divide how you're living those 24 hours, most people are living them, okay, just for the satisfaction or the validation that they may get from others.

Here's what I mean by that, you're the guy where you say, you know, if I make all this money or I hustle for the next five years in my business, then I'll have the admiration of women, or if you say these things like, you know, if I just get six-pack abs, then I'm going to be valued and respected by other people because I look super fit.

And most of the time people like the women that you talk to, they just don't give a fuck, because when you have to self-qualify, when you have when you tell yourself you have to build yourself, when you tell yourself you have to do all of these things to gain other people's approval, that is when you ruin the whole thing, okay?

Am I against self-improvement, absolutely not.

Me myself, of course, I've been I I I try to improve every day, right, I try to improve, um, the content on this channel.

I try to improve my health, I try to improve, let's say, uh, my circumstances, I try to learn new skills.

But it's for me, because as an individual, that's what makes up my life.

It's not for the validation of other people.

So, how do you start to live like this, where you talk how you want, you operate life on your own terms?

You're willing just to be how you want to be.

The key is to be present in the moment and 100% confident with yourself to actually let go and just not give a fuck, okay?

The ability to just not give a fuck.

If you can adapt the I don't give a fuck mentality, but not just say it, like you actually mean it, like you genuinely don't give a fuck what other people think, how they view you should live your life.

If you're at a ten out of ten in life satisfaction, and you have another person who looks down on you for the choices that you're making, you got to understand that they just see the world through a different lens.

Women are only looking at the man from a sense of is he 100% confident within his own identity, within his personality, and this is what makes up an alpha male, okay?

The internal.

I've been trying so hard for the past three months on this channel talking about internal high value, and it is the hardest thing to discuss because it goes against what all the other content creators say.

That makes a man high value because I'm talking about the internal traits.

When women when women are present in the moment with a guy, they are looking at who he is from the inside out, the guts of the man, what makes him him.

The key is to be 100% self-confident, okay?

100% and genuinely not give a fuck.

And I'm going to explain why this is so important right now.

You could most guys, if you're if you're watching this channel and maybe some days you wake up and you're insecure, you don't feel good or like you are not very confident or you're shy.

All of those things if you're like, man, I wish I could I could change myself.

Most guys, you could put five million bucks in their bank account right now, you could give guys a six-pack abs, wide shoulders, chest full of muscle, okay?

You could give these guys fame.

If you snap your fingers and you said, here's a two million Instagram followers, you're a celebrity, everyone loves you.

You could also give that guy all of a sudden, um, six foot five height, or height, however you say that, you make him six foot five.

And you could give him, let's say, uh, male model quality looks.

Most men, if you gave them everything on the external, they are still insecure as fuck from the inside out, they are insecure as fuck because internally, the guts of the man, they have an impoverished identity.

Who they are, they don't think is naturally good enough.

The problem with adding shit to the external is you never fix the internal, and you realize that your internal is moved, your internal is changed.

Because the the guts of you, who you are from the inside out, your personality has been influenced by the external world, okay?

From the way you dress, the way you do your hair, the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you operate, what you think is socially normal, everything, it's because of what you've seen.

Well, how do you make up your reality?

You make up your reality by what your eyes see, and then what your ears, um, hear.

What you hear and what you see becomes your reality.

Right now, since we live in such a digital world, it's not very common for men to approach women anymore, often times guys are sitting there on their cell phone, they don't ever walk up to a woman and they say hello.

Well, okay, how it like think about this for a second, if that guy would just watch one other guy go approach, if you watch one guy go, if you're sitting at a sports bar, or you're sitting at a club, or you're you're out on the park at the park, and you watch a guy go approach a beautiful woman and introduce himself and ask for out, if that's the first time you've ever seen that happen, since it's not very normal anymore, once you see that, you go, hmm, maybe that is normal.

Well, then if you see two guys do it, then it becomes more normal.

And three guys and four guys and pretty soon that becomes the reality.

What I'm saying is the reality that you've seen from the day you were born until now has been constructed for you, so the goals that you think that you want to achieve, they're only important because of what your ears have heard and what your eyes have seen.

Think about that for a second.

Imagine that, what if you started from a clean slate and you took a pen and paper and you said, what do I actually want?

How do I actually want to live?

You are probably not confident or you're true authentic self or what you want to be or how you want to sound because you are living in a mental reality that has been put in front of you to to get you to chase certain goals that you as an individual might not even find super important.

Think about that for a second.

Most guys, you could give them every single external materialistic, status-driven metric to go and tell yourself to give yourself all the proof that you made it now.

And they're still on the inside nervous, or they're still on the inside anxiety, they're still on the inside can't let go.

If the the ability to not give a fuck, that is how a woman views an alpha male.

And I'm telling you, you can do that in normal everyday car or you can do that in a Maserati.

You can do that on a private plane or you can do that flying normal airline.

There comes a point where you just have to let go, realize that who you are, you have value because God created you in the first place.

You have value because you have balls between your legs and you're a man.

So start fucking just acting like it.

It's okay to go after what you want.

So, when you think about this at a deep level, when most guys are like, oh, I want all this muscle or I want abs, you actually don't want abs, you tell yourself you do, you tell yourself you're in the gym for you, but what you really want is confidence.

What you really want is you think, oh, when I get my abs and my muscle, you you're going to be like, oh, now I'll have the confidence to talk to Sally at, uh, the restaurant.

Think think how stupid that is.

You try to build the external to fix the internal, I'm not saying disregard your goals, I'm not saying don't self-improve, I'm not saying don't build muscle, look at me, I I have a I have tons of muscle, anyone who's seen me on my Instagram, I've worked out for ten years, but you got to ask yourself why you're doing it, okay?

You got to ask yourself why you chase these things.

Okay, look look look at even me myself.

Look at the unconventional role that I chose to sit here on this camera to talk to you guys, to help you guys.

Right, to build kind of my mission and what I'm doing and how I want to communicate to the world.

That took some level of guts because this isn't very common what I do.

So, right away when I started it, some people probably thought I was weird.

But then as when you keep building it, you keep you get fixed in your identity where you're like, okay, I am who I say I am, I know who I am.

This this is so needed.

So, you don't want muscle and you don't want abs, you actually just want confidence.

Most of you, you don't want to build a business, you tell yourself you want to build a business, but you don't, you want the excuse now to act like you get to feel good enough, like, oh, now I got now I can allow myself to feel good enough because I have a million dollars in the bank.

I'm going to tell you something.

You will feel the same on the inside, no matter where you're at in life.

No matter where you're at.

Doesn't matter.

A woman wants to see you have that level of confidence where no matter where you're at, you're still a solid, stable rock, you know who you are.

Okay?

Then you have a frame of value.

Now, if the millionaire on the boat who's six foot five sends a text message that says, baby, baby, are you sad at me, are you mad at me, he failed, he's not high value.

If the guy who has six-pack abs is still on the inside shy and super hesitant when he talks to women, she's going to see this was all done on the external just because he doesn't feel good enough.

If the, uh, let's say, let's say the guy who's six foot five and has a Maserati and abs and a business, he he hold he holds when he's holding her hand, he holds that hand just a little too long.

He goes in for one too many kisses.

Interest test failed.

He calls her one too many times, he starts initiating contact, he's no longer chasing his goals in life or how he wants to live for himself because you're an individual human too, he's now attached to this other person, interest test failed.

That guy who's a millionaire can go from a ten out of ten to a three out of ten just like that overnight.

And that's why I'm telling you, it's inside.

This is what none of the other content creators get.

Another thing too that another a lot of the content creators don't understand is a man's ability to, um, say no to evil.

This is so big.

If a woman sees, oh, this this guy, um, this guy makes a bunch of money and this guy has a bunch of muscle, but all he does is engage in lustful behavior, bounces from club to club to club to prove to himself he can talk to the next girl.

Constantly in this never-ending loop of alcohol or chasing the next thing or caught in lust.

He's going to look like the weakest man ever.

It's going to look like the women have so much power over him.

Like these these men who call themselves high value males, I'm high value, look at look at me with my followers and my podcast and my Instagram and my muscle.

And it's like, dude, so what, now you you you tell yourself that and what you can get girls now?

Or you tell yourself you can get girls?

The women see right through that.

They know that what's between their legs has power over that man.

Do you understand that?

If that's what you're planning for.

Do you understand how weak you've actually became?

Getting one thing is your end goal.

And that's it.

And this is super this is not good.

So the best way, how do you signal to hypergamy, how do you show that you're high like actually high value?

You don't have sex with her.

Or you're not even worried about that, and when you're not worried about that.

And you can be present in the moment and just talk.

She ends up wanting to have sex with you.

She ends up wanting to seduce you.

It's like, wow, I've actually met a guy who isn't trying to do all this weird shit and he's just completely confident and comfortable just being how he is.

This is what women look for.

This is the greatest signal to hypergamy.

Is if you can say no.

Imagine what it does if you decline.

If you say, no, I don't need that.

No.

What what does that do?

Well, now you're abundant.

You're abundant.

Oh, he must get he must get women throwing themselves at him all the time like this.

It also looks super pre-selected in that moment.

Okay, and you're present in that moment.

You're with her.

You're not trying to go to the next.

You don't care about going to the next step.

And also, you now come from a state of love and groundedness.

Like, imagine how stoic you have to be to actually not just dive right into your lustful desires.

Imagine how grounded you have to be to just enjoy the moment where you're at in life.

So, when you wake up to this stuff, it's it's almost impossible to not to like.

It's it's almost impossible to see this video and have it not impact you.

Because most guys, if you actually look at your goals of what you're chasing, you're probably chasing things that have no end point.

You're probably chasing things of goals that the rest of the world tells you you should be chasing.

And it's not necessarily true.

So, a state of groundedness, okay, you're also stoic, you're not needy for sex.

So, when you do this.

Look at this, now she finally feels safe with you.

Now you're not over-qualifying.

Stop over-qualifying.

Stop trying to think if you build the external, which I do recommend.

But you've got to do it for you.

Okay?

When you stop focusing so much on building the external.

Okay, and you find out also how to bring yourself internal peace.

Internal confidence.

You're okay with who you are.

And that means you're okay with everything.

You're okay with how your voice sounds.

You're okay with your hairline.

You're okay with who you are.

And you're happy.

Because this is the only life you have.

That right there, that is how like.

That's what I mean by when women say, oh, he's charismatic.

Oh, he's so like.

There's something different about him.

I I just I like him.

That's how women fall in love.

This is why I tell you, women fall in love through words.

Women fall in love through personality.

Women fall in love through expression.

When like this is why like women read fantasies and fairy tales and they get aroused by those kind of things.

And they're not they don't live in this like visual world like you do.

They're they're also up in their head but in a different way.

It's the land of emotion.

So, when you can understand how to connect one to one, the masculine and the feminine come together.

And you connect with her.

That is how you get a woman attached.

Okay?

So, I understand that's a bit of an unconventional video.

But you guys need to hear this.

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