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I can feel how my old patterns are trying to sneak in.
Master Shi Heng Yi teaches how to break old habits, harness the power of the mind, and cultivate presence for transformation and well-being.
Key Takeaways
- Change old habits by replacing them with small, repeatable actions.
- The mind’s power lies in how we interpret and respond to challenges.
- Presence and awareness are essential for experiencing life fully and breaking negative patterns.
- Consistent mindfulness practices help rewire the brain toward positive habits.
- Transformation comes from mental redirection, not external changes.
Summary
- Recognize and identify old behavioral patterns before attempting to change them.
- Replace old habits with small, consistent actions rather than drastic changes.
- The brain repeats efficient behaviors automatically, making new habits feel exhausting initially.
- Challenges and discomfort are opportunities for growth and transformation, not obstacles.
- Our thoughts shape our perception of the world, even if external circumstances remain unchanged.
- Mindfulness and presence are cultivated through practices like breath focus, movement, and sensory awareness.
- Attention directs the mind; where attention goes, the mind follows, breaking automatic negative loops.
- Awareness allows true enjoyment of life’s moments by grounding us in the present.
- Presence is built through repeated small returns to the here and now, not by switching it on suddenly.
- Stepping back and observing oneself helps identify what blocks personal growth and transformation.
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What to do to break patterns? Number one, you need to see you have one.
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And number two, you need to replace old patterns, habitual behavior, how do you build habits by behavioral patterns that you continuously do.
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So there is something about consistency and continuity that ultimately builds a pattern.
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It's not helpful six days per week do nothing and then you go one day to the gym and and give your everything.
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No, it's better you have some type of consistency, this is what builds healthy patterns.
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What is somebody supposed to do? Number one, look at yourself and see yourself.
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We are all not perfect, but according to the circumstances that you are facing right now today, with what do you want to equip your character that he is able to go through this current times in the best possible manner, what is not useful for you anymore, try to get rid of it and get your new skills in.
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Your brain doesn't repeat bad habits, it repeats efficient ones.
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Every time you did it, it became faster, easier, more automatic.
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That's why bad habits feel effortless and new ones feel exhausting, most people try to change everything in one day, then stop.
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And wonder why nothing changed, you don't remove a pattern, you replace it.
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Not with something big, with something almost too small to be proud of, but small enough to actually repeat.
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Again and again until your brain starts choosing it without being told, that's when the change is real, not when you decide, when you don't have to think about it anymore.
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You have some mindset where challenge is not an obstacle for you, where difficulties in life is nothing that stops you, but a difficulty in life, a challenge in life, a conflict that comes up, everything that makes you actually feel uncomfortable at the first glance.
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It's nothing that is depressing you, because it is so heartbreaking, because it goes too deep, it carries the potential for the highest transformation, this type of change of perspective, if the circumstances right now are like this and with the mindset which is in your hands, you can still transform it somehow, the highest transformation can happen.
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In the Buddhist teachings, number one sentence is with our thoughts we create the world.
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The circumstances are not going to change, what happened to you is not going to change, but dependent on how you are tuning your thoughts, something about it is going to change.
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This is why the power of the mind is so important, outside there, the wars, everything is not going to change, because it's not dependent on what you want.
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You can only determine what is going to be the consequence of what comes to you, how will you transform it, will you let it stuck inside of you and it slowly eats you up from the inside or do you make something different about it, and this is based on the thoughts, on the mental redirectioning of yourself.
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Most people think change happens by avoiding difficulty.
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But what actually rewires your brain is how you interpret it, if every challenge feels like resistance, your mind learns to avoid it.
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But if you start seeing discomfort as progress, the same experience builds a completely different pattern, that's the shift, the event doesn't change.
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What changes is what your brain learns from it.
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The mind is something very intelligent, it is something very, very powerful, because it is so powerful, it can make you suffer a lot or can make you flourish also a lot.
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So we can create something with the mind or we can destroy something with the mind, we can use the mind to really use it and benefit our well-being, but we can also use the mind to destroy our well-being.
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So the question is, how do you use the mind in the proper way, this is like one question, and how now to make better use of the mind or better use of the presence, this is the point where now it comes to all different types of practices.
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That are existing in this world, like focus on the breath, do your internal work, focus on the movement, focus on the sound, everything that brings you into the presence.
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This one doesn't happen in the past, there's nothing more real, there's nothing more direct, nothing more present than something like this.
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To remind yourself also again to identify, okay, I'm drifting off right now, come back.
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When I inhale and I feel this stream of air that goes in, in the moment where your mind is locked on the breath, this can only happen in the present.
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You cannot feel the breath of the past, there is no inhalation of the future.
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It doesn't matter eventually, what is it that you are let's say locking your mind on, as long as it is something that happens in the presence and this is where all this exercises are coming in.
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Your mind is powerful, it can build your life or work against it.
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Most of the time it runs automatically, repeating what it already learned.
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That's why old patterns outlast good intentions, attention is what changes this, where your attention goes, the mind follows.
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And whatever the mind repeats, it strengthens, this is why simple actions matter, a sound, a breath, a movement.
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They pull your attention back, not as an idea, but as something real, and in that moment, the automatic loop breaks.
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When attention holds steady, old patterns lose their grip, and that's where control begins.
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When I talk with you right now, I know what I talk, yeah, when I'm eating, I feel the sense of the food.
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When I'm sleeping, I'm really trying to enjoy the sense of body is resting, mind is resting, this is how sleep feels, these are all type of practices.
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When I walk out in the street and the sun is shining on my face and the people are sitting there at the coffee and you hear they talking, but I walk and I feel, I sense, there is the sunshine, these are the people talking, my feet are moving, I'm here, I know what I do, I know what I'm surrounded with, so being just very present, being very aware.
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So awareness is key, because without it, there is no enjoyment, you don't make use of what you have.
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Awareness is making it finally real for you, you worked so hard for it, now you have it, enjoy it.
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Yeah, but you can't enjoy it if all the time you think about last week or if you think all the time about what happens in the future.
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Enjoying what you have is you arrive exactly where you are right now with what you have, that's it, there is no wishing for something more of the future and there's not wishing for something that wouldn't have happened of the past, no, you are in the presence, that's it.
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And the more you realize this about yourself, the more you integrate this just into your normal being, then it starts to shift, just bring more presence into present.
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You already have most of what you want.
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But awareness is what makes it real, without it, experience passes through you, nothing stays, nothing lands, most of your life happens while your mind is somewhere else, on what was or what comes next.
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This is not meditation, it is direct experience.
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A walk down the street, sunlight on your face, people talking, feet on the ground, ordinary moments, fully met.
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That is what enjoyment actually requires, not more, not better, just attention on what is already here.
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You cannot enjoy a meal you are not tasting, you cannot rest in a body you are not feeling, you cannot live a moment your mind is not in.
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Awareness is what makes experience real, without it, even what you worked for goes unnoticed.
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The past and the future are not the problem, but a mind that stays there misses the only place life exists, presence is not something you switch on, it is something you build through small repeated returns.
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And the more you return, the more it becomes natural, and the more it becomes natural, the more your life becomes available to you.
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What is it that allows you to take a step back, to see actually what is happening to you, see what type of hindrance, what is blocking you, in order to see what is happening to you, you need to be able to step out from your emotional body and step out from your pain body.
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And then with a clear view, you can tell, ah, okay, I was a little bit like carried away in the moment, you start to see actually what happened to you, how were the interactions, you have to develop a type of calmness.
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In order to step out from your emotional and pain body.
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Most people lose control in small ordinary moments, a tone of voice, a reaction, a feeling that quietly takes over, by the time you notice, you are already inside it.
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What changes this is not time, it is position.
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You step out of the emotional body, you step out of the pain body.
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When you are inside the emotion, there is no separation between what you feel and what you think is true.
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The moment you create distance, the situation becomes visible as it is, you stop reacting from within, you start observing, and in that space, what you do next is no longer automatic.
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anger or frustration, how do you go beyond it personally?
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I breathe in deeply and I breathe out.
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I am very aware that I have it right now and I combine my breath, meaning something is getting out of me, together with my deep intention and with my deep connection of the mind together with the breath, first of all, they don't know better.
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If they would have more information available, they would maybe see me differently.
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This is what I do.
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It's like a valve, before you start imploding, before the pressure builds up.
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Get rid of that steam, get rid of that air out, combine the breath with an intention.
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Work with intention more consciously, a mantra can be helpful.
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In such moments, you have something you always tell to yourself, continuously repeat, if you merge together the thought, they don't know better.
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Together with the cultivation of a heart quality of compassion inside of you has a very powerful impact.
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Reactions do not begin at full intensity.
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They build first as tension in the body and momentum in the mind, that early stage is the only moment where interruption remains possible.
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Master Shi Heng Yi uses a deliberate breath to vent the internal pressure, reducing the build up while it's still forming, this creates a brief gap in what would otherwise proceed unchecked, one that allows for a shift in interpretation.
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They don't know better, the other person's behavior is seen not as deliberate intent, but as the result of limited awareness.
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When this refrain is combined with a deliberate cultivation of compassion, the emotional reaction loses its force before it turns into outward behavior.
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Each step depends on the one before it.
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Without early awareness there is no interruption.
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Without interruption, the shift never happens.
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Be content, be full, wake up and already be ready, waking up and knowing everything you need, here it is.
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Now, whatever comes through in the day, doesn't really matter, because you know that you have been complete already, now you can engage in the things, you can enjoy your time, that is not a problem, because you know already the foundation of your life, it's here.
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It's stable, it's solid, people say, yeah, so should I not do the things that are available today, should I not go on the beach if I like to go on the beach, buy a nice car if I like to buy a nice car, I didn't say that.
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What I'm saying is, if your satisfaction about life, your fullness of life is dependent on these things, then it's a problem, because they will not be available to you at all times, because the availability of these things is not because of what you want.
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It's because of how the circumstances are, find yourself, build yourself up, invest in yourself, make yourself stable, figure out your place in the world and when this is established, now enjoy the world.
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Satisfaction is normally placed after external conditions.
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What is obtained determines how one feels.
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This creates instability.
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Because those conditions lie outside personal control.
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And shift independently of desire.
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This teaching reverses the sequence.
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The internal state is established first.
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Before the day begins, a sense of sufficiency is already in place.
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External events then occur, but they no longer serve as the source of satisfaction.
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They can still be engaged with, their role changes from necessary to optional.
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When satisfaction depends on what is available, it rises and falls with those conditions.
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When it's established internally first, external changes no longer affect it.
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The order itself determines the outcome.
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At the core, this is about where stability comes from.
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Most reactions, frustrations and dependencies follow the same pattern.
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Something outside defines the state inside.
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What changes is not the situation.
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It is what is already in place before the situation arrives, before reaction, before dependency.
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Before the day even begins.
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Once that is in place, what happens outside still unfolds, but it no longer determines the internal state.
Topics:mind powerhabit changemindfulnesspresenceShaolin teachingsmental transformationawarenessbehavioral patternsself-improvementMaster Shi Heng Yi
