the Before Trilogy – Retrospective — Transcript

A reflective look at love, connection, and missed opportunities through the story of two travelers meeting on a train in Europe.

Key Takeaways

  • True connection between people is rare and deeply impactful.
  • Romantic idealism often clashes with the realities of adult relationships.
  • Past relationships shape our present emotional state and outlook on love.
  • Communication and vulnerability are essential but difficult in intimate relationships.
  • Memories and missed opportunities can haunt but also enrich personal growth.

Summary

  • Two strangers, Jesse and Celine, meet on a train and form an intense, fleeting connection in Vienna.
  • They explore themes of love, loneliness, and the complexity of relationships through their conversations.
  • The story reflects on the impact of past relationships and the difficulty of truly communicating with others.
  • Jesse and Celine discuss their personal struggles with love, family expectations, and romantic idealism.
  • The narrative contrasts youthful romantic hope with the cynicism and challenges of adult relationships.
  • They consider the significance of fleeting moments and the idea of love as both escape and connection.
  • The story revisits the possibility of reconnection six months later, highlighting memory and regret.
  • Both characters reveal vulnerabilities about marriage, parenthood, and emotional isolation.
  • The dialogue blends English and French, emphasizing cultural and emotional nuances.
  • The retrospective format invites viewers to reflect on their own experiences with love and loss.

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00:12
Speaker A
I met a guy in the train, and I got off with him in Vienna.
00:15
Speaker A
We're still there.
00:17
Speaker B
I met somebody in my last night in Europe.
00:20
Speaker B
Can you believe that?
00:21
Speaker B
She was literally a Botticelli angel.
00:24
Speaker A
He was so sweet, I couldn't help it.
00:27
Speaker A
And he's so cute.
00:28
Speaker B
What are you reading?
00:30
Speaker A
How about you?
00:32
Speaker B
Um, look, I was thinking about going to the lounge car sometime soon.
00:38
Speaker B
Would you like to come with me?
00:39
Speaker A
Yeah.
00:40
Speaker B
I'm American.
00:41
Speaker A
You're American?
00:42
Speaker B
Yeah.
00:43
Speaker A
Are you sure?
00:44
Speaker B
Yeah, I'm just, I'm just traveling around, I've been riding the trains for about two, three weeks.
00:50
Speaker A
What?
00:52
Speaker B
She's super smart.
00:53
Speaker A
I like to feel his eyes on me when I look away.
00:56
Speaker B
I wish I had met you earlier, you know, I really like talking to you.
00:59
Speaker A
Yeah, me too.
01:41
Speaker A
It was really nice talking to you.
01:48
Speaker B
All right, I have an admittedly insane idea, but if I don't ask you this, it's just, you know, it's gonna haunt me the rest of my life.
01:53
Speaker A
What?
01:55
Speaker B
You should get off the train with me here in Vienna and come check out the town.
01:57
Speaker A
What?
01:58
Speaker B
It'll be fun, and if I turn up to be some kind of psycho, you know, you just get on the next train.
02:05
Speaker A
Let me get my bag.
02:08
Speaker B
My name?
02:09
Speaker B
It's Jess.
02:10
Speaker B
It's James, actually, but everyone always calls me Jesse.
02:13
Speaker A
I'm Celine.
02:17
Speaker B
This is gorgeous.
02:20
Speaker A
Yeah, this is beautiful.
02:24
Speaker A
Do you know anyone who's in a happy relationship?
02:27
Speaker B
I mean, my parents are just these two people who didn't like each other very much.
02:33
Speaker B
Who decided to get married and have a kid, and they try their best to be nice to me.
02:35
Speaker A
You know, my parents never really spoken of the possibility of my falling in love or getting married or having children. I always feel this pressure of being a strong and independent icon of womanhood and not making, making it look like my, my whole life is revolving around some guy.
03:32
Speaker B
Well, I kind of see love as this escape for two people who don't know how to be alone, you know.
03:39
Speaker B
Can I tell you a secret?
03:41
Speaker A
Are you trying to say you want to kiss me?
03:47
Speaker B
I feel like this is some dream world we're in.
03:51
Speaker A
Yeah, it's so weird.
03:52
Speaker A
So I've been in my life, I've met so many people and shared beautiful moments like traveling or staying up all night and watching the sunrise.
03:59
Speaker A
I wish that'd been with someone else.
04:05
Speaker A
But I'm happy to be with you. You couldn't possibly know why a night like this is so important to my life right now.
04:11
Speaker A
I don't think we should sleep together.
04:14
Speaker A
You meet a French girl on the train, fuck her and never see her again.
04:18
Speaker A
And that's a great story. I don't want to be a great story. I want to be this.
05:02
Speaker A
You don't want to see me again?
05:04
Speaker B
If somebody gave me the choice right now of to never see you again or to marry you, I would marry you.
05:11
Speaker B
And maybe that's a lot of romantic bullshit, but people have gotten married for a lot less.
05:20
Speaker A
Okay.
05:21
Speaker A
This is it now.
05:22
Speaker B
Yeah.
05:24
Speaker A
Have a great life. Have fun with everything you're gonna do, you know.
05:29
Speaker B
Work hard.
05:30
Speaker B
Go to school and all that.
05:31
Speaker A
Maybe we should meet here in December.
05:33
Speaker B
But I'm gonna be here.
05:35
Speaker A
Okay, me too.
05:36
Speaker B
All right.
05:38
Speaker A
Bye.
05:40
Speaker B
Goodbye.
05:44
Speaker B
We all see the world through our own tiny keyhole, right?
05:49
Speaker B
Well, I thought if I could write a book that could capture what it's like to, to really meet somebody.
05:54
Speaker A
Were there ever a French young woman on a train you met and spent a night with?
05:59
Speaker A
Do you think they get back together in six months?
06:44
Speaker B
I've been, I've been thinking about this.
06:47
Speaker B
It's a good test, right, if you're a romantic or a cynic.
06:51
Speaker B
Hi.
06:52
Speaker A
Hello.
06:56
Speaker B
I can't believe you're here.
06:58
Speaker A
Well, I live here in Paris.
07:00
Speaker A
It's funny because I read an article on your book and it sounded vaguely familiar.
07:10
Speaker A
Did you show up in Vienna that December?
07:14
Speaker B
Uh, did you?
07:16
Speaker A
No, I couldn't, but did you?
07:21
Speaker A
Oh.
07:22
Speaker A
No.
07:25
Speaker A
Oh no, oh no.
07:27
Speaker A
Have you been hating me all this time? You have.
07:29
Speaker B
No.
07:30
Speaker A
So why didn't you put the six months later, the French bitch didn't show up?
07:34
Speaker B
No, but I did.
07:36
Speaker A
We can change our memory of that December 16th. It no longer has that sad ending of us never seeing each other again, right?
08:25
Speaker B
Now I'm older, my problems are deeper, but I'm more equipped to handle them.
08:28
Speaker B
I'm damn happy to be here.
08:30
Speaker A
Me too.
08:32
Speaker B
I want to know about you. Tell me, what are you doing, you know, what are you up to?
08:38
Speaker B
You were living in the US.
08:40
Speaker A
No.
08:41
Speaker B
Ah, don't tell me that, Celine.
08:43
Speaker A
What?
08:44
Speaker B
No, it's just, I've been living in New York since '98, you know, we were there at the same time.
08:49
Speaker A
In New York?
08:53
Speaker A
You're looking different.
08:56
Speaker B
I'd have to see you naked.
08:58
Speaker A
What?
08:59
Speaker B
I'm sorry.
09:01
Speaker A
It's amazing what perverts we've become in the past nine years.
09:03
Speaker B
I know.
09:04
Speaker A
What I, my point was, you know, to truly communicate with people is very hard to do.
09:10
Speaker A
There are so many things I want to do, and I end up doing not much.
09:13
Speaker B
I know.
09:14
Speaker A
That sounds, that sounds terrible.
09:15
Speaker A
No, no, no.
09:16
Speaker A
So you'll now be forever depressed no matter what great things happen in my life.
10:00
Speaker B
Exactly.
10:01
Speaker A
Right.
10:02
Speaker A
So I read in that article that you're married with a kid. That's great.
10:06
Speaker B
Yeah, he's, he's, um, he's four.
10:13
Speaker A
Do you, do you think Jesse?
10:15
Speaker B
Oh shit.
10:16
Speaker A
I left him in his car with the windows up. It was six months ago, you didn't know.
10:20
Speaker B
No, I'm kidding.
10:21
Speaker A
Each relationship when it ends really damages me. I never fully recover. You can never replace anyone because everyone is made of such beautiful specifics.
10:32
Speaker B
All right, now I know for sure. You want to know why I wrote that stupid book?
10:35
Speaker A
Why?
10:37
Speaker B
So that you might come to a reading in Paris and I could walk up to you and ask where the fuck were you?
10:44
Speaker B
Oh God.
10:45
Speaker B
Why weren't you there in Vienna?
10:48
Speaker B
I wish you would have been.
10:51
Speaker B
Our lives would have been so much different. Oh God, why didn't we exchange phone numbers and stuff? Why didn't we do that?
10:59
Speaker A
I guess when you're young, you just believe there'll be many people with whom you'll connect with.
11:44
Speaker A
Later in life, you realize it only happens a few times.
11:48
Speaker A
So, what is it like to be married? You haven't talked much about that.
11:52
Speaker A
How is she like?
11:54
Speaker B
She's a great teacher, good mom.
11:57
Speaker A
You're not that happy with your marriage, are you?
12:00
Speaker B
I'm not.
12:04
Speaker B
My wife is 24/7 bad.
12:06
Speaker A
I mean, I'm really happy only when I'm on my own. Even being alone, it's better than sitting next to a lover and feeling alone.
12:14
Speaker B
I've had sex less than ten times in the last four years.
12:20
Speaker B
What, what, what, are you laughing at me?
12:21
Speaker A
No.
12:23
Speaker A
I was fine until I read your fucking book. It reminded me how genuinely romantic I was, how I had so much hope in things, and now it's like, I don't believe in anything that relates to love. I don't feel things for people anymore.
12:38
Speaker A
In a way, I put all my romanticism into that one night and I was never able to feel all this again. Every single of my exes, they're now married.
13:27
Speaker B
I think I'm one of those guys.
13:29
Speaker A
You know, I want to kill them. But it's my fault. I know it's my fault because I never felt it was the right moment, never.
13:37
Speaker B
All right, you know what? I'm just happy to see you, even if you've become an angry, manic-depressive activist.
13:45
Speaker B
I still, I still enjoy being around you.
13:47
Speaker B
I mean, the only happiness I get is when I'm out with my son.
13:50
Speaker A
I'm so miserable in my love life, in my relationship. I always acted like, you know, I'm detached, but I'm, I'm dying inside.
13:58
Speaker A
You come here to Paris, all romantic and married, okay? Screw you.
14:08
Speaker B
So.
14:11
Speaker A
I want to try something.
14:12
Speaker B
What?
14:59
Speaker A
Vous allez vous chercher des glaces, on n'y passe pas une heure.
15:05
Speaker A
Oh, look at them, they're so cute.
15:09
Speaker A
Tu vas trop vite là.
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The main theme revolves around love, connection, and the complexities of relationships, focusing on a chance meeting between two travelers and their reflections on romance and life.

Do Jesse and Celine meet again after their initial encounter in Vienna?

The transcript suggests a possibility of reconnection six months later, with both characters reflecting on what might have been and the impact of their brief encounter.

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Through candid conversations, the characters contrast youthful romantic hopes with the challenges and disappointments of adult relationships, highlighting emotional struggles and evolving perspectives.

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