**NIKT NIE OPOWIE TEJ HISTORII LEPIEJ NIŻ MY. Bianka i Filip Chajzer. — Transcript & Summary | SozAI**
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Filip and Bianka Chajzer share their heartfelt love story, from their first meeting to memorable moments and reflections on life and destiny.

## Key Takeaways

- Love can be found in unexpected places and moments, such as a podcast studio.
- Meaningful connections often involve shared experiences and overcoming challenges together.
- Reflection and prayer can provide clarity and hope during difficult life phases.
- Open communication and curiosity help nurture relationships from the start.
- Cherishing small moments and shared dreams strengthens the bond between partners.

## What the video covers

- Filip and Bianka Chajzer introduce their joint podcast episode focused on love and personal stories.
- They recount their first meeting in the podcast studio and the immediate connection they felt.
- Filip describes a significant New Year's moment in Hawaii, reflecting on life and destiny.
- The couple discusses the early stages of their relationship, including texting and first dates.
- Bianka shares insights about her family and their shared love for dogs and meaningful connections.
- They talk about memorable experiences like watching movies together and their wedding planning.
- The couple reflects on challenges they faced, including media attention and personal doubts.
- They emphasize the magic and miracle of finding one’s soulmate and the deep bond they share.
- The podcast includes lighthearted moments about food, travel, and shared dreams.
- They conclude with reflections on love, destiny, and the importance of cherishing meaningful moments.

## Chapters

1. 00:00 Introduction and Meeting in the Podcast Studio
2. 04:16 New Year's Reflection and Meeting in Hawaii
3. 07:16 Early Relationship and First Date
4. 10:11 Family, Pets, and Shared Interests
5. 12:58 Wedding Planning and Challenges
6. 19:34 Reflections on Love and Destiny
7. 23:13 Lighthearted Moments and Shared Dreams

Answers

## Questions about this video

How did Filip and Bianka Chajzer first meet?

They first met in the podcast studio where Filip was producing and Bianka was a guest. Their initial connection was immediate, marked by memorable first impressions.

What significance does New Year's have in their story?

Filip describes a meaningful New Year's moment in Hawaii where he reflected on life and prayed for purpose, shortly before meeting Bianka on the next Chinese New Year.

What themes are discussed in this podcast episode?

The episode covers themes of love, destiny, personal growth, overcoming challenges, and the magic of finding a soulmate.

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00:30

Speaker A

Hey. Good morning, or rather, good evening, everyone. Filip Heiser Podcast. I've probably said it dozens of times in this studio, but today I'll say it differently. Filip and Bianka Heiser Podcast. Honey, do you have anything to say? I'm already very stressed about this whole event, but I'll say hello too. Good morning. Good evening, everyone, and I hope this won't be the last time we're together in the studio.

01:01

Speaker A

this whole event, but I'll say hello too. Good morning. Good evening, everyone, and I hope this won't be the last time we're together in the studio.

01:11

Speaker A

I hope so too. And by the way, dear viewers, we met in the podcast studio, and I thought that in this podcast of mine, we often talk about such topics as, hmm, extrasensory, often about the soul, about destiny, about what paradise looks like here on Earth. And I thought that love as a feeling is a beautiful topic to talk about, and I don't know a better interlocutor on this topic than my now-wife, Bianka.

01:32

Speaker A

paradise looks like here on Earth. And I thought that love as a feeling is a beautiful topic to talk about, and I don't know a better interlocutor on this topic than my now-wife, Bianka.

01:50

Speaker A

Good morning. Good morning. Do you remember that moment, that first look? Of course, I remember. Of course, I remember. As you said, it was in the podcast studio. We crossed paths in the hallway. I remember that your dog also made a huge impression on me. Rolo really stole my heart right away. Of course, so did you, and I remember the first thing I saw was your beautiful blue eyes, and I fell so in love with them, so deeply.

02:07

Speaker A

impression on me. Rolo really stole my heart right away. Of course, so did you , and I remember the first thing I saw was your beautiful blue eyes, and I fell so in love with them, so deeply.

02:23

Speaker A

Yes. And that was that moment, that first spark. I remember it was a podcast that Gosiaome invited me to. I was a guest at the time. I didn't really know what to do with myself yet, what this life was supposed to look like. I was finishing the book at the time, I don't know if I was at the publishing stage or if I'd even processed the idea in my head that it was going to be published, and I still didn't know what to do next. But I also remember that when you were sitting in the studio next to the cameras—because that's also the role of a producer—sitting and overseeing everything that's happening in the studio—I don't know how we would play back the recording, I'm sure I'd look away a lot.

02:35

Speaker A

was supposed to look like. I was finishing the book at the time, I don't know if I was at the publishing stage or if I'd even processed the idea in my head that it was going to be published,

02:46

Speaker A

And that's also a good tidbit. I'll tell you right now that whenever I was in that studio, I always had my own room with a preview.

03:00

Speaker A

studio—I don't know how we would play back the recording, I'm sure I'd look away a lot.

03:07

Speaker A

Oh, right. Your podcast with Gosia was the only one I was on in person, sat and watched live. The whole thing.

03:14

Speaker A

Oh, right. Your podcast with Gosia was the only one I was on in person, sat and watched live. The whole thing.

03:23

Speaker A

It was the only podcast. Seriously? Didn't I know that, I had no idea. I'll backtrack a bit, because we met on February 17th, and it was Chinese New Year. And this New Year's Eve is also quite interesting, because I don't celebrate New Year's Eve on New Year's Day, our classic January 1st at dawn. You have to know that, because we haven't met on any New Year's Eve yet. At least not in this incarnation. I went to bed around 11:00 PM. Poles I met on the street, and that was Honolulu, Hawaii. I had it all. It's also amazing that you go to the other side of the world to relax and be anonymous, and there's just Polish everywhere. Incredible. And I remember passing people in Polish, and these people were speaking normal Polish, Filip, come with us, let's go. I said, no, no, no, I want to go to bed. I had a plan for this new year. I wanted to get up very early, and that's exactly what happened. I got up very early. The sun hadn't even risen above the sea yet. I put on my running shoes, put on shorts, and went running, without a plan, without a goal, probably not even a sports watch. And suddenly I reached a completely empty beach. The view was simply out of a TV series, a landscape almost tacky in its beauty. There were palm trees, an empty beach, the sun was rising, and I think I even described this moment in my book, and I started talking there. And now the question: with whom? With myself, with God, and I pray to God to give meaning to my life, for it all to somehow fall into place so beautifully after these difficult, difficult years, during which it was all uphill, and not long after, on the next New Year's Day, this Chinese New Year, I meet you.

03:43

Speaker A

Eve on New Year's Day, our classic January 1st at dawn. You have to know that, because we haven't met on any New Year's Eve yet. At least not in this incarnation. I went to bed around 11:00 PM. Poles I met on the

04:01

Speaker A

Nies. Well, I didn't really know this story either. No, you didn't tell me. That's how it was.

04:16

Speaker A

and these people were speaking normal Polish, Filip, come with us, let's go. I said, no, no, no, I want to go to bed . I had a plan for this new year. I wanted to get up very early, and that's

04:27

Speaker A

And then magic happened. Then the first date happened. Mhm. And before that first date, well, it was also covered in a million pieces in the media that age wasn't... No.

04:45

Speaker A

suddenly I reached a completely empty beach. The view was simply out of a TV series, a landscape almost tacky in its beauty. There were palm trees, an empty beach, the sun was rising, and I think I even described this moment in my book

05:01

Speaker A

Mhm. I asked you your age then. Yes, it's true. I remember that moment. Yes, yes. You approached me and asked.

05:17

Speaker A

during which it was all uphill, and not long after, on the next New Year's Day, this Chinese New Year, I meet you.

05:26

Speaker A

Out of curiosity. Yes. Yes, out of curiosity. That's exactly how it was. I'll tell you, even when I look at you today, and I think I know my wife very well, I still do, or maybe I'm also bad at making such judgments and calculations. Well, I'll tell you, someone would tell me any age, but I wouldn't say 20.

05:34

Speaker A

And then magic happened. Then the first date happened. Mhm. And before that first date, well, it was also covered in a million pieces in the media that age wasn't...No.

05:50

Speaker A

A lot of people say that. Well, actually, I think so too. Now it's the other way around. Me.

05:56

Speaker A

Out of curiosity. Yes. Yes, out of curiosity. That's exactly how it was. I'll tell you, even when I look at you today , and I think I know my wife very well, I still do, or maybe I'm also bad at

06:08

Speaker A

Oh no, honey, you too, of course, only you look much less, much less, because I look a bit like that, and with glasses? And now I see in my preview that I'm completely red.

06:17

Speaker A

A lot of people say that. Well, actually, I think so too. Now it's the other way around. Me.

06:23

Speaker A

And so we're going on a first date, remember? Because that didn't happen right away either.

06:38

Speaker A

And so we're going on a first date, remember? Because that didn't happen right away either.

06:43

Speaker A

No, because you were still on holiday in Barcelona. You flew to Barcelona. It wasn't a holiday, because I promised my child a long time ago, that he would meet life, and he's a footballer who loves the sport very much, that he would meet Robert Lewandowski. When I found out there was a chance that Lewandowski would be playing in the last or second-to-last match in Barcelona, we flew there for the match, and that's what happened, but we were already texting, right?

06:58

Speaker A

much, that he would meet Robert Lewandowski. When I found out there was a chance that Lewandowski would be playing in the last or second-to-last match in Barcelona, we flew there for the match, and that's what happened, but we were already texting, right?

07:16

Speaker A

That's a lot, very often. A lot, very often. Yes. But you weren't the best at replying, because I was still a bit reserved about it. I was still exploring, you could say, testing the waters.

07:30

Speaker A

But the first spark from those blue eyes was there. And I remember that first date perfectly. It was Wilanów, because I lived there for a while, literally returned to Warsaw for a moment. Today I tell myself that I came

07:44

Speaker A

But the first spark from those blue eyes was there. And I remember that first date perfectly. It was Wilanów, because I lived there for a while, literally returned to Warsaw for a moment. Today I tell myself that I came back to meet you. And there's another interesting fact, because we're from Ursynów together. Yes, I grew up in Ursynów. I grew up in Rogoziński. And now, attention. If I'd gone out on the balcony when I was still, because we lived there, in the eighth grade of elementary school, or I don't know, 13 or 14, I would have seen your blog from the balcony, but it wasn't there yet. On Cinnamon Street.

08:00

Speaker A

eighth grade of elementary school, or I don't know, 13 or 14, I would have seen your blog from the balcony, but it wasn't there yet. On Cinnamon Street.

08:09

Speaker A

On Cinnamon Street. Exactly. So I came back from Krakow to meet my wife from Ursynów, and we're sitting at this restaurant in Filów, at Bazico. Listen, the food is fantastic. If you're ever wondering what's good to eat around Bilanów, we highly recommend Bazico, but it's also part of our history. Mhm. And what were you thinking before that meeting? I'm always so nervous before these first events. But I'm saying, okay, I was also talking to a friend earlier. I told her about the whole situation, that I was going on a date, and I haven't been on one in ages. I've barely gone on any dates, that I was going on a date, that I was seeing you, because I didn't know you at all before. I'm someone who's completely unfamiliar with the media world, but completely, completely.

08:29

Speaker A

around Bilanów, we highly recommend Bazico, but it's also part of our history. Mhm. And what were you thinking before that meeting? I'm always so nervous before these first events. But I'm saying, okay, I was also talking to a friend

08:47

Speaker A

I only met all these people while working through the guy with the dog, and honestly, at first I thought you were a doctor. A doctor of what?

08:59

Speaker A

at all before. I'm someone who's completely unfamiliar with the media world, but completely, completely.

09:09

Speaker A

Well, I didn't know, but I often have a bit of that too. And that's adorable. Thank you very much. I'm very pleased. But if we were to go any further, I'm completely blushing. A doctor of what? Science or some kind of medical doctor? Science. More like science. That's very nice, but you could be a doctor too.

09:17

Speaker A

Well, I didn't know, but I often have a bit of that too. And that's adorable. Thank you very much. I'm very pleased. But if we were to go any further, I'm completely blushing. A doctor of what? Science or some kind of

09:30

Speaker A

Absolutely. Go on. And I called my friend and said, "Am I really seeing Filip?" And I still don't know what's going on.

09:36

Speaker A

Absolutely. Go on. And I called my friend and said, "Am I really seeing Filip?" And I still don't know what's going on.

09:45

Speaker A

Oh. And then she told me about you, and that's when I got even more stressed.

09:50

Speaker A

Okay. And I felt the blood drain from my legs and I didn't know what was happening.

09:57

Speaker A

Okay. And I felt the blood drain from my legs and I didn't know what was happening.

10:11

Speaker A

as you know, maybe you don't, my mom is the type who constantly goes to the shelter and chooses the most vulnerable dog in the entire shelter. Or, sensing her energy, these dogs find their way to her on their own. Yes, but

10:24

Speaker A

But I walked into that restaurant and I was probably without a dog then. Without a dog. Yes. Do you know why? Because I took that dog to my mom specifically. And it's also difficult to take care of it, because, as you know, maybe you don't, my mom is the type who constantly goes to the shelter and

10:36

Speaker A

also takes great care of them. So the fact that my mom took that dog was also truly a miracle. It had to be. It was a miracle .

10:44

Speaker A

My mom already knew this was going to be it. And you know, she knew.

10:48

Speaker A

Yes. And you don't know, don't you remember the first time I met my mom?

10:52

Speaker A

She, she melted. Yes. When they sometimes serve warm apple pie at a restaurant with vanilla ice cream, with a scoop of it, it melts like that, and my mom melted like that when she saw you, just like that

11:04

Speaker A

vanilla scoop on warm apple pie. But keep talking. I walk in, I see you further. I think you could be a doctor. I sat down, and what I also love about you is that you make it impossible to get

11:24

Speaker A

stressed out, and then all that stress vanished as soon as you started talking . You took a certain amount of control over our first meeting, and that was wonderful for me, because then I had the time and space to open up. I also

11:40

Speaker A

remember that, yes, the age difference is very interesting, interesting when you talk about it, but I was wondering, you know, if there would be anything to talk about. Oh, to be honest.

11:54

Speaker A

And I remember that when we sat across from each other, I never laughed so hard with anyone in my life.

12:02

Speaker A

Every joke turned out to be funny, both ways. And I remember immediately feeling like, "Wow," what's going on?

12:18

Speaker A

And I think it's because we're sitting here today with this bouquet that you forgot and was sitting in the apartment all day yesterday, even though it was supposed to be with us at church.

12:28

Speaker A

And it's so beautiful. And it's so beautiful, that's why it's here, with us today. It's the bride's bouquet.

12:34

Speaker A

Yes, the forgotten bouquet. The bride's that's why it's here with us today. And by the way, it's also interesting that we decorated ourselves.

12:44

Speaker A

Yes. Yes, that's true. Yes, that's true. I remember just telling your best man that I'd really like a bouquet of white roses. And it is, but unfortunately, he wasn't with us at church.

12:58

Speaker A

We left the restaurant to see a movie. Yes. The movie was Wuthering Heights. Bravo after one note. We left the movie because, unfortunately, we weren't a bit charmed by it, but that's also beautiful, because it means we were very much in love with

13:18

Speaker A

each other. That's exactly how it was, and we preferred to sit together and talk, not exactly.

13:25

Speaker A

And then it all flew by so quickly. Mhm. I mean, I knew it, I also remember choosing the engagement ring. The fact that I had this idea. Do you know who I told first?

13:37

Speaker A

No, I have no idea. Robert Rutkowski. Really? Oh yes, yes. A brilliant guy. And I said, and I sit down with him anyway. I remember in Żoliborz for coffee, early spring. A bit cold, but the first sun was already there, so spring-like. I

13:52

Speaker A

said, "Listen, I have this crazy idea, and I don't know how I feel about it, and I need to talk it over with someone smart." Mhm.

13:58

Speaker A

And he said, "What's the idea?" I said, "I'd like to propose." And without even a second thought, he said, "That's brilliant, go for it.

14:06

Speaker A

If you feel it, go for it." I said, "You know, but the age difference says, 'What do you care?'" I say, 'You know what people are talking about? Why do you care?' "And he gave me such strength, and I went straight

14:16

Speaker A

from him to choose this ring. In my opinion, the most beautiful possible. Yes, it's true. It's the most beautiful . It's the most beautiful. I still wear it, even though I already have the one from the wedding, but I still have good

14:27

Speaker A

hands. I also notice that a wedding ring for ADHDers is a brilliant tool, a tool to keep my hands busy. I still fumble and waggle it all the time.

14:36

Speaker A

Normal. I have it too. I have it too, but I don't have ADHD, and I always imagine that you don't.

14:44

Speaker A

You have this power of calm within you, even when things are falling apart and burning. Calm. Yes. And I bought this ring. And I kept it in the car. And I remember that moment too, I always can't wait. I can't

14:59

Speaker A

wait for it to be yesterday. I know. Yes. And I had a specific date chosen for myself, a specific day connected with my life, because I think that specific day is my second birthday, so it was informal, so I thought it would

15:15

Speaker A

be perfect, but not I waited because I kept wondering where it was and if I really left it there, in the glove box, right? So I went downstairs to the garage. A bit like a child checking before Christmas to see if the presents

15:30

Speaker A

were there or not. Yes. And I took it out of the glove box and had it in my pocket to put it somewhere in the house. But when I entered the house and saw you in the hallway in front of

15:46

Speaker A

the door, petting the dog, already sitting on the ground, I thought, perfect, I'll sit down too, and this is the moment.

15:54

Speaker A

I wanted to say that it was a very original proposal. You really think so.

15:59

Speaker A

And it was so heartfelt. Yes, it was. This moment was supposed to be long-awaited, but I think it was good, isn't it, that he was so spontaneous, because it's also very much ours. So spontaneous, wonderful, wonderful, but I also had in the back of my mind

16:13

Speaker A

what the reaction would be. I wondered about it. I couldn't imagine any other answer. I immediately had such a ding. Yes, yes, definitely.

16:25

Speaker A

Yes. Have you heard that there are people who plan their weddings years in advance?

16:32

Speaker A

Yes. And I also have a very interesting story related to this. Tell me. I was at my manicurist in Warsaw.

16:41

Speaker A

I came in about December, January, and she had just planned her wedding years in advance.

16:47

Speaker A

And she told you about it? And she told me about it, how she chose the dress, what kind of venue she had.

16:52

Speaker A

But wait, wait, the wedding hasn't happened yet. We understand, right? It'll be next year. In a year, exactly in a year, yes.

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Speaker A

And she told me everything. I'm sitting there, saying:" Gosh, Martyna, this is wonderful, I want it so much too, that this is so, so, so beautiful a moment, and she couldn't wait, that it would be in two years,

17:12

Speaker A

that it would be already, that it would be now, that it would be now, that it would be really soon. Yes, because everyone plans ahead.

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Speaker A

Yes. And she couldn't wait, she talked so much, she confided so much, and I did.

17:21

Speaker A

Well, I'd love to, but I don't have anyone. And I don't think even if I did , it would still be three years, or even two. It's unbelievable what you're telling me now . I mean, I think some kind of magic

17:32

Speaker A

happens here. I didn't know that, I had no idea. And it was the turn of January. And we met in February.

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Speaker A

There are people who plan their weddings two years in advance, and we found out while taking care of every single thing related to the wedding.

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Speaker A

The venue. You book the venue years in advance, and it's always two years, I don't know why.

17:52

Speaker A

It's such a magical time. Years. The date is supposed to be years. So we did it in how long? So it's April, April, May, June, July, August, five months. And it turned out perfect.

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Speaker A

Perfect. I wouldn't change a thing. Nothing. Perfect. It was the most beautiful day of my life, I have to tell you. Really, where did it all start?

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Speaker A

Do you remember planning the wedding? Well, I'm trying to remember, I know, the credentialing. Yes, we don't have confirmation. We don't have confirmation. And what do we do now? Because confirmation also takes ...

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Because confirmation also takes d years . D years. Yes. And I remember we were driving. I wasn't driving. I think people with this mentality generally have this: when they decide something and form this idea, with some kind of image that

18:51

Speaker A

it's going to happen or has already happened, what will happen? Mhm. And I remember that thought. I'll have confirmation today. That's exactly how it will be. Jesus, I love that about you too, because I'm the type of person

19:04

Speaker A

who always takes it easy, we have time, we'll do it at our own pace, now we're doing it immediately.

19:09

Speaker A

Yes. And I started calling priest after priest. Every priest is listed in my phone as a priest—contacts collected probably over the past 20 years, as they were transferred from the old Zemens to the SIM card. I still have those numbers.

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Speaker A

And I started calling priest after priest. Oh no, that wouldn't work. Oh no, it's through the bishop. Oh, and finally, what happened? It turned out to be priest after priest, priest after priest, and there's a confirmation the next day.

19:37

Speaker A

Mhm. That was after my marathon. Yes, the Wrocław marathon, the half marathon. And it was also interesting that it happened to be at that location, which was right next door.

19:48

Speaker A

The confirmation happened after my half marathon. Yes. The day after. The day after, yes. And then finding a venue.

19:56

Speaker A

That was also incredibly difficult. Because they're all booked up two years in advance. That's right.

20:02

Speaker A

And here we are, cramming in. But I had one dream. I dreamed of a cocktail party.

20:08

Speaker A

Mhm. Not the classic Polish wedding with a country table. Although, of course, we'd love to be invited to a wedding like that, wouldn't we? We're great at weddings in general.

20:19

Speaker A

Yes. Mhm. We dance, we laugh, we talk, we're very sociable. If you're having a wedding and you'd like to invite us, we're a classic Polish kind. But it was supposed to be a cocktail party. I wasn't convinced at first. That's

20:35

Speaker A

true. And at first, I completely denied it. Did you dream of a farmhouse table?

20:38

Speaker A

Yes, I dreamed of a farmhouse table. I really dreamed of a farmhouse table. That's how it was .

20:42

Speaker A

Yes, that's how it was. Sausage, uncle, moonshine. Yes, that's how it was. And I said to Filip, "Filip , I'm not convinced. I don't know, let's think about it, let's think about it." But Filip was so determined.

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Speaker A

Because if something has to be done, it has to be done. Right. Because what's the decision? I mean, I was certain of one thing: It had to be Krakow. That's for sure. Yes, that's our place. Krakow is, is, is, is a city of magic, the

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Speaker A

fact that this wedding took place. We'll get to the most interesting story in a moment. From what happened, it was all a last-minute arrangement.

21:19

Speaker A

Well, yes, but I'm talking about it in terms of, it's already magic. What happened is already magic. But it could only have happened in Krakow.

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Speaker A

Mmm. I remember that a year ago, on June 1st, when I had a very serious accident near Skarżysko and was taken to the university hospital in Krakow, I understood at that moment what Krakow is, who these people are, and how

21:42

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different they are from the rest of the world. I won't really say Poland, the whole world. Angels live here. That's true.

21:51

Speaker A

Speaking of angels, can I go on and on? Of course I can. Let's just say that.

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Speaker A

There are so many, so many topics. While we're on the subject of angels, I'd like to tell a story from the wedding itself. I'm standing, waiting for Bianka at the altar. Bianka's father is there, leading Bianka to the

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wedding ceremony. Huge respect, too, dad. He's a very handsome man, I must say. He's really so tall. Wow. And seeing you together was incredibly moving, too.

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Speaker A

But on the way, my future wife, just a few minutes before the wedding, was stopped for a moment by an angel, a woman who also has a very strong connection to this place we're in.

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Speaker A

Specifically, to this podcast studio. There's an Instagram profile called " Angel's Mom." Kasia is behind it. Kasia lost her teenage son in a car accident.

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Speaker A

It's one of the most important podcasts and one of the most important conversations I've ever recorded.

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Speaker A

Sometimes I think about how it all came about just to record this conversation. This podcast has had a huge impact. I remember kids writing to me about all sorts of silly, strange thoughts in their lives, and seeing the despair of

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Speaker A

a mother who lost a child, they realized they could never do that to their own parent. An incredible conversation and an incredible person.

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It turned out that Kasia, the woman we're talking about, before the accident, when she was still actively working, was—wasn't it?—a wedding planner. And before our wedding, well, I won't deny that it was also very difficult, because as a man who also

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Speaker A

lost a son in an accident, how so many things are intertwined, how this energy intertwines, I also know how difficult it was, on the one hand, to reconnect with life, this return, and, looking at it from a different perspective, how important it

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was. So, somewhat deliberately, I dragged Kasia to meetings with us to ask her about flowers, makeup. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I do 360 wedding planning.

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Hair, makeup, decorations, anything you want. That's true. And it's all free, no invoice. I mean, free, well, that means no invoice. If you want my help in Krakow, I highly recommend it. And getting back to the church, tell me more, because I only

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Speaker A

know these stories from your own experience. Yes. Kasia had texted me long beforehand and said she wanted to give me something before church.

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Speaker A

Unfortunately, I was so stressed, so consumed by the whole event, that I completely forgot about it. It slipped my mind because I was so stressed.

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Luckily, when I entered the church with my dad, she approached me. And we were both incredibly moved. She gave me that exact bracelet with the blue heart. I can't even imagine taking it off. It's mine now; I feel like an angel is

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watching over me, just like I have it. Mmm. And as she gave it to me, as she fastened it, she said she really wanted to give it to her son, so he could give it to his wife. Unfortunately, as fate

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would have it, she didn't make it in time and gave it to me. To this day, when I talk about it, I still feel such overwhelming emotions because this person is so wonderful.

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Yes, it's true, I can't even describe it in words. Yes, it's true. When Kasia wished us a happy birthday, I said we loved her.

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Yes, because we do. Yes, you are a wonderful, important person, and the fact that you have the strength to continue living is truly a miracle, and you give hope to tens of thousands of people in Poland, Kasia.

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And thank you so much for allowing us to meet you and for being with us, and we will always be with you. But this wedding could have never happened.

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Well, it was very close. And again, this is a story bordering on , I don't know what, some cosmic confluence. Because, listen, everything was arranged the day before the wedding . What's more, we were in Portugal in July for the anniversary of the Fatima

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apparitions, and we didn't get on the plane that was supposed to take us to Krakow, to arrive in Krakow just in time for the pre-marriage classes with the priest to begin. A large room, the Łakiewniki Street. There were two days

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of such meetings. Yes. And that was supposed to be our first session. It was supposed to be our first class, but we didn't make it, and I also remember the enormous effort of informing the priest leading the class

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that we wouldn't be there. Our wonderful friends Agna and Sebastian from Krakow were sent on a special mission. They wrote a beautiful card saying that the couple, who loved each other very much, unfortunately couldn't be there, and that they would make up the

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class. And you should know that the entire wedding preparation procedure is extremely rigorous. It's not like you just go, you don't go, you write an excuse. No. Everything has to be done before the wedding.

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Now imagine that these classes were rescheduled several times, and the last rescheduled date was the day before the wedding, and it might not have happened because they didn't gather the right group.

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Yes, and especially for us, so that we could have that card filled out. Yes.

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They arranged a meeting with the priest for us. Yes. Privately. Privately. Yes. And it all happens at 5:00 PM. Meanwhile, the clerks at the registry office in Krakow were probably already thinking it would be a beautiful weekend, checking the weather

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for Saturday and Sunday and slowly finishing up their work at the registry office. We were completely unaware. We were listening to the priest. Such a beautiful, intelligent conversation.

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Yes, yes, yes. It's 7:00 PM. We're finishing up our classes. We're glad we have all the signatures, stamps, stickers— everything—because you get a booklet where you stick these stickers, even with a hologram, so they can't be forged. But

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who would have thought of that? It's stupid. And we have this booklet. Now the last thing she'll do for us before the wedding is to take this booklet to our parish priest, to the Church of Perpetual Help in

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Przyzamość. And ask the parish priest how we're feeling the next day. I still remember how proud I was of myself—you know, we have everything, everything is taken care of. I thought, "Wow, yes, we have everything." Yes, exactly.

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And at the same time, those ladies from the registry office were probably closing their laptops or turning off their computers and going home, and no one knew yet how much we would need each other in such a short time. Oh,

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and now it begins. We go to the parish priest's office, and the priest says, " Okay, thank you, we have it here, that's correct. Here are the documents from the registry office, and we're on our own at this point." I'm so sorry.

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Speaker A

What? Honey, have you heard about any documents from the registry office and the transfers?

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Speaker A

I've heard, of course I have. And the priest even called me about it. Oh.

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And he told me about these documents. He just told me we had to go to the registry office about these documents.

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Documents are a general term for documents. A general term for documents. They didn't even mention which documents.

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Yes. I didn't even ask the priest which ones, because it was obvious to me that if I went, they would tell me.

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And we were also already very tired by the priest filling out those pre-wedding church cards. They have very detailed questions. There are several of them, and we spent three hours filling them out.

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We sat there for three hours, filling them out. So, in my heart and in my head, we already have everything sort of declared here. Yes.

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Yes. Especially since our documents, or rather mine specifically, had to be sent to the curia because I had a civil wedding earlier, and they had to confirm whether I was truly single, and so on and so forth.

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So, I was already convinced that once we got the green light from the curia, from the curia, what does that green light sound like, everything was done.

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Speaker A

And so we go back to the registry office. Now we're going back two, three weeks, right?

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So I'll go to the registry office in Krakow. I'm so proud of myself in Krakow. I'm going to that office, so I can arrange everything. Okay. I sit down in front of the lady, and the lady asks me for

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Speaker A

my document. Here you go. Here's my document. Okay, everything's correct with the lady. Everything's there. It's also her fiancé's information. She's giving you your information.

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Speaker A

Yes. And the lady looks at the system and says, "Oh my, but we don't have a birth certificate here." And now my wonderful wife is calling you. She's calling me to tell you about the birth certificate, and I'm telling you to go to Warsaw

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Speaker A

about this birth certificate on Andersa Street. Exactly. The registry office is a mess. We're constantly talking about these important documents needed to get married. So, my number popped. I go up to the lady and say, "Good morning, I

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Speaker A

really need one." Because you told me clearly and specifically that a birth certificate was needed.

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Yes, because yours wasn't in the system . Yes, I said, I'm getting married, I need documents, namely a birth certificate.

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And the lady says, "Well, it's not in the system, but we'll order it, but you have to wait a week." And I say, "I don't have a week." She says, "Wait a minute, we have our wedding director here. He's the master, he's the guru of

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masters. And a man comes to me, and he says, good morning, Mr. Filip. I say, ' Good morning, Mr. Filip, the most important person in weddings.' My wife told me that documents are needed and asked me, 'Documents?' And she asked me

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if I would get a birth certificate. Well, the director says with all the seriousness of his office, he says, ' But Mr. Filip, you don't need that for anything. It's internal.' Mm-hmm.

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You're not doing anything about it. I say, ' Are you sure I don't need to take anything from you? No. It'll all happen in the system.' So it's the day before the wedding. It's probably around 8:00 PM at the parish priest's, and the

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parish priest says, 'You need three pieces of paper from the registry office confirming that you're single.' And we're shocked.

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Speaker A

And we're shocked. And the office is closed. And the priest then said one sentence:" The wedding will not take place. " Yes. And I remember that my waters simply broke then too.

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Speaker A

Yes, yes. My waters simply broke. I fainted. Yes. There was one key to this, a formal one.

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Speaker A

Mmm. According to which the wedding could take place. I mean, it could only be a religious wedding, a concordat wedding, from what I remember from history, introduced in about '97 or '98, and that's the kind of wedding that is both

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Speaker A

civil, meaning it has civil, legal, and religious consequences all at once. You can separate them, and that was our possible lifeline here. They say lifeline, not life jacket, whatever.

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Speaker A

Too many nerves these days. Possible rescue. It was our possible rescue, but it also turned out we were grasping at straws.

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Speaker A

That's the saying. A drowning man grasps at straws. And that was precisely that straw. Because consent to such a separation can only be granted for special reasons, but the bishop was the bishop's special reason, which turned out after another call to

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Speaker A

the curia that the bishop was gone, and there would be no bishop, and there was a card game you once played, the bishop, the old days, and the bishop was gone, and the priest said, there's only one possibility:

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Speaker A

they'll open this office for you. But how? Exactly, but when it's 8:00 p.m., it's 8:00 p.m., even as early as 9:00 p.m.

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And I'm thinking, if I cancel all this, what will I tell these people, what will they think of me? They've already arrived, because it was Friday.

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Speaker A

People really are from some strange places in the world. I mean, not strange, they're wonderful places, but simply far away, exotic.

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Sweden, for example. Oh, have you ever been to Sweden? I have. Have you been?

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I have. I haven't. Isn't it an exotic place? I really liked it, for example.

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Me too, but it's so different. It is. It is. Do you know this interesting fact that the most popular pizza in Sweden is kebab pizza?

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Speaker A

Really? Really. Have you ever had kebab pizza? No. It's very good. We'll try it in Sweden. What if I cancel all this? What am I going to do with it? Where are we anyway? What a disaster. We were supposed to do a

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Speaker A

trial run with the limo the next day, so the driver knew where he was coming from, where he was going, what his route was like, so he could learn it.

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But when we were planning this trial run, we were already thinking in festival terms, that we were relaxed.

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Speaker A

Yes. So there's a nervous breakdown in the parish priest's office. We leave there not knowing anything.

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Speaker A

Mmm. When we left, we were in a state of shock, there's no wedding. Yes, the day before, and now the magic of Krakow begins. Michał brought me to Krakow, actually made me live here, a certain Michał from the internet, who

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wrote to me well over a year ago, saying he knew how to open a kebab shop in Krakow. Just one of thousands of messages in the open DMs of Instagram Messenger. I dreamed of Krakow, because a long time ago I was a TV reporter and

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Speaker A

worked on investments. Roads, bridges, hospitals, shopping malls, and we'll stop here, because my greatest passion is a strange passion, but everyone has their own strange stories. And my strange story was a passion for multimodal hubs. They're those that

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Speaker A

combine several functions at once. For example, Galeria Krakowska. Galeria Krakowska is the best multimodal hub in the world because it connects everything at once. And the malls, and the trams, and the buses, and the train. Is that true? I

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really like Galeria Krakowska. So that was my dream. I wrote to Galeria Krakowska several times, and each time it was just" go, go, go. "There was no response. And a guy wrote to me, saying he knew how to get me in, and it worked

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. And indeed, for a while, my kebab was in front of Galeria Krakowska. Of course, as always in my case, there was a scandal because it turned out that this ice cream stand next to another one was in the way because it obscured

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Speaker A

the historic building. Okay, but I really don't like bad energy, bad emotions. And you know that, so I quickly got rid of it so I wouldn't stress myself out, because stress is the worst thing in life, really, and

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Speaker A

hate and stress together are a very bad combination. But I knew Michał would know what to do in Krakow.

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Because in Krakow, you also have to know that everyone knows each other. There's no way someone doesn't know someone in Krakow. Yes, even if you don't know them directly, they'll call one person, and they'll already know you there. This is Krakow.

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So, watch out now. Fasten your seatbelts. I'm calling Michał. This is happening in front of the Hajat Hotel, where our guests from Sweden have just arrived, and I'm standing there, getting out of the car, out of the limousine on that trial run, and I pull

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Speaker A

out my phone. Do you remember how I screamed across the meadows? Yes, we have it.

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Indeed. Yes. And I didn't know what it was about anymore. And that was it. And now listen to the story. I say, Michał, there's this thing. And Michał and I haven't spoken in a long time. Our lives just kind of

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Speaker A

fell apart. But that moment made her the only person who came to mind. I said," Michał, I'm supposed to be married tomorrow. "But the wedding can happen, or rather, it can't happen, it just won't happen because I don't have a document from

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the registry office. And the priest said that without it, we can't even come to church or get roses. And he says," Listen, listen, Filip, your second kebab in Krakow, remember, it was at the market. "Yes, it was at the

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Speaker A

market next to the famous sausages from Nysa. And do you remember that there was a grocery store next to that kebab store? I...Of course I remember, because we used to get our vegetables from there. And Klaudia runs that

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Speaker A

grocery store. Of course, I even have the phone number, because we used to order those vegetables. And she has a dad who's a councilor. Call her, he'll help you.

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Speaker A

Oh, wow. Phone. Hi Klaudia, this is Filip. Hi Filip. What's up? You have a dad who's a councilor, and I'm supposed to be getting married tomorrow, but the wedding's off because I don't have the documents from the registry office.

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Speaker A

Could your dad help? What does Klaudia say? He probably would have helped if he were alive. My dad passed away.

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I say," Yes, I'm so sorry. "And now Klaudia says a sentence that blows my mind. But wait, Dawid, my husband, has a brother, and that brother has a wife, Mrs. Irena. And Mrs. Irena works at the registry office and issues these very

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documents. Can you imagine that? Incredible. Incredible. On the way, we found the head of the registry office, what's her name exactly? We found her on Facebook. The head of the registry office probably received dozens of messages from all

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her friends that evening. A wonderful woman, wonderful, wonderful, brilliant. Just like that. We're not revealing her personal details. Well, the RO does, and we don't know if she wants it, but we love you more than anything. Because ,

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basically, you saved our lives. You were the one who was tricking us. And Ms. Irena calls the warden. The warden decides, and now pay attention. The next day, at 9:30 a.m., civil weddings are being performed at Rynek Podgórski 1, and the warden says

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," You have to be there at 9 sharp. "I say," Okay, we'll be there. "And then I shouted," We've got it. "But still, you know, in the back of my mind.

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Speaker A

Well, not knowing what will happen. And we don't know what she'll tell us when we go. I don't know if I've ever been more stressed than today before the podcast, on Saturday before the wedding, and on Saturday before entering the

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office. To the office. That moment when we sit down in front of the warden and I ask," Will it work today? "She says," Of course, it will. "I was born again in my life.

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Speaker A

Yes, exactly, exactly. I remember that stress too. It was terrifying, but miraculously, miraculously, it really worked.

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Speaker A

In general, you're a miracle to me too, so it's all a miracle altogether. I'm thinking, how lucky it is to find your other half. I'll tell you, it's just like, now that I look into those blue eyes, it's just so indescribable. And what

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Speaker A

are those flowers called that look like roses but aren't roses? Lisianthus, lisianthus can last well over a week and not look wilted at all. It's a curiosity.

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Speaker A

Yes, they look beautiful with those plasters, which we had on, for example, don't overdo the plaster. And don't overdo the flowers at all, because we overdid it, because we overdid it, but if you go to the Pino Garden restaurant this week

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Speaker A

and there are flowers everywhere, those are our flowers from the flower auction , because we simply couldn't physically bring them all home.

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Speaker A

Well, we don't have any. And we don't have a big house either. Well, we don't. Well, we don't. It's only 70 square meters, and even then, the entire 70 square meters are covered in flowers.

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Speaker A

Yes. Yes. It smells wonderful. Unfortunately, la Gotto Romanolo dogs have a very keen nose. Apparently, truffle-hunting dogs, and he's also struggling with those flowers.

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Speaker A

Oh yes. Well, he snorts all the time. So a lot of the flowers stayed in that Krakow restaurant. Try the ribs. That was actually our dish. Anyway, how little fish went in.

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Speaker A

Little? How much? Well, three fish went in. Yes. Well, yours. Kasia's third and someone else's.

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Speaker A

And someone else's. Yes. Well, I recommend that fish. For me, that fish is... What was it? It was dorsch, it was dorsch. It was dorsch with such perfect baked potatoes. That dorsch was in an egg. A fairy tale. The first dance. The

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Speaker A

first dance. Overall, it was also a wonderful moment. I'd like to say it was the preparation time, but it was all combined, right?

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Speaker A

These few months of this new routine, culminating in this wonderful event, are something I'll always remember.

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Speaker A

Yes, it's true. It was a beautiful time . It was beautiful. Remember, the song we chose might not have been the right one? It was supposed to be romantic.

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Well, yes, indeed. And I was all for our Eurovision song. Sprem, Eurovision, because we're such a good match, not only are we from Ursynów, but we also love the Eurovision Song Contest together. Our first evening in Krakow was Eurovision

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Speaker A

night, and ever since then, we've been living in Krakow, and ever since, there's been a mattress on the concrete.

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Speaker A

Yes. There were construction tools all around and only the TV. And only the TV was on the wall. Yes.

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There was a commotion everywhere, only the TV, because it was Eurovision, so the goal was to hang the TV. I think we even hung the TV that same day , so that Eurovision would coincide with Eurovision. That's right. That's

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how it was. And in my opinion, the best song in the entire Eurovision Song Contest was the Italian song, and I said so right away.

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Speaker A

Yes, that's true. And your favorite was" bangaranga "? No , it wasn't" bangaranga, "but it won." Bangaranga "won.

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Speaker A

Right. And nobody remembers Zac. I think it was from Bulgaria. And mine has passed. Mine has now become history.

45:45

Speaker A

Just like your nails. Just like my nails. I read an article that your nails are actually called Bianca Heiser's nails.

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Speaker A

No, there's a whole story surrounding it. Come on, my aunt is a cosmetologist, and she's like my mom.

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Speaker A

Oh, oh, and I'm in all these groups with these girls who are also there for, I don't know, makeup, nails, and the whole beauty thing, and she keeps scrolling through these different posts , and all the girls want to have nails

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Speaker A

like Bianca Heiser's now. I'm answering right now, and now I want to respond collectively, so there's no telling what's going on here, because it's just an ordinary French dance with a shiny top.

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Speaker A

I'm thinking to myself, if it's on you, it's definitely not ordinary. Well, well, well. Don't I have a wonderful husband?

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Speaker A

And going back to the dance hall, I just want to tell you that my big problem was that my wife is a professional and has been dancing for quite a few years. Yes. Pro. And I only made it to the fourth episode of

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Speaker A

Dancing with the Stars. I was eliminated, and that's when I lost track of him. So I told our wonderful instructor—by the way, best regards.

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Speaker A

Mhm. Nilam. Exactly. Nilam, you're amazing. Wonderful, wonderful. I told her I only know how to dance one style, because out of all the Dancing with the Stars dances, I fell in love with tango. If we ever go, if God allows us to go to Argentina, to

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Speaker A

Buenos Aires, for a week-long tango course, you know, on the street, in that dialect, in that atmosphere, then I would really like it. Let it be our honeymoon. I had no idea.

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Speaker A

Well, this is so perfect. It's me, because tango is hard . Tango, in general, comes from prison.

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Speaker A

It's a dance of two guys who, for lack of a better word— Mhm— dance together.

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Mhm. So it's so hard, so powerful. That frame. Yes, that romama. That, yes, that step, that stomp. And I said I could only do tango based on it.

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And I said no. And then Bianka said she dances commercial, that she can do the cartwheel, the four splits, and that's not her style at all. At first, I felt terrible in this tango because my dance moves are completely different. They're

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not stiff, they're more fluid. Mhm. And when I saw that tango, I was terrified and said," No, I won't dance that. "And luckily, we mixed a bit of that style with that tango and a bit of my own,

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Speaker A

that show, that show. Yes. And it was wonderful. It was wonderful. I really think the dance turned out amazingly.

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Speaker A

Yes, I'm also like, while I was watching, I opened Instagram and suddenly our dance was everywhere because the guests decided to show off our dance to the world. At some point, I was like," Oh, but they have something to show for

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Speaker A

it too. "Well, it was fantastic. It was so good, it was unbelievable. If someone had recorded it and it went like that. Can you imagine?

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Speaker A

So our guests decided to share it and it somehow went incredibly viral, but I watched it and thought, um, it's okay.

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Speaker A

No, it's great. But you know why it's okay? Because the shoe was wearing me, or rather, it was rubbing me, because I had new shoes, like the ones straight out of the box, and unworn shoes rub. So, right

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Speaker A

before I went out on the dance floor, I apologized profusely to the guests and told them I had to take them off because I couldn't do it. But you know what, that made me slip.

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Speaker A

Oh, you see. But, because I remembered this from Dancing with the Stars, that those dancing shoes we got, they had a brush attached to them, and you brushed the sole so it would slide, so my shoes had rubber soles, so that

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Speaker A

wouldn't work at all. Mhm. So it was all because they rubbed me. But then I followed you and took off those shoes too, only I didn't know that if I took off my heels, my dress would go down.

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Speaker A

How much? That's it. Well, that's definitely it, because it was designed to be as good as the shoes .

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Yes. And at that moment, I panicked, because I didn't know what would happen. And that was also the first time I danced in a dress, because I always wore leggings or baggy pants in dance class, and here it was a

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Speaker A

dress. But I think it turned out truly wonderful. I just want to say that your wedding dress is the most beautiful wedding dress I've ever seen. When I saw you in church, walking towards me, I said," Wow, it was gorgeous,

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Speaker A

wow! "Especially at you, because you're the most beautiful woman in the world, but that dress has such class, such elegance, just like you. It couldn't have been a better choice, and I didn't even see a single sliver of that dress.

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Speaker A

Yes, it's true. Whenever Bianeczka showed these dresses to her friends, it was only so I wouldn't see them. No, I only saw them. Wow, wow, wow, wow.

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Speaker A

I saw it for the first time today, because we were watching Dzień Dobry TVN. It was the first time I even saw what Wiola Piekut looked like, because I'd only heard of her name as a beautiful woman.

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Speaker A

I only knew her from the phone when I was making the appointment. She's wonderful.

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Speaker A

Wow, truly beautiful. She's so lovely and warm. Yes, I met her too when I was choosing that dress. She came for the third time, I think.

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Speaker A

Yes. And really, how devoted she is, how lovely and kind she is, she would give you anything. So classy.

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Speaker A

I love her, I love her. Class in herself, and thank you so much for the" Can I do it, you think, can I?

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Speaker A

" Yes, I can. Thank you so much for your work, because I thank you, because it was heavenly. As a thank you , I'd like to thank my parents for being there. My mom has a rule, it's difficult, not to leave Warsaw because

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Speaker A

of those poor dogs at home, who are scared and need care. And my mom wasn't supposed to be there. My sister and I even laughed about doing a live stream for her.

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Speaker A

Yes, exactly. However, we are also the kind of people in our family that we don't make problems where there aren't any and we accept our choices. And of course, I think to myself, it's difficult, it would be nice if Mom were

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Speaker A

there, but if she can't be, well, we understand that too and we won't pressure each other about it.

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Speaker A

When I turned my head and saw Mom in the church, I went crazy. It was amazing.

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Speaker A

And then Bianka said," Our Mom is here. "Yes, yes, I remember that moment. You really did tap me like that. Look, look who's sitting there. I looked around.

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Speaker A

Oh, Mom. It really was wonderful. I also wanted to thank you so much for welcoming me so warmly, because it's true. From the very beginning, as soon as I met them, well, since Easter, they stole my heart. You

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Speaker A

are theirs too, they are wonderful people, and the warmth they gave me is incredible. It's incredible. I even still used to call your dad at the wedding, always Mr., Mr., Mr., and he told me, no, not Mr., call me Dad. And I was like,"

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Speaker A

Wow, amazing. "Thank you so much to our best men. Yes, a huge thank you here too. Yes.

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Speaker A

Daniel, Daniel's sister, and her husband, Michał. In my opinion, they can be considered a group witness.

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Speaker A

Yes, exactly. Because this wedding is quite a bit of work, and there was a lot to coordinate , because first of all, we had to coordinate 17, 17—I don't know how to put it—170 high school students from Oleśnica.

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Speaker A

Mmm. Because when I released a clip from my beloved film Love Actually, there's this one scene in the church, and whenever I thought I'd get married someday, I always thought to myself," The Beatles, "that there had to be that

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Speaker A

one particular Beatles song. I posted something like that on my story, and the Oleśnica high school choir responded, or rather, the teacher wrote on their behalf that they were capable of doing it. The choir leader is Aleksander, to whom we send our warmest

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regards, and we are truly absolutely touched by what you've done for us, enchanted, but those 17 high school students had to get to the station. Then they had to travel by electric cars, because the best mode of transport in the world is

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still to learn how to play it. Sorry, as always, you're right, you need to learn to sing and play first. This particular song isn't easy, because there are several layers that need to be blended together. There are flutes,

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violins, and guitars, and the vocals are all there in this song. They were driven to the church, they had to be amplified, the speakers had to be set up. It's a big church, so there was a lot of work involved. It was a

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ton of work, and it all had to be coordinated, harmonized, and along the way, we had to decorate the hall, the entire restaurant, really. The entire restaurant, yes.

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And tablecloths, and flowers, and equipment rental. Mmm. Because when we got the quotes from the decorating companies, I literally fell to my knees. I say, that's what you buy a car for.

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I didn't expect something like that either, I didn't. And suddenly we thought," Hmm , okay, let's see for ourselves. "And we went to the flower market and went to the rental place on Kolejowa Street. Remember when we were

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going to the railway station, I thought someone simply had bad intentions. There was already a certain atmosphere there, I'd say, East Berlin.

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But suddenly we arrive and we're, listen up, in the wedding chapel. Yes. Tablecloths, vases, plates, silver, gold, everything, everything was there. Everything we really needed.

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Yes. And when we finally compare the price ratio between the quoted price and what we made ourselves, Krakow also teaches you to be frugal. It's incomparable.

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Speaker A

This is Krakow. This is Krakow. It's not even Krakow, it's Krakow. Krakow. Yes. But someone had to put it all down, someone had to trim it, someone had to pour water into those vases.

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Yes. Every vase, every flower. Yes. And this is our collective witness . And your maid of honor, Ola.

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Speaker A

And my wonderful maid of honor, Ola, who also helped me a lot during the wedding. She was always there for me.

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Yes, a wonderful person. And thank you also for every kind word we've read these past few days. Because a common phenomenon, as I know from my own life experience, something that has practically become a natural basis in life, is hate. And this hate is said:"

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Don't read, don't bother, "but it's impossible. It's impossible, it's impossible. No. So every kind word in this sea of often evil, of such stupid, incomprehensible hatred, also completely unnecessary, believe me, we read, appreciate, and is worth its weight in gold. I can even

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Speaker A

read a comment, take a screenshot, and send it to my friends, saying," Look, look, there's at least one person who has written something positive, "and then I'm so happy, so happy. People are wonderful.

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Speaker A

People are wonderful. I can also honestly tell you, the studio looks so empty, because there's always the producer's chair in the Story My Cars studio in Krakow, right there in the corner I'm showing you now. And now I

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Speaker A

look, and it's so empty, because the producer is sitting across from me. And she's truly such a class act, such a professional. If you'd like a producer to also produce your podcast, where the host might not be as red, or even

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Speaker A

purple—oh, that's not true, in awe—but that's always the case when you see her, I cordially invite you to this studio here in Krakow.

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Speaker A

We're located right next to Balice Airport, from the Krakow market square, probably a 20-minute drive, and there's no studio like it. I think it's true; there are so many possible arrangements here.

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Speaker A

There are smaller studios, medium-sized studios, and large ones. We have our table, which we can also rent. This LED can display any imaginable text, logo, animation, or video. Another studio is right next to it, with a high table you

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can stand at, but most importantly, Bianka will take care of you. And I truly fell in love with her professionalism, as much as with her charm, as with her wit, as with her beauty. Because I was so impressed,

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Speaker A

once I found out she was 20, by how she coordinates it all: the sound, the camera, every speck of dust on her jacket. I'm very sensitive to that. I have to have everything perfect.

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Yes, yes. And the podcast never started , because it wasn't perfect, because the lamps weren't positioned, because the eyes weren't well-lit.

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Seriously, that's class. Thank you so much. Such kind words, husband. And I often read such nonsense online.

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How can you be 20 and be a producer? Well, you can, if you want to and love what you do.

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Yes. Age doesn't matter here, because you can even be 40. So what? Although, of course, it's a beautiful age. You know, it shows.

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Speaker A

Thank you so much. Thank you so much for recording this podcast together, because I dreamed of people getting to know you, because in my opinion, getting to know you is the greatest value in life.

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Speaker A

Thank you. You to me. I hope you had a lovely time . Thank you so much.

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Speaker A

Thank you so much. If you'd like to see us again. There was once a TVN series that I loved. And just to finish, this is a beautiful anecdote.

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Kasia and Tomek. Yes. Well, Kasia and Tomek are television history. It's a French show starring Joanna Brodzik and Wilczak, whose name is Paweł. And they ended up getting married.

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Mhm. And I loved watching it so much. I don't know, I guess I was just a teenager, and I always dreamed that when I got married someday, we'd be like Kasia and Tomek. And gosh, that's kind of what happened, maybe we

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could come back, because it was so great, it was so funny. Kasia and Tomek , Anna Domini 2026/7, sending you warm regards from Bianka and Filip. Bye, bye bye.

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Speaker A

Bye. Yeah.

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