**Life Update, ich bin auf einen Scam reingefallen & der Herbst kommt🤍🍁 — Transcript & Summary | SozAI**
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Fabienne shares a life update about falling for an apartment scam and upcoming autumn plans, including travel and jewelry finds.

## Key Takeaways

- Apartment scams can appear very convincing and involve personal interactions.
- Always be cautious and trust your instincts when dealing with rental offers.
- Sharing personal stories helps raise awareness about common scams.
- Maintaining a positive outlook can help manage stressful situations.
- Lifestyle content can effectively combine personal updates with important warnings.

## What the video covers

- Fabienne gives a personal life update vlog from Berlin with dreary weather.
- She discusses preparing for upcoming travel to Crete with her management team.
- Fabienne shares details about reorganizing her jewelry collection and highlights pieces from brands like Search and September 5.
- She introduces a new book she’s reading as part of her nighttime routine.
- The main story involves a recent experience with a scam related to a dream apartment viewing.
- Fabienne describes the suspicious behavior of the man showing the apartment and the uneasy atmosphere.
- She recounts the process of contacting the supposed landlord and the strange demands and repeated phrases about a landlord-friendly contract.
- Despite initial excitement, Fabienne realizes the situation is a scam and warns viewers.
- The video blends personal lifestyle content with a cautionary tale about apartment scams.
- Fabienne maintains a hopeful and relaxed attitude despite the negative experience.

Answers

## Questions about this video

What happened with Fabienne's apartment viewing?

Fabienne attended a viewing for her dream apartment but quickly sensed something was off. The man showing the apartment behaved suspiciously, and she later realized it was a scam.

Does Fabienne recommend any jewelry brands in the video?

Yes, she highlights jewelry from the brand Search and also shows pieces from September 5, a brand owned by her friend Hanna.

What are Fabienne's upcoming travel plans mentioned in the video?

Fabienne plans to travel to Crete with her management team for business after returning home from Berlin.

## Full Transcript — Download SRT & Markdown

00:00

Speaker A

Hello friends, and welcome to this new vlog. I hope you're doing well. The weather here in Berlin is dreary, gray, and sad. We are still going to have a nice day today regardless, and perhaps the sun will decide to come out once again later on. That would be nice. I need to start preparing everything slowly for next week because I am heading back home first, and then I will be traveling to Crete together with my management team to take care of some business there. I think I'll have to tell you something later. I don't even know where to start. I still have a bit of hope left, but it must be said that everything has been quite wild up to this point. Let's see. We'll stay excited. But that's exactly it. I didn't really have anything wild planned for today. I definitely wanted to go get a coffee somewhere, cut off a few korsops, cut off curbs, turn them, send them, things like that. I have definitely planned to do that and will tidy up a bit otherwise, but it will all be quite relaxed, and I will be sure to give you an update about it later on. I hope it's a good one, but exactly. I'd say, let's go. And look, my cool rings. I found them again. Well, that means found them again. He found them again too. I have a jewelry box that contains all of my jewelry, and I have recently reorganized it, which is how I managed to find those pieces once again. They're from Search. I have no idea how to pronounce the brand. Definitely a brand from Paris, and they have really cool jewelry, you see? This one is from there too. I have now made the decision to read them again as a part of my nighttime routine, which is to say, as a component of my bedtime routine. And I've started a new book: "Meet Cute" by Abby Abby Gimes. Guys, sorry, that's my guilty pleasure, author. What should I do? And it's so cute, it's such a cute story. Ah, sorry. And the part about going to sleep and then waking up is really, really great. I can only recommend it to you. Well, okay, guys. Yes. Guys, I wanted to show you something. I have to write advertising up here because I'm talking about it explicitly, but it's not paid advertising. I got this from Hanna, and Hanna has a jewelry brand called September 5. How perfect is this jewelry storage? I think it's so incredibly cute. I've already packed all my jewelry in here. It's really, really great. I've also packed lots of earrings in this zipper. How cute is that? And by the way, this is from the new collection. So, these earrings here, I think they're so pretty. This is the matching necklace for the earrings, also from the new collection. I think it's so pretty. I don't know if that's showing through well. You can see it a little better this way. By the way, Lara also made this whole thing here. She's a friend of Hanna's. Really, it turned out so perfect. I don't know how you can make it so incredibly perfect. And if you're still looking for something, take a look. I believe that there are a few less of these items remaining here. It's really perfect. And how incredibly sweet is it that it has even been personalized here as well. I am not sure if that is also possible elsewhere on the website, but no, guys. เฮ So yeah, I'm sitting down now. I don't even know where to start. Let's start with the story time, how I got to see my dream apartment from, like, guys, I just had a spontaneous viewing appointment for my dream apartment. I'm more nervous than I've been before any single date I've been on. Yeah, guys, what can I tell you? I wouldn't say I got scammed again. I'll tell you the whole story. So, I found an apartment on Em Scout, just like all the other apartments I have looked at, and it was truly a wonderful and beautiful apartment. It was around the corner from my sister. She was really great, and I wrote to her right away, so the apartment was listed in the evening, and the next morning I called again and a man answered, and he said, "Hey, you're the first one to call, and what's your name?" And then he ended the conversation by stating that he would get back to me, which is exactly what he did. Later that day, he wrote to me once more, saying that he would be in touch regarding a viewing of the place and everything else that might follow in the process. And then he got back to me the following day and said, "Hey, the viewing is on Sunday at 11 a.m. You are more than welcome to come by and take a look at it then." And I was super euphoric. I was incredibly happy. I was like, "Wow, oh my God, it's just me, I'm here now, that I can look at it and it's totally great." Then he wrote to me: "Hey, Fabian, if you feel like it, you can spontaneously look at the apartment today." Let me know. I was completely euphoric and wrote back immediately, saying give me 20 minutes and I will be there, and yes, I was thinking to myself, oh my God, this is my big chance. So, this entire thing, this entire horror, this search has finally reached an end and I have it now; then, as I said, I made my way there very quickly and rang the doorbell at his place. Yes, he opened the door for me, and I walked up there, where I then also realized that he is actually a resident of that very same house as well. He was such a very tall man, much taller than me, a very, I would say massive man. From the very first second I sensed a very difficult energy. Not someone you would say is a good person. Because he simply had a really bad charisma. So, but I was so pissed off, like, my God, then he just lives under there, he doesn't have to have anything to do with it, I don't know what, so it doesn't have to have anything to do with that, really. In any case, he said, yeah, the apartment located up there is available now. There are currently two guys living there, but I can take a look at the apartment. I took a look at the apartment and, um, it was just a really weird woman because he was totally insecure, seemed insecure. On the one hand, he was not dominant at all, but he was fully aware of his position, of his power position and that of his family, since the entire building belonged to him. Exactly, he showed me the apartment and then, well, after he had shown me around, we stood at the first window. While we were standing there like that, he suddenly said to me, "You are wearing contact lenses, aren't you?" I was like, "Yeah." And so they said: "Ah, I already thought, oh, manga, manga, contact lenses." And I was like: "No, it is just that I am actually unable to see anything at all." And so I wondered what kind of comment that was supposed to be, but in the end I did not think much of it at all. I then asked, hey, can I film a video of the apartment, and he was just like, um, so I said, it is just for private use, I will probably be uploading it somewhere or something like that. I just wanted to make a video for my mom. And he was like, yeah, okay. So it was really weird. But I didn't think anything of it because I didn't want to think anything of it. Well, and then I made the video. Um, we went down one floor to his apartment and then he got a call and, um, I just said: "Hey, no stress, I'll just wait downstairs in front of the house." Um, make your call. So then we stood downstairs and discussed the conditions and everything once again, and I was just thinking: Well, I assumed we would say our goodbyes and he would send me a contract or whatever, just like anyone else would do. But then he went on talking for such an incredibly long time, just talking forever, saying: Well, it is their house after all, and they do not want to have any weird person in there, and they just want to be absolutely sure one more time about the whole situation. They go and they want this and they want that and they want that and they want that and they want, um, uncomplicated, uncomplicated, uncomplicated and a landlord-friendly contract, a landlord-friendly contract — he has said that a thousand times over and repeated the same thing again and again, just constantly repeating himself, exa

00:11

Speaker A

once again later on. That would be nice . I need to start preparing everything slowly for next week, because I am heading back home first, and then I will be traveling to Crete together with my management team to take care of

00:21

Speaker A

some business there. I think I'll have to tell you something later. I don't even know where to start. I still have a bit of hope left, but it must be said that everything has been quite wild up to this point. Let's see. We'll stay

00:35

Speaker A

excited. But that's exactly it. I didn't really have anything wild planned for today. I definitely wanted to go get a coffee somewhere, cut off a few korsops, cut off curbs, turn them, send them, things like that. I have

00:48

Speaker A

definitely planned to do that and will tidy up a bit otherwise, but it will all be quite relaxed, and I will be sure to give you an update about it later on. I hope it's a good one, but

01:00

Speaker A

exactly. I'd say, let's go. And look, my cool rings. I found them again. Well , that means found them again. He found them again too. I have a jewelry box that contains all of my jewelry, and I have recently reorganized it, which is

01:14

Speaker A

how I managed to find those pieces once again. They're from Search, I have no idea how to pronounce the brand.

01:21

Speaker A

Definitely a brand from Paris and they have really cool jewelry, you see? This one is from there too. I have now made the decision to read them again as a part of my nighttime routine, which is to say, as a component of my bedtime

01:34

Speaker A

routine. And I've started a new book: " Meet Cute" by Abby Abby Gimes. Guys, sorry, that's my guilty pleasure, author, what should I do? And it's so cute, it's such a cute story. Ah, sorry . And the part about going to sleep and

01:55

Speaker A

then waking up is really, really great. I can only recommend it to you. Well, okay, guys. Yes. Guys, I wanted to show you something. I have to write advertising up here because I'm talking about it explicitly, but it's not paid

02:49

Speaker A

advertising. I got this from Hanna, and Hanna has a jewelry brand called September 5. How perfect is this jewelry storage? I think it's so incredibly cute. I've already packed all my jewelry in here. It's really, really great. I've also packed lots of

03:10

Speaker A

earrings in this zipper. How cute is that? And by the way, this is from the new collection. So, these earrings here , I think they're so pretty. This is the matching necklace for the earrings, also from the new collection. I think

03:24

Speaker A

it's so pretty. I don't know if that's showing through well. You can see it a little better this way. By the way, Lara also made this whole thing here.

03:31

Speaker A

She's a friend of Hanna's. Really, it turned out so perfect. I don't know how you can make it so incredibly perfect.

03:38

Speaker A

And if you're still looking for something, take a look. I believe that there are a few less of these items remaining here. It's really perfect.

03:46

Speaker A

And how incredibly sweet is it that it has even been personalized here as well . I am not sure if that is also possible elsewhere on the website, but no, guys. เฮ So yeah, I'm sitting down now. I don't even know where to

05:19

Speaker A

start. Let's start with the story time, how I got to see my dream apartment from, like, guys, I just had a spontaneous viewing appointment for my dream apartment. I'm more nervous than I've been before any single date I've been on. Yeah, guys,

05:44

Speaker A

what can I tell you? I wouldn't say I got scammed again. I'll tell you the whole story. So, I found an apartment on Em Scout, just like all the other apartments I have looked at, and it was truly a wonderful and beautiful

05:59

Speaker A

apartment. It was around the corner from my sister. She was really great and I wrote to her right away, so the apartment was listed in the evening, and the next morning I called again and a man answered and he said, "Hey,

06:18

Speaker A

you're the first one to call, and what's your name?" And then he ended the conversation by stating that he would get back to me, which is exactly what he did. Later that day, he wrote to me once more, saying that he would

06:34

Speaker A

be in touch regarding a viewing of the place and everything else that might follow in the process. And then he got back to me the following day and said, "Hey, the viewing is on Sunday at 11 a.m., you are more than welcome to come

06:48

Speaker A

by and take a look at it then." And I was super euphoric. I was incredibly happy. I was like, "Wow, oh my God, it's just me, I'm here now, that I can look at it and it's totally great."

07:02

Speaker A

Then he wrote to me: "Hey, Fabian, if you feel like it, you can spontaneously look at the apartment today." Let me know. I was completely euphoric and wrote back immediately, saying give me 20 minutes and I will be there, and yes

07:17

Speaker A

, I was thinking to myself, oh my God, this is my big chance. So, this entire thing, this entire horror, this search has finally reached an end and I have it now; then, as I said, I made my way

07:27

Speaker A

there very quickly and rang the doorbell at his place. Yes, he opened the door for me, and I walked up there, where I then also realized that he is actually a resident of that very same house as well. He was such a very tall

07:40

Speaker A

man, much taller than me, a very, I would say massive man. From the very first second I sensed a very difficult energy. Not someone you would say is a good person. Because he simply had a really bad charisma. So, but I was so

08:05

Speaker A

pissed off, like, my God, then he just lives under there, he doesn't have to have anything to do with it, I don't know what, so it doesn't have to have anything to do with that, really. In any case, he said, yeah, the apartment

08:16

Speaker A

located up there is available now. There are currently two guys living there, but I can take a look at the apartment. I took a look at the apartment and, um, it was just a really weird woman because he was totally

08:35

Speaker A

insecure, seemed insecure. On the one hand, he was not dominant at all, but he was fully aware of his position, of his power position and that of his family, since the entire building belonged to him. Exactly, he showed me

08:55

Speaker A

the apartment and then, well, after he had shown me around, we stood at the first window. While we were standing there like that, he suddenly said to me , "You are wearing contact lenses, aren't you?" I was like, "Yeah." And so

09:12

Speaker A

they said: "Ah, I already thought, oh, manga, manga, contact lenses." And I was like: "No, it is just that I am actually unable to see anything at all.

09:19

Speaker A

" And so I wondered what kind of comment that was supposed to be, but in the end I did not think much of it at all. I then asked, hey, can I film a video of the apartment, and he was just

09:30

Speaker A

like, um, so I said, it is just for private use, I will probably be uploading it somewhere or something like that. I just wanted to make a video for my mom. And he was like, yeah , okay. So it was really weird. But I

09:47

Speaker A

didn't think anything of it because I didn't want to think anything of it. Well, and then I made the video. Um, we went down one floor to his apartment and then he got a call and, um, I just

10:00

Speaker A

said: "Hey, no stress, I'll just wait downstairs in front of the house." Um, make your call. So then we stood downstairs and discussed the conditions and everything once again, and I was just thinking: Well, I assumed we would

10:17

Speaker A

say our goodbyes and he would send me a contract or whatever, just like anyone else would do. But then he went on talking for such an incredibly long time, just talking forever, saying: Well, it is their house after all, and

10:31

Speaker A

they do not want to have any weird person in there, and they just want to be absolutely sure one more time about the whole situation. They go and they want this and they want that and they want that and they want that and they

10:41

Speaker A

want, um, uncomplicated, uncomplicated, uncomplicated and a landlord-friendly contract, a landlord-friendly contract —he has said that a thousand times over and repeated the same thing again and again, just constantly repeating himself, exactly as he has done many times before. And then at some point I

10:53

Speaker A

was like, because I didn't really get a chance to speak and at some point I was like: "Hey, I totally understand that you want to protect yourselves, that you want to have a happy contract as a landlord and that I totally understand

11:04

Speaker A

that, especially when you own the house , when you live in the house yourself, that you don't want strange people in there and all sorts of things." And then he also adds: "Yeah, well, because I don't really know you or anything

11:15

Speaker A

like that." I also said to him quite clearly: "Look, I totally understand that it needs to be landlord-friendly, but it also has to—I mean, I also want to feel comfortable with this contract. And you do not know me, but I

11:26

Speaker A

also do not know you at all, so we are in the same position." At times I also thought to myself in retrospect: "Am I actually completely out of my mind for going into a strange apartment with three men I do not even know?" Guys,

11:38

Speaker A

please don't do it, don't do it, if I'm going to be so stupid, please don't be so stupid yourself. If you ever find yourself in the same situation, please don't do that. Please don't do that. In retrospect, I was also thinking, am I

11:51

Speaker A

actually being completely stupid here? So am I still doing okay that I'm doing that? Really, am I still doing too well ? Totally wrong. I can honestly say, luckily nothing happened. In any case, he just kept on repeating himself, and

12:03

Speaker A

from the very moment that I finally opened my mouth and said, "Hey, I understand all of this, but I would like to, well, we already have a contract in place, don't we?" or is that not the case? Because he never

12:14

Speaker A

said, "Hey, send you the contract," but I was like, "I already have a contract, a regular contract, and everything is in there." I was like: "If we draw up a contract and it contains all those points that are important to you and

12:25

Speaker A

need to be addressed, then that is perfectly fine," because personally, I have no problems with that at all. So, he mentioned that it will be limited to a duration of one year, just so we are on the safe side regarding this

12:33

Speaker A

arrangement. And I was so totally fine; I am not sure if I even want to stay here for a year anyway. So, that's totally fine. And then I also tried to bring the whole thing to an end in that

12:41

Speaker A

kind of way. It was just like: "Hey, send me a contract." Then I can have it checked, I can go through all of that, and then I can send it back to you, signed and completed, and then everything will be perfectly fine for

12:54

Speaker A

us. And then he was just like, yeah, he would send me the contract the next day and um, he would be happy if everything here would end quickly so that he wouldn't have to do the open viewing on

13:08

Speaker A

Sunday, because I'm so crazy. And I was , as I mentioned, somehow thinking that this is it, that is the way it is going to work out for us now. And then, um, the next day dawned. He actually sent

13:21

Speaker A

the contract. I checked it, I read it all through, my mom read it all through , I went through Chat DBT, everything was fine. I would have done that, and told him something like, "Hey, that works for me." Then he didn't respond

13:36

Speaker A

for the whole day. Then I was just like , okay, well, you should just give him some time, that was on Saturday, so you should just go ahead and give me some time as well. Then he actually called

13:49

Speaker A

me in the evening, it was about 6:30 p.m., he called me up and then he said, "Yeah, Fabian, you are an influencer, aren't you?" I was like, yeah, you got my documents. You know who I am. So, he

14:14

Speaker A

has talked with me, he has received all of my documents, and he obviously knows exactly what my job is. "Yeah, we have these high-quality new properties and they need to be advertised." And I was like, well, I was like, and so, and so,

14:40

Speaker A

yeah, they need to be advertised. Can you imagine doing Reels and Stories? And I was like, is this the right number, what's happening? I also asked straight away, I was like, what does this have to do with the rental

15:01

Speaker A

agreement, because I thought you were calling about the rental agreement. And he was just like, yeah, well, they have to, I mean, these are expensive properties after all, so they really have to be advertised in some way or

15:11

Speaker A

another. And I was like, yeah, that is it, I have understood that much, but what does that have to do with our rental agreement? And then he was like, well, nothing at all. I was like, well, then what does it have to do with the

15:31

Speaker A

matter, especially since I was also like, I'm a target group of young women who are following me, who certainly aren't interested in your overpriced properties. So, let's really, really settle the rental agreement first.

15:47

Speaker A

Let's finalize everything first, and then we can talk about it again in the future, or you could simply show them to me right away if that would be easier for you. I don't even know what kind of properties they are. So, I did

15:57

Speaker A

not even say, hey, what exactly are those suspicious things that you are doing around here? Well, I didn't say, I was, I was, I was very, right? And there was a moment when he realized, " No, she doesn't do that. The little

16:14

Speaker A

influencer, little influencer girl, because that's how I think he saw me and treated me. Well, I Googled him and everything. He was already 36 and incredibly crazy. Well, and from the moment he realized," I'm not doing this , it's not something I'm doing. "Uh,

16:41

Speaker A

yeah, he tried to brush me off. So, he just said," Hey, yeah, you have to go now too. "I'm really on the go now and stuff, he called me. Uh, I have to go now and stuff. Yeah, I'll put something

16:52

Speaker A

together again about the contract, I'll put something together again and stuff. The contract was already there. Uh, put something on again and stuff. I'll get back to you. Uh, exactly. And, uh, I'll get back to you tomorrow and I was just

17:03

Speaker A

like, I just felt it right away. I was like, okay. Then I was also like, m, the viewing, it'll still take place tomorrow and he was just like, uh, yeah . Uh, well, I can't cancel on everyone now, like, that's not possible. That's

17:17

Speaker A

why, yeah. And I was just like, all right, then everything is fine, so please feel free to get back to me whenever you can tomorrow. And I knew right away that this little guy had broken. So, well, he didn't get back to

17:35

Speaker A

me all Sunday and this morning I got the message, yes, we decided on someone else after a long review and it just didn't work out. But I wish you the very best of luck with your ongoing apartment search. Mhm. I know that

17:55

Speaker A

things aren't always going so smoothly on the Berlin housing market anyway, and I've also heard from many friends that people expected something like:" Hey, give me this much cash in hand and then the apartment is yours. "And I'll

18:08

Speaker A

tell you honestly: I can understand that 500,000 times more and I would probably do 500,000 times more because I'm so desperate at that point. But what he's demanding has to do with or is connected to the fact that I have to

18:26

Speaker A

stay in touch with him, that he can show up at my door out of nowhere and say:" Hey, by the way, I still have what I wanted to claim from you. "And that was not, it would not have been a

18:39

Speaker A

completed matter, but rather it would have been, hey, you had actually promised me that you would still do Reels and Stories, and it probably would have turned into a whole lot more things as time went on. This man was so

18:49

Speaker A

incredibly unpredictable and now in retrospect, I was incredibly sad. So, have you seen the video? I was, I don't even know if I was sad, because I was almost relieved. I already told a friend of mine:" Hey, if I actually end

19:07

Speaker A

up getting the apartment, we must search the entire place to see if there are any cameras or something hidden there, "because I was already in such a panic regarding this guy, since he gives off such a creepy aura and he

19:17

Speaker A

also looked genuinely creepy, it must be said, and I felt like I had to be very careful with him regarding that situation. It saved me. So, I am absolutely certain that this saved me, but this situation was just so

19:33

Speaker A

disgusting because he knew that he was in a position of power, that he was currently in this specific position of power, and that I was desperately looking for a new apartment. He knew all of this. And the fact that human

19:48

Speaker A

beings can be so disgusting always comes as a surprise to me, because I simply do not want to believe it. I do not want to accept that people are like that. And yet they are like that, and some of them are even much, much worse,

20:00

Speaker A

and who knows if he would have become much, much worse if I had actually moved in? Who could have possibly known that? So, I will tell you honestly, I do not want to lie to you, because I keep receiving comments from Fu like

20:12

Speaker A

how you are just radiant. You seem to be doing so well and everything is great. Yes, totally wonderful, but it is not like that at all. There are so many current topics that I cannot talk about yet, because I do not even, I

20:31

Speaker A

just do not know anymore. Um, but there is so much going on that I just, it is such a, I feel. I feel really overwhelmed and overburdened. I wish so much that this year had somehow gone differently. It is all so fake,

20:54

Speaker A

and I am somehow a part of it, because I do not want to show on social media all the time that everything is going haywire inside of me right now, that I feel completely restless, that I cannot find a real home for myself, and that

21:16

Speaker A

everything is just so, so much for me to handle at this moment in time . And of course, I am naturally doing everything all by myself right now, and naturally, I do not have a partner or much family around me at this moment in

21:36

Speaker A

time, or anything like that. And it's really just hard right now and I don't want any sympathy, guys. I don't want any sympathy. The only reason I'm telling you this or telling you this right now is simply because I don't

21:52

Speaker A

feel like pretending that everything is super easy right now. It's not. That's not how it is for me. I'm in a totally radical phase of change and I know that's part of life. It does. That's the way it is, it's part of life that

22:10

Speaker A

you go through phases like this. I'm going through that right now, that those people are part of it. But yeah, that's exactly how I think to myself, sometimes I just wish I had someone who would just take me by the arm and I

22:27

Speaker A

know it will get better. I'm absolutely certain: It will get better. And I also know that at the end of this phase I will certainly be proud of myself, because I have already been strong in so many moments and have successfully

22:43

Speaker A

stood up for myself. And I know that I always have my mom there from a distance, but it's often not the same.

22:52

Speaker A

So yeah, I feel totally alone a lot of the time. Phases like that are simply a part of it, I know that, and I always try to bring myself back to tell myself that everything is fine; I have a roof

23:09

Speaker A

over my head, I have a job, and I am doing well. If you're feeling the same way right now, I hate those things. But if you're really feeling the same way right now, hey, it's fine. I think it's

23:22

Speaker A

your 20s. I don't know. In any case, the same and um, I'll get through it. I hope we all get through this. And if things are going well for you right now , then I am happy for you from the

23:40

Speaker A

bottom of my heart. And don't worry, the next vlogs won't be so negative. I'm sorry. I would love to function so much better, but I just can't right now . Yes, I will get back to you again tomorrow and I am hoping that I might

24:05

Speaker A

be feeling at least a little bit better by that time. We're feeling fresh again . I've also just freshened up my hair.

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As if the emotional state, I'm already feeling better. I had to sort myself out first, let's put it that way. I think the stupidest thing I thought in retrospect was that I went to the viewing alone. It is a good thing that

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I reacted well afterwards, but I am still having a hard time coming to terms with that situation. That's so stupid. And I want to say it again, guys, don't do that. Please don't do that. I was lucky that it went well.

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That could have gone really wrong and was incredibly stupid. Crazy, crazy. I really No more words for that. I'm definitely going to meet up with Julina right now. I'll tell her about the nice event. But I'm looking forward to it.

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I'm looking forward to seeing her and distracting myself a bit. I will tell you plainly that there was not much going on during last night's events.

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Are you allowed to have a customer? No. It looks nice. Hey, hey, hey. So guys, it has been a few days since then, and I thought that I would provide you with a small update because this video has

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carried with it a very large amount of emotions. Let's put it this way. Um, first of all, I'm feeling better again.

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It is and will remain that way. This year has been a bit of a curse for me, but not necessarily in a negative way.

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I think that, honestly, there is just so much going on, and as I said, it has been such an intense year, because there is so much changing and so much that had to change internally, for me personally, but also in my private life

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, everything, really on every level of my life, more or less. And it is just exhausting, and I honestly believe that I am simply a human being. I like it comfortable. I think everyone likes comfort. And this year, everything is

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anything but comfortable for me, because I find myself at a loss and do not know where I should go. I am not entirely certain what the correct path is, whether it is the right path to remain here in Berlin, or if it would

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be the right path to simply depart, to be brave, to give notice on my apartment here, and to just make myself scarce and get out of here. And on the other hand, I just have this impulse and on the other hand I also have this

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impulse, I just want to be on the safe side, above all, and not to take on even more than I already do. And that's just the mood right now and I think that's why I'm reaching my limits.

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That's why I'm reaching my limits here too. What's going on here? It's never quiet here, right? But I have to say, it's just normal. I think it's just the 20s and I know better. Um, some days, as you've seen, I just can't handle it

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so well. And then there are days like today, I can handle it better and it actually has a lot to do with my hormones. And that's also a topic that really concerns me. Like, um, that I just don't even have mood swings, but

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really lows. I experience significant lows because of hormonal phases, and this remains a subject that occupies me extensively, which also tends to worry me to a certain degree. Um, but these are also topics that I feel like I have

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to tackle this year. So. And there's no way around it and that's how it is sometimes. The most important thing, I believe, is to listen, that is, to pay attention when life is trying to tell you something, to do your very best,

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and then this phase will eventually pass and come to an end, just as all things must inevitably do at some point in time. I'm absolutely certain of that . I also kind of thought that after What has happened now with the

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apartment was so overwhelming and I have manifested so very much. I believe in that, by the way. I really believe in it. I believe in the power of thoughts. I believe that you can manifest something. It's up to each

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individual whether you believe in it or not. And then I was like, how can that be? I wanted it so badly. I wanted it so badly. And then I was like, I don't think you can manifest things in life

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that are simply not meant for you, that simply shouldn't be or that would have been incredibly bad for you, that would have turned out incredibly bad. I must also say now, in retrospect, that I am quite proud of myself for having

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recognized that situation so quickly and for having acted upon it just as fast, even though I wanted this particular apartment more than anything else in the world. I wanted it so badly , and now in retrospect I am only just

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realizing, oh my god, that could have gone so incredibly wrong in every possible way. I don't believe that I can even picture it for myself anymore, no. Imagine that, because nobody knows.

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Nobody knows how badly it could have gone wrong. And I don't want to know and I won't find out and I'm glad about that. Now, a few days after the event, I am truly very grateful that things did not work out the way they were

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supposed to happen for me. Even though I naturally would have preferred to start the new chapter at this moment.

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But I will be honest, the injury was actually far too expensive in relation to the things that I had originally planned to do with it. I can now pitch you my current plan. So, number one, I will find a more affordable apartment

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here in Berlin and have a base, so to speak, from which I can travel to all the other cities, countries, whatever, and look around to see where my new home could eventually be. I know that it's not Berlin. But I don't know which

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place it would be more likely. And the second plan would be, if I simply cannot find a cheaper, good apartment here, then the second plan is really just that I will travel away from here and look around, and perhaps I will

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take a look at things for several weeks instead, in order to get a better sense of how I should proceed. So basically the same plan, just with this base here , where I can of course actually pay too much and would actually leave. But

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okay, I don't see myself quitting here and just moving somewhere without really looking at it first. I don't think so. But I don't know either. I actually can't say. I also find it difficult to assess myself right now,

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because I'm currently doing what feels good somehow, or at least I'm currently trying to learn to do the things that feel good. I find it's not that easy.

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That's my little update for you. And with that, I am going to bring this vlog to an end now. I hope you enjoyed it. Actually, I don't know if you liked it. I was also on the verge of cutting

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this out and not showing it to any of you in this way at all. Um, I've already kept a lot of moments from you this year, cut them out, not shown them , because I somehow didn't want to show

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myself as weak, which, because it obviously makes you totally vulnerable and exposed. And I simply think that I didn't have the courage to do that, because I simply I have had so many open topics to deal with throughout

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this year and so on. And I still feel that way, but I simply believe that I do not want to convey anything of that nature, especially not here on the YouTube platform. I want YouTube to be my safe space, and you guys are my safe

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space, and I know that many of you watch these videos regularly, and that's really, you know, I have a completely different connection here.

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Really, it was especially important to me that I was 100%somehow or 100%will never work, but that I at least remain honest here as far as possible and as far as I can and somehow say where I currently stand. Even in the last

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resistance it was like this again:" Hey , you look so happy, you are truly radiating joy. "And yes, I think that there are definitely some truly lovely moments this year. I do not even want to mention it. I have already

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experienced some really beautiful moments this year during which I was beaming and feeling inspired, and I was just thinking to myself:" Oh my God, it has finally come to an end here. "" Uh, this bumpy year. But then it gets bumpy

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again. And like I said, I think that's okay too. That's okay too. If you're also having a rough year, guys, I'll tell you honestly, I think it's getting better. I know it's hard to hear, but it's true. It's getting better and

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better. It's getting better and better. I'm glad you've watched the vlog this far. Enjoy the kisses and in the evening, if you want. I'm actually going home tomorrow morning. Uh, I'm so looking forward to seeing my family, like my mom, my grandma and the dogs. I

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can't even describe it to you in words. And then I'm going to Crete with my management for a few days and I'll see Hanna again, I'll see Jackie, and I'll see lots of other girls from our management that I've never met in

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person before. So, I'm really excited. Lotta is there too. I'm incredibly excited about it and yeah, I can Really need that now. Yes. So a big kiss to you and until the next vlog.

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