**Inner Game & Confidence LIVE + Q&A — Transcript & Summary | SozAI**
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John Anthony discusses inner game, confidence, mindset, and dating strategies in this live Q&A session with practical advice and course promotion.

## Key Takeaways

- Confidence stems from truly believing in your own value and not putting women on pedestals.
- Inner game is foundational and impacts all stages of dating, from online profiles to closing dates.
- Overcoming personal hang-ups is crucial to maintaining a high-value mindset.
- Positive self-belief leads to better social and dating outcomes, creating a reinforcing cycle.
- Practical strategies and mindset shifts can be learned and applied to improve dating success.

## What the video covers

- John Anthony covers key inner game concepts including mindset, confidence, and overcoming 'nice guy syndrome'.
- He explains how to stop putting women on pedestals and how to see your own value as equal or high.
- The video includes a breakdown of his dating system: online profile optimization, lead acquisition, management, closing, retention, and sexual market value upgrades.
- John addresses common male hang-ups such as height, ethnicity, physique, and financial concerns and how they affect confidence.
- He emphasizes the importance of a 100 out of 100 mindset where you believe you are good enough exactly as you are.
- The live includes Q&A from viewers, covering topics like handling sabotage from other men and body language tips.
- John promotes his new inner game and confidence product, available at a discounted price during a birthday sale.
- He discusses evolutionary psychology as a basis for female attraction to behavior and survival value.
- The session also touches on practical dating advice including how to run and close dates effectively.
- John shares personal anecdotes and examples to illustrate his points throughout the live.

## Chapters

1. 00:00 Introduction and Overview
2. 16:30 Handling Social Sabotage and Negativity
3. 30:51 Inner Game System and Dating Framework
4. 44:30 Putting Women on Pedestals and Value Perception
5. 82:30 Overcoming Hang-Ups and Flaws
6. 108:30 Confidence Mindset and 100 out of 100 Belief
7. 137:00 Q&A and Practical Dating Tips
8. 173:00 Course Promotion and Closing Remarks

Answers

## Questions about this video

What is the main focus of John Anthony's inner game course?

The course focuses on building confidence, overcoming limiting beliefs like putting women on pedestals, and developing a mindset where you see your value as 100 out of 100.

How does John Anthony suggest dealing with other men trying to sabotage your interactions?

He advises ignoring them, using body language to box them out, and isolating the girl away from the disruptive individual without giving the saboteur attention.

What are some common hang-ups that affect men's confidence according to the video?

Common hang-ups include concerns about height, ethnicity, physique, financial status, age, and hairline, which often lower men's perceived value and confidence.

## Full Transcript — Download SRT & Markdown

00:02

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What's up, everybody? We are live on October 16th. It is a Friday. I'm wearing a cool shirt here.

00:18

Speaker A

Oops. All right. Um, so yeah, today we're going to talk about a whole bunch of stuff related to inner game. We're going to talk about how to get your mindset dialed in, how to be maximally confident, how to stop being a nice guy, how to

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stop being a [ \_\_ ]. How to stop putting girls on a pedestal, how to, you know, truly believe in yourself and get over your various flaws and hang-ups, etc. So, we're going to learn a lot of stuff here. Um,

00:54

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so I will do a bunch of teaching here in the beginning, but you can get your questions in the chat. Someone says, "I think it's super cool. You're deciding to give away your product for a discount on your birthday." Yeah, it's only 97

01:07

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bucks right now for the, um, the new inner game confidence product. I'll put a link to the sale in the chat.

01:22

Speaker A

So, birthday sale for new inner game and confidence product. It's only 97 bucks. Um, and this is going to be going through Sunday.

01:37

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Okay? So, make sure you take advantage of that. The link is in the description on TikTok and YouTube.

01:48

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Um, let's see. Okay. Salt South Park made fun of Clavicular. Yeah. Um, I haven't seen the full episode yet. It's one of my favorite shows, but I saw the clips. Basically, like Randy, one of the dads, beats the [ \_\_ ] out of

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Clavicular, which, you know, is a very reasonable response for the way that he acts.

02:26

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Um, let's see. Someone's asking if we can put timestamps on the lives on Rumble. Yes.

02:41

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Um, I just asked my team if they could help with that. Um, let's see.

02:57

Speaker A

All right. So, let me just teach a little bit here. You guys can keep putting questions in the chat.

03:07

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I want to get into some inner game topics here. All right. All right. So, let me bring up a little chart here.

03:51

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How do you get to the point where you stop letting guys phase you when they try to ruin your interaction?

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Again, like I'm never paying attention to other guys in the venue. I don't give a [ \_\_ ], right? If a guy comes in actively trying to sabotage my interaction or otherwise bother me, I just ignore him most of the time,

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right? And you can use your body language to box the guy out. And you can isolate the girl away, say, "Hey, that guy's being creepy. Let's go over here." Blah, blah, blah. But you don't, you know, it's stupid. You don't need to even

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really pay attention to that stuff. Guys are far too concerned with, oh, what do I do if I'm being mogged? Who the [ \_\_ ] cares? It's just a guy being a dumbass.

04:36

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Mystery had books full of examples like negs and openers. You should do the same to twist the conversation, sexual and DHVs. Yeah, I teach that stuff in my course. So, I already have all that stuff. Um,

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let's look at a little diagram here. So this is like my whole system, right?

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Just to recap, you have stage one, optimize the online dating profile. We use pro photos and AI photos. Hot girl team picks the best five. We apply static upgrades. I write your bio. We show you how to maximally acquire new

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leads on online game, night game, and day game. Stage two is lead acquisition. Then we have lead management, which is converting those phone numbers into dates.

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We have lead closing, which is running and closing your date. Lead retention, which is, you know, keeping the best girl or girls.

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And then we have sexual market value upgrades where you can improve your physique, your clothes, your aesthetics.

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But that stuff's mostly just going to be like the icing on the cake and will give you the biggest return on your online game profile. Okay. But then sitting up here, we have inner game.

06:10

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Okay. This is your confidence, beliefs about yourself, etc. Okay. And that's what this live is going to be about here.

06:30

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Okay. So let's go up to a new space here. And let's make some other boxes here.

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Putting girls on a pedestal. Nice guy syndrome. Focusing on flaws and hang-ups. Deposification. Um, let's see.

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Boundaries and how to become high value. Okay. And 100 out of 100 mindset. So, let's see.

08:20

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All right. So, let's look at each one of these here one by one. Um, let's see. Move these up here.

08:38

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See if we can put one more in here. All right. So, here are kind of the main topics that I want to look at.

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And this is all covered in my new inner game course, by the way, okay? Which is with the link in the description.

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Um, new inner game and confidence product birthday sale of 97, link in description. All right.

09:30

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So, let's first of all look at putting girls on a pedestal. Okay, we have, let's see, here's like a representation of value.

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Okay. So we can say this is value here. And when you see a female 10, you're putting her up here.

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And when you look at your own value relative to her, you're thinking that you're much lower than her. Okay, that's the big issue. So, the problem with putting girls on a pedestal is just because she's hot, you're thinking that she's, you know,

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perfect and way out of your league, etc. And you think that you're way down here.

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Now, the problem is when you step to the girl, when you go and approach her, when you go on a date with her, it's going to come through in your words and body language that you think that

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you're not good enough and that you think she's out of your league and that you think there's this huge value differential, right?

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And so just by simply believing that you're not good enough and this and that this girl is, you know, on a pedestal, you're essentially going to be communicating that you're a low-value loser, okay? When you go and talk to her, and that's going

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to come through in your words and body language. So in the course, I show you how to see yourself on the same level, okay? You can start seeing yourself as 100 out of 100, right? That's this piece over here.

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And the way that you believe in all those is you look at, um, accomplishments, cool experiences, um, hobbies, interests, and skills.

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And you look at what you bring to the table and what separates you from other guys. Okay? And I teach in the course how to fix your value at 100 out of 100. Meaning like you're at your full potential. It

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doesn't mean you can't get any better, that you shouldn't try to improve yourself, but it means you're good enough exactly how you are right now for any girl. Okay?

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Um, and then as you get positive reactions, right? So, so when you're thinking of yourself this way now, when you step to the girl, it's coming through your words and your body language that you're high value and that you're confident and that you're

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the man and so on and so forth. Okay? And that is going to be far more attractive.

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So, and then you're going to get positive reactions. You're going to get more phone numbers. You're going to get more dates. You're going to get more hookups. You're going to get more girls wanting to stick around. And that's

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going to directly feed back on this 100 out of 100 mindset. Okay. Let's see. Um, okay. And so when you walk into a venue, for instance, like at a bar or club, you should think that you're good

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enough for any girl at the venue. Okay? And you should truly believe it. And this course that I made helps you actually truly believe it. You have to remember all the rest of the guys are thinking that maybe they're, you

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know, mediocre or that they suck or that they're really not good enough. And why are they, why are guys thinking that?

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Okay, why are they thinking that they suck? It's because of their hang-ups and their flaws typically.

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So, let's bring this piece over. So guys are classically concerned with the fact that, you know, they think, well, we'll just put in different things that they could be worried about. Um, height, ethnicity, physique, um, financial situation.

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Uh, what else? Age, hairline, etc. Okay, we all have our own shortcomings or flaws or hang-ups or whatever, whatever you want to call them. And guys focus in on those and then they allow their value to drop, okay, in their m

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"Girls can't possibly like me. I'm too short. Girls can't possibly like me. I'm Indian. Girls can't possibly like me.

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I'm too skinny or, you know, I'm a little overweight or I don't make enough money or I'm in my 40s or 50s so they won't like me or my hairlines are receding so they won't like me. You have

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to remember everybody has flaws and shortcomings. In the course, I teach how you can come to terms with them and come to peace with them and not let them define your value. Okay?

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Because remember, your value has to be fixed at 100 out of 100. And I also teach you how to draw a metaphorical brick wall. Here's the brick wall.

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So that when you get things like insults, negative reactions, um flakes, ghosting, right? Any any any one of those things, it doesn't define your value. Okay? Most guys don't have this wall here and they're not defining their own value

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internally and non-contingently. And so when they get hit, first of all, they think they suck. So they're already at a huge disadvantage. But then when they go in and try to talk to one of these girls, they might get negative reactions or

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flakes or insults or rejection. And then that confirms in their mind. It's a it's a principle in psychology called confirmation bias. It confirms in their mind that they're not good enough.

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So they think girls won't like me because I'm a short Indian guy that's too old with a receding hairline that doesn't make enough money. He goes in with a negative attitude.

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All his words and body language signal that he's not good enough and that he's a loser in his mind. And so the girl thinks that as well. And it's gonna, you know, you these things never go away.

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The the things I listed here, even at my level, I'm still going to get insults and negative reactions and rejections and flakes and ghosting all the [ \_\_ ] time. Anyone that says that, you know, you're you're suddenly immune to those

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things because you've achieved a certain skill level in the game is lying. Okay? That's simply not true. You you can't help approaching girls that have a boyfriend or husband that you didn't know about and she tells you to [ \_\_ ]

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off. you can't help approaching girls that are in a bad mood and you you didn't know that or you're not their type for whatever reason or they don't want to talk to anybody or they're trying to catch up with their friends or

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whatever. And so, you know, the the difference is the guys that most what most guys are doing is when they get a rejection or they get negative reactions, it reconfirms the fact that girls don't like them and they typically blame these

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flaws that they have and they let these external reactions define their value. Okay? What I'm saying is you fix your value at 100 out of 100 and then you make a wall so that when you encounter these unfavorable things, your value doesn't

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move. Okay? It's not that, oh, I'm a cool, high value, confident guy until I run into a string of rejections and then I'm not. or I'm a cool, high-V value, confident guy until a girl insults me or calls me ugly or tells me to [ \_\_ ] off

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and and then my value plummets. No, th this is the power of of the concept of fixing your value at 100 out of 100 permanently for the rest of your life.

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It's the ultimate reframe, right? Does that mean you can't get any better? Of course not. Does that mean you can't improve? Of course not.

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Okay. Um, let's see. All right. So, does that hopefully that makes sense. Keep getting your questions in the chat. I I'll see if there's any questions about any of this so far.

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Um, how long does it take to build confidence and implement the mindsets? It can happen very [ \_\_ ] quick. Okay, very [ \_\_ ] quick. A lot of you have heard this story over the years, but I

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had an Indian client, a short Indian client in Vegas who was a virgin. And I was at around maybe a little over 200 leg count. This was in 2013.

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And he said, "Women respond negatively to me because I'm a virgin. and they respond positively to you because you've slept with a couple hundred girls. And I said, "That's not how this [ \_\_ ] works." Okay? I said, "We

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don't have a leg count. We don't have our body count posted on our forehead." I I have it tattooed on my my fingers here. Each of these D's is is worth 500 girls. There's 2,000 there. Um, but you

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know, for most people, the girl has no idea if you've slept with zero, 100, 2,000. She She has no [ \_\_ ] clue. She only knows how you step to her and how you carry yourself. And that's in your

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control. That's the good news, okay? If you act, and guys like Jordan Peterson don't like this. He calls it like, you know, sociopathic manipulation or whatever.

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The the thing is is that they respond to high value behavior. They respond to behavior in general. They respond to attraction signals and and attraction switches. And so if you he he doesn't like the fact that guys can imitate that

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and the woman can be tricked and and mistake him for being high value when he's not.

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But I would argue that that perception is everything anyways. If you truly believe that you're high value, right? Let's say let's say you don't have any sexual experience yet. Okay, but let's say, you know, I get clients, they're like, "Well, I have nothing

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going on." I'm like, "Well, list out these things." It's like, "Oh, look, you're you're a computer programmer and you you prevented hacking attacks and like, you know, you're working on a small business and you know, you you you

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have really good chess skills or whatever. Everybody has their own things. they're good at their own things that they've done that are that are cool or fun or interesting, their own skills, etc. So, you you just play your

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strengths, okay? And you can even if you have a lay of zero as a virgin, you can still fully believe in yourself, right?

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We we have a a client on the 8week program right now. In his first week of online game results after we optimized his profile, he got over 100 matches.

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He got 20 phone numbers and he got nine dates all with girls above an eight plus. He's a virgin. Okay. Do you think a virgin is excited to have nine dates scheduled with girls that are above an eight out of 10? [ \_\_ ] yes, he is. And

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are these girls going to know that he's a virgin unless he tells them? No. Okay.

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So, it's all about how you carry yourself. So, once that Indian client realized that, it flipped the switch in his head. I said, "If I said, if I go in weak and act like a [ \_\_ ] they're going

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to reject me. If you go in and act like the man, even though you're a virgin, they're going to respond positively in most cases." Okay? And so it like someone again was asking how quickly can this happen?

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It can happen today. Okay, it can literally happen today. Um it it it's not some, you know, multimonth thing or or multi-yearly thing. The course will teach you how to fix your value at 100. How to focus on

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the strengths that you have. How to believe you're good enough for any girl. How to be immune in a sense of not letting these things define your own value because these things never go away. Okay? They literally never go

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away. And if and if you remove this metaphorical brick wall and you're not fixing your value at 100 out of 100, it's going to be like a roller coaster.

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Oh, these two girls were friendly to me, so I'm cool. But then I ran into three or four rejections in a row, so now I suck, right? And and I thought I was doing better because I got some positive

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reactions, but then a girl insulted me or then I ran into more rejections or and you're just going to be a yo-yoing around victim to whatever the [ \_\_ ] circumstances you happen to run into. I can run into strings of rejections at

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2,107 lay count. I can run into days where I have three or four dates scheduled and they all flake. I can run into days where, you know, girls I really liked disappear and and ghost, right? That's all part of the [ \_\_ ]

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game. If you if you can't deal with that stuff, then you shouldn't ever get involved with with social interaction or dating. That the the point is you don't have to let those things define you.

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That's what everyone else is doing. Okay? Most guys are thinking that they suck. They have no barrier here. So, all this stuff is just constantly yo-yoing them around. And there's, you know, it's always a disadvantage and it's always a handicap.

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Unless you're here, girl wants to get involved with a guy that thinks he's a loser, that thinks that he sucks. And and those beliefs are going to come through. They have insidious effects in your words and body language, and they're going to come

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through. Okay. So, okay. That's so that's one parts. We we talked about the 100 mindset. I'm just doing a brief overview. The course goes much more in depth. How to get over your flaws and hang-ups, right?

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Um how to, you know, come to terms with the things that that you're that are not perfect or or whatever up to your standard.

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Everyone has those things. When you look on Instagram, it's unrealistic. It looks like everyone's perpetually happy and and perfect and everything like that.

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That's not real life. Okay? Everyone has their own flaws and hang-ups, physical, mental psychological emotional etc.

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Right? We we went over putting girls on a pedestal, why you can't put them up here and put yourself down here because she's not going to be interested when you go and talk to her. You have to see

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yourself on her level. Now, the red pillars take it a step further and they say, "Oh, these [ \_\_ ] ain't [ \_\_ ] All these hoes are below us. They only should be making us sandwiches." And that's not going to work out well for

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you either because that's just pure misogyny and ignorance and arrogance. Okay? Okay. And a girl doesn't want you thinking that you're holier than thou and and too cool for school and all this [ \_\_ ] either. This is like an Andrew Tate

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type character. Okay. Let let's swing numchucks, pump 10 pound weights rapid fire above our head, have the indoor sunglasses on, be wearing little short shorts, be trying to drink an espresso and uh spin a plate on on our foot.

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Right? That looks like retardation in a clown. And that's going to repel her as well. So the ideal position is you see yourself on her level. Not inferior, not superior, on her level. That's how you should treat every single girl. Okay? You're

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good enough exactly how you are right now for any girl. Paradoxically, you can still keep improving and improving and improving, but right now you're good enough.

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Okay. So, we went over this one. We went over this one. We went over this one here.

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Now, who here, let me know on the chat. We can look at these two together.

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Nice guy syndrome and deification. Who here has been told that they're like a nice guy or that they're a [ \_\_ ] Be be honest in the chat.

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Let me know who here has been classic nice guy. who here has been classic, you know, for lack of a better term, acts like a [ \_\_ ] Nice guys, right? Let me let me define what what this entails.

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So, this is like a people pleaser. Um, spineless, agreeable, um, tolerates, disrespect. People walk all over you.

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um showers woman with attention and compliments. We'll talk about plural women here. Showers women with attention and compliments.

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Um what else? thinks doing nice things will win the girl over. Or, you know, another way to put that is you think there's like a linear relationship between the amount of nice things you do and the in the in the amount she will like you.

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This dude said he's nice guy for sure. Um, now let me be clear here, okay? When we use the term nice, it's not that you need to be an [ \_\_ ] okay? That's not the lesson. Um, I don't know how to draw how to get a

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[ \_\_ ] X. They changed all this interface around. Um, let's see. Yeah, I don't [ \_\_ ] know.

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You used to be able to grab shapes and stuff like that. Um, yeah. It's not about being an [ \_\_ ] being an [ \_\_ ] will repel them as well, right? Like guys like Myin Gaines where he's like, "Oh, you can either um

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what what does he say?" He said, "You can either get to know a woman or like he's saying you can't there's no there's no way you can respect them once you get to know them or whatever." Something like that. Chicks think that that's

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corny as well. All right. So, you don't want to be a big [ \_\_ ] The point is, like, let me describe how I was before I learned how to how to act properly. Um, I thought that the more nice stuff that

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I did for a girl, the more she would like me. So, if I was trying to date a girl or I was dating a girl, I would buy her flowers. I would buy her like stuffed animal. I would buy her

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chocolates. I would take her to dinner. I would compliment her a lot. This not if she did something I didn't like, I would let her get away with it. I wouldn't challenge it because I didn't want conflict and I didn't want to risk

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losing her. And but all that like repels the girl. Okay. If if you're just this, you know, person like sucking up to her like, "Wow, you're the best. Wow, you're so amazing. Wow, you're so cool." And she's like, "Where do you want to go out for

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dinner?" And you're like, "You choose, babe." Okay. Uh, what do you want to do after dinner? Oh, it's up to you, right? You don't have an opinion. You don't want to disagree with her. You don't want to challenge her. Let's say she does like

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something [ \_\_ ] up. You'll tolerate it. Women don't respect guys like that. Her attraction for you will drop into the floor.

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Okay? Same with if you're a [ \_\_ ] Like I've played a game with Liz or with other hot girls I've been with in public and they can size up a guy and tell if he's quote unquote a [ \_\_ ]

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within um within like half a second. Like I can go to a mall with a hot girl and be like, "What about that guy? [ \_\_ ] What about that guy? [ \_\_ ] What about that guy?

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Oh, that guy looks cool. And it's not so much even just about the aesthetics. It It's about the guy's mannerisms and how he carries himself, which you can size up very quickly. And women are very perceptive and they do size it up very

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quickly. And the problem is is if you look like a [ \_\_ ] or you behave like a [ \_\_ ] hot chicks are not going to be interested. Trust me. that this is precisely why all the red pill coaches

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end up with girlfriends and wives that are below a five and and a lot of times below a three, which is insane, but it's because they're huge [ \_\_ ] They're huge [ \_\_ ] They're huge losers.

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And therefore, they can't attract sevens, which is super easy. I I can, like I just said, I have virgins going out with A+ but out of the gate. But, you know, they don't want to date some too cool for school ultra macho man, you

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know misogynist [ \_\_ ] who's also a loser, who's also a [ \_\_ ] right? But if you come across as a [ \_\_ ] or a nice guy, then it's just going to repel the girl and and she's going to

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lose interest. Does that make sense? Um, okay. So, and and part of this that ties in also is is having boundaries.

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Okay. What will you what will you tolerate and what will you not tolerate? And how do you handle when the girl disrespects you? How do you handle when she [ \_\_ ] up? When when when she upsets you, etc., etc. Okay. What do you do in

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those situations? Um, let's see. One sec. All right. I just got an email from the producer. Yeah, I'm live right now.

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I go live every Friday at 12:00 p.m. Eastern. I've also been doing, you know, some other since I'm I'm new back onto YouTube. Um I I did one on Wednesday for my birthday. I turned 43. I did another one

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like the day I came back on YouTube, the week before. So, I've done a couple lives a week since I've been back. And um I'm also making new content. Like after the live today, we're we're we're releasing a

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um a new video. the first week or so back on YouTube, we were releasing some of the popular stuff that I'd put on Rumble over the past year because a lot of the YouTube audience hadn't seen that. But now I'm recording brand new

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content for YouTube. So, we're going to release the first brand new video um after the live today. So, it'll it'll be released tonight. And I'm going to keep making new content.

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And it's it we're we're focusing heavily on just teaching pickup, teaching dating, um helping guys with women, which was the the whole intention of the channel originally. Um you know, I I made quite a few videos critiquing a lot

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of the rest of the industry, but I felt that had to be done quite simply. There there's just I feel like 99% of the industry is full of fake gurus charlatans scammers internet marketers, you know, predatory figures, uh,

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exploiting men's loneliness and suffering and pain for profit. And so I felt the need to call them all out and I did. Um, created a lot of enemies, created a lot of backlash.

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A lot of them retaliated with defamation and and attacks on my business and death threats and so on and so forth.

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But, you know, it had to be done. But now we're we're again going back to the original focus of the channel, teaching, dating, and game. Um, I might do some critique videos now and then, but they'll be mostly educational instead of

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shit-talking. And, you know, reaction videos will be minimal. I've already covered a million stupid things that Fresh and Fit, other dumb asses have done.

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And that's funny to laugh at and stuff like that, but ultimately you guys are here to learn pickup and dating. And and I've slept with over 2,000 girls now. So I'm here to just shower you with with value. Um, someone says, "I've been on

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fire since I've been back on YouTube." Yeah, I I did a stream where Bradus came on as well at like the three hour mark. He was on for a couple hours.

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Um, okay. Let's keep going here. Yeah. Thanks. It was it was a great birthday. We went we went out for breakfast, me and Liz with the dogs and then I did a live which was awesome with you guys and then I did a coaching call

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for a couple hours and there was huge breakthroughs in the call which I was really happy about. Then I did a Zoom with my family and then me and Liz went out um for sushi, came back home, had crazy sex and then

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had birthday cake. So yeah, it was a great day. Um, okay. So many tryhard garbage coaches. Very negative, disingenuous advice. Yeah, but the big problem is is that guys don't know any better. Like my ex- business partner, Josh, he used to say, "I don't

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know why you care so much about, you know, telling guys about how bad these coaches are. They should be able to see it for themselves." I said that makes sense in theory, but in practice, if you don't understand how the dating game

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works at at a very deep and intimate level, anybody that has an audience and a platform and that's speaking with authority, you're going to have a tendency to believe them. And with these poisonous cult ideologies like Red Pill,

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Blackpill, looks maxing, migtamber because people have clipping armies. So Andrew Tate was just, you know, spamming red pill nonsense everywhere and it redpilled a whole generation of people.

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Now Clvicular is spamming looks maxing and blackpill garbage everywhere. So it's black pilling a whole generation.

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So guys don't know any better. I was duped myself even at 103 lay count. 103 lay count. I got an email from Real Social Dynamics that said RSD Tyler from the book The Game was coming to Philadelphia for a boot camp. And I thought, "Oh,

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this might take my game to the next level." And so I [ \_\_ ] paid them and signed up. And one once I got on the program, I realized my game was light years beyond Tyler and Todd, who are the

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coaches. And I watched them get relentlessly blown out, and it blew my mind. And and the whole house of cards came down. I watched them just get relentlessly destroyed. And and I was fascinated by it. So I would go up and

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ask the girls after each blowout, "What do you think of that guy? About Owen, about RSC Tyler?" They would say, "Weird, gay, awkward, cringe, get him the [ \_\_ ] out of here, etc." And I was like, "Wow, right." But I didn't know

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any better. I I read about him in the book, The Game, and I thought, "Oh, this guy must be a master." So all these people that are getting spammed with Andrew Tate's content, Clvicular's content, you know, and and

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other channels that are full of [ \_\_ ] they don't know any better because they don't understand the subject matter and they don't understand how this stuff really works. So it puts them in a position to be tricked and fooled and it

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makes them vulnerable. Okay, do you understand? So, it's not that all these people that are following all these fake gurus are [ \_\_ ] or stupid or low IQ.

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It's just that they have good intentions to fix this problem because they want a cool girl by their side or cool girls plural depending on their goals. And they just blindly trust these people because why not? because the person has followers

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and and is making content and you know he's he's repeating or echoing other stuff they've heard in other places online and so you have like this massive amount of disinformation and or I should say misinformation and you have tons of people that suck at

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this teaching other people that suck at this and so I've I've classically referred to it as the blind leading the blind and I don't blame the people that are tricked. I I blame the people that are doing the tricking because the

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people that are pedalling nonsense know that they're full of [ \_\_ ] and they're they're doing that knowingly to financially exploit people, which I think is incredibly [ \_\_ ] up.

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Anyways, uh getting back to this, okay, I was the classic nice guy. I was the classic [ \_\_ ] when I was a virgin. I'll admit it. I was agreeable, okay? I didn't stand up for myself. I let people walk all over me. I thought

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that I could just give women attention and compliments and gifts and that that would make them like me. I didn't understand why these like quote unquote bad boy guys, you know, were had the girls so interested in them. And now I'm I'm on

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the other side of that and I do fully understand at an intimate level. And that's what I'm trying to explain to you in this video today.

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Essentially like like like my life right now and I might go through either in this live or next one. I'll probably do in this live because I've been meaning to do this for a while and I haven't. I want to go

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through like my whole rotation and just explain their body types and personality and any other relevant details. But I have 17 girls, mostly above a nine out of 10, that want me to [ \_\_ ] them pretty much

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every day, but I only see them once a week. And I made sex videos with a lot of them. And they want they watch those videos and masturbate to them.

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And they're always hitting up hitting me up telling me they miss me, that they're watching our videos, that they can't stop thinking about me, blah blah blah blah. And if any one of them [ \_\_ ] around, meaning, you know, gets

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annoying, gets dramatic, gets high maintenance, gets too demanding, or even if the sex gets boring or the or if, you know, anything that I don't like, I can simply, you know, depending on the severity of it or or the the, you

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know, the the various factors, I can simply demote them in the rotation because they're all like essentially ranked.

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Right. You have you have the very hottest, coolest ones that are best in bed at the top. And then even the girls at the very bottom are still hot and cool and good in bed, but just not as

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hot and cool and good in bed as the ones at the top. I I don't I don't bring on girls that are below an eight. Um or or that are not really good in bed or that, you know, or that have any particular

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things that are bothering me. So, um, what what was my point? Oh, so, so if any of them [ \_\_ ] around, I can demote them andor replace them. And so, that is what full abundance looks like. And I

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also have new leads coming in all the time. I also have new lays happening all the time.

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And so, I'm in a position of power where I don't have to tolerate anything, right? You you might have heard of like willingness to walk away.

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It's not it's not an act. I literally won't put up with [ \_\_ ] from any of them.

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Even if they're a 10, even if they're a 9.5. And that's precisely why they stay, right? Anytime any any of them get out of line, I I call them out. I tell them I don't like that and I and I don't

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tolerate that. And that's where that's where the boundaries come in. Now, the big issue that guys have with boundaries, number one, is they typically don't have any boundaries.

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They don't have any lines. And you should have boundaries with everybody. You should have boundaries with your your parents, with your friends, your co-workers, girls you're talking to, etc. You shouldn't let people walk all over you.

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you shouldn't let people and depending on the severity of the boundary or or the line that was crossed, right?

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Then you can either cut them out or um you can either cut them out or give them a firm warning.

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Okay. But you don't want to be trigger happy. Like here's an example. Um I had a client, he set a date with a girl for like a Saturday and then he messaged her on Friday to confirm the date. You always message the day before

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to confirm just like a [ \_\_ ] doctor's or dentist office and cuz they forget.

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And so she said, "Actually, I'm not going to be able to meet you this weekend because my family's coming into town.

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Let's make a plan or or let's let's um yeah, I'm going to cover this today. I I'll I'll do that next after this video here. Um I'll go through I'll go through all all 17. Um I think it might even be more than 17

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right now to be honest because it I I just had a wave of new hot ones that came through and and some of them got added to the team.

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Um you don't want to be trigger happy. So, in that example, when the girls said, "I can't meet you this weekend because my family's coming to town.

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Let's meet next week instead." First of all, that's totally normal. [ \_\_ ] comes up in their schedule all the [ \_\_ ] time. That's why I usually double or triple stack time slots to to make them flake proof. But what did the student

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do? He said, "Oh, that's not cool. We had plans. I don't tolerate that kind of behavior." And the girl didn't respond and and she never responded again. and he came to the coaching call and was like, "Hey, wait, you know, what did I do wrong?" I

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said, "That was a perfectly reasonable excuse. You should always accept that their excuse when they're canceling or rescheduling is true from like a game theory standpoint. It's it works the best in your favor. Unless it's like a habitual pattern or she or she's being

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inconsiderate with not giving you any explanation or or notice and just disappearing, which is called a hard flake. That's not okay. Um, and and if it's if it's a big pattern, you might want to address it. But if it's just a,

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you know, this is a new girl you're meeting and something came up, that's not the time to boundary them. So, so if you misapply boundaries because you're you're trigger happy, then that's going to work against you as well. I have guys trying to like I teach

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them boundarying and then they they try to boundary me with my own text messages and stuff. I'm like, dude, I [ \_\_ ] wrote those messages and you're misapplying the the concept here, right?

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It's just, you know, anyways. So, you have to have like you have to like draw a line in the sand, so to speak, on what you will and will not tolerate.

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Okay? And girls, trust me, girls will respect you for that. other people will respect you for that. Like let me give you an example with my own mother. Okay, so I I've shared on my channel multiple times that I went through like a um

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a pretty verbally abusive childhood, okay, for my mother. She's a very nice person. My both my parents are very nice people. Very very nice. Some of the nicest I've ever met. But I apparently was a difficult child. I was the first

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child. I was rebellious. I would question everything. I would, you know, challenge them on everything. They didn't know how to handle me. And my mother unfortunately resorted to, you know, massive verbal abuse.

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And, you know, as a side note, all the best guys that met in the game went through some [ \_\_ ] traumatic [ \_\_ ] as a kid, pretty much across the board. And all the best guys tend to be

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exceptionally intelligent. So like Bradicus studied computer science and math. Um Paul Jenka was was a physics major at Harvard, right?

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Physics is one of the smartest person majors and Harvard is arguably the best school. Um I studied computer science and philosophy and cognitive psychology and and uh philosophy of cognitive science doing double double bachelors double masters and then I worked on nuclear missile

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defense for five years. But you know mystery is exceptionally intelligent and went through some [ \_\_ ] as a kid. So I think going through some [ \_\_ ] as a kid leaves a void in some sense and a need for

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external validation with and then the you know the exceptional intelligence allows you to analyze and systematize everything and so you have the drive component and you have the the the intellectual component and it's just what I've noticed for it's

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like pretty much true across the board with all the best guys. Um, and so when I got back from my first year of college, I went to a a renowned tech school and when I came back home after

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my first year of college, my mother started with the verbal abuse again. And I said, "Hey, I said I'm not I'm not going to tolerate that anymore." when I when I was in high school and before that, I didn't have

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the financial means to move out and I was, you know, for for better or worse, stuck here having to tolerate this. And I'm not tolerating that type of behavior ever again. So, if you insult me or attack me or

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whatever, I'm just not going to live here and and I'll go and get my own apartment and and and I just won't be, you know, you'll end up losing touch with me, losing, you know, connection with me. and she thought I was bluffing

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and this and that and and she continued and so I moved out and then I said, "Okay, I will I'm the next step is I'm going to cut off all interaction with you. You're going to lose your son. You're going to

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lose your relationship with your son. It's not okay. It never was okay. It's out of control.

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I've not I'm not living there now because you you couldn't [ \_\_ ] control yourself and and respect what I what I said." And you know, she tried to pull the whole well, I'm your mother. I I can

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do what I want and this and that. I said on some level, yeah, you are my mother.

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Yes, but no, you can't do whatever you want. There's things I'm not going to tolerate anymore. And this is one of them. And so, if you can't talk to me without yelling, without attacking and insulting, I simply will just break all

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contact with you. And she she cut all the [ \_\_ ] she stopped and and we've had a great relationship ever since and she feels terrible about, you know, all the [ \_\_ ] she did to me when I was a kid. But

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it is what it is, right? And so, you have to stand up for yourself. You have to be willing to cut people off, even if it's your parents, even if it's your best friend, even if it's your girlfriend,

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right? And just make sure you're not being trigger happy with it. And make sure you're not, you know, misapplying the the boundaries just because you're excited. When I teach guys about this, they're like excited to boundary people and then they they just start what I

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mean by trigger happy is is they're boundarying people for over nothing or in the wrong situations.

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Right. But one other story just came to mind before I got serious with Liz. There was this other girl when I first got to Brazil that um I was having threesomes with and she knows that or she knew that I didn't

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want her contacting any other guys because she's part of the rotation. And there's one day we had a threesome with this 19-year-old who was pretty hot. And after the threesome, she was like showering and like drying her hair in

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the bathroom. And I like went into the bathroom and she didn't hear me because she had the haird dryer on. And I looked down at her phone and she was messaging with some guy. And she didn't notice that I noticed. And then when she was

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done in the bathroom, she came out and I was like, "Hey, um, remember I told you I don't want you talking to other guys?" She's like, "Yeah." I go, "You're not talking to other guys, are you?" "No, no, I

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wouldn't do that." "Oh, okay. Well, I saw this on your phone." "Oh, well, you know, blah blah blah blah." Tries to make up all these excuses. I'm like, "No, that's it. We're done." and she's like, "What?" And she cried and was like

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begging me to to stay. And the 19-year-old was like watching all of this. I ended up keeping the 19-year-old on rotation. And um me and Liz started hooking up with her once I got more serious with Liz. And

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and when the 19-year-old, I actually had a fivesome in 2020 on my birthday. That was like my first fivesome. It was me, Liz, the 19-year-old, this model chick, and and the model chick's roommate. Um, but yeah, I mean like she kept trying to

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like talk her way out of it. I'm like, "No, that's [ \_\_ ] it." Like my uncle, who's like the best natural I ever met in the game, he said that you don't listen to their side of the story

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because they're just going to [ \_\_ ] you. Um, you just look at it like how a judge would. You look at the facts. I saw her talking to a guy. There's no way out of it. And so,

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um, never saw her again. But she but she carried on and on and on and on promising to never message guys anymore or whatever. I said, "Nope, you already knew where I stood. That that's [ \_\_ ] it." And her and I had had a bunch of

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threesomes with girls and you know, we're somewhat close, but you you have to look at what your line is, look at what your rule is, look what they did, and then make a decision, right? I I essentially had to cut off Josh as a friend who was

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on my channel a bunch who was a friend for many years, the original the founder of my original company with me in 2013.

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Um because he he wouldn't stop talking about inappropriate stuff on the live streams and he wouldn't stop talking about Jewish conspiracies despite many warnings and eventually just hit a breaking point and said, "All right, that's enough. I've told you over and

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over and over to stop this. you can't control yourself. And so that's that. And you know, cut him off as a friend, as a coach. And we haven't really talked since. And so you you have to make those

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judgment calls yourself. You have to only you can make those calls. But that covers boundaries.

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Okay. So we've covered, let's see, we've covered how to not put girls on a pedestal.

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Again, the course goes into way much more detail. How to not put girls on a pedestal, how to cement your value at 100 out of 100, how to stop focusing on your flaws and hang-ups, how to set boundaries.

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Um, and then, you know, this stuff kind of goes hand in hand, acting like a [ \_\_ ] and falling guilty to to nice guy syndrome. You can kind of correct both of those at once. Okay, so we went

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through all this and then let's see how to actually become high value in the feedback loop. So, let me take these out over here.

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And again, I you you just want to you kind of want to do the inverse of these things. It's in you should have your own opinions. You shouldn't tolerate disrespect or let people walk all over you. that goes into the boundaries. You

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It's okay to give women attention and compliments, but you shouldn't overdo it. And and it also shouldn't be from the frame of, you know, trying to get something from her or trying to make her like you more. Um, you should be willing

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to walk away, right? You should carry yourself with a presence, be comfortable in your own skin. You can do nice stuff for them, but it shouldn't just be, you know, the default behavior at all times, even when she's on bad behavior. Right? If a girl

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is um if a girl is acting out, you don't want to be rewarding her constantly.

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Someone from Rumble says, "I definitely wanted you to cover the boundary stuff. Thank you for discussing the topic." Yeah, it you know, it's pretty simple.

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Well, it's it's simply that you draw lines with friends, family, co-workers, girls, and then if they cross those lines, depending on the severity, it's either a warning. It it can even be mult it can even end up being multiple warnings. If

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it's more severe, it can be an instant cutoff. Um, it can be a final warning, right? The course goes into more detail about handle all those things, but the important point is that you you have lines and and you don't tolerate people

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crossing those lines. Um Um, let's see. John, the Russian you closed recently, was that the one who was being annoying?

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Said she didn't think you were aligned out of nowhere. Um, the Russian one that I just closed recently made me go on a public date, which I almost never do these days. So, we went we went for coffee and then I

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pulled her back to my apartment within like a half hour and then I tried to close it for like 6 hours but she wouldn't go past kissing and she said yeah let me let me see if I can find

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this Um, one sec. Um, there's like a one of my new coaches is watching. He said, "Good live." Thank you.

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Okay. She said, "Look, this is the the Russian translation." Let me just take the [ \_\_ ] screenshot off for a second.

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This was her her message that I I took like a a picture of it. So, I'm not worried about my Let's see. To be honest, coming to a guy's house just a few minutes after meeting him feels a

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bit wild and makes me feel self-conscious. I really need to get to know a person well first before I can feel any physical attraction or intimacy. I need that comfort and trust first. That's just [ \_\_ ] you know, [ \_\_ ] Eastern

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European uh needing extending the timeline to close type [ \_\_ ] So, and she sent a different message that even like kissing is that soon is is very intimate to her and all that [ \_\_ ] So, she wouldn't go past

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kissing even though we hung out for six hours. and she wanted to go take a walk, which they usually want to do. I told her no, so maybe we can do it later. But then she hit me up like 2 days later.

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She was out doing karaoke with her friends. It was like 1:30 a.m. and she's like, "Are you awake?" I'm like, "Yeah." She's like, "Can I come over?" I'm like, "Sure." And then she came over and [ \_\_ ] right away. That reminded me of

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stuff that used to happen in Ukraine. Like they would like put up all these barriers and and you know, not be down.

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And then like I told that one story on on a recent live about a threesome I had in Ukraine where the chick came over, wouldn't go past kissing, and then hit me up later that night when she was out

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with her friend and asked if she could come over with the friend. And then it turned into a threesome. But I had a Ukrainian doctor chick that I was banging that was over. And I told her straight up like, "You can either join

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in with these girls or you have to leave." and she got pissed off and started driving five hours back to Karkov Karkke from Kiev and I didn't want to lose the threesome.

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So, uh or potential threesome. I didn't it wasn't even for sure that that it was going to go down, but long story short, the doctor chick left, was driving back to Carrove, the chick that didn't close earlier came

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over with the friend. And I I plowed both of them. One of them on on the [ \_\_ ] like dryer. So her ass I was like plowing her straight on while her ass was like bouncing up and down on the

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dryer being on. And then the doctor chick actually drove back. She turned around and was like, "Oh, I decided to come back." I'm like, "Well, these girls are here." And she [ \_\_ ] cooked them food and [ \_\_ ] The chicks were like

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maybe 22 and 23 and and the doctor chick was like 30. and she was like just making small talk with them and [ \_\_ ] and cooking for them and the girls like in their underwear. I've had so

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many crazy experiences. It's like Twilight Zone [ \_\_ ] right? You'd think the doctor one would would not never talk to me again. a different time, the doctor chick um came over unexpectedly when I had a different chick over. Like, she literally just

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showed up. Like, she just made the [ \_\_ ] 5-hour drive from Carov to Kiev.

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And I had this 21-year-old over that I had picked up at the mall. I wasn't even doing day. I just saw a hot 21 or I didn't know she was I saw a hot girl at the mall in yoga pants. I was with my

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buddy and I chatted to her, got her number, banged her on a date, and then she was over and the doctor and I I wasn't looking at my phone and um the doctor chick started throwing like [ \_\_ ] pine cones or rocks or some

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[ \_\_ ] at the window and the the girl I was with, there's like a college chick, she's like, "What what's that about?" I'm like, "I don't And I went and looked at my phone and I'm like, "Oh, fuck."

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She's like, "What is it?" I'm like, "Oh, this girl that I know is here and she drove from Carrove." And I'm like, "What do you want to do?" And the girl's like, "Let her in." I'm like, "Okay." And then

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I had her in and it was a little bit weird, right? Because I'm banging both of them and they they were just meeting each other just then. I wasn't planning for the doctor chick to just show up.

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And then uh like at the end of the night, it it didn't turn into a threesome, but at the end of the night, I'm like, "Shit, which which girl should I lay in bed? Which girl should I be in

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bed with? And which girl is going to have to get the couch?" And I went with the 21-year-old just because I was with her originally. I didn't want that to blow out. So, the doctor chick slept on the couch. So, she literally got kicked

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out one day for a threesome and came back and cooked for the girls. And then a different day showed up while I was with a different girl and then slept on the couch and I even banged the girl before before

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sleeping. So, and there was like a loft so you could like hear the doctor chick could like hear me [ \_\_ ] the other girl. Um, anyways, good times. But yeah, and then she hit me up again like booty call

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style like 2 a.m. a couple nights ago, but I was with a different girl. So, I just didn't get back to her.

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But she's going to be annoying. Like she she wants to go on a bunch of public dates and do a bunch of stuff in public.

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I don't like doing that these days. And um and what was the point? Uh oh, she was like giving me [ \_\_ ] that she couldn't sleep over after I banged her that night from the karaoke when she

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came from karaoke. She was saying like, "Oh, I was expecting to sleep over." I'm like, "Oh, no. Sorry. I have a bunch of work to do. Wasn't there another Russian?

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, there was. I don't meet that many Russians here, but there happened to be another Russian recently that wanted to talk a lot on the app. And then we we talked ext not extensively, but but like enough. And

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then she said like, "Oh, I don't think we should meet be because the conver the conversation was great. It was fine. And I went and re-reviewed it cuz I was like, "What the [ \_\_ ] is her problem?"

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But she was just being difficult. And the Eastern European girls are are much more of a pain in the ass.

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Um, let's go back though to finish this this explanation here. So, you guys have a pretty good idea now of how to not be a [ \_\_ ] And again, like other things that go into this is like speak

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loud enough like I used to be like very soft spoken, right? You you don't want to be like me me right or or or act like you're you know like like if you're if you're just agreeable and you know you don't you

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don't speak up, people just aren't going to take you seriously. Okay? You you have to have your own opinions. You have to speak your mind. You have to speak loud enough. You have to carry yourself with conviction and a whole bunch of

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other stuff goes into this which is covered in the course like eye contact and and so on and so forth, right? And again, you can pick up this whole course for this the birthday sale price of $97.

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The birthday sale goes through the end of Sunday and then it will um it will it'll go back up the price. Do I have any crazy stories when I live in Miami?

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I I have crazy stories from everywhere. One of the first like the first week in Miami, literally. So, I moved there from San Diego with a girlfriend who was doing webcamming and then she became a stripper in Miami at a club called 11,

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which only hires stunners. We went in there, they're like, "Honey, you know, we get multiple girls auditioning a day and we haven't hired a girl in months." And she's like, "Okay." They're like, "All right, get naked." And she like

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took her clothes off and they're like, "You're hired." Because she's she was like close to a 10. and she's like, "Well, I don't know how to dance on a pole." And they're like, "It doesn't matter." Um, her and I were at the we're at a

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club called Live, which is like one of the best clubs in Miami. We met a dude who was a rapper who looked like Future, like almost identical to Future. And we were like doing a bunch of shots with

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him and all this stuff. And then we went and he had like a private driver. And we went in like this almost like a limo type situation. and he was like doing drugs and [ \_\_ ] And we

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get to this afterparty. There was all these people and the dude was all [ \_\_ ] up and and all this [ \_\_ ] And then he like takes out like a gun. I was like, "What the fuck?" And he's just like

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flashing a gun around while he's all [ \_\_ ] up. And I was like, "We got to get the [ \_\_ ] out of here." Like, "Welcome to Miami." There was another time I was picking her up from the strip

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club because I would pick her up every morning at like 7 a.m. or whatever or 6, whatever the [ \_\_ ] time they close. the the sun would be coming up and we were we were coming back because 11

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is in like downtown Miami and then and then there's the bridge to South Beach which is like the island Miami Beach and we're coming across that bridge and there was like like a like a movie style shootout on the bridge where there was

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like a bunch of cop cars all with their guns drawn and there was a bunch of other dudes with guns out like firing back and forth.

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Yeah, Miami can be crazy. Um, but you know, I run my uh immersion programs there and we've had a bunch of um me and Liz have met a bunch of girls we had for threesomes. Like there was this one night me we pulled this

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professional singer chick this blonde and and my buddy Connor who was coaching the program with me banged her friend and we we were like driving back to our place and the chick's like [ \_\_ ] singing singing in the car. There's just so many

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like funny adventures when you're when you're doing cold approach and when you're good at it when you're pulling chicks. Um but here but let's finish this uh this chart. So we have a pretty good idea now about the nice guy stuff,

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the deacification. The last two kind of major areas I want to look at from a high level are creating a say positive feedback loop and how to actually become high value.

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Right? So the feedback loop looks kind of like this, right? We have um let's see.

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Um, okay. So, you have basically your 100 out of 100 belief about yourself. This is fueled by keeping in mind your strengths.

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Okay. Then we have this leads to positive things happening and that can come in the form of um positive reactions, phone numbers, dates, hookups.

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All right, those are the main ones. And then this feeds back on where's the best way to to show this?

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This feeds back onto this. Okay. So, you you initially have this belief based on believing that you're 100, drawing a brick wall so that these negative things can't impact you, keeping these things in mind about what you specifically

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bring to the table, coming to peace in terms with these things and not letting not letting them define you.

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And when you do all that, then you're going to carry yourself with confidence and conviction and girls are going to respond positively to you. So you get positive reactions, more phone numbers, more dates, more hookups, and then that like reinforces your confidence and

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your beliefs about yourself, right? And then you you essentially start like rewriting your beliefs.

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So, you're deleting negative narratives, deleting negative beliefs, replacing with positive beliefs, right? We all have these these negative narratives and stories that we're telling ourselves our whole life. I suck because of this. I suck because of this.

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I'm not good enough because of this. Girls don't like me because of this. Right? And that's all [ \_\_ ] [ \_\_ ] And so when you start telling yourself like like I'll get a I'll get a client that

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has been duped by the black pill and and let's say he's a short guy and they said it's over for you because you're too short.

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Okay. When he comes in and starts fully believing in himself, keeping his strengths in mind, that causes positive things to happen, which leads to positive reactions, phone numbers, dates, and hookups, which reinforce the mindset. And you can't tell yourself that you suck when you

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have attractive girls giving you their number and sucking your dick and going on dates with you. Okay? You can't tell yourself that you're not good enough when attracted girls want to go out with you. like the virgin guy on the program.

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He had never been on a date before. He'd only had like three matches ever, right?

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Um let's see. And then he had nine girls that are above an eight out of 10 that wanted to go on dates that set dates with him. And so I want to play this real quick. I played it I played it in my last live, but I

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want to play it again because this is going to show the positive feedback loop in action and how quickly it can happen.

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Someone was asking how quickly can you become confident and high value. This dude went from zero dates, virgin, only three matches ever to over 100 matches, 20 phone numbers, nine dates with girls above an eight out of 10. And you can't

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tell yourself that you're not good enough or girls don't like you or that, you know, the such and such flaws are holding you back because the demonstrable empirical evidence, the tangible results literally disproves that.

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Do you see what I'm saying? So, let me play this real quick. I'm going to go grab water. Um, and I'll be right back. Just listen to this here.

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This is this is the feedback loop in action. I got 98 matches, 20 numbers, and nine dates booked on the first week. All above an eight.

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All above an eight. Wow. 98 matches, 20 phone numbers, nine dates. And you're currently a virgin, right?

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Virgin. That's about the change. Nice, man. That's awesome. Thank you, man. Thank you, man. I mean, I got to tell you, man, if this is what you feel like every day, I can understand.

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Oh, much better. Wait till you've slept with 2,000. I don't know if you'll get that high, but man, it's like it's like gridlock. Like, I have so many matches being pushed back at the same time that I'm messaging the

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new matches. And each time I'm mentioning the current matches that I'm trying to get on, I get 10 to nine to 10 new matches and it breaks the scale every single time.

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That's because we Yeah, we optimize the profile. So now it's presenting the best version of yourself and the and the matches just come pouring in. Then you plug into the text sequences that gets phone numbers. Plug into the other

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sequences, it gets dates. Now we'll just hone in on your date conversion rate. At at a comfortable level, you should be closing 75% of your dates on the first date. So, you know, with nine dates, um you should be closing five or six of

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those, I guess, or even seven. Five or six. That's good, man. That's what I want to do.

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Um and um Oh, yeah. Yeah. No, thank you, man. Thank you. That's really I'm really glad to hear you say that cuz I at the last time I'm just like I need to get on this. I'm going to get 90day matches. I'm just

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going to overkill it. And what was it like before? Like before the program like you weren't getting matches, you weren't getting phone numbers. You weren't getting dates.

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I got maybe three or five matches. Three or five matches and they were they were okay, but they they were decent, right? They were decent looking, you know what I mean? But this I mean 100 matches in seven days, this is it might

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as well be its own statistic at this point. Like I'm not even using boost.

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That's awesome. And it's going up. And that Yeah, people wonder like how can it happen so fast? But once you optimize the profile, the matches flood in. Once you use the the message sequences, it converts the matches to

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phone numbers. Once you use the text sequences, it converts the phone numbers to dates. And then now we just got to get your your dates really smooth and you'll be having girls come over every week all the time to the house.

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Yeah. Every week to the house. I want to get I want to get it so smooth like just seamless and I don't even have to break the So yeah, man. I mean very quickly.

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Very quickly, man. one week and I'm already I'm already up there and I didn't have to I didn't have to do a photo shoot or nothing. So I got back on and the best thing is I when I got on

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Hinge I first got banned I was like what what's happening? Am I just out? And then I texted him right I put in I put in chat GBT I gave a full essay sent it in and said hey I don't know what

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happened. This is my first time even using the app. What's going on? The day after they sent it back a message like hey I'm so and so. Uh, I'm working I work with Hinge directly. Um, let's see.

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Let's see you uh identify yourself. We want to work with you to get you back on track as fast as possible. Sent in my ID and I got back on with the photos intact and I'm just closing as many numbers as

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I possibly can. So, it's awesome. Good feeling then. Yeah, really, really good feeling. I mean, it's it's kind of insane the third day.

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Speaker A

Wait till you go out with the girls and you bring them back home and you're hooking up with them. That's the best part.

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Yeah. I just went on my first date in 3 days. That's awesome. So, first date it was 8 out of 10. So, yeah, first date was 8 out of 10. It uh closed out around 30 minutes though, but

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we uh talked for a little bit, vibed. Um Okay. So, that goes to show even as a virgin, right? Once you're plugged into all the right [ \_\_ ] you can start believing in yourself, going out with hot girls, right? And he

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on the coaching, you know, the other coach calls, he said he was very that's that's all completely normal, right, to be intimidated by stuff like that. Those were the first dates that he'd ever been on. So what you know

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he had these positive beliefs, positive things happen. Reinforce the beliefs. Rewrite your beliefs that you are the man, that you are good enough. Girls do like you. Lots of girls like you. And you delete these negative things. You

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delete these things about your hang-ups. You come to terms with your hang-ups and flaws. And you replace them with positive beliefs. And that allows you to stay at 100 out of 100 for the rest of your life, right? Even if you have no girls, even

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if you have nothing going on right now, you can still carry yourself this way and everyone's going to respond infinitely more positively to that.

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Okay? And then right all the all the inner game stuff sits up here and then it feeds down to the rest of the system. So it's not enough to just believe in yourself. You need to have your profile optimized like we did for

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that guy. That floods matches. Then you plug into my scripts that floods phone numbers. You plug into my text scripts that floods dates including dates straight to the house. You get good at running and closing your date. You get

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good at retaining the girls. You get good at cold approach, which we cover on the Aweek program, but can also be done on a live boot camp. And then in my AWE program, there's infield examples that show you how to do it all start to

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finish, 30 night, 30-day, 10 full length dates and four two-hour calls a week. Okay. So, you essentially need this product, which is for all based on intergame and confidence. That's in the description, the link. And then you need

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my system so that you can have the proper strategy and tactics to utilize that mindset to just dominate the dating game. And that's all in the 8week program which you can learn more about by booking a call at platinum

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Speaker A

dating.com. Okay. So, if you're on Rumble or YouTube, there's a link in the description for platinum dating system.com. If you're on X, it's in the bio. If you're on Rumble or or sorry, Twitch or Kick, just type in platinumsystem.com.

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Um, let's see. And so we covered most of the stuff. And then you know to actually become high value that happens with this process. You you you instill this 100 out of 100 mindset.

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You believe in yourself based on all the success you're getting and you carry yourself as a guy that's worthy of of any hot girl no matter how hot she is.

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which is a very very powerful position to be in. Right? So again, the the course the new course covers all these things in depth and it's only 97 bucks right now.

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Speaker A

So if you want to take advantage of that, the link is in the description. It will be the 97 price through the end of the day Sunday.

85:35

Speaker A

Okay. Um, okay. All right. Let's look at some questions. And also, if you're on Rumble or YouTube, make sure you like and subscribe videos that we're putting out every day.

85:54

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There's a whole bunch of new content coming now on YouTube. We'll post it on Rumble as well, but it's going to be a bunch of brand new recorded stuff starting with a video tonight after this live is over.

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Um, see. Okay. Um, how do you find good women in this who you can live with forever? So, I look at it as like you're like sifting through sand on a beach looking for diamonds, right?

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Like most of the time you can have chemistry with almost any girl you go on a date with, but the real like standout ones only come along like every 6 months or every 6 to 12 months. Like the full

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package like beautiful, stunning, a lot in common, amazing chemistry, checks all the boxes. Those are more rare and those are the ones that you want to look to to make a girlfriend or or a main rotation girl. And so part of the whole fun of

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doing all this is you go on a bunch of dates, see who you connect with, see how good the sex is, see how good they look in real life, see how cool they are, etc. And then you keep the very best

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ones. So you just have to go on lots of dates. Like I've been on thousands of dates. I I met Liz at like 1,179 LC count, the woman that I'm married to now in a one-way open marriage. it's

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open on my side. So, you know, it took almost 1,200 girls to to find the one that I like the most. But there was there was a lot of really great ones along the way that I almost got much

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more serious with. So, you you just simply need to, you know, source a lot of leads, work those leads down for dates, go on the dates, see you connect with the best, and then keep the best one or best ones.

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Someone from Rumble says, "If you open a girl in a club and her husband or boyfriend is there, which she didn't tell you, and the boyfriend steps in, he's being rude.

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How do you handle that situation?" Just apologize. It's just a simple apology. Hey, what's up? I didn't know that was your girl.

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Um, you know, have a good night. Oh, what the [ \_\_ ] man? I I had no idea that she was with somebody here. Didn't mean any offense. Take care. right? They're not going to want to fight you or

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something like that. So, you just apologize. That's it. Like the guys that get into trouble try to like be confrontational, right? Like if you're confrontational, then you might have a problem. If you're like, "Oh, [ \_\_ ] you."

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Right? Or talking [ \_\_ ] or whatever. But if you just say, "Hey, I had no idea." Then, you know, I remember there was one time um in Puerto Rico when I was living in San Juan in 2016, which can be pretty

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sketchy. There's like tons of murders everywhere all the time. And I was out at this like not it was like a rough type club, right, where there's like rough characters inside. And there was this really hot girl standing by

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herself. And I I looked around and it didn't seem like she was with anybody.

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And I waited a little bit to see if anybody came and talked to her. you know. And so I went in and I literally just said my opener in Spanish and like a dude rushed in and was like

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and I was like, "Oh, you know, loento like like I'm sorry. I didn't know that was your girl." He was like shouting all this [ \_\_ ] in my face. And I was with my friend who was Mexican

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and he he spoke much better Spanish than me and he was telling the guy like um you know he didn't know that was your girl and this and that and the guy was saying like oh you know stupid American

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you can't just come talk to any girl you want to or whatever and so we're like yeah we don't want any problems sorry and and we go to the outdoor section of the bar and the guy comes out there with

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like either two or three other guys and confronted us again and we and we were like boxed in. There was like nowhere to go. Like like in the outdoor area there was like walled in and there's there's like no way to get out of the venue and

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you know they this this shouldn't like scare you guys just cuz Puerto Rico is [ \_\_ ] crazy. It's like super dangerous. Um, but like basically they're like saying all this [ \_\_ ] again and my friend was trying to diffuse it

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and we were like practicing Muay Thai together. That was like the year that I started Muay Thai. I started in Puerto Rico and I was like, "This might [ \_\_ ] turn into a situation here, dude. Like get ready." And, you know, he was he

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just kept trying to diffuse it, diffuse it. But the the main guy that was all like huffed, you know, huffing and puffing, he was he was like, you know, wanting to come in and start some [ \_\_ ]

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But luckily, you know, we we just said we don't want any we don't want any trouble. We apologize and then and then we just left the venue. Nothing happened luckily.

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But yeah, I mean, you shouldn't you shouldn't be scared to approach strangers. If if you happen to approach somebody's wife or girlfriend, you just say, "Oh, sorry. I didn't know. Have a good night." It's it's it's almost never

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going to turn into anything. Um, let's see. Your total cut off advice for exes. Does that apply even if the breakup wasn't over drama or disrespect? It doesn't matter what the breakup was over. It's simply that in order to move on

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emotionally and mentally, you have to [ \_\_ ] cut ties, right? It's that simple.

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Um, so yeah, I mean like the quick explanation of that again is the semantic representation like like the like the emotional significance of a neurological pathway as a function of frequency and recency. You can think of it like a river trench. So, if you're

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seeing the the girl every day and and that was like a recent thing, like you had just seen her recently and you're seeing her every day, it's going to be like a very deep river trench. And so guys can classically become stuck

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perpetually by continuing to keep in contact with her and or you know stalking her social media or even like talking to um friends, mutual friends and and finding out about her or or looking at pictures of her.

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All those things are going to keep you stuck forever and they're going to torment you. So it doesn't matter why you broke up. You have to cut all contact. You have to either delete the pictures or not look at them. If you can

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control yourself, don't stalk her social media and tell any mutual friend that's telling you updates about her to not do that at all. And and make it [ \_\_ ] serious because it's going to hurt you.

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And then let time heal it. That like the reverse is if frequency and recency makes it deep. If there's no frequency of seeing her and no recency, it's gonna it's going to build back up and you're not going to give a [ \_\_ ] at some point.

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And then the other one one other big thing to do is make a list of the negatives and and the bad stuff and the reasons why you broke up and look at that when you're feeling weak or when

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you are missing her a lot. Um, happy birthday. Yeah, mine was on on Wednesday. I turned 43.

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Speaker A

Um, let's see. Examples of girls you'd hook up with once but not put on rotation.

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Any girl that's like annoying or [ \_\_ ] right? Like let's say I have a hot girl over and she's complaining a lot or she's being annoying or she's making drama or making problems. I don't want to deal with that [ \_\_ ] If it gets to be

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too much, I'll even ask her to leave. But, you know, if she's putting out these like red flags and stuff like that, I'll still bang her, but I'm not going to um probably not going to see her again.

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Or if the sex wasn't that good or if, you know, the conversation was boring.

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Sometimes like some of them can be like super boring where they're not saying anything or they're just being acting super weird.

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I like open up this [ \_\_ ] protein thing and the and the tip just ripped off. I'm trying to drink it out of a a ripped open part. Uh which isn't really working. So yeah, I mean remember the

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the girl has to be very hot for me. She has to be very hot. So if she shows up like less hot than she is like catfish situation but still good enough then you know so that can be a reason.

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So she has to like look super hot, [ \_\_ ] really good, not be annoying or [ \_\_ ] or dramatic um and and not red flag herself in any way in order in order for me to see her

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again. How can you DHV if you were a loser? First of all, you need to learn how to spell loser. There's only one O. Um, never done anything significant or interesting. See, like I've had a lot of guys try to say that and then I have

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Speaker A

them fill out that list of those five categories and there's always stuff that you you looked over that that we can have you emphasize on. I'm I'm sure there's something that you've done or experienced or that you know how to do

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that can separate you from other guys. You've bought AI photos leads machine approach breakthrough challenge aquams and leads machine. I'm confident.

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Speaker A

What more can the new product add? I mean it's only first of all it's only 97 bucks right? It's pretty [ \_\_ ] dirt cheap, but it goes through those topics that I was just discussing in in more

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depth. It can hopefully fill in gaps that are missing. Um, or it'll talk about in a way that might help, you know, make more sense and make it more permanent. So, I would I would still get it anyways.

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Um, let's see. There's a smoking hot Latina chick in my office building working up to approaching. Must resist the urge to pedestalize.

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Yeah, it's a natural inclination to to put the hot ones on a pedestal. Um, but once you have banged a bunch of hot ones, once you have hot ones on rotation, it's like not a big deal anymore.

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Someone says you don't have your own place to use the car to close. Is it too big of a compliance jump to frame listening to music in the car? just bang at the girl's house. Like so many guys

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don't realize you can do that. If you don't have your own place, you bang at their house. So if you're at a bar or club, we should go hang out after this.

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Speaker A

Do you live close by? And you just invite yourself to her house and answer objections to go to her house for a date. If you're meeting in public, hey, what area of the city do you live in?

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You go and see where she lives and then you pick a coffee shop or bar near her house and then you invite yourself back to her house after the date. You can even invite, you can even set dates

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straight to the girl's house and skip the public date. Just it's just a matter of framing. I I go over all that in my course, but I've had a lot of students that don't have their own place that [ \_\_ ] like crazy at

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all these different girls places. I wouldn't default to the car that that's sketchy. It's it's not comfortable, etc., etc.

98:52

Speaker A

How do you not fall victim to red pill narcissism when you experience the things listed?

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Speaker A

I don't know what what the listed things are that you're referring to. I'm seeing a whole bunch of buyers come in for the intergame product. One of one of them is a chick's name, which is strange.

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Speaker A

Um, yeah. I don't know what the [ \_\_ ] you're talking about. Victim the red pill narcissism.

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Yeah, just to elaborate what you're talking about. I don't know what you mean by the things listed.

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What does a good interaction look like for night game that leads to pulls and dates and not flakes?

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Um, you want to approach acting like you already know the girl for a long time, acting like she's a pre-existing [ \_\_ ] buddy.

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You want to demonstrate higher value, just stand out from other guys. You want to be physical and sexualize your verbal so that you don't get friend-zone and she doesn't see you pure platonically.

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You have to be moving things forward either towards taking her home or towards getting a number and setting up a date for later. You have to be able to calibrate and and respond to any curveballs or negative reactions or

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objections. Um, you should be good at vibing and and keeping the vibe lighthearted and fun and playful.

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So you guys build up a a good rapport. Anything that you have as common interests or that she's particularly drawn to, you want to unpack those things and and build rapport around those things.

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Um what else? being able to isolate her from the group to remove her from the cop blocks and make her less less self-conscious to making out with you.

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You know, getting a kiss or make out will make the interaction stronger. There's ways to set anti-flake frames when you're getting the number.

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Um, yeah, that's pretty much it. I might show a Nike game infield at some point.

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I also want to cover my whole rotation. Let's look at some more questions here.

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How many girls is too much? You're 35 years old. Um, it's I don't I don't think I don't think it's ever too much. I just [ \_\_ ] three hot girls yesterday. Three stunners back to back to back. Actually, I had

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breaks in between to eat and go to the gym. Um, but I don't know. Like that's a question you have to ask yourself. How many my system can help you get virtually unlimited girls. So it's it's how many do you

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want? How many how many you know for some guys they only want a lot of guys only want like two or three rotation girls. That's that's simply not enough for me. I want I want to have like a

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petite one. I want to have a tall one. I want to have most of them have awesome asses. Nine or 10. Nine or you know, nine out of 10 or 10 out of 10 asses. I want them all to have pretty faces. I

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want them to either have fake tits or or nice natural tits. I usually have some intellectual ones, some, you know, alternative type ones, tattooed one. You know, I have a tattoo artist that's on rotation.

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You know, I I I like I look at as a conglomerate supergirlfriend is like the phrase I like to use. Variety of body types, variety of um personalities, um sexual like like they all like suck dick differently and [ \_\_ ] differently and

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stuff like that. And so, yeah, I mean, you're asking a guy that slept with 2100 girls, how many girls is too much? I I don't even think that's too much. So, you know, maybe I'm biased, but it's all I I'm a firm

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believer in my system will help you accomplish whatever you want easily and quickly. So, if you want 100 girls a year, that's two a week. 52 weeks in a year times two a week is 104. I think that's a comfortable pace, right? Um, in

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order to do that, you got to get 20 or more phone numbers a week because you're going to be closing at about 10%.

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So, you know, you keep the machine running, you you get decent at all the parts of it, and you can put out two a week, which comes out to 104 a year. Um, and you can just run that until you find

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a standout one and make that your girlfriend or you keep the best ones and make that your rotation.

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But I can't answer that for you. I don't know what your quote unquote appetite is.

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Some guys don't want that many girls. Other guys want a ton. So I I don't know how to answer that too much.

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Fell victim to the red pill. Thankfully I don't have either mindset anymore. That's good.

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This dude says he used to be a nice guy, but over 10 years of security work, that changed.

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Okay. What do I say to people who might call my lifestyle degenerate? Uh, I don't give a [ \_\_ ] I don't I don't care. I know that it's not socially unacceptable to [ \_\_ ] 17 regulars and

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[ \_\_ ] over 2,000 body count and have a one-way open marriage where I'm, you know, plowing endless ass on the side. But that's what I want to do, so I do it right. So, I don't really care. I

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used to care a lot what people thought. Like when I was a lot when I was younger, I used to like really care a lot what people thought. And you as you get older and I'm 43 now, but as I got

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older I cared less and less and at some point I like stopped caring at all what anybody think. I I still you know I still take people's opinions into account especially close friends and family and you know Liz, my wife and you

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know people on my on my team that that I am close with. But at the end of the day like you have to be your own person. and you have to make your own calls and um you know it's

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it just some things are just not acceptable and people aren't going to um get behind it right like my my mother was happy that I was working on nuclear missile defense ballistic missile defense for Loheed Martin as a systems

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engineer I was in an engineering union I could have just done that my whole career it's like incredibly difficult to get fired. I had a team of like 20 people I was managing. I was like a 24 year old and

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one of the guys was like 56 and was just [ \_\_ ] up non-stop. And I had to document his daily fuckups for like literally three months, which was a huge pain in my ass just so we could have

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like a a fully documented paper trail to justify him being fired because the engineering union made it so difficult for people to be fired. And so, you know, it that that shit's annoying, but I left that field and that that

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profession to become a dating coach, which is not acceptable. And she's like, I'd rather tell, you know, friends and relatives that my son is an engineer on missile defense, not not a dating coach, which can sound, you know, sleazy or

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degenerate. But she knows that I'm helping a lot of people and whatever. I I don't I don't care if anybody if anyone supports it. I know I'm doing a lot of good in the world and and this is my

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favorite subject matter and and this is the field I became an expert in. So I've devoted my life to it.

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Um, but yeah, I mean, don't expect people to, you know, accept older men dating younger women, especially if it's like a huge spread. Like when I bang an 18 or 19 year old now, it's, you know, I'm 43.

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It's like, it's a pretty big spread. Like 25 years, but I don't give a [ \_\_ ] I think it's funny. I'll be like, "Oh, I graduated I graduated with my master's degree when you were born." or you know like

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um but yeah I mean you just have to not give a [ \_\_ ] I recognize Cliff you were considering signing up for my program like four years ago after divorce I believe and then you you chickenened out. You kept saying you're

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going to have a think try to figure it out yourself which is stupid. Um, should I get double jaw surgery or get your coaching?

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I stand by the fact that women respond to behavior and women respond to survival and replication value. And that's not my opinion. That's hard rooted in them based on evolutionary psychology and and biology.

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And so the looks component is very minimal. It's 10 to 20% maximum. And so the common denominator amongst all my thousands and thousands and thousands of testimonials is I optimize the guy's game. And so this is a skill game. And

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so it's infinitely better to learn the coaching than to go do some cosmetic procedure. You can do all the cosmetic procedures in the world until you think you look like a gigachad and you still will have no [ \_\_ ] clue how to run an

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interaction as clvicular and hexomite and all the other little losers demonstrate every day on on social media. You'll have no idea how to text.

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You'll have no idea how to actually carry yourself properly, how to build your profile properly, how to message on the apps, how to, you know, pull girls home or run dates or close. All the all the tactical and strategic elements

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still remain as problems despite any procedure looks maxing you do. And and that's precisely the issue.

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the these famous looks maxers get destroyed whenever they try to cold approach because they have no idea what they're doing and no amount of cosmetic procedures will teach you proper game or teach you proper skills in this game.

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So, it should be a no-brainer to do the coaching. Tribulus, the major libido supplements and and sexual health supplements that I recommend, the the cornerstone is maca, maca. You should take a gram a day. And you should also

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take a gram like an hour before you see a chick. It helps to have better libido, to have quicker refac refractory time, uh recovery time.

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um you shoot bigger loads, stronger erections, etc. And then the runners up after maca, you you you anyone should be good just with maca, but the runners up are fenugreek, tribulus, horny goatee, Tomcat Ali. Those are the those are the main ones.

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So, Tribulus is is one that can help, but Maca is the is the best one.

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Set up a date for tomorrow. Says, "Where do you want to meet?" Starbucks. Says, "What time?" 8 a.m. I mean, 8 a.m. is pretty [ \_\_ ] early for a date, dude.

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Like Like especially on a weekend, like a lot of chicks are going to want to be sleeping. I don't think I've gone on dates at 8 a.m.

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But there's a way that you propose stuff in text like you should say like 8 a.m. sound good, right? Some kind of like confirmation question after.

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And then there's specific texts that I send when they don't respond. But I'm not that's beyond the scope of this of this live.

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Your training a game is like cognitive behavioral therapy. Um, I don't know if I would agree with that.

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I mean, like like cognitive behavioral therapy is I' I've done that for like anxiety and stuff in the past. It's about like trying to retrain your brain pathways to go in in more positive directions.

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This this is just simply a skill game. I look at I look at my training in game the same way you would learn poker or chess.

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There's a set of rules and there's a set of optimal moves that are far better than any other moves. And so you simply just learn what are the optimal moves at every step of the way.

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Right? What should I text? Follow these charts. What should I message on Tinder? Follow these charts. How should I set up my online profile? Use our AI photo generator. Let the hot girls pick the best ones. Let me write your bio. How

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should you cold approach? Right? Here's the things that are going to stack the odds in your favor. How should you run your date? Here's the things that are going to stack the odds in your favor.

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So, if from start to finish, you're stacking the odds in your favor, you're going to maximize the chances of success.

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But the problem is is that most guys have one or more bottlenecks. And so when you have these compounding bottlenecks all the way through the system, you're simply going to get stuck constantly. And that's a huge problem.

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And so that's what my training on the 8week program. We plug you into all the optimizations and we systematically clear away all the bottlenecks.

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How much does the vibe matter in persuasion? Because you can just comply and step an objection handle, but they might feel forced.

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Yeah, that's a good question. So, the great mystery, great mystery, the pickup artist, he says that frame control trumps every other rule in the game. And I agree with that.

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So, it's not simply enough to just get compliance and objection handle. You have to also control the frame, which goes into the general umbrella of vibing.

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So when you have a strong frame, it's it's easier to persuade people and draw people into that frame and then that helps you get compliance and objection handle. But yeah, simply like, okay, here's a good example.

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Um, there was a couple guys in San Diego that got in trouble because they were very good at leading and gaining compliance and objection handling. And they would pull girls in like two minutes or three minutes or like under

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five minutes. And they're actually trained by my ex- business partner Josh and and the media incorrectly associated them with my old company. But they ended up getting in trouble because they would pull girls that just simply weren't down. And that,

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you know, it like skipped all the comfort and rapport, rapport building and just straight brute force compliance plus leading plus objection handling.

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You you pull girls and they're like confused where they're where they are and where they're going and you get girls freaking out and and they end up getting in trouble. And so you you have to make sure that you're vibing with

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them and building rapport. It's not simply enough to just open and lead an objection handle.

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Okay. So, and again, the the frame it goes back to frame control. The frame is of course this girl likes me. Of course, I'm going to get this girl. Of course, she's going to want to sleep with me. Of course,

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she's going to want to go home with me. Right? And then you hold that frame. And I I honest I tell my clients I honestly think that I can't [ \_\_ ] the interaction up in any way. Is that true? No. But I believe

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that I that I can't [ \_\_ ] it up. I believe that I got her 100%. Is that true? No. That's what I believe. I believe I'm going to get her for sure.

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And I believe there's no way I can [ \_\_ ] it up. And and even if I make a misstep, I believe that I'll always be able to recover because my frame is that I'm good enough for any girl. And I've

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already banged lots of hot girls all over the world. And there's no reason why this new particular hot girl won't like me. And if I make a misstep, I I believe I can always recover from it.

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Does that mean I close every girl I talk to? No, not even close. Does that mean that I never [ \_\_ ] up? No.

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But those two frames are incredibly powerful. Um, and we're about to hit two hours. Make sure, like, all I ask of you guys is that you, you know, like and subscribe.

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If you're on Rumble, subscribe on Rumble, but also check out my YouTube channel. Like, for those of you, I I attracted a bunch of like new followers when I was just posting on Rumble for 11 months when my YouTube

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channel was down. But for those of you on Rumble, go check out the John Anthony Lifestyle YouTube channel because there's almost 4,000 videos. It's like 3,900 something videos that I made over nine years that span all kinds of

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amazing topics in the game. So, I highly recommend that you check those out. Um, and you know, for those of you those of you that are on YouTube, I put out 11 months of content daily while my YouTube

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was banned. So, if you want to go, you know, catch up on a ton of content that I put out that you didn't see, you can go look on the Rumble channel. So, but regardless of which one you're on or

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which one you prefer, make sure that you subscribe, like, comment on the videos because that all helps the videos in the algorithm. I appreciate that.

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All right. How to get over the burrow objection. Yeah, this is a real thing. So, I lived in in Manhattan in Time Square in 2017 filming infield for a whole month. And most of the night life that that girls

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go to is in Manhattan. Like a lot of the best night life is in Manhattan.

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And then if you happen to live in another neighborhood like Brooklyn, it can take a while to get there. And it's it can be expensive too by cab. And so chicks will have an objection about traveling that far and you just have to

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normalize it like oh it's you know it'll only be 20 or 30 minutes. You and the key to when you're pulling distance is to just keep bantering along the way there, right? So you just keep bantering, bantering, bantering. Don't let the

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conversation fall flat. And you know, you you just try to you just try to to normalize it and just say, "Oh, it's not going to be that far." Blah blah blah blah blah.

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Right? That's pretty much how you do it. Um, let's see. I'm just dropping in the Discord currently live.

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Okay. Um, All right. Yeah. I mean, you just have to normalize it right? I'll make sure you get home. Okay. Blah blah blah. It's not really that far. You can also pull out I I've I've pulled a ton of girls by actually just pulling

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out Google Maps. And I'm like, we're here. We're going to go over here. You know, it'll be 20 30 minutes. Not a big deal.

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I promise we'll have fun. Blah blah blah blah. This is standard objection handling. How do you keep meeting up with a solid chick you slept with? How do you reach after the cup and send strong messages to bring her back

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when when when you're presenting yourself as the full package guy, blowing her away, and also rocking her in the bedroom, that pretty much does most of the heavy lifting for you. So, it's not about like, oh, what are the special messages

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to send that'll make her want to see you? No. What will make her want to see you is having a great date and having great sex.

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So, let's see. Like, I always tell my clients that you want you want to like blow her away. So, it's not you don't want to have her go back to her friends and they're like, "Oh, how was the date with John?" Uh, I don't

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know. He's okay, I guess. I don't know if I'll see him again. That's That's not at all what you want to to happen. You wanted to go back. How was day with John? Oh, he's awesome. It was a ton of fun. I can't wait to see

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him again. I I really think that it's going to turn, you know, I really think that we have amazing chemistry together and and we had amazing sex together and like, you know, he's super awesome.

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You you literally want them feeling like you're their best option and like you're a full package guy. And you do that with how you vibe, how you flirt, how you escalate, how you calibrate, how you demonstrate higher value,

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how you carry yourself, the confidence you exude, and all kinds of little things. your eye contact, your, you know, the way that you make jokes, like like there's all these little micro things that go into into the vibe and and how you build

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rapport with her. And then, of course, you know, you should be very good at sex so that you you rock the [ \_\_ ] out of her and give her one of the best sexual experiences she's ever had. And then in terms of

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setting up the next hangouts, you should set up the next hangout before the end of the current one.

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So, it's not about, see, guys get this all wrong. It's not about what magical texts you send afterwards that are going to make her see you again or make her want to keep seeing you. It's about how you what the vibe was like and what the

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impression was like and what the sex was like on the first hangout. Um, let's see.

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So yeah, that's pretty much, you know, again, it's about how do you it's about how you connect with her, how you build rapport around commonalities, how you flirt with her, how you look at her, how you touch her, how you sexual

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there's all kinds of stuff that goes into it. And when you nail all or most of those things, you're going to make an incredible impression and blow her out of the water. And of course, she's going to want to see you again.

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Um, okay. Hopefully that again I like I don't I don't give out the full secret sauce on these lives. I I put up walls and what I'll get into and what I won't and how to blow the chick away on the date

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with all the details. That's that's reserved for the coaching. How to [ \_\_ ] the [ \_\_ ] out of her and and make it the best sex she's ever had. That's that's in my courses, right? But I can tell you

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it's not about the [ \_\_ ] messages that you send after you hook up.

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What's better in your opinion, cold approaching, daytime or night? Night by like a factor of at least 10.

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If you go out walking around the streets to meet hot girls, 95% of your time is just going to be idle walking. If you go out to a packed bar or nightclub with a lot of people, a lot of girls.

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You can be in interactions close to 100% of the time. You see the difference?

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To me, it's always been a no-brainer. I have all these friends that are into day game, mostly day game, and it's like it's just so inefficient. It's incredibly inefficient to do to do day game just because most of the time is

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just walking around and and a lot of the best day gamers say they're only getting like one good number an hour. That's just simply too slow.

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In a bar and nightclub, you can be inter in interactions at all times and you can just clean up. You can easily get 10 to 20 numbers in one night out.

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So my first 400 girls were almost all night game, almost all bar and club.

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And day game also, you know, there's no like isolation in day game. There's no you're not going to be like getting into makeouts typically in day game. You're not going to be typically escalating physically in day game. So it also takes

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away a lot of the best parts of the game as well. So I'm a hardcore night game guy. I I came from a mystery method background which is night game. But guys like Paul Jenka, Bradicus, Conor on my

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team, they're they all prefer day game. Does being unapologetic mean never apologize? No. It it's just, you know, like owning it.

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Like, hey, uh, you know, Rotation Girl shows a picture of me to her friends and I [ \_\_ ] three of her friends. That happened a couple years ago. Hey, you [ \_\_ ] three of my friends. It's not

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that I'm I'm not willing to say sorry about that. I don't know if that's a good example because you can say sorry for certain things if you actually [ \_\_ ] up. I just mean you just own it.

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Oh, well, you know, that was before you and I like you now and whatever, right? Or let's say that you got multiple numbers from a night out and and there were multiple girls in the group. Um, Um yeah. So,

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you know, like let's say that you got multiple numbers from from, you know, friends in the same group inadvertently and then the next day they're like, "You sent multiple friends in my group that same text opener." I'll be like, "lol, when

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are you free to meet up?" Right? It's not like, "Oh my god, what was I thinking?" you know, it's just I I just carry on anyways, right? Or in San Diego there there was this waitress at the sushi restaurant where I kept

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bringing a lot of girls for second dates and she's like, "I see you all the time with all these beautiful girls. Are you like famous or something?" And I was like, "No, I just really like sushi." And then I ended up banging her, not

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that night, but I was like, "We should go out sometime." And got her info, right? So it's not, "Oh, you've seen me in there with all those girls. Oh, what?

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Uh, you know, like it's not it's not like, oh, I've been found out. It's just like, uh, whatever. I'll I'll I'll [ \_\_ ] bang you, too. That's what it means. Being unapologetic, right? Or I own the fact that I've slept

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with 2100 girls. Some people think that's gross or they think I have AIDS or something like that.

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First of all, I don't have any disease, sexual, and I take PrEP, which prevents HIV if I ever run into a girl that has it. But, you know, the point is you you just it's about owning things, right? If

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I if I [ \_\_ ] up, I'm fine with apologizing. It's I'm not above apologizing. That's not what unapologetic literally means. It just means you you own those things and you're not, you know, making excuses about them.

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What do I think about Austin Summers? I think he's a little punkass [ \_\_ ] that got chased out of Colombia. You can go see I did multiple videos on him, but he got chased out of Columbia.

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So, see the video Icewipite made with a former student of mine quote unquote exposing me. Yes, I did. And that student that came on the channel was kicked out of my Aweek program. He was a complete weirdo living literally in a

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van in the woods. Was giving off like hardcore school shooter vibes. He was disrupting coaching calls. He was being rude to all the staff on my team. He was being combative with coaches. And he was given a bunch of warnings. And we had to

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finally remove him from the program, which which is something I've almost never had to do ever. And then Ice White recruited him to go talk [ \_\_ ] So that's the real story is the guy was incredibly out of control and disruptive

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and weirding everybody out and being very disrespectful and disruptive. And the contract that people signed clearly says you can't be dis disruptive on the programs. Um, and we had to remove him eventually after multiple warnings because he was out of control.

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How many women has you slept with? Uh well, Kiger Nike, uh it's currently at 2,107, but let me correct you there as I like to correct pretty much everyone who [ \_\_ ] this up, which is again pretty

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much everyone who even writes the word woman. In this context, you would use an e in the word woman, and it changes to women because it's plural.

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And now you know, will we get more of the exposing vids where you expose all the dumbs in the industry? Uh, yeah, for sure. It's just not going to be a big focus of the channel. I've pretty much covered almost

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everybody. There's some new upand cominging looks maxer retards that I've mostly been making fun of on Twitter. And make sure you follow me on Twitter, John, JohnAnthony Life.

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Um, let me just pop that up real quick. I didn't start getting active on Twitter until my YouTube got banned, but I just recently had a post get like 2.5 million views making fun of Sophie Rain, the the Only

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Fans horror girl. Um but yeah, I mean I I've exposed and critiqued most of the people that have um that have needed exposing and critiquing.

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So one sec. Okay. So, yeah. I mean, people send me dirt and and [ \_\_ ] all the time. Um, and so, you know, we'll see. It's just not going to be a regular a regular thing I do.

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We're trying to focus on really helping guys teaching pickup um teaching dating stuff. Okay.

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What percentage of online girls insist on Instagram? I don't know, maybe 10 to 20%. Most will give phone number.

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It's definitely probably closer to 10%. So, you should have a a really good Instagram that's stacked and we can make that for you as well as part of the uh AI dating photo package instead of do you need me to call you?

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What alternative false choice do you suggest if you don't want to? Okay. So, you're you're referring to the the decision close part of my message scripts for inviting straight to the house. So, the one with alcohol is, "Do

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you like wine?" "Yes." "Cool. We could split a bottle of wine at my new apartment and see how the chemistry is.

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Do you prefer red or white?" They pick red, they're coming over. They pick white, they're coming over. they say um uh or or they give an objection. Okay, if they give an objection, then there's certain ways to handle that. But

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the non-alcohol version is you say, "We can meet in my new apartment and see how the chemistry is." And I say, "Do you want me to call you an Uber?" So either they say, "Yes, no, I'll drive or

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objection." So, you give them two options that involve them coming over. I have clients that say, "Hey, um, I want to cook for you. Do you prefer chicken or shrimp?" Right? And then, and then the girl chooses a food and then and

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then she's coming over. So, structurally, all it has to be is two choices. You can say, you know, um, like if you don't want it to be alcohol, ju just pick two things. We could watch something funny. Do do you like this

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show? Do you prefer this show or that show? Right? Or we could watch We could watch something. Do you prefer comedy or action? Right? Whatever the thing is you want to do, you can just build in two options that

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involve that thing. And and both of those options are involve her coming over. That's the whole point.

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If the girl, this is about [ \_\_ ] at the girl's house if you don't have your own place. if they live with parents or roommates.

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Um, then you have to get a hotel or Airbnb, right? But I would I I would advise students that don't have their own place to just not meet up with those girls. If the girls have their own place, find

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other girls that do have their own place. Do I coach lesbian chicks? I've had lesbian girls buy my products, but I've never had a lesbian girl on the 8week program or a boot camp.

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I used to [ \_\_ ] this really hot lesbian in Philadelphia. She was on that site called the Chive cuz she had like a perfect ass. Her ass was on that site and I convinced her to try out

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sex with a guy and she loved it. I had like a pool table at this one apartment I had in Philadelphia. And I used to [ \_\_ ] bend her over the pool table and bang her perfect, you know, bang her in

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the puss but from behind with her perfect ass and then also have her lay flat back on the pool table. I'm 6'4 so I like connect perfectly on like counters and pool tables.

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And then I banged her for like a bunch of months on rotation and then she like left me to get back with her ex-girlfriend who she was still in love with. But it was cool. I like went to

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her college graduation and [ \_\_ ] and was hanging out with her girlfriend. I lit I picked her up on St. Patrick's Day.

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Um, let's see. How do you avoid getting set up by the girl to get robbed?

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when going to her place. That really doesn't happen. You don't need I think I've only had a girl take something one time out of like thousands and thousands and thousands of of girls hang out.

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You don't really need to worry about that. You prefer white passing girls? What does that mean?

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Does Miami have a lot of those? I don't know what you mean by passing.

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Um, but yeah, I mean Miami has a lot of everything so it's not just Latin looking people.

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What if she doesn't reveal her house or things about her when texting her online?

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Is that a red flag? No, they're typically not going to reveal things about their house out of nowhere. You'd have to ask, what can humanity do right now to prevent an AI takeover?

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Destroy all data centers. Other than that, I don't really see how they'll be able to prevent it.

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Where do I see myself when it eventually happens? Uh, probably dead. And people people just simply are underestimating the power of something that's smarter than all humans combined, that's many, many, many, many, many orders of magnitude smarter than

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us. Like literally, there's going to be a billionfold increase in intelligence in the ne in less than 20 years. We can't even comprehend that. We can't even fathom it.

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So, you know, just enjoy life until [ \_\_ ] all goes sideways. Any theories for why girls are down for house dates? I didn't know it was possible until 2022. Yeah, I started Date Straight to the House in 2014.

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No, sorry, early 2015. Um, so, so I've been doing it for over 10 years. Yeah, it screens out annoying girls and prudes like magic. And and the ones that insist on meeting in public still, even after going through the

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objection handling, they typically um want to meet like some place that blows the logistics and like they're just like a pain in the ass in a bunch of other ways.

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So, but why do girls why are they down for it? I always frame it as I just moved to a new apartment, so I guess it has like the housewarming frame.

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Um I also mention others like a beautiful view. So, it's like, "Oh, let's celebrate in my new apartment and there's a nice view." And then if they give the hookup objection, I respond one way. If they give the safety objection,

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I respond a different way. If it's ambiguous, I respond to both. Um, and I have like layers of fallback now that I haven't gone into on YouTube.

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Um, let's see. Um, let's see. latest you can schedule a date on a weekday. There's no It depends on like how late the girl stays up. I've had girl I just I just closed the new the last new one I closed

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201107. I matched the girl on Tinder at like 11 or 11:30. I said, "Are you feeling spontaneous?" Or I said, "Are you spontaneous?" She said, "Yes." I said, "Cool. Let's meet right now." And then I said, "Tinder says that we're

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close by. What area are you in?" "Oh, I'm in this area. How long do you need to get ready?" You know, just holding that frame of we're going to meet. And then the chick got ready and came over

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and we I closed her at like 12:30. So there's other girls that, you know, they're messaging me at like 1:00 am or some [ \_\_ ] and I'm like, "What are you doing right now?" And they're like, "I'm

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laying in bed in pajamas." I'm like, "Can you, you know, can I call you an Uber?" Right. Oh, but I'm in pajamas.

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Well, you don't need to get ready. Like, I won't judge. How long can you get, you know, how long before you can be ready? So you you can invite, you know, and I've had like with the Russian one that was

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at karaoke that she came over at like 2:00 a.m. So it doesn't [ \_\_ ] matter if you're awake and they're awake. You can meet. There's no if if it's a if you're talking about like for planning a

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formal date in advance. Again, it depends on what time they go to bed and because some girls work shifts and stuff like that. Some girls don't get off work until like 10:00 p.m.

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And so so yeah, just depending on their schedule, it can be as late as you want.

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What happens first? Humanity extinction or a cure for aging? we're going to see a lot of the promise before the perils take, you know, destroy everything. So, I think we'll probably see although, you know, it it remains to be seen because

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they're not going to make very serious progress in curing all aging and disease probably for like five years, three to five years. And a lot of the dangers already going to be very likely next year.

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So we'll have to see how it plays out. But there will be a lot of promise along with the peril.

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Problem is it's not going to do us very very good to have aging and disease cured if if we have something that's you know somewhat infinitely more powerful than us.

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heard you say in one of your old videos you have a method for learning language in less than a week. It does sound good to be true, but it does work. It's called the Michel Thomas method. He's a

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German linguist. He's dead. M I C H E L space Thomas. And um he says in the beginning that with with each language there's like 500 major words that are repeated over and over.

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and his course is about teaching you what those words are up front. And he said if you like analyze the New York Times, it comes down to like five major words.

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So like for for reference, for comparison, I took four years of Spanish class in school from like 8th grade to 12th grade. And then I got to Puerto Rico and I couldn't speak jack [ \_\_ ] And I did the Michel Thomas thing. After

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going through like seven or eight hours of that, I had like a three-hour date where I didn't use translate at all and I could suddenly understand people talking on the phone in public and stuff.

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It it the way it works is it's recorded teaching with two students and then you're basically the third student and you start right off speaking sentences and then it keeps adding complexity and adding in rules and and he did it for

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like a ton of languages. I I learned Russian Polish Portuguese Spanish all with that with that system.

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Would I be married if I never met Liz? I don't know. I almost got married to some other chicks in the past.

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But yeah, I don't know. When setting the date to her place, should you still use the wine line if you don't drink yourself?

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It can be to watch something funny, to cook food, to, you know, you can suggest any any number of things.

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Doesn't have to be about one. Why don't I get face tats? Cuz I think they look [ \_\_ ] It It looks trashy. It looks like you look like a a convict.

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So, no. I'm I'm never going to do face or neckts. I think those both look like [ \_\_ ] Glad to have you back. Submit AI photos.

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Wondering what the success rate is with that. Um, very high. Like guys are super thrilled with it cuz it nails the outfits, the lighting, the backgrounds, the poses, the expressions, everything like comes out like 10 out of 10. And then there's a layer of review

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by the hot girl team led by my wife Liz. And then you already know that like the pictures you're putting up are going to perform because they were rated the best and rated rated a high ranking.

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Um, let's see. And and for those of you that want the photo optimization service, I'm going to drop it in the I'll drop you guys the sale link.

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It's normally a,000 bucks, but we have a a deal for $4.97. This is 100 AI generated photos.

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Hot girl team picking best five to nine. They they'll try to pick nine, but if if they can only get five, they'll they'll pick at least five.

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John writes your bio personally 115 page profile optimization guide plus bonuses. I just dropped that in the That's one of the highest utility things anybody can do because you can literally use that same profile for years. It's just going to print

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matches. You heard that testimonial or if you were on a little bit ago, you heard the testimonial.

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This dude says, "I wanted to do your boot camp when I'm out of college. I don't know if the world will be destroyed by then." And you can do it while you're in college. But the best time to do a boot

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camp is now so you can utilize the skills. A lot of us don't do night game because we have no one to go out with. It's awkward as [ \_\_ ] going solo.

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Just invite any friend you have. They can even be married or in a relationship. It doesn't matter. Anyone you know can go with you and it makes it better.

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Only in my algo your can I meet you a quick thing was made fun of in a video.

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Okay, I don't care. I've been using that opener for like 15 years extremely successfully and so have thousands of clients fight Sartine. He's the one that challenged me to a fight. I immediately accepted. He went running scared. So

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go comment on him to stop being a [ \_\_ ] And by the way, I found out after the fact from someone inside his company that Sartine didn't want to fight me because he didn't want to get hurt and

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not be able to make content. That that was like one of the major reasons.

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[ \_\_ ] loser. White passing is Hispanic but looks white. Yeah, there's a [ \_\_ ] ton of Hispanic girls that look white in Miami.

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Someone from X asks, "Are girls that come over to [ \_\_ ] relationship material or not?" That depends on the girl.

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So, you know, I think it's better if they don't [ \_\_ ] on the first date if you're going to make them a girlfriend. I think it's better that they have a low body count, that they are mostly in

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relationships, they're not a club rat, that they're not, you know, they don't have like daddy issues or any of that kind of [ \_\_ ] that drives girls to have a a bigger body count. Um, so it it depends. It

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varies from girl to girl. You got to do it on a case- by case basis. You can't just say, "Oh, this girl comes over and [ \_\_ ] on rotation, and therefore I can't make her a a girlfriend."

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In your infield last, you pulled a girl after closing for shots. Um, I don't know what you're referring to, but it must it might have it might have been a pre-record uh one that I already recorded in the past from Rumble because

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I I haven't shown a night game pull since I've been back on YouTube, but it could have been one of the videos we released that was a re-release. But to answer your question, can you still do this while solo? Absolutely. Like even in

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practice, the people that are bitching about, oh, I don't know anybody to wing with, you're still mostly doing your own sets anyways. Like, let's say your wing goes and talks to a girl by herself.

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You're going to go approach some other [ \_\_ ] group and it's as if you were solo. Or let's say that you know there's no other attractive girls in the group with the girl you're talking to. Your wing isn't going to be interested in any

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of those girls. So, he could come in and block fatties if he wanted to, but he doesn't have to. So it it still looks the exact same with or without wings.

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What are other seeds besides afterparty and shots? Come see my view. Come meet my pet.

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Let's go watch something funny. Let's go order food. Let I I know a bunch of guys that pulled with like board games like going to play Jenga or stupid [ \_\_ ] like that. Doesn't really matter. Come see my

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you know, whatever at my house. If you have something you want to show her, you could reference something in a conversation that's at your house and say, "Oh, let me I actually want to show you it." Whether it be trip photos or,

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you know, art or music collections, doesn't [ \_\_ ] matter. So, it's turning leads into dates. What are the other hardest parts of game to master?

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Um, sexualization. A lot of guys struggle with with sexualizing and being physical. Um, Okay.

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Um, what else? I think building your online profile is hard. Most guys just grab random photos from their photo gallery, their photo reel.

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I think um running dates super smooth is is an art. Um doing the closing super smooth.

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Being able to retain most girls after the first date. There's a whole bunch of areas that are harder to master, but with my system and and with my guidance and my coaching, nothing's really difficult.

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Happy to see you back, boss. Thank you. Sortain is such a loser. Yeah. I mean, he has fake charity events where he hires models that come, nobody's [ \_\_ ] the models, and then it's basically like a super expensive, glorified photo

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opportunity where these students take pictures with the models that they're not [ \_\_ ] And then Sartine repurposes that in his marketing and writes actual results implying that falsely that the guys are [ \_\_ ] these models.

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And then he tries to diss the real methods of game that work like cold approach and online game. So he says, "Oh, online game's dead. Tinder's dead.

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Cold approach is dead. Cold approach is 2% of the game. Blah blah blah blah blah." And guys think, "Oh, I don't need to, you know, get over my fear and grow a set of balls and go talk to strangers.

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I can just have like hand out model pussy." No, you can't. But that's what they try to pretend is true and that's what constitutes all the snake oil in his marketing.

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And that plastic looking, you know, Michael Jackson girlfriend he had never respected him and wanted to [ \_\_ ] other guys at his company.

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and she [ \_\_ ] all over him at the at the uh when he was on the Whatever podcast.

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Okay. Um, let's see. He also like does Stolen Valor [ \_\_ ] where he tries to act like he was a Top Gun pilot doing counterterrorism and all this [ \_\_ ] when in reality when in reality uh he was a navigator on a refueler.

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It's a decommissioned position now. He was not in combat. He was never a pilot and he's a giant [ \_\_ ] He's like one of the biggest [ \_\_ ] of all time. Who challenges someone to a fight publicly

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and then runs away from their own fight challenge? You can't you can't become any more of a [ \_\_ ] than that. when he was on that show, The Millionaire Matchmaker, um people, they were referring to him as a

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geek. They're like, "Michael is a self-proclaimed geek." And he tries to kiss a girl awkwardly on that show and she turns her face away and she she says in the interview after, "Michael's too much of a geek for me."

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But now with his little dumb Michael Sartine podcast interviewing all these [ \_\_ ] and scammers and just regurgitating David Bus all the time, he he tries to masquerade as some [ \_\_ ] guru even though he's full of

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[ \_\_ ] He also broke a law and used a bunch of his own clients to give fake testimonials for Dan Bilzerian in exchange for meet and greets with Dan so that Dan could have some testimonials.

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But that's a crime now with the SEC. Um, what do I do about dating fatigue and rotation burnout? Do I have an off season?

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No. No. The grind doesn't really [ \_\_ ] stop. You're you're always [ \_\_ ] ripping through new puss, repeat puss.

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Um, new leads are always coming in and yeah, I mean, yeah, you don't you don't really get a break.

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How many matches are people getting from the profile maximizer 2.0? A ton. You just heard in that [ \_\_ ] testimonial the guy got over a hundred in a week and he only had gotten three prior.

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Bumble's touchy about AI photos, but guys have gotten really good results on Tinder and Hinge.

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Best way to do solo night game and pull. Isolation goes up in utility since you don't have any friends in your group.

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Um, if girls ask where are your friends, don't say that you're there alone. Say that you lost them or that they're on their way because that's going to look very strange to say that you're not you're not there.

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Um, let's see. Someone from X says, "Does social circle game still work the traditional way?" Social Circle game is all [ \_\_ ] [ \_\_ ] I've exposed all those guys that their typical game plan is they pay

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money for girls. Okay. Jason Capital was sourcing girls for for lifestyle shoots 400 a pop on Craigslist. My old roommate Manhor exposed that. Max, excuse me, Max Tornov in Ukraine was promising girls in Ukraine a better life in Germany and Austria. Okay.

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And I had a girl that was part of that like come out and expose the whole thing, right? They they were all being promised all this like financial help in exchange for just acting on camera. And a whole

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bunch of others have done it. I'm not going to go through them all because a lot of them are are big enemies because I've exposed them. But that's their traditional playbook. They hire girls, there's money involved, and then,

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you know, they act like, "Oh, you don't need any cold approach. You don't need any online. You just, you know, get this hand out hot girl pussy." No, that would be nice if it worked that way. That's not how it works. Even Todd, when he

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left Real Social Dynamics, he goes, "So, social social circle game?" He goes, "That's nothing but a marketing tactic." It's like, "Yeah, no [ \_\_ ] I know that.

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But they trick tons of people every single day by demonizing the real ways that game works, which is cold approach and online game.

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thought dating apps were cracking down on AI photos. No, the we have tons of guys using them and and they're getting really really good results.

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What if you're a huge nerd, but you say to be your authentic self? Most extremely attractive women don't like nerds. That's absolutely false. I know that for a fact because I've told tons of hot girls around the world that

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I have a very nerdy background and they love it. I've told tons of them that I'm intelligent. They love it. And same a lot of my clients are are analytical engineer, programmer, business owner, you know, guys that have analytical brains.

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That's absolutely false that attractive women don't like nerds. I I I can't even count how many super hot girls have loved that part about me.

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It's Liz's favorite thing about me. It's my intelligence. So, that's absolutely not true. And yes, you can own that and and lots of girls will appreciate it. You just don't frame it as like loser nerd. You just frame I

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say I say nerd sedo in Portuguese which means secret nerd and they laugh and I say it's because I studied computer science and philosophy and I did a master's in human computer interaction and philosophy of cognitive science and I worked on nuclear missile defense

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and they're super impressed by it. Speaking of which, I just said that to a girl recently and shoot.

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One sec. Okay good. Um, let's see. Okay. What do I think about Facebook dating?

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Is it good? Yes, it's really good. I have some clients that um that only do Facebook dating and they're able to get sufficient leads from it.

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What do I think of the idea that game is finding the right balance between comfort and attraction?

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I think I I tell my clients just assume attraction. assume she likes you, assume compliance, and then when you run into non-compliance or objections, you just deal with it in turn. But building up comfort and rapport is necessary to make

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her want to [ \_\_ ] you. That's where the the black pillars get it wrong. They're like, "Hey, uh, you want to go fuck?" Like in the beginning of the interaction or they say like, "Hey, we should hang

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out." And they had they had no there was no comfort rapport building whatsoever. They just have no idea what they're doing. It's embarrassing themselves.

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To all the guys in the chat, you don't need game. Learn to be social and charismatic and then talk to uh you still need to know how to objection handle. You still need to know how to text. You still need to

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know how to do everything else. So, that's absolutely not true. I know plenty of guys that are social and charismatic that don't get laid at all because you have to know how to move things forward and you have to know how

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to deal with things when they come up. Okay, let's see what else we got.

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We got a whole bunch of people on from YouTube, from Rumble, X, Twitch, and Kick.

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Um, if you came in late, I'll just show real quick what I went over in the beginning.

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So, this is some of the major stuff that's included in the confidence product. which I'll drop this little thing for.

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Um, it's normally $2.49. We have it on sale for $97 this week because my birthday will go through Sunday night.

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And it's it's essential. My the strategy and tactics will not work if you think that you suck or you think you're not good enough or if if you're the classic nice guy or if you're a [ \_\_ ] or if you don't

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know how to set boundaries, if you're stuck on all your flaws and hang-ups and negative narratives, if you don't think of yourself as good enough for any girl, if you're putting them on a pedestal, like all these things will will [ \_\_ ] you up and make

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the strategies and tactics not work. So this is kind of like the the root of the tree so to speak above the all the system with all the strategy and tactics, right? So you still need to know how to optimize your online

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profile, how to acquire leads, how to convert your leads into dates, how to close your leads, and how to retain the best ones.

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And AI photo generation uh gives you a 10 out of 10 score in all the key areas, right? lighting, background outfit pose framing instead of traveling to exotic locations, buying a new wardrobe, hiring a high-end photographer, um trying to get the perfect lighting.

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AI photos nail that for you. But sitting above all the strategy and tactics are these key inner game categories.

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Okay. And we we briefly went through most guys see themselves down here and they don't have any wall between external reactions. So their value is just yo-yoing based on rejections, insults, negative reactions, flakes, and ghosting. Instead, you can draw this wall here and put your

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value fixed at 100 out of 100. And then when you run into rejections, inevitably insults, uh flakes ghosting negative reactions. It doesn't impact your value.

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Your value is non-contingent on those things. You derive this value based on your accomplishments, cool experiences, hobbies, interests, and skills. And I teach you in the course how to come to terms with your flaws and hang-ups and negative narratives so you can be at

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peace with them and they don't define you. Over here, I teach you how to get rid of nice guy syndrome, which is all these things here. People pleaser, spineless agreeable tolerates disrespect, people walk all over you, shower women with attention,

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compliments, you think that doing nice things will win the girl over. I show you how to deppussify yourself so that women don't see you as a [ \_\_ ] and men don't see you as a [ \_\_ ] How to have healthy

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boundaries as a man, with women, with friends co-workers family and friends. And I show you how to create a positive feedback loop and actually become a high value man so that this stays with you for the rest of your life and and you

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actually fully believe it. It's not just a facade. It's not just an act you're putting on. Okay? So, I'll teach you how to be maximally confident and become as high value as possible.

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All right? So, all that is in the new product that I put out. The link is in the description on YouTube and Rumble.

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All right, we're almost at three hours. Isn't most game filtering for women who are already into you or at least neutral? No.

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Mystery says, "Um, let me put this up. I want to see you go Violet Myers. I've never heard of her like you do at Sophie Rain. Way too many guys simp her. She's fat and has a busted face. Yeah. Like I don't know

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what that girl looks like, but with Sophie Rain like the face is very average. She always talks about how she was formerly fat, which which I I've met tons of girls. I know the exact type when they were formerly fat. It makes

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their skin like [ \_\_ ] loose and gross and it like hangs off of them. It's not It's not tight and firm because they used to be fat. It's all stretched out and she has no ass and you can tell her

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tits are like sloppy and formless and and just kind of like mushy like not not great. And she has like some midsection fat and love handle fat and I I I'm not even trolling it. It's I literally do not find her that

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attractive and and that would not even be hot enough. Sophie Rain is not hot enough to put on rotation in my book.

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Not anywhere close. Like I made a post on the X. I said this is a seven in South Brazil. I don't even [ \_\_ ] sevens. So, but but guys all think she's like a supermodel. She's [ \_\_ ]

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Um but going back to this, I love the Vladimir Scorpius name because that that comes from Tristan Tate's fake Mexican passport. Vladimir scorpous is the name of a bond villain but he literally registered with the Mexican government a

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fake passport under that name or a real passport I should say under a fake name.

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Um isn't most game just filtering for already into you? No, no, no, no, no, no.

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Again, this is a skill game. Okay, I I stress this every every [ \_\_ ] video for almost a decade. This is a skill game. This is a skill game. This is a skill game. If you take a guy that

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doesn't know how to run an interaction, doesn't know how to text, doesn't run a date, you can filter for, you can find all kinds of women that would be interested to start, but he's going to [ \_\_ ] it up.

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He's going to [ \_\_ ] it up when he opens his mouth. He's going to [ \_\_ ] it up when he fails to sexualize and gets friend-zoned. He's going to [ \_\_ ] it up sitting on a date for two or three hours

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and not know how to date the girl home. There's so many areas where you can go wrong all throughout the thing from the process from start to finish.

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to the to your point about, you know, finding women that are into you, that's like a prerequisite, but that's not the whole game. Like whether or not you end up sleeping with her and and seeing her regularly is is a

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direct function of your skill, right? So, Mystery said there's like three types of girls and he calls it like he uses like an apples analogy. So there's ones that are super into you, ones that are super not into you, and then the ones in

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between. So you're looking for the ones that are super into you, and the ones in between.

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But um that's just for like, you know, the initial interest when you go to first start talking to her. That that doesn't guarantee that you'll bang her or even stack the odds in your favor just because she's already into you. There's

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so many ways you can [ \_\_ ] it up and guys do and and will. And so that the the whole point of learning this skill is so you don't [ \_\_ ] it up or so that you minimize [ \_\_ ] up.

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Um, your biggest discouragement from getting into the game is your speech problem. Not a stutter, but a difficulty getting words out clearly and loud enough to hear. get a speech coach or or get a a speech software that can help you train

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your speech to be better. When I run boot camps often, I'll have a Bluetooth speaker. I'll crank the volume up and I'll put it in their face and I'll be like, "Have a conversation with me." Because when you're in a nightclub,

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especially like a very loud nightclub, especially near the speakers and [ \_\_ ] you're like one level below shouting.

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It's literally that loud. Your voice should be horsearo the next day from from speaking so loud in the limus test is can she hear your opener? If you're opening and she doesn't even acknowledge you, you're not loud enough. If you're

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opening and she said they normally say what you're not loud enough. So you have to be it's not like you're screaming or like actually shouting. It's like one step below shouting.

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Okay. Um, how many hours a week do I work? Well, we're in the process of scaling the company. I I firmly believe and so does everyone on my team that we have the best dating system in the world, the best dating coaching

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offering by far. We're light years ahead of everybody. There's not even a close second. We have the most proof of my results and the results of my clients.

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And I' I've assembled a dream team to scale this company to to be an eight figureure company, which is doing 10 million a year. Um or it's it's already been a multi-million dollar company.

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um for like six years. So, you know, now now we're taking things to the next level. And so, I do I do work a bunch. I do work a lot. I mean, back in 2020 when when I started making daily

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videos, I was doing all the editing myself, all the thumbnail creation myself, all the content myself, all the sales calls myself, all the coaching myself, etc. Now, I have guys that do the introductory calls with prospective clients. I have coaches

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that help me with the coaching. I have, you know, I've had a video editing team for a while. I have u, you know, graphic designers that create thumbnail. And we do a lot about AI now anyways. Um, but

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even with all that stuff being handled by other team members, there's still a lot of [ \_\_ ] to focus on regarding scaling paid ads, scaling out the the teams and so forth. And so, you know, I I do work a considerable

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amount, but it's a flexible schedule. So, if I'm not on meetings or or or doing work, I'm typically hang out with Liz and the dogs or seeing girls or going to the gym. Someone asks like, "What does my day look like start to

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finish?" Typically, I'll like wake up, go on a work meeting. Uh, well, wake up.

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Liz makes breakfast every morning, so I'll like eat breakfast, go on a meeting. Um, and then you know oftentimes we'll go to the gym and then I see a girl and I might do a little work after that and then see another

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girl and then do a little work after that. Like depends on the day how much work there is to do, right? There's different challenges and problems to to resolve and so on and so forth.

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Um, let's see. Uh, let's see. So, yeah, I mean, I don't know how many hours, but it's flexible.

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I'll even do work like I have multiple legal cases that I that I need to give input on and stuff like that each day, but I use AI a lot to help me. like I use um GPT6 Astra the the al ultra

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version in the work mode and I use Fable 5.1 Max and FA Fable Opus 5.5 Max and so so those are the two smartest models. I was using Perplexi Computer, but I I just canceled it recently because I I do all the work between those these

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two models. And I have them go back and forth with each other, too, if if it's something really important and until they're both satisfied on both ends. Um, but it helps a lot with company operations, company strategy, legal strategy,

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etc. So, and we have a big initiative where we're launching a a dating app and we're going to go mass market beyond the pickup niche niche beyond the menosphere and really market to all men that are single globally

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in English-sp speakaking countries insane the amount of money so yeah she makes millions of dollars even though she's very average.

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If I think she's a seven, that means she's above look above average, which means she is good-looking.

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I don't [ \_\_ ] sevens. I don't even [ \_\_ ] seven fives. It's for years. I try to keep it just to eight plus, but usually 85 or nine plus like in and in South Brazil and Eastern

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Europe, it's easy to maintain those standards. But like in the US where all the girls are fat, you know, you you put a former fatty in a bikini and and everyone loses their [ \_\_ ] Once a nine or 10 hooks, when I'm in

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set, it's the best [ \_\_ ] feeling. The confidence you gain is like god power.

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It's even better when you're [ \_\_ ] nines and tens. Like the first 10 that I banged, this chick Ashley, she was a hired gun.

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I met her at a rave in Philadelphia. I was at this rave. She was literally wearing like paste. She had fake tits with like pasties over her nipples and she was like in a thong. So she was like

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essentially naked and blonde, perfect body, perfect face, like wouldn't change anything. And there was like a group of guys crowded around her trying to talk to her. And I had just learned mystery method stuff like 50 something lake

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count. And I I walked in, passed all the guys and like said something like neg and then left the the circle of guys and she like followed me out of the circle and came and started talking to me. I

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ended up getting her number. I didn't know how to pull yet. But I and then it was like hard to get her out cuz she was always working and [ \_\_ ] And one day after she got off work, I

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got her to meet me at a diner and she didn't want to come back to my place, but she said I could come back to her place and she had just moved into some new place.

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And so I went home with her and she gave me the tour of the house and we ended up in her bedroom and she literally was like, "Oh, can I try on some like lingerie and see if you like it?" And I

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was like, "Oh my, oh my god." I was like I was like nervous as [ \_\_ ] right? I'm in a I'm in the bed of a 10 and she's like getting naked and like putting on outfits casually, right? And I didn't

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have any experience with girls, [ \_\_ ] girls that level yet. And which state?

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South Brazil. If I had to pick a US state, um again, I don't know. I I can't speak for the state itself. If I had to pick which city has the most tens, probably Miami.

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Miami, Vegas, San Diego, maybe New York City. Um, so she's she's like [ \_\_ ] trying on outfits for me. I'm in bed like, "Oh my god, I hope I get late. I hope I get late. How do I not [ \_\_ ] this up?" And

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She comes and is like flirting with me, starts giving me a [ \_\_ ] and then she wanted to [ \_\_ ] And I literally was thinking about mysteries, like stupid seven-hour rule [ \_\_ ] Like, oh, if I bang this girl uh too

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quickly before I've established enough comfort, I'm going to lose her. And I and I can't afford to to lose a 10. So, I [ \_\_ ] you not, I refuse to have sex with her. This is like, you know, this is like what Todd's

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push pull stuff. Bucks guys up over as well, you know. And I was like, I'm not sure if I like you enough yet. And she was like, what?

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And I remember like after I left, I was like in my car and I I like texted my friends. I'm like, dude, if I don't get to bang this chick, I'm going to be pissed for like years. Like, what the

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[ \_\_ ] And they're like, why don't you bang her? I'm like, "Oh, well, you know, mystery." I basically was doing like pushpull nonsense or like, you know, but I also didn't want to bang her prematurely and lose it. But then I took

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her out for like Italian dinner the next week and I remember like holding her hand on the street and like guys were like staring.

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Some guys were like whistling. Everyone in the restaurant was looking at her. It It was just crazy. And then I brought her home and railed the [ \_\_ ] out of her for hours. And I had a roommate at the

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time. He was like pissed off. He was like, "The girl wouldn't stop screaming for hours." I'm like, "Dude, she's a [ \_\_ ] 10. What What do you expect?" And then, you know, I banged her. I I started I

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banged her some more times and and then she she asked me to like come help her with her homework one night. I think she was in college. And I had contracted something called the noro virus, which was like a bad case of

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the flu where you like puke and [ \_\_ ] green. And you like have to keep running to the bathroom non-stop. And I was going to the bathroom so frequently that I was like, there's no way I can [ \_\_ ]

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hang out with this chick feeling like this. It's going to be I'm going to have to like go [ \_\_ ] [ \_\_ ] [ \_\_ ] myself or hang out. And I felt horrible. So I was like, "Oh, I'm too busy. I can't meet

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you." And then she went and took some some trip for like two weeks and then it like went cold by the time she got back and that that flu I had that bad flu for like a week or two and then she went

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traveling for two weeks and then it fell off and I went and asked like at her work about her like oh is Ashley still working here and they're like no she got fired because the owner of the club really liked her

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and the the owner's wife got all jealous or whatever. I was like, "Oh." And then I and then I found out years later she like became a porn star and got AIDS, which is kind of crazy. Um, but yeah, that was my uh

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that was my first experience with a 10. But you know, once you [ \_\_ ] knock down a 10, everything changes because first of all, like when you're just talking to a normal seven or eight, you're already like, I don't give a [ \_\_ ] if I bang this

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seven or eight. I already banged a 10. like like no one can take that away from you. Like somewhere some 10 you were good enough for for her to [ \_\_ ] you, right? And so that does wonders for

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your confidence. And then I just started, you know, I mostly kept I I tried to just stick to the hottest girls from that point forward. The first 50 were, you know, had some hit or miss.

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There'd be an occasional, you know, girl that was a little overweight or whatever. It wasn't it wasn't pristine quality in the first 50. Um, but beyond like a 100, it was it was mostly just really hot girls with with some very

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rare exceptions. And that's why I always get so annoyed when people hear my my body count and they're like, "Well, I prefer quality over quantity." And it's like, "Me, too." And it's not mutually exclusive. You don't have to choose one

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or the other. You can bang a very high quantity of very high quality, which is what I did. I have endless proof of that.

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Um, let's see. Um, one sec. Um okay. Regarding the neuro feedback, I was just I was just mentioning the neuro feedback doctor. Um, I've done like, let me see 56 sessions now.

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Moving right along. My anxiety has been dropping. My looping thoughts have been getting better.

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Today was my 55th session. So, tomorrow will be 56. Um, my sleep quality has improved. My executive function has improved.

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Uh, I'm less irritable, etc. I'll keep you guys posted on that. But yeah. Yeah.

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Like, nothing beats [ \_\_ ] knocking down nines and tens. It never gets old, I promise. Like I still get giddy like a school girl getting ready to go [ \_\_ ] plow new stunner girls. It's it nothing

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beats it. How might someone be able to get away with a time you cheated? You messed up one time. You're looking to keep it hidden.

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Don't Don't [ \_\_ ] tell the girl. and you know, make sure that the girl you cheated with can't [ \_\_ ] message you or contact that girl, the girl you're seeing, I guess.

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Isn't the big challenge with dating apps finding women? Like, most women don't want to have more than one dating app on their phone.

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That's not true. A lot of them have many. How do you work around? Isn't the big challenge finding? What do you mean finding women? If you have a good profile, it's going to print matches. If you print matches, you can

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plug into my scripts and turn the matches to phone numbers and the phone numbers to dates. So, the first big step is printing matches. And then all of a sudden, you're printing phone numbers and dates. Then you go on the dates and

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you see you connect with the best and you hone in your skills on running and closing dates.

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Nice to know your first hot girl story. I recently pulled a girl first time.

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Chatted a couple hours, couldn't close. We couldn't move move it forward. Yeah, I mean, you got to learn proper game.

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Your platinum dating system is legit. I went from virtually no girls to having a threesome lit within days of getting through it.

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There you go. It works. And for those of you that want the same results, book a free 30-minute call at platinumdating system.com.

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Um, someone from kick. How are you doing today? Good. You What's the average time of two when a girl gives you her phone number and goes on a date? Ideally, ideally 24 to 48 hours.

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You want to strike while the iron is hot. The sooner you meet up, the higher your chances of closing. It's the same in sales. In sales, if you don't close a prospect that same day, the odds of closing them go down like 50% every day.

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So you want to, you know, like like the key tenants of lead working, successful lead working and volume is you keep the influx, the inflow of new leads steady at all costs. You work them down to the bone pretty quickly. And you

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know, my my original mentor used to describe it as you put up or shut up.

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Jeffy actually from RSD, he taught me that. Um, so you get to the meet me real [ \_\_ ] quick and you try to get them out on a date as soon as possible.

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So for the ones that want to get to know you a bunch, there's shortcuts to to cut through that nonsense, but you want to set the data SAP. Time is your enemy.

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Um, leads generally go cold in about a week. One sec. All right. One sec.

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Um, is a work message. So yeah, like my my next two days going past the current day like like my current day and the next day I should say are just fully stacked with double and triple stacked slots. Like yesterday

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I [ \_\_ ] three different girls all repeat. Um the late count actually be way higher if I just optimized for new.

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I I prioritize repeat over new. Not to [ \_\_ ] sound like an [ \_\_ ] or brag, but that's that's always what I've done.

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So, like yesterday, I could have seen a new girl, but instead I [ \_\_ ] three repeat three three hot repeats. To me, it's always been about [ \_\_ ] hot repeats.

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You just build up a lake count along the way. Um, so like the current day and the next day are fully stacked and then you just keep going like that.

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Um, I find a lot of women don't want to commit to a straight to the house date days in advance.

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I used to spring it on them the same day, but I now always tell them in advance because I don't want to waste the slot if they're not down for that.

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So, I always do it in advance now. But I used to just say, "Oh, what time are you free Thursday?" "Okay, how about 7:00?" "Okay, see you Thursday at 7:00." And then on Thursday, I'd be like, "Do you like wine?" Right? And then and

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then I would spring it on them. But then that waste time slots if they're like, "Oh, there's no way I would ever come to straight to your house." Then you just wasted the time slot and then you're scrambling to to fill it. So I always

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just tell them in advance. Now for for years, I've done it in advance. The big challenge running a dating app is getting women to actually join. No, I'm not. You You guys misunderstood.

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I'm not developing like a Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge app. It's an app that coaches guys in dating and trains them in dating and has my products incorporated into it using like an AI helper. So, it's like an interactive way

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to use my products and and get trained on pickup. That's the app that we're releasing. We're not releasing an app uh like Tinder. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

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How to get over obsessive guilt and anxiety loops. This neuro feedback training that I'm doing is using operant conditioning from behavioral psychology to reprogram the brain to be able to disengage and break out of loops easier.

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What's your opinion on complimenting a girl's looks in the interaction? Um, it's fine. It just has to come from the right frame. Like, look at the difference. Oh my god, you're like the most beautiful girl ever. Versus like,

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damn, I didn't realize you were so sexy. Right? A lot of it, a lot of it, when I compliment them, a lot of it's done playfully.

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And I have like a big mirror in my side place. So, I'll like, you know, I'll like stand next to them and I'll be like I'll be like, "Let's look at ourselves in the mirror together." And I always

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say that we like go good together and all that [ \_\_ ] right? And I'll I'll compliment like their ass is usually popped way out because it's Brazil.

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And then I I'll you know, then I compliment certain things like that. But the thing is is it if it's a compliment, it should come from uh a no filter authentic internal place, not some canned line outame tactic place, if that

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makes sense. It's not like, "Oh, I can't wait to go on this date because I'm going to tell her that she's sexy." No, it's not about saying the right compliment line at the right time. It's about letting it happen organically,

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authentically in the moment from the frame of like, I'm a cool, confident guy that, you know, thinks you're sexy or thinks you're cute, but I'm not kissing your ass and I'm not supplicating. I'm not graveling. That's the difference.

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Do I think most porn stars are average-l looking? A lot. A lot. Yeah. It's hard to find. I mean, the I've made sex videos with a lot of 9.5s and that's what I watch if I ever jerk off or if I want to look at porn. I

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watch my own videos like cuz they're way better. The girls are way hotter. And so it's hard to find like super super super hot girls in porn. I think a lot a lot of the girls just aren't hot enough.

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somebody from Oh, what's up, Brad? I would say, do you want to come on, but then we'd probably go for another two hours, so we can schedule another stream soon.

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Bloody legend, mate. Um, someone on ex says, "If you kiss a girl on a first date, afterwards she says she's not comfortable, should I stop completely for the night, take smaller steps, or wait for date two?" Um, it it depends. So, like if she's like,

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"Oh, I'm not comfortable kissing that soon." I would say, you know, "Oh, it's fine. We can slow down. There's no there's no race." And then after we built up more comfort and rapport, I I might say, "Oh, are you

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feeling comfortable enough to kiss now?" Or like, "Is it okay if I kiss you again?" Right? I liked kissing you before. Can I do it again? So, yeah, you just Yeah, back off. Acknowledge her concern. Um, and for sure, don't be

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pushy or aggressive. But and again, it's contextual depending on how the vibe is, depending on if she says that she never kisses on the, you know, there's a whole bunch of details missing. But in general, you would back off, build more comfort and

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rapport, and then revisit it. But in a more delicate, you would you would revisit, you know, saying explicitly like, "Okay, it's okay if I kiss you." Like Liz in threesomes, she's like always very um accommodating to the girl, making

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sure the girl's like totally comfortable and everything. So, she'll be like, "Oh, like, do you mind if I kiss you? Do you mind if I touch you?" And the girls like, "Sure, sure." Right? but she's always like very

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um respectful about it. How did I meet Selena Gomez? Um remember either her or you telling a story. Either her or you. I don't think she told the story. I told the story how y'all met a while back. Uh that was a

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Dre after hours. So there was a spot and it was like the old Dre. This was like in 2013.

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They end up making a new Dre. This was the old one. It was an after hours spot in Vegas. I was out gaming with friends.

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People didn't want to continue the night. I usually almost always did. So, I continued on solo. I met her outside of Dre. I never ended up going in. And we were flirting and talking. I didn't realize it was her at first. We got into

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a make out and then I invited her back home and she wanted to come and there was a diehard [ \_\_ ] block in the group and she's like, you know, she's like, do you even know who this is? And I I don't remember

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exactly what I said. This was in 2013, but I it was something along the lines of like, I don't give a [ \_\_ ] who it is.

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What what the [ \_\_ ] is your problem? And she's like, that's Selena Gomez. And and and then I was like, holy [ \_\_ ] Like I didn't realize it at first. Like when I approached her, I didn't realize it when

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I made out with her. I didn't realize it. I only realized when her friend was saying it after and then and and Selena was totally down to come to the [ \_\_ ] we I was running a pickup mansion. I was

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inviting her to come there afterwards and she was going to come with her group and her friend was [ \_\_ ] blocking the whole [ \_\_ ] thing. Was like she can't go. We're not letting her go. Blah blah

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blah. And she really wanted to go. I I I would have had a shot of banging her I think. Um it is what it is.

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Um, oh, this just made some food. I'm supposed to see two girls tonight, too. So, hold on one sec.

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Um, yeah, there's a girl coming from like 2 hours away and then there's a girl.

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There's a girl that's local that's closer and I was supposed to see the two-hour way one first and then the closer one after. They both have stacked bodies.

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They're both repeats again. See, that's the thing. They most days are filled with two to three repeats and then I get a new one every now and then.

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But there's just so many hot repeats. Actually, I said I would go through my rotation. Why don't I just [ \_\_ ] give give an overview? But, you know, there really isn't much more to the story than that. I got in a huge [ \_\_ ] argument

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with the with the the [ \_\_ ] block friend who was being an [ \_\_ ] for no reason.

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It was she was like the protector of Selena Gomez. And this is I looked it up like this is when her and Bieber were like on again, off again and [ \_\_ ] I guess it was probably an off again.

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Um, oh, let me I'm trying to see when that here. Let me just go through the rotation so I don't because I've been wanting to do it on multiple streams.

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Um, okay. I have a [ \_\_ ] list. So, it's like a full page.

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All right. So if I should use their real names or not. Probably not. Um, all right. So, there there's one I already I started seeing her when she was 22. She was girl number 1800 and now I'm at 200107. This is like three years

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ago. Um, I'm sick. Okay. So, I was banging this girl Mary for like maybe a year who was like 25 and I and she had a really like perfect ass. And then I met her sister Camila through Mary and Camila was like 22 and

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I started banging Cama. Um, and Camila's been on rotation since 1800. So that so she's been on three years. Some guys are like, "How long can girls stand on rotation?" I have multiple that have been on for for many

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years. So Camila um has been on for like over three years. Perfect ass. Then Miss Salo, we just hit four years that we've been seeing each other. Like a couple weeks ago was four years and Netflix filmed her and interviewed her

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and everything like that. She's won the beauty queen title of the city multiple times.

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Um I'm going through like the ones that have been on for a while first. So that's the second one.

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I put a note next to each one that I've already talked about. Then I have this Colombian chick who's been on for like five years.

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I picked her up originally on a cold approach. She was a waitress at a coffee shop and I banged that chick countless times.

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She's super hot. I banned her countless times. She has fake tits. Me and Liz had a bunch of threesomes with her.

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Um, hold on. Okay, going on to a new These are in no particular order. A newly added one.

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Um, actually, let me go over another longer term one. There's this blonde, a stacked blonde with perfect body, fake tits, perfect fa or yeah, perfect face, really nice ass.

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She wants me to [ \_\_ ] her all the time and I can't cuz there's not enough time.

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She's been on for like two and a half years. And she's the only one where I go to her house. She like wants me to go to her house. She used to come to my house for like the first year and then she started

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being like, "Why don't you ever come to my house?" I've just gotten in the habit of banging her. But I bang her like all over her apartment. Like up on the kitchen counter. Like I had her like squirting all over her couch. She left

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like this giant puddle. She had to have someone come in and professionally clean it.

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Um I I'm seeing all these funny YouTube comments on my old videos. Someone just watched the Dave Prada cold approach exposed. Someone says that's so this is this hurts so bad to watch. Christ.

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Um okay. So that Oh, and let me tell the like these are things that are important to me. You guys might not care, but like the miss chick uh is a is a she dyes her hair red. So she's like red hair.

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The chick is brunette. the the one with the fake tits that's been on for a bit and the Colombian are both blonde.

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Wait one one two three four. Okay, so that's four. And so out of the four so far, two have fake tits, which is my favorite physical trait in a woman.

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Uh Liz has fake tits as well. Liz has like 510 cc tits. Huge. She tried to get 600. We were at the doctor's office and she's like, I always wanted to have boobs like Pamela Anderson. She wanted to put 600. And the doctor's like, we

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can only fit 510. So she did 510. Um, okay. So that's four. Then there's this chick with like a preposterous ass and big natural tits.

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That's five. Um, another one with fake tits and nice ass that's been on board for like two years.

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She's not black, but like mixed. So, she has like a little darker skin and a bunch of tattoos.

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Then there's a tattoo artist chick covered in tattoos. Super hot. She's a model and she has a split tongue. So, when she gives a [ \_\_ ] it feels like two girls giving a [ \_\_ ] And she

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wants to have a threesome. So that would be like feeling like two girls, three girls.

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Let's see. Then there's another blonde with big natural tits. A lot of them just have like big tits, big ass, but they're like in great shape as well.

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Um, the one for today, one of the ones for today is like pretty athletic. She has like somewhat of a muscular ass and is a little more darker skinned with really nice tits, super pretty face, full lips for sucking dick.

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Um, I'm like going out of order the way I have it listed. There's another blonde with amazing ass and tits. So, like the way the way I write it in the rotation list, I write ass if they have like an

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exceptional ass. I write fake tits if they have fake tits. I write natural tits if there's really good natural tits. Um, then there's one, this chick that's like Italian background.

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Where is that one? She's petite. So, I have her listed as petite. So, that's a chick that's like 100 pounds. You can just [ \_\_ ] throw around. I'm like twice her weight, twice her size. I'm 6'4, 220 right now

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in kilograms and in centimeters. I'm 100 um 194 centimeters and 100 kilograms. Um, and the other one for tonight has an insane ass. We We've made a bunch of videos where she's like on her knees with the mirror behind her.

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Hold on. This one girl's waiting for the Uber. I think the the one coming from longer is going to come first.

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Um, I hope this isn't boring to you guys. What's Miss Somehow? I'm not going to [ \_\_ ] say that. She'll be harassed.

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I've known her for four years. I'm not going to [ \_\_ ] dox her if she's going to be on Netflix. Well, she wasn't on Netflix cuz they cut those parts and so her identity is remaining a secret.

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I don't [ \_\_ ] dox that that you know how many people would [ \_\_ ] hit her up and [ \_\_ ] and it would it would be incredibly I don't do that.

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Um she just messaged me right now actually. She hits me up like all the time.

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Have you ever been in love with two girls at the same time? Yeah. I mean, you know, you develop feelings for some of these girls. I don't know the max amount of girls have been in love at the same

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time. I don't [ \_\_ ] know. And it's hard to even define that. All right, let me see how many I've covered. There's one two three four five six seven 8 9 10 11.

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And there's still like 10 or 15 here on the list. There's another girl. I mean, I don't know what to say besides that like great face and ass. That's that's like the case for most of them. Um, there's

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another one with great face and ass. There's another one with really big natural tits and nice ass. It's two more. So, it's 13.

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There's another one that likes to wear a bunch of outfits and [ \_\_ ] and [ \_\_ ] strip for me and like dance around and all that [ \_\_ ] It's 14. Yeah, it's over 17 for sure.

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I'm not even counting the Russian one who I've recently been seeing. Another blonde with stacked hits and ass.

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They all have st like I don't put them on as a regular unless they're stacked physically and then they all have to [ \_\_ ] well, too. I cut off hot ones that don't [ \_\_ ] well or hot ones that are

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annoying. Here's one. This chick's actually half Russian, half Uruguayan machine models as well. Another one with big stacked natural tits. I wish you I wish I could show pictures of these girls cuz I've shown a lot of receipts over the years, but

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how do I keep track of the personal info? Dude, I don't. They get pissed at me. The 1800 girl didn't talk to me for like two weeks because I forgot her birthday, which I thought was stupid. I told Liz, she's like, "Well, if you've

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been seeing her for a few years, you should know her birthday." And I I don't [ \_\_ ] know her birthday. Jesus Christ.

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Um, I thought it blew it out cuz she like got really really really pissed and blocked me and she unblocked and was like, "Can we hang out?" I was like, "Sure." That was the Chamelea girl. It's funny cuz there there was um there was a time

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Camille and I had an argument like a year ago and I was like, "Well, I miss [ \_\_ ] your sister better than you anyways and she got like super upset." Not true either. I like [ \_\_ ] the

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Chama girl better than the than the previous one, the sister. But um hold on. I'm also trying to like sort this Uber thing out.

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Um there. There's a really really really hot I mean they're hot, but there's a really hot new one. She's like tall.

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This one doesn't have big tits. She's like medium size, but they're like nice firm feeling and and she's in very good shape. Has really nice ass.

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She's super into me. Really pretty. How many is that? One, two, three, four, 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16, 17, 18. So, I've already I've already mentioned 18 of them, and there's still a whole list of other

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ones. And these are all active. And there's there's girls that like come to visit like like girls that have been traveling that came into town and then like whenever they come back into town they hit me up and I bang them. There's

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like a whole list of those that just hit me up whenever they come to town.

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Um, that I do anything to make my voice deeper is a TRT and age TRT definitely makes it a little deeper, but no, I didn't do anything to make it deeper.

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But I've been on TRT since 2018. Testosterone replacement therapy. Have I calculated my monthly cost?

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Well, first of all, I don't take any of them out on dates. Um, but I in Brazil, it's expected that you call the Uber, but Ubers are cheap.

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So, it's just Ubers. That's like the only cost. And I have like beer and water in the house.

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One chick what I'm looking for chemistry and connection and then let things unfold naturally from there.

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Oops. All right, let me What else is here? We got I don't know how to describe these girls other than the fact that they have nice tits and ass.

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I have another one tits and ass. Another one ass. Another one ass. Another one ass. Another one ass. Another one ass.

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Another one that's a model. I just have her listed as hot, but her body's also really nice.

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Um, I have another one with a really nice ass, blonde, but she's like recovering from a surgery for the next two weeks.

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I have one that's like part Asian. Yeah. So, you know, the 17 figure is an under representation. There's This one has big natural tits and an ass. There's another one with a big ass.

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How many are on this list total that I'm just Let me see. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 6.

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So there's 37 and that doesn't count the ones that are coming into town here and there, but a couple of these towards the bottom I don't see that often.

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So, you know, there's like 30 something on rotation, but it allows you to see two or three hot girls every single day, plus fit in new ones.

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I'm setting this stunner 22-year-old right now. Uh, no, I'm not going to. She has tattoos. Show Um, yeah, I I'll see what I can put together to show you guys their bodies at least without their face. It's just that I know that could

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like hardcore blow up in my face. Especially like with ones that know me really well, if they ever found out about that, I don't know. That's like it's like a liability sometimes to show receipts. I I like I show lots of

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stunning receipts from girls that I don't talk to anymore. I think that's safer. Um, someone said you're new in the Discord.

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Who are the highest count guys except me who are still active in there? I don't know.

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I don't I really don't know. But anyone can join the Discord for free. It's It's got 1,600 people in it and there's different areas of different categories of game. There's a Wingman locator as well.

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What's the cleanest way to find a third without the unicorn hunting dynamic? Um, okay. So very quickly, the two major ways I've had over 100 threesomes just with Liz and I've had a whole bunch more. I've been having threesomes since

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2009. It's awesome. Like there's certain things you can you can't do like you can in oneonone like like a girl can be sucking your dick and you're making out with another girl. You can never be making out with a girl while she's

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sucking your dick. It's it can only happen in a threesome or you have two girls sucking your dick at the same time or you know it it's it's awesome. Uh you go out with a bisexual girlfriend or rotation girl that you're already

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sleeping with. You get into the venue. Um let's see. Um one sec. Forgot I have to email a lawyer something here real quick.

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Um, one sec. Okay. All right. Sorry, I had to get that out before because it's almost end of the day for people in the US. To get something out to the lawyer. So, okay. You You walk in the venue. I'll

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make a quick summary here. You walk in the venue. You both choose a girl that you like. I send the girl I'm with in first and she goes in and typically gives the girl a compliment and tells her she's really pretty. So, she comes

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up, "Oh, wow. You're really pretty." The girl lights up. Oh, thank you so much.

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What's your name? Oh, I'm Liz. Blah blah blah. This and that. They're, you know, connecting, bonding, whatever. I come in maybe a minute later and I say, "Hey, this is my girl. We we really thought you were sexy." Right? And we flirt a

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bit more. And then typically Liz will get into a makeout with the girl. You have your girl get into a makeout and you can facilitate that by if they go to the dance floor and start dancing close and then it off of oftentimes will lead

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to kissing or they you know you just have your girl get more and more physical with her and then ask to kiss her. And then once they're kissing I say oh does she kiss well? Yes. Oh, let me

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see how she kisses. And then I triple make out. And then we invite her to go back and there's usually little to no objections because objections are typically coming from the the standpoint of they need to make sure that you're

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safe, that you're high value enough, that you're not a creep, etc. But when you're with a hot girl, it shortcircuits that approval process because another hot girl has already vetted you. So it can actually be quite easy when you know

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what you're doing to to pull girls um from cold approach. And so I've done that countless times. The other big way we tried making a joint Tinder profile, but that wasn't super successful. So, the way we do it online is I

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have my own individual profile. I set up a date one-on-one with a girl and then like an hour before the date I say, "Hey, I'm with a group of friends and there's a girl in my group." Well, I

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showed the picture of you because we're going on a date and I showed I showed it to my group of friends and there's a girl in my group that thinks you're really pretty. Do you want to see pictures of her? They almost always say

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yes. I would send the best pictures of Liz or whatever girl I was dealing with.

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They say, "Wow, she's really pretty, too." And then I say, "She wants the three of us to hang out." Now, keep in mind, they're already getting ready for the date. They already, you know, you already got your foot in the door. Oh,

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wow. She's pretty. And it looks like it's a third party request coming from the other girl, not coming from you. And I say I'm in a group so that it doesn't look like I'm one-on-one with some girl.

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And then she's like, who's this girl he's with? One-on-one. Why are they one-on-one? You see what I'm saying? So, that's it. And then, you know, if they say no, I say, "Okay, I'll tell her no." you know, let's just hang out with the

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two of us then and it's fine. Then you then you just hang out oneonone. But if they say yes, then you meet up the three of you and then you know you get to know each other, make small talk and then you

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just lead into escalation. Those are the two major ways. And then there's like threesome apps like field fe.

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We had like we we bang this stunner in Paris. We use that when we're on vacation sometimes, but there's not that many users on it.

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So hopefully that makes sense. I have a video called um threesome blueprint that's ex that goes into full detail on on the threesome strategies.

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So let me put let me put the link to that for you guys. Um, where the [ \_\_ ] is it?

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There's all these three. I can't find the one I'm looking for. Let me ask someone on my team.

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Yeah, I I don't know where the [ \_\_ ] it is right now, but I will I will share with you guys.

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You allowed to share the big new. No, unfortunately it's a huge victory, but I can't I'm not He doesn't want me saying it in public because it could affect the case.

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Um, so sorry. I'll share when I can and it'll have to be in a specific way.

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Um, I started doing Botox in 2021. and and the way the dermatologist explained, he pulls down on your on your face over time. And so when you start doing Botox, you're just freezing it at the current level that it's been pulled

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down at. So it helps here, it helps up up here, and it helps here. So they have you like do these faces like this, this, and and the big smile, and then they put the spots, and you have to redo it every

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four or five months. Um, it just like paralyzes the skin so that it it won't uh it won't be pulled down by gravity.

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All I just set this [ \_\_ ] hot 2020 20 hot 22y old. Um, how do you pick a practitioner? Uh, we just went to like the best one in the city.

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I don't like to [ \_\_ ] around. When I when I did the hair transplant, same thing.

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So, just just look at reviews and do your research. Or if you know someone that got a really good job, like I like I've sent friends to my hair transplant guy just because it worked out really well for me.

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Let me see what's up with this [ \_\_ ] Uber [ \_\_ ] Um, one sec.

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All right. But yeah, when when you have so many on the roster like I do, and that's not even there's like a whole bunch of new ones that are not even on that list yet that I've been sleeping with recently.

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It the thing is is that like Okay, so imagine what was it was like 37 girls.

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Imagine you have 37 stacked like very hot girl. All way hotter than Sophie Rain. Sophie Rain's embarrassing. It's insane. Like the standards people have in the US. It's crazy.

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Um, now out of that 37, let's say one becomes a huge [ \_\_ ] Do I need to put up with that when I have 36 others? Not at all. Never. So depending on how out of control it is, they'll either get cut

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off or they'll get a very firm warning. And if it continues, I I've had to drop 9.5s multiple times. And in the in the earlier days of game, that kind of [ \_\_ ] I would never even consider that in a

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million years. Me and Josh, who who I started the original company with, we always used to joke how we would put up with so much [ \_\_ ] from girls in the earlier days because you don't know when

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you're going to have access to another hot girl. When you have a full team like and much more, it's like it's it's like insane. 37 girls, you don't need one bad apple making your life difficult and and oh, but she's

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hot. So are all the rest. Who gives a [ \_\_ ] That's not even relevant, right?

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Like, yeah, I'd still like to bang her, but not on those conditions. Not on those terms. She's acting out of control.

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Do we live in a simulation? Okay. I don't think we do, but I my honest answer is I really don't know. So, I took a class for my philosophy major called metaphysics.

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Physics is everything that is measurable and then all the laws that we know about in the empirical world. Metaphysics is what you know goes on goes on beyond physics that we don't know about. And so there's a theory of

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reality and truth called the pragmatic theory of truth which is what I personally subscribe to which means I believe in everything within our empirical limits and all that we can derive from our from within our empirical limits and what's beyond our

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empirical limits I don't know because it's precisely not measurable and precisely not you know visible with our senses and So whether or not we live in a simulation, it falls in that category where I just don't know. People try to make the

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argument like Nick Bostonramm famously argues that the more times we can simulate reality, like if we can simulate all of reality like millions of times or billions of times, then it makes it more likely he argues that we

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personally live in a simulation. I disagree with that. I don't think it impacts the probability at all because it's outside of there there's a word called epistemology. So when you say it's outside of our epistemic limits, we simply do not have access to that

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knowledge currently. Right? As our knowledge of the universe expands and will continue to expand with artificial intelligence as new information comes to light, then you can reconcile the nature of reality and truth based on that new information.

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But to speculate beyond the limits of our empirical knowledge is simply just that pure speculation. And it it lies in the realm of just making assumptions. So since we do not have epistemic access to whether or not we're in a simulation,

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right? You could you could go to like the philosopher Dart who said, "Well, we could just be a brain in a vat." Sure.

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Hypothetically. Do we have evidence for that? No. Should we think that we are? Should we think that we're a brain in a vat? I don't know. Right. Okay. This chick that lives far away is on our way.

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Finally got the Uber. Um, let's see. One sec. Okay. All right. So, yeah, I my my answer is I don't have any [ \_\_ ] clue and neither do any of you and I don't think we can assess a probability to it just because

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we can simulate this current world. That doesn't say anything about the nature of reality itself. Just that we simulation does not change probabilities for me.

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That's my view on that. What is my single best win? One where you got a girl to do what whatever you wanted.

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I mean, I've had all kinds of adventures with with threesomes, four sums, five sums. Like 2021 was a particularly crazy year because we were living with four hot Brazilian girls. We were having threesomes, foursomes, and five sums in

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the house on on demand any time. Plus, I had eight threesome girls on the side that were coming and [ \_\_ ] other girls in the house with me. Then I had the 17 girl side rotation, which probably was

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much higher than 17 as we've now seen when we actually look through the list.

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And also seeing new girls and also going out to clubs with the with the girls from the house and pulling groups of hot girls. Like talk about abundance. Who the [ \_\_ ] is doing any of that? Who the

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[ \_\_ ] is doing all of that? Me. And I had to go and and argue with all the red pillars who are who are trying to treat their fat middle-aged wives like dogs.

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It's just a complete disconnect. It's like, wow, congratulations. You guys can control the social media accounts of these fat pigs and and not let them look at men in public and not let them order food and all this stuff. And I'm over

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here living like a celebrity and rockstar even better. What kind of watch do I wear from surf farts a lot? Um it's a boss.

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I like the the brand of their watches. So, most of my watches are boss, but I have a I like to have a gold one, a silver one, a black one, and then I have like a blue band depending on the

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outfit. I That's what chooses the color. Thoughts on Coach Kyle? Everyone asks these stupid things every stream. Go look on my channel for videos on Coach Kyle and you will find out my thoughts.

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of the guys in the US who go to bars or clubs specifically to meet women on a given night, what percentage actually go home with a woman they met that night?

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Not a lot. Like like look around. You don't typically see women leaving with guys. You don't typically see guys cold approaching. People usually go with the group that they came with, drink beer, stand against the wall or or like

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staring at the hot girls, and they just point out the hot girls to their friends and imagine what it would be like to bang them rather than talk to them.

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That's pretty much how everyone's acting. So, I don't know what percentage. I wonder if they've done studies on that.

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Let me just do a quick Google. What percentage? What was the question exactly? What percentage of men in the USA? No. No. What percentage in the USA? What percentage of men go home with a woman from a bar or club?

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No. Not what percentage of men in the USA on a given night out to a bar or club, what percentage of men go home with a woman they met that night?

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I don't even know how accurate this will be if there's some [ \_\_ ] thing.

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There's no precise officially tracked public health or consensus data census data for this exact statistic, but sociological data and community consensus estimates fewer than 5% of men go home with a woman they met that same night.

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Logistical and safety hurdles. Pulling off a same night hookup requires navigating logistics such as transportation, friend groups staying together, as well as the woman's comfort and safety boundaries.

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Yeah. So, less than 5%. Most guys have no [ \_\_ ] clue how to pull. And it's not easy. Well, I think it's easy. It's easy once you know how, but to the normal guy, it's not it's not

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easy. I want to say I enjoy your motivation and life videos on your channel. Thank you.

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You're welcome. Yeah. New coach on my team who's over 400 lay count just sent me a picture of his rotation girl with a big ass.

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Got to love big asses. Okay. Um How do I think that number compares to Brazil?

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I don't [ \_\_ ] know. I mean, there there's not there's not like me too culture here. There's not like a whole bunch of barrier. The girls aren't easy, but there's not a lot of like stigmas around hookup stuff or sexual stuff.

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I've had plenty of girls, you know, not want to [ \_\_ ] on a first date or not want to come. Tons won't come straight to the house. Some won't go past kissing. You know, it seems to be it seems to line up

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a little bit with with America in some way. Let me let me just search just for the [ \_\_ ] [ \_\_ ] of it.

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I already still have the question up, so I'll just change it to Brazil. It just says there's no track percentage.

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Brazil has a well-known, highly expressive culture where casual kissing and hooking up without commitment is okay. But going all the way home together on the very first night is much less common than casual physical interaction inside the venue. Yeah, that

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kind of lines up with what I've seen. Um, any good book recommendations? One of my favorite books, it's called The Singularity is Near by Ray Kurtzwell. He forecasted that AI intelligence would surpass human intelligence in 2029.

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Damn, we've already gone four hours and 15 minutes. Time [ \_\_ ] flies on these on these lives.

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But that's what true abundance looks like. Having a stacked roster of stunners, you know, with a very long list. There's not time to see all of them. And then when anyone acts out, it gets annoying, gets boring, stops

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[ \_\_ ] well, you know, starts becoming too high maintenance, you just say, "Listen, I don't want to [ \_\_ ] put up with that." And if they want to continue acting that way, you just cut them off

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and you don't even think twice about it. It's like, "Yeah, I'm going to miss banging her a little bit, but I have so many others." It's actually when you cut girls off, it act it actually makes your stress a little less because it gives

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you more time. Um, it gives you more time to see all the others. Um, how much could a master poker player make a year playing live cash games 40 hours a week?

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um a lot. Let's see if I had to estimate. Um depends on what limit you're playing.

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Depends on where you're where you're playing. Um I just did a quick Googling. It says if you're playing midstakes like 225, you can make 100k a year. playing high stakes, which is what you'd want to be doing. The competition will be stronger,

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but you can make 400k to over a million plus. You can make a ton of money from tournaments like Phil Ivy, Daniel Negrronu, Phil Helmu, um Doyle Brunson, a lot of the best guys have made a [ \_\_ ] ton

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in tournaments. If you look at There's a site called Hend the Henden Mob that ranks everybody with their public earnings reports.

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I'm looking at the alltime money guys. The top one is 91 million. That's why people think it's like a game of luck.

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It's it's a game of skill. It's and it's the only game where you can win a [ \_\_ ] ton in the long run. Every game in a casino, you're against the house and the house is guaranteed to win in the long

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run. There's no way to beat the house unless you cheat. Like if you if you like count cards and in black blackjack for instance. Um which is not, you know, the casinos don't allow that. So anything that gives

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you an edge over the casino, they don't allow. But in poker, you're not against the house, you're against other players.

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And so it's a skill game. And the house like rakes the pot, which is basically attacks on your wings, but it doesn't really impact you very much. And so if you get very good like they say in the movie Rounders, Matt Damon is

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playing like a pok a professional poker player. He says, "Why do the same people get to the final table of the World Series of Poker every single year? Are they the luckiest people in the world, right?" He's like, "It's a SK" He's

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like, "It's a skill game." So that's what drew me to it. I I got really really really good and I was like high up on the leaderboards when I was in college. I was playing um live games, but I I was playing online a

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lot. I was playing across three monitors, four games on each screen. So, I was playing 12 games at once, and I got very very good. I I read like seven books on it, and I just started ripping, just [ \_\_ ] tearing it up,

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winning tournaments and [ \_\_ ] And I have friends that are in the professional poker circuit that that said they they think I could have been the best guy or one of the best guys just because I'm so

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good at optimizing systems. If I had put all my time into that instead of this, um, I might have been able to take it pretty far. But once I got into game, I I I pretty much stopped playing poker. I

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mean, I I'll still play like they have they have poker rooms in S. Paulo, and I'll go in and [ \_\_ ] whoop people's ass sometimes, but I just don't I'm just not as into it as I used to be.

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But if you look at the like the top 10, 91 million, 80 million, 77 million, 70 million, 69 million, 66 million, 65 million, 61 million. Daniel Negrrono is ninth with 60 million. Phil Ivy is 11th with 56 million.

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And that's a lot of [ \_\_ ] money for playing cards, especially when people mistakenly classify it as gambling.

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Like the better your skill, the more you minimize the luck component in poker. Um, my coach said just heard in the live about the ass pickic. Yeah, that was a nice a nice ass. It's too bad we can't

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show that stuff. Um, all right. Yeah, I just set this [ \_\_ ] new hot 22-y old. That'll be 201108.

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That's the thing. You got this giant roster of hot girls that are always begging. Like I had one yesterday like the blonde with the fake tits. I mean, there's a bunch of them, but one of the blondes with the the fake tits hit me

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up. He's like, "I really want to see you. Can you come over right now?" And I was with a girl. I I banged three stunners yesterday and there was a hot blonde that I had to leave hanging.

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There were two others that wanted to see me at night that I couldn't see because there's no there was no time. Every day there's like two to five [ \_\_ ] girls minimum left hanging that wanted to that

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wanted to hang out that I that I don't see that wanted to meet. And so it's a much different lifestyle than these, you know, fake jerk off retards that are running around pretending to be killing it or or

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pretending to know what the [ \_\_ ] they're doing. How did I get so good at the game?

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I'm a master at optimizing skill games. I I got extremely good at poker extremely quickly. I read seven books on it. I started winning tournaments out of the gate. The first tournament I actually placed third, but uh I'm just

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very good at internalizing a whole set of stuff. I I like broke all these records in school with typing. I hit 100 words per minute within like a month or two. I I learned how to juggle five balls within like two months just

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casually practicing. It's supposed to take a year minimum. Um I got very good at chess very quickly. I got very good at stock trading very quickly.

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That's why I ended up working on nuclear missile defense. I'm just extremely analytical and extremely good at optimizing systems. So after I I read Mystery's book, The Mystery Method, and I listened to it on audiobook probably at least 30 more times. I'm not joking.

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And the first time out doing Mystery Method, I got like four makeouts. I got stunners numbers. I was implementing all the most advanced stuff from his book on the first night out. And then I hunted all around the world for anybody better

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than me at any area of the game. Who's better than me at day game? Who's better than me at retaining the girls? Who's better than me at texting? Who's better than me at pulling? Who's better than me at online game? And I would vacuum up

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all the knowledge I could from them and adapt my system accordingly. And I still am always looking for anybody better than me at any area. Can't find it for a long time. But that's how it got so good

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is and and I always looked at what I could improve. No set, no interaction has ever run perfectly. So you always analyze and you look for any little, you know, [ \_\_ ] in your armor, so to speak,

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any little weakness that you can fix. And that's what keeps it so fun. It's never it's never ever fully mastered.

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It's it's you know less return for the refinements these days but there's still mistakes being made all the time for everybody that even the best guys. So, like I remember in 2013 there was a night I pulled and banged a hot girl,

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came back out, pulled and banged a hot girl and there was a third girl that was the hottest one that was waiting for me to call her to come bang her at like 2 a.m. when the when the bar was closing

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and I forgot cuz I was banging the second one and then I hit her up at like 4:00 a.m. and she was already asleep and then she flew out the next morning and I was like bitching to my friends I should

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have had an alarm so I called the girl. She messaged me in the morning like, "Oh, I waited for you for an hour and you didn't you didn't hit me up." It was like this hot doctor chick in in Vegas.

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And my friends were like, "Dude, we we don't want to hear you complaining about how you didn't bang the third girl. You got laid twice with hot girls. We didn't [ \_\_ ] anybody." But it was precisely that, you know, beating myself up

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beating myself up over any uh mistakes or missteps that honed it in so solid.

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And that's how that's how I have the best results for my clients industry. You guys are plugging into two decades of optimizations by a systems optimizer.

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Like, what more could you ask for? And there's still guys that are like, "Dr. I don't know if it'll work for me. D, I don't know if it's gonna help." Of course, it's gonna [ \_\_ ] help. It's

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gonna help you master this game and achieve all your wildest dreams. That's what happens thousands and thousands and thousands of times. And we have endless proof of that happening, right? So, you can be the next success story this week or even today. You got

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to book a free call at planingsystem.com. You don't need to [ \_\_ ] 2,000 girls. You don't need to build up a roster of 37, right? But you do need to [ \_\_ ] learn the fundamentals of how this [ \_\_ ] works.

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You do need to do that. Um, but yeah, that's how it that's how it got so [ \_\_ ] good. And a lot of you guys don't know.

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And we're going to have to wrap up soon. We're already at four, excuse me, four and a half hours. This girl's on the way. I got to [ \_\_ ] eat drink water.

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I've had water sitting here. Haven't drank it cuz I've been talking. But um in 2012 I was recruited from the forums where I was like a superstar and there was a site called top beasts.com and what they did is they put together

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the guys organized this. They put together the top 30 best pickup artists in the world according to our reputations, our field reports, um other trusted people that could vouch for us, our field I already said field reports, our technical breakdowns of the game,

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our our level of proof, etc. I was in there, Josh was in there, Connor was in there, other other guys I'm still friends with today that are coaches on my team today were in there. That's how a lot of us met.

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And I just befriended all of them. And I, you know, had extensive conversations with most of them and I figured out exactly what everybody was doing at all the different parts of the game. And I looked at what

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I was doing, what I knew worked versus what I had heard from naturals, what I had heard from mystery, what what what all these guys were doing. And I did a massive comparative analysis and found the common overlap in key

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areas. This was in 2012. And that formed the basis of my system. And then what happened from there?

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Let me show you what happened once I formed the basis of the system. In 2012, this happened, right? Look at the progress. 2002 to 2012, it took 10 years to 100 girls and then it [ \_\_ ] exploded. And from 100

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to a,000, it was almost pure exponential and then it leveled off a little bit because I was in Eastern Europe where they're more conservative and prude and then it picked up again.

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Um, but this was the result of thinking about game all the time, analyzing game all the time, constantly finding anybody better than me at any area, constantly scanning the system for weak spots so I can improve it, constantly split testing and innovating

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new ideas to to fix areas that were weak or suboptimal. And I'm very proud of it. Very proud of my own results. I'm very proud of the results I've been able to deliver for clients. A lot of you still haven't seen

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our testimonials page. We have thousands of testimonials. Drop it in in the the chat for you guys.

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Thousands of testimonials. And and the proof is overwhelming. There there's just story after story after story after story of helping guys achieve their dream dating goals.

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But the way that it the way that it got that way, like I said, I I was already very good right away because I'm so good at um optim like I'm so good at mastering skills. So like with poker, I read books

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by all the top players and then I just started playing and crushing out of the gate. With mystery method, I started crushing out of the gate. I was already demolishing out of the gate. So, I got very good at this very quickly and then

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um I I just kept optimizing it from there. It's just been two decades of optimization, right? And so everything is built on it's not, oh, I think this is the best way or it's my opinion that this should

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work. It's all been relentlessly um it's all been relentlessly data tested and every piece of advice that I'm giving is is what's been proven to work the best and that's why it's in the system.

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All right, this chick's on the way but she's still an hour hour and 10 minutes away.

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So, we'll go a little bit longer and then I'm going to go eat plow this chick and then I got to plow the the next one after it.

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Yeah, I have a sheet. I have a shirt that says fresh cream pies served daily.

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Do you think any new major game revelations can still happen? Absolutely. Absolutely. And I I would love nothing more than to be a part of that. It's always been a dream of mine to go really deep with mystery. Like the level of

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experience and and skill and data that he has is unmatched, right? like like besides guys like myself and guys like Bradus like me and Bradicus have tens of thousands of phone numbers quite literally and we we've been in tens of thousands

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of interactions thousands of dates you know thousands of of hookups. So, and I didn't even track nonsex hookups.

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Like all the girls and and there's tons that just gave a [ \_\_ ] or just gave a hand job, not even tracked as as a close because it didn't close. So, I didn't track I wish I had tracked nonsex

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hookups, but there's tons and tons and tons more where we didn't [ \_\_ ] or we did other [ \_\_ ] and it was still awesome and it just never got recorded.

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Um, but yeah, I mean there there's definitely I would love to improve on the 10% close rate because it's always bothered me that so many leads slip through the cracks. It sucks having to put all that work to get 10 phone

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numbers just to close one, right? It would be better to close even two out of 10. But for all the best guys, everyone lands around 10%. There's plenty of people claiming they can close 90 or 100% of the phone numbers and they're

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just lying. So again um I stood on the shoulders of giants. I was lucky to start with mystery method and not some [ \_\_ ] scam [ \_\_ ] Um, and then I I hunted out all the best

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guys. I was put naturally in a group with them on the top beast forum. And then a lot of them became my close friends and wingmen and are now coaches on my team. And I've always had a, you

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know, a tremendous love for the game. So I I put in the blood, sweat, and tears.

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At the height of my cold approaching, I was going out six or seven nights a week. The first 400 girls I banged were all cold approached pretty much. There was there was no online.

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Um, and you know, I I used to I used to just [ \_\_ ] like if you ask Josh, "What was it like living with John?" Morning after going out, pacing back and forth for two or three hours, breaking

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down every little interaction, every little detail, writing on whiteboards, you know, replaying stuff. It's like a lot a lot of [ \_\_ ] work went into making this system, right? You guys buy a product or or you come on the coaching

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and you get really good really fast. And people don't understand how much time, how much effort, how much analysis, how much split testing, how much optimization went into all of this to make this possible. And so that's why I

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take huge issue that 99% of the industry is full of people that are full of [ \_\_ ] that are lying, that are scamming, that are exploiting men, that are exploiting their suffering for monetary profit.

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I came at this from the pure side of of loving the game and mastering the game and then I turned it into a business.

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Almost everybody else came in with no skills or knowledge of the game just to exploit people for money.

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What's the earliest clear sign in open that tells you to keep going versus play exiting within the first 30 to 60 seconds? Compliance. You just look at compliance. That's it.

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If she's standoffish or aloof, I try to get her to course correct. If she won't, I leave.

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It's that simple. If they continue being non-compliant despite your due diligence, I I instantly leave.

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AAM's razor is very helpful. Are there any movies about or related to game that you recommend? Um, they're not realistic in in the way they present the game, but two of my favorite related to the game are Hitch, which is

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pretty well known, with Will Smith, where he's like helping uh Kevin James, who's like an overweight client, helps him to to get a girl, and Will Smith is after Ava Menddees, and then he gets like trashed in the

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news. And I I can relate to all that. And then the other the other big one is Crazy Stupid Love where Ryan Gosling's like a pickup artist and a and a coach and he's helping Steve Carell like get

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his mojo back quote unquote. I can just relate to a lot of those experiences from from having coached. Um so yeah, those are probably two of my favorite. But for those of you that want to pick up AAM's Razor,

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it's ultimate seductionsystem.com. Um, AAM's razor, my total system, I'm dropping that for you guys in the chat.

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Um, how do I find motivation in the game and work after all these years? Yeah, that's a pretty interesting and fascinating question because a lot of guys I know that got pretty good, they got bored with going out. They got bored with

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seeing girls. They got bored with I've never gotten bored of it. Not even a little bit. Like I love doing game. I love hanging out with hot chicks. I love [ \_\_ ] hot chicks. I love winning over new hot

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chicks. Um and I love helping guys. So I will, you know, well, we'll see what happens. But I don't plan on ever retiring from the game, and I don't plan on ever retiring from coaching. I'm sure the world will transform pretty

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substantially over the next two, three years but you know, this is what I devoted my life to. It's like if a guy became a grandmaster in chess, it's hard to like put the chess board down and stop playing chess or stop

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helping others progress with their skill level in chess. So I find a great deal of satisfaction and fulfillment in helping other guys who used to be in the situation that I was in, namely shy, lacking confidence, etc., and help them to

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um what's it called? Um achieve their their wildest dreams. Like look at Craig. He was one of my favorite examples. He was a two lay count. He tried from age 32 to 42, paying tens of thousands of dollars

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to other coaches. He's like a nerdy lawyer type guy. And nobody got him laid at all. So he was on a 10-year dry spell. And the two lays that he had had were were not with cute chicks. He

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signed up for my 8week program. He got seven lays in eight weeks. He went on to have threesomes, bang stunners. He's into BDSM and kinky stuff. He did all that with different girls. He had hot girls cooking him dinner on his

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birthday. play multiple hawk girls separately. Um he's over 100 lay count now and he's doing all the stuff that was only part of his fantasies, stuff that he jerked off to in porn and you know he's living out his wildest dreams now

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and he he's it's still the same guy, same job, dresses the same. He said even dresses worse than when he was on that dry spell. And I bring on the channel and guys are like, "Wait, wait, wait.

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How tall is Craig? He's like 6'1 or 6'2. And they're like, well, that's why. It's like, no, he he was that same height at two leg count.

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He was that same height on the 10-year dry spell. The determining factor was he trained with me and I and I optimized everything for him and allowed him to achieve his full potential. And I can do that for anybody watching. How would you

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like to actually have threesomes, actually bang girls above a nine? He pulled a threesome from a club with with two strangers, which is not easy. Well, he didn't bring a girl out he was already sleeping with. He pulled these

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two Asian girls cold. Proud of the guy, right? And he he still looks and acts like a nerd. Doesn't [ \_\_ ] matter.

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Games far better than these little looks maxing kids. Even though he's nerdy and awkward, doesn't matter because he knows how this [ \_\_ ] works now. So, and that never gets old. I help guys like that every week. I I help guys lose their

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virginity all the time. I help guys break their dry spell. I help them achieve their goals after getting back from a divorce. I help them run up a big lake if they want to, find their dream girlfriend if they want to, find their

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dream wife if they want to. And so I I enjoy a lot making people's dreams come true in this field.

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And then as for, you know, having motivation in the game, I I it never gets old for me to bang hot chicks. It like I have this new hot 22-year-old tomorrow. I'm already super excited about it, right? like but I have all

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these other hot girls too. It's it just you know it's like the gift that keeps on giving when you get good at um at the game. Very good.

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It just you know it just keeps making your life awesome, right? Like what what could be better than dating a whole bunch of stunners? like 37 of them where I guess like maybe like the core team is closer to like 20 25 or

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something. But um you know of all like the best body stuff that you like bunch with fake tits and beautiful faces, they all have great asses. Like nobody on the rotation has an average or below average ass.

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They all have exceptional asses. Uh they all have beautiful faces, you know, like um what could be better than that? But I also have a wife I love. I also have three dogs that I love, right? And I'm

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also able to teach this for a living when it's my passion. So even though I have to deal with death threats and business attacks and defamation and, you know, people banning my YouTube channel, people banning my Instagram channel, I'm

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doing fine. Like, you know, I've done well for myself financially. The business has done well. The business is scaling. The business is continuing to do very well.

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We're helping more and more guys. Once we launch this dating app and and we're making my courses being taught in a interactive AI coach format, we're going to be able to go hardcore mainstream and and really reach a [ \_\_ ] ton more people, right? I'm going

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to be on this HBO documentary, all three parts of the series coming out before the end of the year, and that's going to advertise my brand and my Platinum Dating System booking page. So, you know, I I can't complain. Um I I won a

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landmark defamation case, right? Like life life is good. So, I find motivation just in my sheer passion for the game, passion for banging and and dating hot chicks, pushing the game as far as I can, you know, to to the

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levels of optimization that I can. um and you know, building the company bigger and bigger and and helping more and more guys. It's all incredibly uh satisfying for me and and I'm I'm happy to have this opportunity. I'm

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happy to be back on YouTube, you know. So, I can't um can't complain. All right, we'll do we'll do a few more.

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I want to remind you guys again for anybody that came in late, we have my new intergame product. If you came in late and you missed some of the explanations of the with the flowchart stuff in the beginning of the live, I

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encourage you to go back and watch that. The product is on sale for $97 through Sunday night and then it goes up to $249.

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So, if you're considering it, I highly recommend you get it. It's going to teach you everything I know about inner game.

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Um, let me grab you guys that threesome blueprint video. I said I would get that for you. It's not coming up on YouTube for some reason, but let me grab it on on Rumble.

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Actually, let me grab it on Odyssey. It's easier to search the videos there. But this is like the full blueprint on Here it is.

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How to get regular threesomes. Threesome blueprint. Um, let me drop this for you. Threesome blueprint video. How to get threesomes from online and cold approach.

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This goes into full detail. It's a super valuable video. All right. I just dropped that for you guys. It's on Odyssey.

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Odyssey is like a backup that we use for content. Um, do you advise guy Do you advise against guys who are at zero to lower their standards just to get used to being around women? No. The the problem is, as

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I've said many times before, if you bang girls that are below your standards, it's going to [ \_\_ ] up your your inner game and your your view about yourself.

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Because even if nobody finds out that you banged a fat chick, you know, and then what does that tell you about yourself that you're willing to go bang [ \_\_ ] you know, fat chicks or ugly chicks? So,

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you know, it it isn't that hard to to pick up a seven or even like a 65, but I wouldn't go, you know, sleeping with girls below like a six.

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Um, for the reasons I just stated. And again, like I can take you, anybody watching, I can make you very good very quickly. It's not that hard.

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Can a guy over 35 still be able to attract and date women in their early to mid20s? Yes.

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We have countless clients in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, even 70s that date girls in their 20s.

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All right, here's a good one. If you're starting back over from zero, you're on a budget, and the closest big cities are an hour away, how would you go about gaining leads and building a new rotation?

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So, I would install AI profile Tinder, normal picture profile Tinder Bumble Hinge and Facebook dating. I would go out Friday, Saturday night, minimum, blocked off, guaranteed to go do cold approach.

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I might hit the mall on like a Sunday during the day. Since you're on a budget, just do coffee dates um or date straight to the house.

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closest big cities are an hour away. So I would drive on Fridays and Saturdays to the big city to the venues to go out and then I would meet girls and when I'm getting their phone number I would say,

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"Are you willing to come visit me? I live an hour away. Are you willing to come out there?" If they're if they're not willing, I wouldn't take their number. And then for the dating apps, I would set my distance to encompass that

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big city. And in every match I get, I would say, are you willing to come an hour away to visit? And if they weren't, I would unmatch. So, it's a function of building volume through that big city that's an hour away, keeping your cost

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down by doing dates straight to the house, and just coffee dates, and then screening to find out who's willing to come visit you. And if it's a really hot one, I might consider driving out to the big city. And I'd try to [ \_\_ ] her at

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[ \_\_ ] her at her house. Aside from Hitch and Crazy Super Love, are there any other good movies about the game that you'd recommend?

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Um, not coming to mind right now. I mean, those are the two those are the two major ones. There was supposed to be a movie about like pickup artists. James Franco was supposed to play mystery, but it got

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shelved. Um, if anybody knows any other ones, I might just be forgetting some stuff.

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Those are those are like the two that I always think of. Let me know in the chat if there's any other you can think of.

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[ \_\_ ] almost did five hours. Yeah, he wasn't in very good shape. That's usually not really relevant as long as you're not like he wasn't fat, but he wasn't in shape.

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But again, the the the lion share of the equation is behavior. women respond to be uh survival on replication value.

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See how far away this chick is. All these chicks show up with like [ \_\_ ] lingerie and [ \_\_ ] too. They look all hot. 50 50 minutes away. I got to eat and all that as well. Um

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mark this down. I'm going to be going live every Friday at 12:00 p.m. Eastern.

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That's for sure. every Friday 12:00 pm Eastern without fail. And I typically go for four or five hours, at least three.

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Um, I'll try to sneak in a second stream if I can, if I, you know, if I, if I want to and I have time, and I'll announce that stuff in the Discord.

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The Discord is free to join. Even if you don't have Discord, you can go click the Discord link, download Discord, and I'll announce in there when I'm going live, but I might do one with Bradus during the week, either on his channel

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or my channel. But again, I'll let you I'll let you guys know in in the Discord.

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[ \_\_ ] we're 10 minutes away from five hours. When a woman is giving mixed signals, engaging but not escalating or escalating then pulling back, what's your default next move? And how often has that default actually worked?

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I'm just looking to see if it seems on or not. Okay, so I have an infield on the channel about objections. Let me see.

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[ \_\_ ] test. I think we called it [ \_\_ ] test. Let me find it.

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I actually got this girl pregnant. She was the reason I got the vasectomy. It was a proving girl I got pregnant. I got the vasectomy afterwards.

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I don't know if we have this on the channel still. Oh, here's a video I did five years ago with Liz on the beach. Oops.

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about Amogs, which is hilarious given the the modern looks maxing craze. This is a This is my uh Brazilian wife, Liz. This is 5 years ago. We met in February 2020 and got married in July 2021. The guy comes in,

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hey, blah. Like, like, oh, I saw that guy like talking to a lot of people before. Like, he's kind of [ \_\_ ] a little bit weird, blah blah, right?

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We're coming off of uh Five Sun last night, by the way. Um, we can make we can make a separate video about that, but um that's worth a whole another video just going over the tactics of everything here. I'll drop that video for you guys.

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Five years ago dealing with emogs. Do I plan on bringing on more guests? I mean, I don't collaborate with scammers or people that are full of [ \_\_ ] so it really limits who I can collaborate with. But I'll be doing a bunch with

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Bradicus on my channel and his channel. And um uh I'll be bringing Paul Jenka on again, but I only bring on legit guys that are doing good that that actually have a bunch of game. This is how to deal with

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a featuring my wife Liz on the beach. um see seven more minutes to clear five hours.

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[ \_\_ ] What's the biggest mistake most guys make when they go to bars, specifically to meet women, that almost guarantees they go home alone?

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I mean, if you're asking, like the reason why I'm hesitating is cuz like it would be a good night to just get a whole bunch of phone numbers and still go home alone. So, I don't know if it's

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specifically about pulling or not. If it if it's why do most guys go home alone rather than pull a girl home to [ \_\_ ] it's because they don't know how to pull they don't know how to invite the girl

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back home. They don't know how to answer objections that she has to coming back home with them. But if we're talking about what's the biggest mistake they make in general in night game at bars and clubs, I would say not moving things

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forward. So that can start in the beginning where they don't even approach because they're scared. So, you have your category of guys that just go out and don't approach at all. You have no chance with any girl if you don't approach them. Then you

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have your category of guys that go and approach and have conversations, but they don't move it forward and they don't ask the girl to come home with them or they don't ask for their phone number. And so, you don't get a gold

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star just for having five or 10 great conversations. The whole [ \_\_ ] purpose is to bang them. And you can't bang them without bringing them home that night or bringing them out on a date and then taking them home.

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So most guys are like spinning their wheels. They're they're either just standing around with their friends, not making any moves or they're going interactions and and having conversations that lead to nowhere and not getting the girl's phone phone number and not inviting them home.

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That's what I would say. All right, we have f I'm literally just going to do five more minutes and we're stopping.

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Um, one second. All right. See, I'm supposed to see So, this this hot new 22-year-old that wants to meet tomorrow, there's like four other girls scheduled tomorrow.

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There's a 2pm. Actually, there's a 2pm, a 3pm, two 7 p.m., this new one will be a 6 p.m., and then there's a 10 p.m. You see, it gets a little stressful sometimes cuz it's like, how the [ \_\_ ] am I going to see all

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these girls? And after you've after you've um, you know, busted like three or four nuts for the day, you're pretty much good.

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I'm pretty much good after after seeing a couple of them. But it's it's so it's almost like you have to go and [ \_\_ ] service all these girls just keep them happy, which I guess I shouldn't be complaining

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about. Thank you. And and with, you know, flaking rescheduling, every day is like chaotic in terms of having to reschedule girls around. Anyways, the new one said she's going to wear something hot tomorrow on the date.

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22-year-old. Can you still date 22 year olds when you're 30 or 35? I'm [ \_\_ ] 43. I don't give a [ \_\_ ] I'll I'll still do this when I'm [ \_\_ ] 60. The world will be totally different though in like

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two or three years. So, but stop caring about how [ \_\_ ] old you are. There's ton There's tons of girls um that um prefer guys over 30 or even over 40.

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All right, you guys have me for two more minutes. Get your questions in. Any last good questions? Got to [ \_\_ ] piss.

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Five hours straight here. Do you have deeply held beliefs about human relationships which you don't talk about?

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I think most people suck. Like compared to dogs, like dogs are like pure and and innocent.

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and just give love. Like all all three of our dogs are like three of my favorite creatures ever. Whereas people tend to let you down unfortunately.

298:42

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You know, most people are willing to backstab or [ \_\_ ] people over, hurt people, and be selfish and and that kind of stuff. Um, that's just that's just human nature, I guess, which is unfortunate.

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How is the world going to be totally different in two or three years? Oh, let's see. Uh, we're about to hit closed feedback loop recursive self-improvement where we have autonomous systems improving themselves only limited by the speed of light. I wonder what will

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happen. Just wait. Just wait. It It's about to become a literal intelligence explosion. Okay. Right now, it's progressing.

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Well, it's always been pro progressing double exponentially, but people are starting to notice because the pace is getting faster and faster and faster and faster. It's about to get so fast that we're not even able to follow it as

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unenhanced humans. By unenhanced I mean non-cyborg humans which may make me sound crazy but we will be merging with machines and becoming the the non-biological non-biological portion of our intelligence will will continue to grow and grow and grow and we'll be

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plugging our prefrontal cortex into the cloud and augmenting our cognition and we just hit five hours.

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Hooray. Do I believe we'll be able to live forever with AI and intelligence? Absolutely. But I also believe that it will wipe us out far before that as as an opportunity. So we shall see. We we will all either

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flourish together or go down in in smoke or what do you call it? Go down in flames together. So it's a great time to be alive. All right, everyone.

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Have a great weekend. I will see you guys at least next Friday. If I'm going to go live before then, I'll let you know on the Discord.

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Make sure you join that so you can keep up to date. If you want my product, the new intergame product, you can get it for under 100 bucks through Sunday.

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Highly recommend you do that. The link is in the description. If you want to just say, "Fuck it. I'm ready to solve everything and achieve my goals and start living like a rockstar. Go to platinumsystem.com or book a call with

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the link in the description." Thank you everybody. I'm going to feed myself and plow some hot Brazilian ass all night.

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Uh, everybody take care and I'll see you guys on a video soon.

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