**Ex-Couples Play Truth or Drink | Cut โ€” Transcript & Summary | SozAI** Source: https://sozai.app/transcript/ex-couples-play-truth-or-drink/ Ex-couples confront their past in a candid Truth or Drink game, exploring intimacy, boundaries, and the possibility of reconciliation. ## Key Takeaways - Post-breakup boundaries are complicated, especially when exes live together. - Honest communication helps in gaining closure but does not always lead to reconciliation. - Physical intimacy can continue post-breakup, complicating emotional detachment. - Friends and family often provide blunt perspectives on the viability of rekindling relationships. - Self-discovery and personal growth are important outcomes of ending a relationship. ## What the video covers - Two ex-couples participate in a Truth or Drink game to gain closure and explore unresolved feelings. - Participants discuss their post-breakup dating lives, including hooking up and boundaries while living together. - They reflect on their past intimacy, including best sexual experiences and keeping intimate photos. - Friends and family are called to give honest opinions about the possibility of reconciliation. - The couples candidly discuss physical attraction, jealousy, and emotional complications after breakup. - They explore hypothetical scenarios like swapping bodies to understand each other's perspectives. - The conversation covers trust issues, regrets, and what they miss about their relationships. - Both couples acknowledge the complexity of their current relationships and the blurred lines between friendship and romance. - They consider the likelihood and implications of getting back together if circumstances change. - The video ends with reflections on personal growth and acceptance post-breakup. ## Chapters 1. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Invitations 2. 00:55 Post-Breakup Social Lives and Hookups 3. 01:46 Living Together and Boundaries 4. 02:33 Intimacy and Physical Relationships 5. 03:33 Friends' Opinions on Reconciliation 6. 04:57 Hypothetical Body Swap and Reflections 7. 05:57 Best Sexual Experiences 8. 06:48 Photos, Memories, and Respect 9. 07:29 First Kisses and Relationship History 10. 08:21 Attraction and Physical Appearance Answers ## Questions about this video Who did the participants invite to the video? Each participant invited their ex-partner to join the Truth or Drink game to discuss their past relationship and seek closure. Do the ex-couples still live together? Yes, at least one couple still lives together, which creates complicated boundaries around dating and intimacy. Is there a possibility of the ex-couples getting back together? While there is some chemistry and emotional connection, both couples express that getting back together would likely complicate things and is uncertain. ## Full Transcript โ€” Download SRT & Markdown 00:00 Speaker A Who did you invite here today? I invited my ex to Jakamo Peliscondello. What are you hoping happens by the end of this? 00:07 Speaker A Maybe a little bit more closure. I think it ended pretty quickly. I invited my ex-boyfriend, now roommate, Kevin. I wanted to ask if he would ever get back with me again. 00:22 Speaker A Good to see you. Good to see you. We met on a 12-hour blind date. We're exes. Yeah. Oh, I was going to say, oh, I was going to say we're friends. 00:31 Speaker A Yeah, definitely we're friends, but we're not together anymore if that was unclear. Yeah. 00:36 Speaker A Oh, okay. Actually, I want to know this. Have you hooked up with anyone since our breakup? 00:41 Speaker A Yeah, you have. It's been 2 months. Yeah, it was like a casual thing. It was like sort of a spur-of-the-moment thing. Hooked up meaning having sex or you saying like hooked up? 00:55 Speaker A It was just like a night out. Like it was just like I went out. Like I don't go out that often. And I had been kind of not really doing much socially in that sense. I met someone 01:04 Speaker A and we had a great time. We had good chemistry and everything and we just made out at the bar. It wasn't that, you know. 01:10 Speaker A Are you going to see them again? No. Okay. Have you hooked up with anyone since our breakup? 01:17 Speaker A Yeah, I've made out with people since the breakup. You know about one of them. 01:23 Speaker A You don't know about the other one. Uh, I did make out with somebody that is like, I wouldn't say a mutual acquaintance, but in the realm of our sight, I would say. 01:42 Speaker A And you two are broken up. You guys are allowed to do that, right? Yeah. 01:46 Speaker A Yeah. Like obviously there's weird boundaries that we go back and forth on because we still live together. 01:53 Speaker A Who was it? It was a roommate then. Interesting. Have you? No. Yeah, I have. I have hooked up with people. Yes. Since breakup. Yeah. 02:03 Speaker A Do you know about this? Are you quiet about it? It wasn't. No, I think in the beginning it wasn't very much like forbidding. 02:10 Speaker A Exactly. It was, uh, I found a pair of earrings next to my bedside once I came back from Florida one time. 02:16 Speaker A Wait, in your bedside? Well, at the time we were still sleeping on the same bed and not anymore. 02:22 Speaker A Not anymore. He sleeps on the floor now. So, since the relationship, how many people have you gotten intimate with? 02:33 Speaker A None. Intimate as in like, I don't know, making out, kissing on the neck, you know? 02:41 Speaker A One. One. How many people have you been intimately, sexually, physically with? Can I take a shot on that? All right. 02:51 Speaker A Shot on that. Oh, you're taking one, too. Eva, call a friend and tell them you and your ex are back together. Get their honest opinion if they think it's a good idea or not. 03:05 Speaker A I'm calling my baby sister and I'm telling her that Jakamo and I are getting back together. 03:12 Speaker A Call Sid. Why? Who's Sid? I can't wait till he sees this. Sid is both of our best friends. Do you want to see? Act like you're not here. 03:23 Speaker A Yeah. Me and Liberty are getting back together. Okay. What do you think about that? Honest opinion. Honest entirely. 03:33 Speaker A It's a terrible decision. How do you feel about that? I think that's a terrible idea. 03:40 Speaker A Think about doing that. I'm not really shocked. I knew we were going to get back together. 03:47 Speaker A Okay. So, you've seen my ex come through at the cafe. What do you think of him? 03:53 Speaker A You think he's swagalicious? Yeah. I don't think that matters. I think he doesn't treat you right. 03:58 Speaker A Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. You think he's right? Yeah. Oh, 100%. If you could swap lives with me for 24 hours, what would you do? 04:07 Speaker A I feel like the first answer is like obviously if I'm a guy, I got to go be a guy. Like I got to at least know what a penis feels like. 04:16 Speaker A Yeah. If you were in my body for a day, experiencing pissing. Oo, that's a good one. It's amazing. 04:22 Speaker A Extreme. You can point it anywhere. The first thing is probably touch myself. Tell. Yeah. Yeah. I would masturbate. Sorry. Yeah. 04:31 Speaker A You're in a hot lady's body for one day. Well, I'm not like walking around being like, damn, I want to go bang guys all the time. I'm like, it's like now I get to do it. Like, it doesn't mean I'm like 04:40 Speaker A going to go, you know, like use that to do something that I don't want to do ordinarily. You such a gentleman. 04:46 Speaker A But yeah, no, I don't know. I mean, I would just like experience what it's like and maybe it would give me more insight into Oh, and a feminist, too. 04:53 Speaker A Yeah. Yeah. Sometimes. What was the greatest sex you've ever had? Was it with me? 04:57 Speaker A It was that time when I slept over. Oh, and we had that thing with the pillows. 05:02 Speaker A Oh, and then we went to the bar afterwards. You know, we know. It was definitely with you when we were in your apartment for like 3 hours. 05:14 Speaker A Oh. Yeah, that was fun. 3 hours wine night. It was great. More than wine. 05:22 Speaker A What was the greatest sex you ever had? Was it with me? Yeah, that's like outrageous. 05:28 Speaker A Maybe like recently there's been a little tension ever since our little trip. And I do kind of like the sex after that. 05:38 Speaker A I wouldn't call it spiteful, but the angry, the tension. Do you still have sexy photos or videos of me on your phone or uploaded to the cloud? 05:48 Speaker A Can I take a shot? Yeah. Whoa. We're not like a photographic couple. We're not like children. 05:54 Speaker A Yeah. Like I don't know. It's like those things are like juvenile things. Yeah. I don't know. Like listen, power to you if that's what you enjoy. Like of course send those pictures, but it's like the real thing is the real thing. 06:03 Speaker A So the cloud is crazy, but no. Yeah. I still have them. I mean, we still live together. I mean, what do you expect? 06:09 Speaker A Yeah. Still. So, if you move out and like we're so done, we're not together anymore. Are you going to delete them or will you keep one or two? 06:18 Speaker A I'm not keeping any of that. I feel it's wrong to do that because you wouldn't want me to have them. 06:24 Speaker A So, I wouldn't. Yeah. It's like disrespectful. Oh, this is easy. Who was your first kiss? Why didn't it work out? 06:29 Speaker A My first kiss was a girl named Nat. Um, Natalie. And my first kiss was a girl named Natalie. 06:36 Speaker A That's crazy. Okay, that's wild. But yeah, interesting. Where was my first kiss? That's when I was like six. 06:43 Speaker A Mhm. Why didn't it work out? Because I was six. Right. Right. You had other objectives. Exactly. Exactly. I had a whole life ahead of me, so I couldn't really commit at six. 06:55 Speaker A I couldn't commit to that. How many people have you hooked up with? Zero. Oh. In general, certainly. Yeah. 07:01 Speaker A Oh, like less than 10. Yeah. Above 10, but less than 15. Okay. I've lived the life. 07:13 Speaker A You're also older than me. Yeah, I am older. Who's better looking? Me. Yeah, that makes sense. I get it. 07:21 Speaker A Between us, who's better looking? Thank you. I think it depends on what someone's looking for. 07:31 Speaker A It's true. The male gays and the female gays are naturally different things, but I think we're both good. Like you're so handsome and you're so beautiful. 07:39 Speaker A Thank you. Like I don't doubt that at all. I'll take a shot. Damn, that kind of hurt. 07:49 Speaker A I'm sorry. It sure. Do you think we'll be intimate again? Let me ask you this. Do you want to? 08:00 Speaker A I think it would probably complicate things more than anything. Like I think it would like I'm so happy that we're able to see each other today and while obviously we both have chemistry 08:14 Speaker A beyond the social aspect that always makes things complicated. You know what I mean? 08:20 Speaker A Do you think we'll have sex again? Do you want to? Uh no. Not in that way. I'm sorry. 08:26 Speaker A Sorry. Bro, take a shot. Take a shot. TAKE A SHOT. I don't know. We'll see. 08:33 Speaker A What? What do you mean? We'll see. We'll see. I don't know. Are you two having sex a lot? 08:41 Speaker A I would say yeah, it's often. So, you live together and you have sex with each other all the time and you don't date other people, sleep with other people. You sound like a couple. 08:56 Speaker A We're not. We're broken up. We're broken up. But we definitely tow a line. That's for sure. But we do need time apart. 09:04 Speaker A Yeah. I'll just say ever since you ever since I kissed a girl, never going. 09:09 Speaker A Exactly. You're beautiful. I don't think men is in her, you know, realm, thought, whatever her mind. I don't think so. 09:16 Speaker A That's interesting. Is that Did you discover some more things about yourself after the breakup? 09:21 Speaker A Yeah, I was able to like explore more. I think ever if he didn't break up with me, it would have just been like I would have been stuck in that hetero role and I recognized that I've like experienced 09:33 Speaker A some frustrations with him, especially since we were in a relationship that was so hetereroedic. 09:39 Speaker A Exactly. A man and woman type. And I never like felt like I wanted to box myself in the girlfriend box. And we have plenty of arguments where I was just like, "No, like there's no way you're straight because then that would 09:52 Speaker A um invalidate my identity." Yeah. And I'm happy if she is picking the right person, you know, whoever that is um in any kind of spectrum, you know, that person is. I'll be happy. 10:06 Speaker A Yeah. Do you think we'll be intimate again? And do you want to? I think life is long. 10:12 Speaker A Yeah, I agree. And I anticipate knowing you for a very long time. Yeah. And I like you and I respect you and I find you handsome. 10:21 Speaker A Me, too. And I think that you're also very emotionally intelligent and mature. Thank you. I agree. I feel the same way about you. I think some things are just kind of spur of the moment and like it doesn't have to be like the the 10:33 Speaker A coordination of it all is so like it's kind of Yeah. So that's why Oh, so not a no from either of you. We'll move on. Next question. 10:44 Speaker A I dare you to kiss me for old time's sake. Are you going to take a shot or are you going to kiss me? 10:50 Speaker A That's crazy that you looked at the shots. When's the last time you kissed? This morning. 10:57 Speaker A Sometime today, I'm sure. Probably like right before we walked in here. Yeah, sure. Why not? 11:06 Speaker A You got to wipe that lipstick off, though. Shot. Taking a shot. We're taking a shot. We're taking a shot. You want to pour? 11:14 Speaker A Yeah, I'll pour for you. We were just discussing this. We were like, what would it take us to like make out for like a good 5 minutes? 11:20 Speaker A Um, how much How much would it take for you to take this? I think we said like around 100k. 11:25 Speaker A Yeah. Yeah. Wow. I dare you to kiss me for old time sake. I might cry. 11:33 Speaker A Like, if you want to, I would, but I will cry. So, you have to be comfortable with that. Just a little peck. 11:39 Speaker A I mean, I'm Yeah. Like I'm I'm over here with a peg. You don't have to. 11:43 Speaker A Can we table it and see where this goes? Yeah. You want to see? Cuz I don't want to make you cry right now. 11:47 Speaker A I'm already crying. I know, but like more. Can I get a tissue? What do you miss most about my body? 11:54 Speaker A I'll just take the rest of the shot. A shot? You can't confidently say that. That's insane. 12:01 Speaker A All right. I miss the way you used to smell. Oh, yeah. That's You don't smell like that anymore. But God, it's because we broke up. 12:07 Speaker A Yeah, it's the It's the breakup thing. Exactly. You used to smell nice, but wow. 12:11 Speaker A Now I'm just like, you smell like my brother. Whoa. I miss how big you are. You give the best hugs. 12:18 Speaker A Okay. You are seriously like the perfect weighted blanket. Awesome. Like you're just like a big guy. 12:25 Speaker A Yeah. And I loved that. Thank you. I know exactly what you're thinking. You're not going to say it. No. 12:31 Speaker A Is my butt. I miss that for sure. But it's not like the only thing I miss like But there's plenty of other things to miss about my body specifically. Yeah. 12:40 Speaker A Their lips, their eyes, like you know, I like a little bit. A little bit. 12:50 Speaker A It's all right. You're such a stoner. No, I'm not. Former stoner. Former. Yeah. I haven't spoke in a while. 12:57 Speaker A Did you talk to anyone else before we ended? No, I didn't talk to anybody else. 13:07 Speaker A Okay. For 3 years, why would I talk to anybody else if I had you at home? 13:11 Speaker A Yeah, that was the same with me. Like, no, it happened right after. Yeah. How soon after did you talk to this person? 13:21 Speaker A About a like a week after. Was that her earrings? Yeah. Wait, so why did you lie? 13:27 Speaker A Cuz I didn't want to hurt your feelings at the moment. Okay. But that hurt. It's like I was going to find out regardless. 13:33 Speaker A Yeah, I know. I literally found out that you had like a box of fresh condoms that you ordered after we had sex that one time before our relationship ended. And then I found out it was there was 10 missing from the 13:44 Speaker A box. It was a pack of 30 and there was 10 missing. Can you believe that? And it's like even after then you didn't want to tell me. 13:52 Speaker A No, I was in a shameful period of time, you know, cuz obvious shameful like because obviously I ended things and I was like, I got to keep it down low. I can't really hurt her anymore. You know, you already hurt enough. So 14:08 Speaker A doing those things purely out of my instinct was not a good idea at all. 14:13 Speaker A We're very loyal. Yeah. I I just think that that's like the worst thing you can do is like talk to someone while you're talking to somebody else. Like it's like I literally it's like not it's not my biggest fear because if I fear that 14:23 Speaker A somebody's doing that I'm very comfortable ending that immediately because I would just never waste my time with somebody who is doing that. 14:28 Speaker A Do you believe in like twin flames or like any of those like things like there's like twin flames there's um like soulmates between those two twin flames like maybe that's like the idea of like two people that are just 14:45 Speaker A like really good around each other, right? I think it's people that are like made from the same thing. 14:49 Speaker A Yeah. I feel like we are made from like extremely similar. I would I would fall like to believe in that more than I would in like soul mates. I think we think in similar ways and that's important and that's why we 15:01 Speaker A got along so well and continue to get along so well even though we're not together. You know what I mean? Like that's really important. 15:07 Speaker A Have you ever thought I cheated? Yeah. With who? Interesting. Has this been a detention in the past? 15:19 Speaker A Well, I'm drinking for it. Don't worry. I think I'm just gonna go with the drink. 15:25 Speaker A Not talk about it any solvent there. Okay. I have not cheated and I think that's honestly a ridiculous statement with how transparent I've been with you. 15:34 Speaker A I know. Have you ever thought that I cheated? Yeah. Why? Why did I think you cheated? Yeah. I think you crave attention from other people outside of this relationship that made me feel like I couldn't provide. 15:50 Speaker A Therefore, you know, cheating isn't outside of that realm. Yeah, makes sense. Have you ever thought that I cheated? 16:02 Speaker A No. Is it because I'm an Aquarius? Oh, god, no. No. Okay, cool. What are three things you miss about me? 16:13 Speaker A H I'm just going to drink. I don't I'm sorry. This is That doesn't even make sense. Why would you drink for that? 16:19 Speaker A Why do we break up? Whose fault was it? It was a accumulation of a lot of things. I don't think the fault was on anyone's, but it was definitely more on me where I came short on like emotional 16:34 Speaker A aspects of our relationship. Like I think we're great as friends, but I don't think we were like destined to be like partners, romantic partners. And I realized that way before you did, and I just exactly as you said, pulled the rug 16:47 Speaker A right underneath you. Overall, I think like him doing that allowed me to just do a lot of things that I didn't think I could have done in the relationship. 16:56 Speaker A Yeah. Yeah. And I was able to like explore more of my querness with that. I was able to make more friends and feel like I was able to build a community outside of my focus for him. 17:08 Speaker A Yeah, 100%. And I'm glad you did. You know, I'm glad you did. It wasn't anyone's fault. 17:14 Speaker A Yeah, I agree. It was literally just intuition. Both of us knew there. Here it was. There wasn't a direction. 17:22 Speaker A Yeah. There was no end in sight. Yeah. Because I was living where I was, you were living where I was. 17:27 Speaker A There was no like progression in sight. It was just it was like stagnation. Like we had that conversation before we had actually broken up where you were talking about the idea of potentially moving away from your family and everything. 17:38 Speaker A And that was like to be honest one of the first like catalysts for me to even consider the idea of like I am not going to prevent somebody that I've known for a month and a half from making a major life decision. Like a 17:51 Speaker A huge important like very very very important decision. That's like not fair, you know? I hate that you're gonna have to take another shot. Why did we break up? Whose fault was it? That's the one thing we agreed not to talk. 18:05 Speaker A What do you two feel comfortable saying? Why you broke up? Absolutely nothing about it. 18:09 Speaker A Yeah, that was the one thing. You know, that was the one thing I'd say I would drink for. So, I will drink for that. I don't care how much I have to. 18:16 Speaker A What's the vaguest reason without going I won't I won't say it on uh I won't say it recording. Yeah. I said we just didn't align because you broke up with me over like a stupid reason and then we 18:29 Speaker A got back together like 12 hours later on Christmas Eve and I I was like done at that point cuz I was like who the breaks up with you on Christmas Eve. It was so messed up. 18:41 Speaker A Yeah. What was also messed up what was came before that. But I'm not going to say that on camera. And that you know what you I'll keep my mouth shut from here. It's convoluted. 18:52 Speaker A That's a light way to put it. Yeah. This is so weird. Yeah, it's the weirdest thing in the world. 19:00 Speaker A Blaine, eat it all. Oh my god. Blaine, please leave. What part of the breakup hurt you the most? 19:14 Speaker A Flea bag. Flea bag. Flea bag. Okay. He kept saying every time. I'm like, "Oh, like, you know, I don't think like I'll ever get over this." Like, whatever, whatever. Like, I'm just like pouring out my emotions for him. 19:25 Speaker A And he kept saying, "It'll pass. It'll pass." Exactly. And this like week one into like the the whole breakup and he kept saying like, "It'll pass. It'll pass." I was referencing Flea Bag. 19:37 Speaker A And was he right? I mean, yes, but like also it's like you could have like handled it better. 19:44 Speaker A Yeah, I know. I know. I know. I I could have. What part of the breakup hurt you the most? 19:53 Speaker A Probably you were a phone caller and I think like talking to you like hearing your voice and that was hard. 20:06 Speaker A Yeah. And obviously we're friends now. Yeah. But um but it's different. You were like in those three months you became like such a big part of my life. Like we were talking every single day, multiple times a day. 20:21 Speaker A Right. And it was just like so much fun. Yeah. And I like to be honest wasn't a phone caller always. I don't know. I just felt like I just like didn't want to mince words or like waste time texting you. 20:35 Speaker A A what part of the breakup hurt you the most? Are you okay? Mhm. Definitely not. 20:44 Speaker A Do you need my hand? You're doing great. Okay. You don't have to say anything you're uncomfortable with. Okay. 20:58 Speaker A Is there something you regret not saying when we ended things? I I don't think so. Like, I think you know how I felt and I think you still know how I feel and like how grateful I am that we got to meet each other. Did I 21:08 Speaker A tell you that I really like I really wanted it to work? Yeah. Like I really I wanted it to work so badly. 21:18 Speaker A I agree. Like I don't think that we were on the same page. We only dated for 3 months. 21:26 Speaker A I'm telling you, it's the magic of the box. It's unbelievable. Oh my god, dude. 21:30 Speaker A Yeah. Do you still have feelings for me? Do you love me? I Yeah. kind of pathetic to admit. I tell you I love you every day. I still have feelings for you. They're different. 21:45 Speaker A I don't have feelings for you like that, man. No homo, but like No. Yeah, that's a good thing. 21:50 Speaker A Like you saw that we could have been better friends than lovers. Mhm. And I totally agree. 21:55 Speaker A Yeah. After us taking shrooms, you know, do you still have feelings for me? And do you love me? 22:07 Speaker A I don't love you. I'm not sure if I've ever been in love with anybody truly. 22:12 Speaker A I think it's a really difficult concept to kind of quantify or like it's something you choose. 22:18 Speaker A What do you miss most about being together? I miss not being confused all the time. 22:29 Speaker A It's like we're so close to a relationship yet we're not in a relationship. I feel like it just makes everything else harder. 22:37 Speaker A I'm not surprised. What do you miss about being in a relation? Trusting you. You can't trust me as a friend. 22:44 Speaker A I can trust you as a friend. I don't trust you emotionally anymore. That makes sense. 22:51 Speaker A Okay, we're re revisiting this. I dare you to kiss me for old times sake. 22:58 Speaker A What is the dare? I didn't It says I dare you. I think one quick peck is fine. 23:03 Speaker A I agree. Okay. Ready? There you go. Easy peasy. I have one last thing. I'm going to give you card. 23:17 Speaker A Yes. You're going to write on this and we're going to have you guys decide the future of your relationship. You have three options to write down. Try again, stay friends, or cut contact. After you write it down, you'll show your answer on the count of 23:30 Speaker A three. 3 2 1 Stay friends. Try again. I know. Especially after this. Do you think there's any possibility of us getting back together? 23:44 Speaker A No. Ever? Probably not. I don't know. May maybe, maybe should like crazy things happen. 23:53 Speaker A Do you want to keep what we have going? I don't think so. Okay. That makes sense. 24:09 Speaker A In three, two, one. Staying friends. Three, two, one. I said stay friends. But what's down there? Um, I said, "Are you married to NYC?" I wrote Stay Friends with a heart because I felt like Stay Friends felt too cold. 24:32 Speaker A I think just geography wise with you being there and me being here. Yeah, that's a definitive like mine. 24:41 Speaker A I can't. Yeah. Could you see a world where you moved to LA? I could definitely see a world where I moved to LA. 24:46 Speaker A What's the likelihood if you were to move to the same city that you two would get back together? 24:53 Speaker A The likelihood would rise. Yeah. A lot. Would we end up together? Topics: ex-couples Truth or Drink breakup closure intimacy relationships living together reconciliation dating after breakup emotional boundaries --- This is the markdown twin of https://sozai.app/transcript/ex-couples-play-truth-or-drink/ โ€” the same content, without the markup. Published by SozAI (https://sozai.app). Reuse and quotation are allowed with attribution and a link back. Machine-readable index: https://sozai.app/llms.txt ยท data API: https://sozai.app/api/